How to stay STD safe for B2B massage?

[The Massage Connoisseur]

Am looking to get a body to body massage, I’ve never done one before and have only done happy endings.

But I’d like some advice and suggested boundaries that are common practice to do when getting on. As things I would be uncomfortable with is her pussy touching me. As I don’t want any risk of STD infection.

How do B2B massages normally work? When my masseuse offers a B2B is that code word for sex? Does sex normally happen at the end of the B2B or do they normally just rub their boobs on your body until you cum? Do you cum on them?

[RandomGuy99]

B2B is just that body to body massage. There's no sex.

If you don't want her pussy touching your cock, then keep your pants on.

You may get offered HJ, blowjob or even sex (all for different extra amounts) but sex is generally not standard.  In my experience they get you to cum on you, so they have less to clean up before they're ready for the next customer.

[The man]

Only done a couple, for me it's been a case of her getting naked, draping her tits up and down my back then when flipped over getting her tits in my face

However I would like to have a full B2B where she lies on top of me and slides up and down, I guess you just have to be careful that your bits don't end up getting too close!

I think the thing is to be clear with what you want.

[daviemac]

There's no set format mate, some offer B2B but only stand at the side and rub their tits on you others climb on top and offer RO etc and there's offers of everything in between.

YMMV with any massage.

[mr.bluesky]

Am looking to get a body to body massage, I’ve never done one before and have only done happy endings.

But I’d like some advice and suggested boundaries that are common practice to do when getting on. As things I would be uncomfortable with is her pussy touching me. As I don’t want any risk of STD infection.

How do B2B massages normally work? When my masseuse offers a B2B is that code word for sex? Does sex normally happen at the end of the B2B or do they normally just rub their boobs on your body until you cum? Do you cum on them?

Find someone / somewhere that does proper nuru massage using nuru gel. Like Daviemac says most b2b massage providers just rub their tits up and down your back and front. Nuru massages are usually more expensive but worth it imo.

[Doc Holliday]

I'm getting that Déjà vu feeling again?

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=421801.msg4211728#msg4211728

Plenty of good advice given to you in that thread (including some from myself). Clearly you were still put off from proceeding to having sex and remain over anxious? The risk with body to body culminating in a HJ is almost zero 

[LLPunting]

By sti do you include herpes, (genital) warts, scabies and other contact transmitted infections (look up the NHS or go talk to sexual health practioner at SEXUAL health Clinic for all the things to be wary about).  Perhaps also consider other dermal conditions if you have sensitivity. Then you decide how much you want to risk and determine how much contact you want to risk from a sex worker who may well be touching more bodies daily than a full service girl.  Their mouths, hands and bodies are capable of transmission not just their genitals. In room you can observe whether they are likely practicing good hygiene between clients.

[daviemac]

I'm getting that Déjà vu feeling again?

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=421801.msg4211728#msg4211728

Plenty of good advice given to you in that thread (including some from myself). Clearly you were still put off from proceeding to having sex and remain over anxious? The risk with body to body culminating in a HJ is almost zero 

Might be a good idea if the OP buys a pair a Marigolds and sticks to wanking.

[Stevelondon]

Bloody hell. This is the second time someone has mentioned marigolds.

I’m missing out on some new fetish here. 😂

[RandomGuy99]

You could take a roll of cling film and wrap yourself in it.

[Jameson20]

I'd wear a suit of armour mate. You can't be too careful.

[daviemac]

I’m missing out on some new fetish here. 😂

TV series from the 90's called Band of Gold had a boke who hired an SP to walk around in front of him in stockings while he wanked with a pair of Marigolds on. 

[rebelscum]

TV series from the 90's called Band of Gold had a boke who hired an SP to walk around in front of him in stockings while he wanked with a pair of Marigolds on. 

Certainly a new meaning for 'coming clean'....

[daviemac]

Cathy Tyson played the part of the escort and have to say I would.

[LLPunting]

Might be a good idea if the OP buys a pair a Marigolds and sticks to wanking.

Could be allergic to latex or rubber... Then there's the friction burn risk or allergy to carelessly chosen means of lubrication 

[daviemac]

Could be allergic to latex or rubber... Then there's the friction burn risk or allergy to carelessly chosen means of lubrication 

Can't go wrong with a non latex condom for a posh wank with a bit of lard on the Marigolds unless he's a vegan, then it would have to be coconut oil or the like.   

[DastardlyDick]

Could be allergic to latex or rubber... Then there's the friction burn risk or allergy to carelessly chosen means of lubrication 

I'd prefer proper surgical gloves - smoother surface, and usually latex free - but each to their own 

[DastardlyDick]

I'd wear a suit of armour mate. You can't be too careful.

I have a CBRN suit the OP could use 

[Fuzzyduck]

I'm getting that Déjà vu feeling again?

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=421801.msg4211728#msg4211728

Plenty of good advice given to you in that thread (including some from myself). Clearly you were still put off from proceeding to having sex and remain over anxious? The risk with body to body culminating in a HJ is almost zero 

Quite.

OP didn't bother to acknowledge or thank anyone from the previous thread so not sure he deserves much attention. He also doesn't seem to know what he wants from B2B. He should just go to one of the "tantric" operations and ask the SP to keep her knickers on.

[webpunter]

Might be a good idea if the OP buys a pair a Marigolds and sticks to wanking.

 
For use by the OP on himself when at home
Better for him to be safe than ...

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[Waterhouse]

He definitely needs to change his username. 

[webpunter]

When my masseuse offers a B2B is that code word for sex?

Yes

Does sex normally happen at the end of the B2B or do they normally just rub their boobs on your body until you cum?

It depends on if you play your cards right
I wouldn;t build up your hopes

Do you cum on them?

This is the general plan

[webpunter]

He definitely needs to change his username. 

A solid observation 
Not much !

[webpunter]

I have an image of the OP forming

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[Fuzzyduck]

He definitely needs to change his username. 

[Jumping Jack Flash]

I reckon that this is an undercover m_m netter looking to find out what her partner gets up to when he goes for a seemingly legit massage.

[scutty brown]

always carry protection: have some of these in a selection of sizes and make sure the girl wears them


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[Carl Adams]

Just to be semi-serious for a moment - if you are worried about that then you also need to think about the premises as most of the ones I have seen over the years are health hazards in themselves.

If they are using towels or bedding then god knows what germs are there especially if they are not changed between massages - I doubt I am the only person to have been offered a damp towel for a shower after a massage.

I stopped having oil massages in thai places because something in the oil does not like my skin and it can be hard to hide from a partner

[Munter84]

Am looking to get a body to body massage, ... But I’d like some advice and suggested boundaries that are common practice to do when getting on. As things I would be uncomfortable with is her pussy touching me. ... How do B2B massages normally work? When my masseuse offers a B2B is that code word for sex? Does sex normally happen at the end of the B2B or do they normally just rub their boobs on your body until you cum? Do you cum on them?

What exactly happens in a FBSM massage is variable. The girl may be comfortable with you sucking her boobs, or not. She may be willing for you to finger her, or not. Kissing may or may not be offered. If you've paid for a happy ending then you can reasonably expect a handjob at the end, everything else is YMMV. Obviously reading reviews of known providers can help set your expectations.

No, B2B isn't a code word for sex. It just means the SP is going to use some of her body to massage you. This may be as involved as her climbing on top of you fully naked and doing full body slides (which might result in the genital-to-genital contact you're worried about) or can be as lazy as her standing by the side of the bed topless, letting her tits rest on you.

If sex is available she'll offer you "full service", which is usually considerably more expensive. You may have to have your own condoms on hand.

Even in B2B the orgasm is usually delivered by hand, which means you'll mostly be cumming on yourself before getting cleaned up.

Asking basic questions like these, I'm not sure you can call yourself a connoisseur quite yet! Read up on some reviews, get out there and have fun 

[webpunter]

What exactly happens in a FBSM massage is variable. The girl may be comfortable with you sucking her boobs, or not. She may be willing for you to finger her, or not. Kissing may or may not be offered. If you've paid for a happy ending then you can reasonably expect a handjob at the end, everything else is YMMV. Obviously reading reviews of known providers can help set your expectations.

No, B2B isn't a code word for sex. It just means the SP is going to use some of her body to massage you. This may be as involved as her climbing on top of you fully naked and doing full body slides (which might result in the genital-to-genital contact you're worried about) or can be as lazy as her standing by the side of the bed topless, letting her tits rest on you.

If sex is available she'll offer you "full service", which is usually considerably more expensive. You may have to have your own condoms on hand.

Even in B2B the orgasm is usually delivered by hand, which means you'll mostly be cumming on yourself before getting cleaned up.

Asking basic questions like these, I'm not sure you can call yourself a connoisseur quite yet! Read up on some reviews, get out there and have fun 

Thanks for the practical guide whilst the rest of us are havin a laarf 

Dont be silly, of course it is

[Fuzzyduck]

Just to be semi-serious for a moment - if you are worried about that then you also need to think about the premises as most of the ones I have seen over the years are health hazards in themselves.

If they are using towels or bedding then god knows what germs are there especially if they are not changed between massages - I doubt I am the only person to have been offered a damp towel for a shower after a massage.

I stopped having oil massages in thai places because something in the oil does not like my skin and it can be hard to hide from a partner

You make good points. Even in the HJ only situation, I wonder if OP thinks about all the spunk from previous punters that didn't get cleaned up, and may be on the table or on the floor. Or on the SPs body if she doesn't shower between customers.

[mrwhite]

I'm surprised no-one has posted this yet
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[RandomGuy99]

You make good points. Even in the HJ only situation, I wonder if OP thinks about all the spunk from previous punters that didn't get cleaned up, and may be on the table or on the floor. Or on the SPs body if she doesn't shower between customers.

Most SPs use a blanket or towel over the bed which they can change between SSs.

Some massage places use paper sheets to act as a barrier between customer's body and the massage table. They replace the paper with a new sheet for each customer and they push a hole in it before you lie down and put your face in the hole.

[Doc Holliday]

You make good points. Even in the HJ only situation, I wonder if OP thinks about all the spunk from previous punters that didn't get cleaned up, and may be on the table or on the floor. Or on the SPs body if she doesn't shower between customers.

They all sound like paid for extras to me 

So has anyone reading ever caught anything from a body to body massage with HJ?

[Fuzzyduck]

Most SPs use a blanket or towel over the bed which they can change between SSs.

Some massage places use paper sheets to act as a barrier between customer's body and the massage table. They replace the paper with a new sheet for each customer and they push a hole in it before you lie down and put your face in the hole.

Many (perhaps most) do have some covering but how many actually do change that bedding layer for a freshly cleaned one? It costs money to service all that laundry.
The paper has some barrier benefits but it can get shredded after some full on, oily body slides. If the paper is on a bed, then it can get messy indeed. Shredded paper, oil, sweat, pussy juice and spunk all over the bed. Good luck to the next punter.

[Fuzzyduck]

They all sound like paid for extras to me 

So has anyone reading ever caught anything from a body to body massage with HJ?

Never. Even with some risqué pussy grinding I've never had a problem. As you said before I also believe the risk to be extremely low.

[webpunter]

They all sound like paid for extras to me 

 

So has anyone reading ever caught anything from a body to body massage with HJ?

Unlike @Fd i had a severe case of thrush from pussy sliding
TBF it was full on PS, flaps up & down the shaft
Then it was a tangle of fingers as i was probing for her g-spot whilst she was fingering her bean with one hand & wanking me off with the other
I was given a strong hint by the masseuse it would be better to let her get herself over the line as she didnt want to miss the moment
She must have been ambidextrous as one hand stroking littleWP the other on herself
Then switching hands with fanny batter as lube
We were all over the place before i exploded over her tummy me legs akimbo hers draped over mine
Once she'd orgasmed leaking like a knackered freezer she started a fanny batter lubed double hander & i lasted about 5 secs 
Proper head spinning stuff with some DFK along the way
A day later what seemed to be a brilliant idea turned into the opposite my helmet was like a traffic light on red itchy as & reeked 
Two canesten tablets spread over a couple of days & a whole tube of the cream

[RandomGuy99]

Many (perhaps most) do have some covering but how many actually do change that bedding layer for a freshly cleaned one? It costs money to service all that laundry.
The paper has some barrier benefits but it can get shredded after some full on, oily body slides. If the paper is on a bed, then it can get messy indeed. Shredded paper, oil, sweat, pussy juice and spunk all over the bed. Good luck to the next punter.

The towels do get changed, which is one of the reasons SPs use many towels on a booking. I know ones who carry them in a suitcase and take them to get laundered every day at a local launderette when they're on tour.

The paper stuff is generally thick stuff that seems to survive people lying on it. I've not seen it tear and they just scrunch it up at the end of a booking and roll out a new length for the next person. I think it comes in prepared lengths and they just tear it off the roll.

[Fuzzyduck]

The towels do get changed, which is one of the reasons SPs use many towels on a booking. I know ones who carry them in a suitcase and take them to get laundered every day at a local launderette when they're on tour.

The paper stuff is generally thick stuff that seems to survive people lying on it. I've not seen it tear and they just scrunch it up at the end of a booking and roll out a new length for the next person. I think it comes in prepared lengths and they just tear it off the roll.

Is your market research based on a sample of 1? I didn't disagree with what you said (since I know it happens as you describe), but it's ignorant to think that some SPs/parlours don't change towels and that the paper can't / doesn't shred (since I know if happens as I describe).

[RandomGuy99]

Is your market research based on a sample of 1? I didn't disagree with what you said (since I know it happens as you describe), but it's ignorant to think that some SPs/parlours don't change towels and that the paper can't / doesn't shred (since I know if happens as I describe).

No, it's based on 10 different massage places and around 300 escorts. I find the SPs make a point of putting new towel or sheet down and making sure they clean thoroughly before the next SS. Maybe I've just been lucky.

It could well happen, but I haven't experienced it. It would depend on what happens on the table. I must be having less of an exciting time that some.

[Vice Admiral]

I've never had a body-to-body massage, but I'm friends with a girl who does them, but who doesn't do full service escorting. 

She's very dismayed by the fact that the girl who allows her to use her premises – and who also does B2B massages – often doesn't change the towel on the bed.  However there's a limit to how much she can remonstrate, since her friend is doing her a favour.  It makes for a very awkward and unwelcome situation.

Sadly it can't be assumed that hospital levels of best practice hygiene are universal in Hookersville. 

(Mind you, hospital levels of best practice hygiene aren't universal in hospitals, either...)

Similarly I imagine that the tartan rug on the on-floor mattress at the premises of the egregious Haliebunny – whom I recently reviewed – probably had enough DNA on it to solve half the cold cases in Portsmouth. 

In addition to the bed-bugs, which I reported on in my review.

[Omadon2001]

I love a massage but tend to go to "shops" rather than houses.

I'm always concerned about the hygiene of the provider. I'm pretty sure they don't shower between massages. Spunk on their tits will just get wiped off.

I would say I've witnessed around 30% of women have a shower in the room afterwards.

Normally I always seem to get a fresh towel after a shower. However, the last time I had a massage, the girl did have a shower and then gave me her wet towel to dry myself 😕

[marple1]

In my experience, I am much more comfortable from a hygiene perspective if there is a decent shower and loo on the premises...and I ask the question & check it out. It is often a good sign if the lady is bothered to ask you if you'd like a shower afterwards? Without wanting to be accused of touting, I can confirm that I've seen 2 of the established regular ladies at Saba Thai in Boscombe in recent months and after a lovely and safe B2B, both have showered after the deed before me (I offered them to go first) and we each had a fresh towel.

[webpunter]

In my experience, I am much more comfortable from a hygiene perspective if there is a decent shower and loo on the premises...and I ask the question & check it out. It is often a good sign if the lady is bothered to ask you if you'd like a shower afterwards? Without wanting to be accused of touting, I can confirm that I've seen 2 of the established regular ladies at Saba Thai in Boscombe in recent months and after a lovely and safe B2B, both have showered after the deed before me (I offered them to go first) and we each had a fresh towel.

We are on the same page
Back in the day @ Ego in MK some of the massage burds would make a point of having a very quick shower in the en-suite
I'd just had one
Two metres away [small ish rooms]
& its great to watch them getting their clobber off & briefly soaping up their rack + minge littleWP rapidly heading north
& when it was Valentina littleWP was like a flag pole & when she said wanted to be fresh big eyes & a smile my mind was doing somersaults
RO tastic & it being verboten on the house rules made it even more fun

Some of the more expensive massage indies in London do the same post massage
After i've had a brief shower fluffy towel, the same as when i arrived for a shower fine be me
Its a huge draw for me hygiene wise for a repeat visit
& as i'm getting my clobber they emerge a teeny towel wrapped around them & a couple have a small towel on their head their hair wrapped up [how do they do this ?]
Its this vision i have imprinted on my brain which the klevva ones will know all too well
 
IMO you're not touting, solid intel 

[Bonker]

It's this another firework post?
Light the blue touchpaper and retire.

He's posted 3 reviews.

[Mkhelen]

Body to body massage doesn't include pussy slides

Alot of foreign girls don't see the risks of HPV or warts

We don't want to slide our vagina into an unprotected / uncovered cock so we slide on your actual legs part

[scutty brown]

Body to body massage doesn't include pussy slides

that depends on the girl....

[Mkhelen]

that depends on the girl....

This is why it's so frustrating for the sp

When some do some don't

It not considered bareback unprotected service to SS but it definitely is

Same as wrapping your labias round a naked cock is classed as Unprotected service yet still no one is pissed off about it

[webpunter]

that depends on the girl....

Indeed it does

It doesnt happen very often
Just very occasionally the massage ⭐️ line up
Rarely on the 1st meet more 2nd 3rd etc
& things 'click' for whatever reasons, it certainly encourages repeat visits

The most important factor = a large 'pussy slide' slice of good luck 

It seems to unfold as a bit of a game, a test 
Maybe there's an 'accidental' brush where i've had a sharp intake of breath
Then a repeat & i promise that i won't move not even a little bit
& i'm true to my word
See where you end up

When there is a lovely smooth thigh gap its next to impossible to resist 

[webpunter]

This is why it's so frustrating for the sp

When some do some don't

It not considered bareback unprotected service to SS but it definitely is

Same as wrapping your labias round a naked cock is classed as Unprotected service yet still no one is pissed off about it

I can think of one SP not a million miles from you where the flaps are like the hanging gardens of babylon
No f*****g way Jose 
You might as well get inside commando 

If its a bit of tease like its taken some deft manouevering [& luck] to get there
& its not too full on
Just a little bit, brief & then things move on