Advice on a few things

[Brax]

I tried the guides and tried the search here for answers with no concrete results.

1. What happens during an incall from AW if the SP disagrees with you on price at the end?

2. During a dance at the strippers can you ask if they escort? Is this very bad etiquette?

[alabama1]

I tried the guides and tried the search here for answers with no concrete results.

1. What happens during an incall from AW if the SP disagrees with you on price at the end?

2. During a dance at the strippers can you ask if they escort? Is this very bad etiquette?

1. You agree a price at the beginning.
2. Question not applicable

[daviemac]

On your first point mate, how can the SP disagree about the price? she sets what she charges and you know what that is before you book.

Any questions about prices need to be discussed at the initial comms stage then when you turn up you hand over the agreed amount before the action starts. The only exception is in a massage parlours where extras are discussed in the room.

On your second point you are free to ask anyone anything you want as long as you are prepared to face whatever the consequences are.

There's a 4 page thread that covers that. -  https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=435735.0

[RandomGuy99]

I tried the guides and tried the search here for answers with no concrete results.

1. What happens during an incall from AW if the SP disagrees with you on price at the end?

2. During a dance at the strippers can you ask if they escort? Is this very bad etiquette?

1. Price should all be agreed before you start and any extras you take during the booking ideally paid for before they are delivered

2. You can, but a swift kick in the bollocks often offends. Up to you. Just because a woman removes her clothes in exchange for money does NOT mean they'll have sex with you for money.

[WelshClipper]

Over the years and as my own personal knowledge has increased I find it amazing how little Joe Public knows about sex work.

A shop girl dreams of marriage, life partner and kids.
A waitress/bar steward has to deal with sexual innuendos.
A professional masseuse gets used to seeing near naked men.
A stripper is offering visual gratification, some strip clubs allow more.
A sex worker……well you can fill in the blanks.

There may be other categories.

My point is while to a long term punter this all seems very lame, to a shop girl hearing a sexual innuendo may be horrifying, a masseuse asked to strip off may seem horrifying etc etc

I did see a stripper in 2018 at a lame strip club in Glasgow, she was a gorgeous slim black and stripped down to just bra and pants, she asked me if I go to many strip clubs, I said no, I usually see sex workers for sex.

She gave me a look of incredulity. 

It’s the last time I ever said that to anyone.

[Brax]

1. I understand price agreed beforehand, if anything was not as agreed to put it down to experience and not to repeat business and report on here

2. Asking about SP during a dance is not common practice


Does it happen a lot that everything was not as agreed with incalls? Is it ever dangerous?

[FLYING BLUE]

1. I understand price agreed beforehand, if anything was not as agreed to put it down to experience and not to repeat business and report on here

2. Asking about SP during a dance is not common practice


Does it happen a lot that everything was not as agreed with incalls? Is it ever dangerous?

In the many years I have been on this forum, the answer is no, not in my experience. The biggest majority (by a long, long way) of escorts are honest, decent people who would never dream of fleecing you.

Although I suggest you might do well to avoid some of the 'ladies' advertising via VivaStreet - the adverts in question are reasonably easy to spot

[Coriniumstud]

  1 - Price is set by Escort and most want paperwork at the beginning
  2 - wouldn’t ask, probably a kick in the bollocks or decked by security

[DastardlyDick]

Don't even think about asking strippers for sex. I doubt a kick in the bollocks would actually happen, but strip joints are very, very keen to emphasise that they don't condone that sort of thing, and the girls are encouraged to report it. The place would most likely have their licence(s) suspended while an investigation is carried out unless they can say, and prove, that yes, we were aware and we took these steps immediately, which would mean you being chucked out and banned.

[Brax]

I see how it is

[Munter84]

You would surely agree the price and hand over money at the beginning of a punt. Their fee should be on AW, they will probably reiterate it during comms, and if you're sensible you'll confirm it again as soon as you're in the room with them. The scenario I assume you're picturing, where you shag a WG and then she demands a different payment to what you were expecting, just doesn't happen.

As for strip clubs - I think it's fairly common knowledge that SOME strippers escort on the side, but if they want your business they'll mention it to you, not vice versa. Most successful dancers do just fine from their club takings, especially if they can string along a few fools who think they can win them over or buy their love, and therefore have no need to actually escort. If I were you I wouldn't be bothering with strip clubs, save your pennies for the prozzies. You can drink beer and listen to crap music at home for a tenth of the cost.

[Problem Child]

Point one has been covered.


As for point 2, stripperss get propositioned every night. They’re not going to boot you in the balls, chuck you out or phone the police on you.
Some might decline, some might say yes, the smart ones will say something noncommittal, then get you straight back in the vip room to rinse more money out of you 😂
Just be subtle and ask if could see them for fun outside the club. The ones that do (although they always say I hardly ever do this) will give you their number or usually their ig (which 90% of the time will be something goddess related 😂)
In my experience tho, a good escort will be a better fuck than a stripper. They’re both sex workers, but a different type of  sex work.

[Problem Child]

Just to add something else..
Don’t be a dick! Respect the rules of the club (ironic given that  rule number 3 is usually no propositioning)
If you’re the type of cunt who gets all handsy or tries to lick them etc , then you’re just showing you’re a boundary pusher and if you can’t be trusted to respect boundaries in a semi public place with security on hand, you definitely can’t be trusted alone in a bedroom.

[WelshClipper]

Are you sitting comfortably, then I’ll begin……

Just before I started punting I used to go to strip clubs.

At one fine overseas establishment you could get a lap dance for $20. I loved this place because it was open day on boobs and bums. I squeezed loads of flesh for a couple hundred dollars. It was a fun night out.

One time in 2014 I had several dances with an absolute cracker, English speaking of Russian descent. Started with lots of boobs and Bum.

About the fourth $20 she started by sitting on the floor and opening her legs. I got a bit excited and naively I said I’d  love to touch your pussy. She said it’s not allowed, she’d get kicked out but I could touch it later. Naively again I said where and she whispered in my ear “In your hotel room”.

Several things then happened:

1. I was dyeing for a piss
2. The fourth dance ended
3. Penny dropped as to what she was offering
4. It’s illegal to proposition in a club
5. I rushed to the loo
6. She called out “you ok baby”
7. I think she mistook my dive for the loo was me off to report her to mgmt.
8. I told her everything was fine but I had to go.

And why am I telling you this ?

Because I 110% believe this short , no more than 20 minutes interaction put me on the path to punting. The fact that I can recall it so clearly yet cannot remember what I did yesterday speaks volumes.

Sort of the OP question in reverse….hope you enjoyed 

[Markc]

I always pay the SP at the beginning of the punt. Seen some agency girls at my hotel and they always
insist on payment up front as they need to phone the agency to say they have arrived and every time
I have heard them asked if they have been paid.

I also think if you paid upfront the woman has got your money and l think you might get a better service. I know
not always true. Remember also these women are only having sex with us because we have paid them.

Once l saw an escort in Manchester and when we had done the deed we where relaxing and chatting and she
told me she also worked at a lap dancing club in the city. I asked if she offered extras to the customers. She said in
the main bar area she would dance for guys that paid her but others guys could be watching too. The place also had private performance rooms where the strippers could take guys. She said the rooms had mirrors on all the walls and only a chair for the guy to sit so sex wasn’t really possible. Being just one on one they would charge more dances there and the guys would regularly strip off and wank. She said she would sometimes to extras like handjobs and OWO if she was short on cash that week.