Eating them out...

[SomeWhiteFella]

Hello, new member here so I do apologies in advance for my beginner question(s).
I have seen some reviews of guys kissing and eating out the ladies.

What is the general rule on this? o
It sounds tempting but how safe is this really?
If I was to partake in this activity is there anything I should do before hand? Do you give them the sniff test?

The last thing I want is to catch something.`

Thank you

[daviemac]

Do your own risk assessment and do whatever you are comfortable with. There's an old saying that punting is not for the faint hearted.

[RandomGuy99]

Take a ball point pen and a questionnaire on sexual health with you for the SP to complete at the start of the appointment and then you can review their answers and decide what to do.

[Demon8]

If the last thing you want to do is catch something, then you probably want to do the thing that will mean you don't catch anything, and that's not see a woman who sells her body to multiple men a week.


If they don't look clean, don't go there, that's been my rule- take the pump and dump, pay them and run.

[Upsndowns79]

You’ve been here 2 years so if that makes you knew?

I’ve been here half that time and reviewed over 30 SP’s.

My advice would be to pick well reviewed girls, see them and go with your instincts then review here to add value back to the community.

[SomeWhiteFella]

If the last thing you want to do is catch something, then you probably want to do the thing that will mean you don't catch anything, and that's not see a woman who sells her body to multiple men a week.


If they don't look clean, don't go there, that's been my rule- take the pump and dump, pay them and run.

Do you eat them out? Any bad experiences to share?

[SomeWhiteFella]

You’ve been here 2 years so if that makes you knew?

I’ve been here half that time and reviewed over 30 SP’s.

My advice would be to pick well reviewed girls, see them and go with your instincts then review here to add value back to the community.

I joined, forgot my login, forgot to return, until recently, thanks to the admin letting me know what my username is and activated the membership last week days ago.
So yes I am new.

[daviemac]

You’ve been here 2 years so if that makes you knew?

I’ve been here half that time and reviewed over 30 SP’s.

My advice would be to pick well reviewed girls, see them and go with your instincts then review here to add value back to the community.

He hasn't been here 2 years, he is new to the site, I know because I checked before I approved his first post.

[DastardlyDick]

Obviously, there is a risk, but the average SP generally takes better care of their sexual health than a civvie bird you might munch.

[daviemac]

I joined, forgot my login, forgot to return, until recently, thanks to the admin letting me know what my username is and activated the membership last week days ago.
So yes I am new.

Don't worry mate, if anyone else thinks they are a mod and pulls you up just hit the report to moderator button on the right. We are sick and tired of telling people not to pull others up about their contributions or lack of them, they don't have access to the same information we do.

[Demon8]

Do you eat them out? Any bad experiences to share?

I wont do it to someone who doesn't look clean. I've done maybe two questionable ones but I've learnt not to now.


If you want to go down on her, do it, they generally take better care of themselves than a girl you meet in a bar will.

[Waterhouse]

“Them”… “her”… “they”… jeez..!  SPs are people too, you know - just like punters and everyone else.

Speaking for myself, RO is a key part of my time when I visit an escort. The only time I don’t partake is when the lady doesn’t offer it as a part of her service i.e. a massage booking as opposed to a full blown gfe meet.
 
 
 
 

[Thephoenix]

If I was to partake in this activity is there anything I should do before hand? Do you give them the sniff test?

Can somebody give me information on the sniff test or post a link please.
How is it performed?
Do you ask the lady for permission?
Is there some kind of sample test kit we need?
What determines a negative result?
Should I take my labrador retriever?

ps welcome to the site chum.

[LauraHoD]

The chance of catching something from RO is much less than OWO..obviously they might have  BV or poor hygiene which would make the experience unpleasant but STIs dont normally smell anyway.
   Don't ask them if they are "clean" or tell them to shower. It probably won't make you popular. Do you actually want to do RO or just think you should? There is so much information about STIs and the risks of different sexual activities online already these kind of posts are not needed IMO. Like "if I do xxxx will I catch xxxx??" 
 

[LauraHoD]

OP my advice to you as a new member is to read lots of posts before you start making your own. This kind of thing will have been covered plenty of times. And it kind of invites people to take the piss out of you and make sarcastic comments which is obviously what is happening here. I have been on a few forums and its best to get an idea of the general culture before you make a post. People are much nicer on here than a few years ago when I first joined. I'm a SP so obviously its a bit different for me, different rules etc. But I would read more before you post.
  Obviously people on the forum should welcome new members. But you only get one chance to make a first impression.
Ps. Im not a wannabe mod..just trying to give you good advice. I have seen people get picked apart on forums for not understanding the general culture before posting. Not just on this site.

[puntingking]

hi  SomeWhiteFella 

Welcome to the ukp community mate 

As to answer your question. Each punter has to decide for himself what risk is worth taking or not worth taking.
It is etremely small chance of catching a sti from doing this. But it is still a chance.

It is down to you mate what you are more comfortable in doing or not doing.
But, I would just advise to get checked out at least twice a year but every 3 months if you see sps regularly. 

[LauraHoD]

I think RO or "eating out" is probably one of the safest sexual acts other than a handjob.

When I first started working in brothels I was living in Australia. In Queensland we had to use a peice of rubber called dental dam to cover ourselves. And even use a condom for a handjob cos obviously the cum might end up in our face and we could catch something in our eyes or mouth. Pretty unlikely but they have laws which say they have to take every possible step to avoid exchange of bodily fluids which could result in STIs.

In this country im pretty sure punters would think we were totally insane if we did these things. But different people or different places have different ideas of what "safe sex" means.

[Strawberry]

Hello, new member here so I do apologies in advance for my beginner question(s).
I have seen some reviews of guys kissing and eating out the ladies.

What is the general rule on this? o
It sounds tempting but how safe is this really?
If I was to partake in this activity is there anything I should do before hand? Do you give them the sniff test?

The last thing I want is to catch something.

Thank you

Asking this at at GUM clinic is a good idea, trained, qualified staff who are seeing patients, are aware of patterns and risks.

Only you can decide your level of risk, many SPs or at least myself are also concerned about protecting ourselves because it's our livelihood. I don't want the hassle of having to go back months, contact everyone, insist they test before booking me again, obtaining treatment and the all clear.

Get tested, learn how to wear a condom correctly, take responsibility for yourself.

[Blackpool Rock]

As others have eluded to you need to do your own risk assessment but it may also be influenced by your own personal circumstances like wife / partner back at home that you don't want to risk infecting etc

It's been said before that punting isn't for the squeamish but personally my acceptance of risk is a bit greater than when I 1st started about 23 years ago (Fuck is it really that long  ) where oral on me was with a condom as I didn't want to risk catching anything but not it's OWO every time if it's on offer and a major downer if the girl insists on a condom for oral.

Pick the girl carefully, I like to think that i'm "picky" but occasionally I turn up and just get vibes that the girl is a bit "skanky" and I make an instant informed decision that i'm not going to give her oral, I know you can't necessarily tell just by looking at someone and the stunner I saw the week before may have had an STI and I wasn't aware of it but went on her looks / demeanour alone but you have instincts for a reason - To keep you safe

I have on occasion if a girl lets you finger her removed the finger and given it a quick sniff and also licked it before diving in face 1st, there have been occasions where i've not liked the smell so avoided going down on the girl and also a few that have tasted bitter or what i'd describe as yeasty so again I decided not to venture further

[Demon8]

“Them”… “her”… “they”… jeez..!  SPs are people too, you know - just like punters and everyone else.

Speaking for myself, RO is a key part of my time when I visit an escort. The only time I don’t partake is when the lady doesn’t offer it as a part of her service i.e. a massage booking as opposed to a full blown gfe meet.

“an escort”… “the lady"… “her”… jeez..!  SPs are people too, you know - just like punters and everyone else.

[Massage Bloke]

I think RO or "eating out" is probably one of the safest sexual acts other than a handjob.

When I first started working in brothels I was living in Australia. In Queensland we had to use a peice of rubber called dental dam to cover ourselves. And even use a condom for a handjob cos obviously the cum might end up in our face and we could catch something in our eyes or mouth. Pretty unlikely but they have laws which say they have to take every possible step to avoid exchange of bodily fluids which could result in STIs.

In this country im pretty sure punters would think we were totally insane if we did these things. But different people or different places have different ideas of what "safe sex" means.

You are overlooking the risk of throat and neck cancer for long term muff munchers.

[Strawberry]

You are overlooking the risk of throat and neck cancer for long term muff munchers.

True but alcohol, and tobacco tend to be considered the major players, also some people may have received the HPV vaccine.

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[GreyDave]

  For me ..Its usally a simple case of does that clit good good enough to eat does it seem fresh?
I start with a small bit of thumb polishing then if its agreeable dive on to licking just the pearl my fav ones are the Brazlian types hooded and exposed a bit like Bonnie Blue`s example 

Ive been seeing Chinese WGs recently and they either dont want me touching their tiny clit or are proud and have enjoyed it being licked

  they have tasted of Strawberry lube and rubber mostly I ve found the girls with the more prominat showing clits to be much more in to it than the hidden pea type one proudly commented "loads of girls can increase the size of their boobs but a big clit is rare " hers was about the size of a brussel sprout    and she came a few times which was either good acting or a real treat for myself seeing this and feeling it when faced with her pearl of pleasure on my tongue she told me she was able to orgasam by swinging her leg when crossed and did it on boring train or bus rides....

In MMF situations ive sucked cock too sadly they all have been bigger than mine thats the only time ive thought should i of done that But Ive been balls deep in the chaps partner at time 

 

[Illuminated4000]

I absolutely love kissing and performing oral on SPs. If all parties are clean, fresh and hygiene is good, then I don’t give it much further thought to be honest. There’s risk everywhere: crossing the road, going out at night, eating out (so to speak) at a restaurant…do you worry about food poisoning when you eat out? Do you do a risk assessment every time you drive your car? Kissing and RO are essential for my punting life. Just do your research on here, tot up how many glowing greens an SP that takes your fancy might have, and just let go and enjoy yourself  It’s easier said as a single guy like myself, granted, but hopefully this helps!

[puntingking]

Kissing and RO are essential for my punting life.

Kissing is essential but Reverse Oral isn't. Sps role is to worship me, not me worshiping them. 

I rarely do Reverse Oral and the sp have to smell super fresh with no public hair. But that is just me 

[scutty brown]

If you want to eat a girl out the best thing is to spit-roast her first. Improves the flavour greatly.

[LauraHoD]

The main 2 STIs often have don't have any symptoms but might occasionally cause an unpleasant odour though the chance of catching these in your mouth grom RO is very low regardless.

And you can't tell if someone has an STI by how they look either. I would imagine good looking people are more likely to have STIs since they probably have more sex. That's what I think anyway. Not sure if they have done any actual studies on this. I know they did a study once that concluded people who shaved their pubic area were higher risk. But that was just because those people were more likely to act promiscuous. Which makes sense I guess.

I do think generally SPs are far more careful when it comes to using condom outside of work too. I had unprotected sex with loads of guys before I did this job.(lucky I never caught anything). I would never do that now. Even on the rare occasion I do have sex outside of work.

This question is just like the "should I do OWO/OW?".....it up to you to assess the risk. And the risk of you personally catching something. Its gonna be much worse if you are sexually active within a relationship. Giving it to you partner could end the relationship whereas if you're single it less of a big deal(most are easily cured with antibiotics).

[Massage Bloke]

True but alcohol, and tobacco tend to be considered the major players, also some people may have received the HPV vaccine.

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"the overwhelming majority of people with an oral HPV infection probably will not get throat cancer”.

Sorry but I don't find that part of the report reassuring.

And I find this part outright alarming:

"New evidence has been found that links the spread of human papillomavirus (HPV) through oral sex with some throat cancers in both men and women.
The study, published in the New England Journal of Medicine, found that having multiple oral sex partners tops the list of sex practices that boosts the risk of HPV-linked cancer, regardless of tobacco or alcohol use. "

[LauraHoD]

Well no one is going to make you do RO(as a punter) so if you don't feel it's worth the risk then just don't do it. Kind of like anything really. Or use a dental dam like in Australia lol. 

[Massage Bloke]

Well no one is going to make you do RO(as a punter) so if you don't feel it's worth the risk then just don't do it. Kind of like anything really. Or use a dental dam like in Australia lol.

I've had at least two SPs plonk their arse down on my face! (And they were very fat arses) without asking first.  And decades ago in civvie life it has caused problems.  I've never liked the taste!

Anway, I'm going celibate from next week, so it doesn't matter!

[LauraHoD]

Oh no!! Maybe just stick to the massages like your title suggests

[WelshClipper]

Without sounding preachy.

Everything is a risk. Stepping out your door etc

And the news this morning about a lawsuit against J&J for asbestos in talc. I was a talc baby, my mum was obsessed with it. However, despite being the most toxic element in existence, I am still here.

The best piece of advice is educate yourself and then make your own considered opinion.

 

[Massage Bloke]

Without sounding preachy.

Everything is a risk. Stepping out your door etc

And the news this morning about a lawsuit against J&J for asbestos in talc. I was a talc baby, my mum was obsessed with it. However, despite being the most toxic element in existence, I am still here.

The best piece of advice is educate yourself and then make your own considered opinion.

 

I've been following the talc saga for ages.

For a while in the 80s I worked in film and TV special effects.  We used vast amounts of Johnsons talc, which was spread over cobwebs (which were made by a machine) the talc  was meant to be dust. The effect was dusty cob webs.

We kept large amounts in stock, and always took plenty home for bathroom use.

If the pussies don't get me, the talc will.

[Thephoenix]

And the news this morning about a lawsuit against J&J for asbestos in talc. I was a talc baby, my mum was obsessed with it. However, despite being the most toxic element in existence, I am still here.

The best piece of advice is educate yourself and then make your own considered opinion.

 

I remember in my regular 'Sauna / Massage' place many years ago, the girls would ask if you preferred talc or oil for the massage and HE.
I always opted for talc.
Much less messy than the oil, and quite a pleasant feeling being massaged with the cool soft powder.
Also quite a pleasant change to be wanked off without the copious amount of oil often used these days.

It doesn't seem to have done me much harm.

We used plenty of talc with our little tots in the 60s with the old terry towel nappies.

[Massage Bloke]

I get what people are saying about attitudes to risk.

I'm sitting here with my laptop on my...er...lap, but I'm looking over the top of it now and again to watch the TV.  I'm watching an old sit-com from the early 70s, and an actrees has just taken a puff on a fag. I was rather shocked.

Times change, attitudes to risk change.

We're all adults and have to make our own best judgement.

[WelshClipper]

I remember in my regular 'Sauna / Massage' place many years ago, the girls would ask if you preferred talc or oil for the massage and HE.
I always opted for talc.
Much less messy than the oil, and quite a pleasant feeling being massaged with the cool soft powder.
Also quite a pleasant change to be wanked off without the copious amount of oil often used these days.

It doesn't seem to have done me much harm.

We used plenty of talc with our little tots in the 60s with the old terry towel nappies.

I am in a good mood tonight anyway but this just made me burst out laughing. Who says punting ain’t therapeutic .

I just had this vision of a parlour cubicle and you lying there with billows of talc wafting everywhere with every stroke.

Silly I know, but perfect notwithstanding. Thanks for the vignette. 

[GreyDave]

  re the Talc comments after watching news the explanation of the Natrual Quarried talc having Asbestos veins in it being common I am still none the wiser if its like the Blue stuff or the insulation stuff

[SomeWhiteFella]

Can somebody give me information on the sniff test or post a link please.
How is it performed?
Do you ask the lady for permission?
Is there some kind of sample test kit we need?
What determines a negative result?
Should I take my labrador retriever?

ps welcome to the site chum.

I read about this somewhere. Apparently you have a good whiff or you do the finger test which consists of insert and sniff.

Is it true the girls give your cock a sniff before doing OWO?

[SomeWhiteFella]

For me ..Its usally a simple case of does that clit good good enough to eat does it seem fresh?
I start with a small bit of thumb polishing then if its agreeable dive on to licking just the pearl my fav ones are the Brazlian types hooded and exposed a bit like Bonnie Blue`s example 

Ive been seeing Chinese WGs recently and they either dont want me touching their tiny clit or are proud and have enjoyed it being licked

  they have tasted of Strawberry lube and rubber mostly I ve found the girls with the more prominat showing clits to be much more in to it than the hidden pea type one proudly commented "loads of girls can increase the size of their boobs but a big clit is rare " hers was about the size of a brussel sprout    and she came a few times which was either good acting or a real treat for myself seeing this and feeling it when faced with her pearl of pleasure on my tongue she told me she was able to orgasam by swinging her leg when crossed and did it on boring train or bus rides....

In MMF situations ive sucked cock too sadly they all have been bigger than mine thats the only time ive thought should i of done that But Ive been balls deep in the chaps partner at time 

 

Which part of the UK are you finding Chinese girls at?

[alabama1]

I read about this somewhere. Apparently you have a good whiff or you do the finger test which consists of insert and sniff.

Is it true the girls give your cock a sniff before doing OWO?

Shouldn't you be asking 'the girls' 

[jimbobted]

I rarely eat WG pussy. 80% of the time it'll give me a swollen/sore throat that can take some time to go away. And I've had oral gonhorrea twice, one of those was from a girl that I gave a couple of exploratory licks before deciding I'd rather not.
Perhaps I'm just unlucky.

[Massage Bloke]

I rarely eat WG pussy. 80% of the time it'll give me a swollen/sore throat that can take some time to go away. And I've had oral gonhorrea twice, one of those was from a girl that I gave a couple of exploratory licks before deciding I'd rather not.
Perhaps I'm just unlucky.

I find this post more informative, than the upbeat responses of the SPs on this thread, who, after all have a vested interest in the theory that everything is hunky dory, regarding eating out.

[Doc Holliday]

I find this post more informative, than the upbeat responses of the SPs on this thread, who, after all have a vested interest in the theory that everything is hunky dory, regarding eating out.

You would be better listening to the SPs. Risk from RO is very low. For JBT to have sore throats at a rate of 80% is way off the scale and if true, is something specific to him and far from the norm.

[finn5555]

I find this post more informative, than the upbeat responses of the SPs on this thread, who, after all have a vested interest in the theory that everything is hunky dory, regarding eating out.

I think you need to consider both responses for balance. Although you cannot negate the fact that SPs pussies are their cash cows 

[Munter84]

I have seen some reviews of guys kissing and eating out the ladies.
What is the general rule on this? o
It sounds tempting but how safe is this really?

I'm a big fan of both, to the point that they're near-dealbreakers to me. I can still enjoy an encounter without kissing and RO but it seems detached or a bit clinical. In my time I've had a case of strep throat after some very vigorous tonsil tennis, but that was banished with some antibiotics. I believe that's one of those things that you catch once and then develop at least partial immunity to? At any rate I've suffered no ill effects from subsequent punts.

As for the potentially enhanced risk of cancer from RO: in a world where we are exposed daily to exhaust fumes, microplastics, radiation, asbestos, aspartame and the rest, I'll take my chances.

You would have to decide on your own risk appetite, taking into account both your own health, and the potential fallout at home - how would you feel if you passed a cold sore to one of your kids, or how would you explain a knob rash to your missus?

My own "litmus test" is, if the lady looks fine, smells fine, and has no visible rashes or sores, then it's probably OK. I shower before and after every punt, and carry my own mouthwash in case the SP doesn't provide it. I get tested regularly and I tend to leave a couple of weeks between punts - not enough time for every STI to make itself known in that time frame, granted, but better than nothing.

Find our your own risk level you're comfortable at and enjoy yourself 

[Massage Bloke]

You would be better listening to the SPs. Risk from RO is very low. For JBT to have sore throats at a rate of 80% is way off the scale and if true, is something specific to him and far from the norm.

Sorry, but I repeat, SPs have a vested interest in playing down the risks of RO.  And you mention JBTs sore throats, but ignore the issue of him contracting an oral STI, twice!

You (and SPs) say the risk is "very low"...  Can you quantify the risk, or give statistics, or point to research studies?

I've had a glance around health websites and they say nothing about the risk being low, also list the STIs that you can contract. But according to an SP on this thread: "RO or "eating out" is probably one of the safest sexual acts other than a handjob."  I simply don't accept that!

[Strawberry]

Sorry, but I repeat, SPs have a vested interest in playing down the risks of RO.  And you mention JBTs sore throats, but ignore the issue of him contracting an oral STI, twice!

You (and SPs) say the risk is "very low"...  Can you quantify the risk, or give statistics, or point to research studies?

I've had a glance around health websites and they say nothing about the risk being low, also list the STIs that you can contract. But according to an SP on this thread: "RO or "eating out" is probably one of the safest sexual acts other than a handjob."  I simply don't accept that!

A punter protecting himself, protects me as well. There is risk with kissing, and I do say that when some punters ask the 'is this safe?' question. I also tell.them I cannot guarantee I am STI free, to do so would be wrong and I signpost to GUM for qualified advice.

[Doc Holliday]

Sorry, but I repeat, SPs have a vested interest in playing down the risks of RO.  And you mention JBTs sore throats, but ignore the issue of him contracting an oral STI, twice!

You (and SPs) say the risk is "very low"...  Can you quantify the risk, or give statistics, or point to research studies?

I've had a glance around health websites and they say nothing about the risk being low, also list the STIs that you can contract. But according to an SP on this thread: "RO or "eating out" is probably one of the safest sexual acts other than a handjob."  I simply don't accept that!

I bow to your superior knowledge.

[LauraHoD]

I find this post more informative, than the upbeat responses of the SPs on this thread, who, after all have a vested interest in the theory that everything is hunky dory, regarding eating out.

Unless we are charging extra for RO why would we have a vested interest in encouraging it? I understand you have had a couple of experiences where it was forced on you. Personally its not something I encourage. Although I accept it is an expected part of the standard service nowadays.

Just make it clear at the beginning thats its not something you want to do. And hopefully they won't stick their fat arse on your face. Same if client tells me he doesn't want OWO. Im not gonna do it.

[JontyR]

Don't forget you can't get any kind of cancer treatment because of all the lesbians hogging it all.