(TS) Brenda Colombia - Marylebone , London [DEPOSIT SCAM - probably..]

[Fra_Pandolf]

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Hi All,

Was looking to arrange an outcall with Brenda recently. She asked for a deposit, and as an inexperienced punter I agreed. Conversation had been pleasant up to that point and a level of trust had been established.

Unfortunately as the time to meet came, she said that she had a "swollen leg", sent some pictures of it and that she couldn't come. I thought fair enough she hasn't blocked me and has been fairly pleasant up to now, I'll give her the benefit of the doubt.

Attempted to arrange a few more times over the next few days but was met with the same excuse. She was apologetic and said that she would refund my deposit if I wanted. At the time I said no it's fine we can rearrange the meet.

I noticed that she was becoming irritable and argumentative over text when I was seeking to arrange to meet, and eventually I just asked if she could return the deposit. This set her off saying that I "didnt understand her situation" and that she had already sent the money to her family etc, and it was rude to ask because she obviously hadn't been able to work due to her leg.

Last night, about 5 days after sending the deposit, I flatly asked for it back and that we could rearrange another time to meet when she was better. She said she didn't want to meet me anymore as I'd asked for the refund and that I'd have to wait another 5 days for the deposit to be returned.

Having been strung out for about 4 days already, I decided to call it quits at this point. Didn't fly off the handle over text or give any specific indication that I wasn't going to pursue it any more, just blocked her and moved on. Strange she didn't just block me and decided to string it out, potentially she was being legit the whole time but I'm not really about chasing someone for money that's being rude and difficult, would rather just move on with my life and take the experience forward into new interactions.


Cautionary tale for the newbie here and have learned my lesson. A £175 lesson, but £175 well spent in my mind to never deal in deposits again.

Will update if I ever receive the money back to my paypal, but not holding out any hope with this one.

I'm sure there's a lot of legitimate WGs out there that deal in deposits, but at least for the time being I'll be avoiding those that request.

[specialedition28]

I’d never pay a deposit thats a massive red flag and sorry you had to go through that. Perhaps report her on the site you saw her profile on.

[Fra_Pandolf]

I’d never pay a deposit thats a massive red flag and sorry you had to go through that. Perhaps report her on the site you saw her profile on.

Appreciate the words friend, and thanks for the cross post. But yup, deposit will be ringing alarm bells from hereon in. Just a learning angle 

[Fra_Pandolf]

UPDATE:

Was contacted by Brenda via a different number about this review. She offered to send my deposit back via bank transfer and said it was a misunderstanding.

Waiting on receiving the money currently and will update again when received. 

[Stevelondon]

Well I certainly hope you get your money back. I don’t agree that £175 is well spent if it means you never pay a deposit again. 🤷🏼

You posted elsewhere about being a beginner. Was this your first punt…….. or is there another review coming of someone else. ?

[Voyager]

Sorry to hear about your experience.  I have come accross this a few times and on one occasion recently an attempt was made to blackmail me.  There are people now also putting up ads and using AI to communicate with you and I must say it does come accross rather realistic.  On one occasion I was sent a few pics and was asked to send photos of me (which I only sent using 1 time view).  This was all done in a convincing and teasing maner.  Fianlly I was asked to buy some credit of some sort as form of deposit for our meeting which I refused.  A day later I started getting threating messages from different numbers sending me back the photos I had sent saying they will expose me if I did not pay £600.  During 2-3 days I must have received over 100 messgaed from different numbers.  I did not respond and switched off phone as this was not my personal number.  The messages eventually stopped.  Now this could have been quite unpleasant for a punter living with his family and having used his private number and his personal identity could have become compromised.  Whilst there are many nice and genuine girls out there, I try to adhere to basic rules:

- Dont use personal phone for punting
- Do not take credit cards or anything that can identify you to a meeting
- Do not take any valuables with you
- Take the exact fee in the form of cash and avoid bank transfer if at all possible

I alse recently was in contact with External Link/Members Only Very pleasant through messgaes and welcoming.  Trying to arrange a visit, she asked for a deposit.  I said no but she was very persistent sening me screenshots of other punterns paying her.  I just ignored her after that and got messgaes afterwards that were not so friendly.  I have no evidence if she is genuine or not but asking for deposit is a red line for me.

[Kage4Real]

You sent a £175 deposit??!! Bonkers..

[SonofAJohn]

Would never send a deposit and especially to no transgender.
I would advise the "are you available now?" approach with trans, they are notorious for being unreliable and scatty.