Have you ever had a regular not charge you?

[penisilin]

OP is selfish and self-centred IMO. It's all about him. He's taken advantage of the situation, continues to shag her BB (like he's going to go back to condoms now), gone into great detail about the sex and has shown zero regard for his GF. He didn't celebrate the new year with her at least. What a guy. Anyone who thinks he's going to do "the right thing" might be disappointed.

To address the question, there is almost always a quid pro quo IMO. If someone doesn't want money, then there is an ulterior driver, be it wanting a favour down the line or perhaps the situation satisfies an unmet need, such as affection. A while back, I had an impromptu, freebie overnighter with an EE SP after seeing her just the once before. Perhaps I was onto a winner, but something didn't feel right and I didn't see here again.

OP if you're reading this please do the needful and spare your GF any possible STD

[jamiekinkxxx]

OP is selfish and self-centred IMO. It's all about him. He's taken advantage of the situation, continues to shag her BB (like he's going to go back to condoms now), gone into great detail about the sex and has shown zero regard for his GF. He didn't celebrate the new year with her at least. What a guy. Anyone who thinks he's going to do "the right thing" might be disappointed.

To address the question, there is almost always a quid pro quo IMO. If someone doesn't want money, then there is an ulterior driver, be it wanting a favour down the line or perhaps the situation satisfies an unmet need, such as affection. A while back, I had an impromptu, freebie overnighter with an EE SP after seeing her just the once before. Perhaps I was onto a winner, but something didn't feel right and I didn't see here again.

100% FD

[Sdotkid121]

OP is selfish and self-centred IMO. It's all about him. He's taken advantage of the situation, continues to shag her BB (like he's going to go back to condoms now), gone into great detail about the sex and has shown zero regard for his GF. He didn't celebrate the new year with her at least. What a guy. Anyone who thinks he's going to do "the right thing" might be disappointed.

To address the question, there is almost always a quid pro quo IMO. If someone doesn't want money, then there is an ulterior driver, be it wanting a favour down the line or perhaps the situation satisfies an unmet need, such as affection. A while back, I had an impromptu, freebie overnighter with an EE SP after seeing her just the once before. Perhaps I was onto a winner, but something didn't feel right and I didn't see here again.

I cant argue with this yes I’m self centered but with those that go the extra mile I think about them too

[Sdotkid121]

OP if you're reading this please do the needful and spare your GF any possible STD

Of course

[Borabora]

are we ever getting the AW link to the SP to know who to avoid for the BB reason?

[penisilin]

are we ever getting the AW link to the SP to know who to avoid for the BB reason?

Sounds like you need the link for other reasons, loool.
I don't think OP should fall for this.

[Sdotkid121]

I'm sure many of us have experienced something like this.

My observation would be that if you want to continue enjoying relations with her, it would be wise to reciprocate her generosity with some of your own. She'll have been acutely aware of the clock running over, and the risk represented by barebacking and despite being undoubtedly fond of you, she'll also have been weighing up how much of a fool she's been, and in corollary, how much an exploiter you've been, and whether as a result, she ought to bar or ghost you.

An extravagant but sincere gesture of freely-given goodwill on your part; a huge tip, an expensive or tasteful present and/or a beautiful meal together will likely go a long way to mollifying those thoughts, and lay the groundwork for more of the same closeness. The real trick, imv, is to do this with no expectation of later bonuses. If given in that spirit, and in proportion to her offerings to you, (ie: if you've had 5 hours free time from her, make your gesture of appreciation at least the same, and possibly greater value), and you'll very likely find that the benefits continue to flow.

It could be that you merely want to bank the freebies given and declare yourself a lucky winner. But Tempest is quite right here, when he says...

In my view, a situation like the one you describe is a treasure that you ought to be able to relish looking back on in years ahead. If you want to keep it going, you're going to have to put out in equal measure yourself.


After all that, I've just read the OP's follow-up meeting. And WTF folly of youth is this?

'Nonetheless we sit and eat and scroll on our phones for a bit'   

They always count it, and take note.

Took your advice bought her an expensive gift although costed me some loans to get it which I’ll pay back in the next month. She was elated actually sent it via post so It didnt seem as though as I did it just to see her which wasn’t my MO more of a thanks. I have her social media now so she messages me regularly to come over when she’s done for the day. Pretty good. I buy her food or snacks almost every time think we’re just enjoying being fwb at this point. I still encourage her to work though as a few times she wanted to cancel on others I tell her not to and set things up to when she’s done for the day or on her full off days I come over.

[KatieEdinburgh]

Taking out a loan to buy gifts for prostitutes is a TERRIBLE idea. (And this is coming from a prostitute btw)

 

Maybe you should be buying your girlfriend nice things instead….

[penisilin]

Took your advice bought her an expensive gift although costed me some loans to get it which I’ll pay back in the next month. She was elated actually sent it via post so It didnt seem as though as I did it just to see her which wasn’t my MO more of a thanks. I have her social media now so she messages me regularly to come over when she’s done for the day. Pretty good. I buy her food or snacks almost every time think we’re just enjoying being fwb at this point. I still encourage her to work though as a few times she wanted to cancel on others I tell her not to and set things up to when she’s done for the day or on her full off days I come over.

I think you're over doing it! You're now living above your income and clearly have cash flow issues all for a whore?

I hope you will be honest enough to tell us what you get from this experience and how it ended most likely in disappointment!

[Logp]

Took your advice bought her an expensive gift although costed me some loans to get it which I’ll pay back in the next month. She was elated actually sent it via post so It didnt seem as though as I did it just to see her which wasn’t my MO more of a thanks. I have her social media now so she messages me regularly to come over when she’s done for the day. Pretty good. I buy her food or snacks almost every time think we’re just enjoying being fwb at this point. I still encourage her to work though as a few times she wanted to cancel on others I tell her not to and set things up to when she’s done for the day or on her full off days I come over.

Dude you need to take a step back. You came to this forum for advice, but you've made a poor decision based on that advice, so I don't think this is helping you or anyone involved.

[Puntiff Sulyvahn]

Took your advice bought her an expensive gift although costed me some loans to get it which I’ll pay back in the next month.

  Alright, there are shenanigans afoot; this has to be trolling... although stranger things have happened I suppose.

[Fuzzyduck]

Taking out a loan to buy gifts for prostitutes is a TERRIBLE idea. (And this is coming from a prostitute btw)

 

Maybe you should be buying your girlfriend nice things instead….

+1

To be honest, I'm not sure I believe anything OP says anymore.

Given what OP has shared, I'm not sure what can be believed.

[VladtheImpaleHer]

Maybe just everyone stop replying to the OP. Let him enjoy his dreamland and finish this thread.

[Gentlelovemaking]

Took your advice bought her an expensive gift although costed me some loans to get it which I’ll pay back in the next month. She was elated actually sent it via post so It didnt seem as though as I did it just to see her which wasn’t my MO more of a thanks. I have her social media now so she messages me regularly to come over when she’s done for the day. Pretty good. I buy her food or snacks almost every time think we’re just enjoying being fwb at this point. I still encourage her to work though as a few times she wanted to cancel on others I tell her not to and set things up to when she’s done for the day or on her full off days I come over.

I’ve been viewing this thread but now feel compelled to comment.

I have situations with SP’s where I have had freebies. I’ve been in a relationship with an SP that was very popular who is now retired. Your comments about buying food and drinks etc when seeing her was similar to my situations (happened more than once) so in that sense I see the similarities.

What I don’t think you should do is take out a loan to buy gifts for anyone ! Why would you do this ? What type of loan was it as well, please tell me it’s not a PayDay one as these things can spiral quickly. You have a good set up just enjoy it and be honest. SP’s know how much guys usually spend with them and appreciate taking a little from a lot of punters is how the game goes as supposed to getting it all from one.

Take away from this is don’t go into debt for anyone and if you have to do it for your children/dependants.

[Sdotkid121]

I’ve been viewing this thread but now feel compelled to comment.

I have situations with SP’s where I have had freebies. I’ve been in a relationship with an SP that was very popular who is now retired. Your comments about buying food and drinks etc when seeing her was similar to my situations (happened more than once) so in that sense I see the similarities.

What I don’t think you should do is take out a loan to buy gifts for anyone ! Why would you do this ? What type of loan was it as well, please tell me it’s not a PayDay one as these things can spiral quickly. You have a good set up just enjoy it and be honest. SP’s know how much guys usually spend with them and appreciate taking a little from a lot of punters is how the game goes as supposed to getting it all from one.

Take away from this is don’t go into debt for anyone and if you have to do it for your children/dependants.

About £300 for the gift don’t worry I can manage

[Sdotkid121]

Loaned by a friend

[Sdotkid121]

I think you're over doing it! You're now living above your income and clearly have cash flow issues all for a whore?

I hope you will be honest enough to tell us what you get from this experience and how it ended most likely in disappointment!

Don’t get what you mean at the end? We’re still seeing each other?

[Gentlelovemaking]

About £300 for the gift don’t worry I can manage

That’s not an issue at all tbh. Just treat her as you would your GF and you’ll be fine, get the food in and drinks etc. she shouldn’t be paying for any costs incurred by you and let it run its course.

[penisilin]

Don’t get what you mean at the end? We’re still seeing each other?

Yeah, for now but if you continue at this rate (especially the loans) you will go broke and the situationshop will end in disappointment.
Spend wisely is the moral!

[MLawro93]

The naivety of youth. OP will hopefully learn a lesson, maybe not today or tomorrow, but eventually, the penny will drop.

[Puntiff Sulyvahn]

...but eventually, the penny will drop.

I wonder if that penny will also be a loan from his mate

[jamiekinkxxx]

Noooooooooooooooo!

This hobby should be a hobby, nothing more.

If you cannot afford a gift without taking out a loan I doubt very much you should be paying for escorts full stop!

[Tempest]

sounds like the kid fell in love damnnn

[loki33]

Put me in the fantasist column...

If true, OP dump one of the WG or GF.

[Gentlelovemaking]

Put me in the fantasist column...

If true, OP dump one of the WG or GF.

OP’s situation is no different to any man who dates multiple women. By default as punters we all like variety so don’t think the one or the other approach is a good idea.

[penisilin]

Does anyone know how to unfollow a thread/topic? This one has become too boring and pointless to me and I'm tired of seeing it appear in my "new replies"

[Heph]

Does anyone know how to unfollow a thread/topic? This one has become too boring and pointless to me and I'm tired of seeing it appear in my "new replies"

AFAIK, we can't - I had similar poster's remorse on the 'Worst Escort Picture Challenge' thread, but you don't have to read the new notifications. Just mark the update as read.

[ThaisAreBest]

I dated an SP who is/was quite popular on this site for a year, and as you can probably guess from my name it was a Thai SP.  I knew she was just using me as a way out of escorting eventually but for that year I never paid to have sex with her. I helped with food and occasionally transporting her around the country but didn’t cost me anywhere near what it would have for a regular paying customer so I like to think I got quite a few freebies

But it turns out Thai women, at least this one I dated, are psycho maniacs. 

So I never want to get freebies again, ever. Because you never know what psycho is giving you those freebies

[scutty brown]

Does anyone know how to unfollow a thread/topic? This one has become too boring and pointless to me and I'm tired of seeing it appear in my "new replies"

You can't
A decision made by OldAdmin years ago because he thought it was to messy to program and might break one of his modifications to the software

[ThaisAreBest]

Does anyone know how to unfollow a thread/topic? This one has become too boring and pointless to me and I'm tired of seeing it appear in my "new replies"

Just do what I do with your boring posts and reviews and ignore them.

[LLPunting]

I dated an SP who is/was quite popular on this site for a year, and as you can probably guess from my name it was a Thai SP.  I knew she was just using me as a way out of escorting eventually but for that year I never paid to have sex with her. I helped with food and occasionally transporting her around the country but didn’t cost me anywhere near what it would have for a regular paying customer so I like to think I got quite a few freebies

But it turns out Thai women, at least this one I dated, are psycho maniacs. 

So I never want to get freebies again, ever. Because you never know what psycho is giving you those freebies

Was it more patience of Job or she was an amazing lay that you spun it out so long? 
All the Thais I've enjoyed the (temporary) favour of have pretty quickly proven to be either increasingly heavy drinkers or narcotics abusers or unhealthily cynical about men to form a "normal" relationship with (owing to at least one divorce/abandonment back home or here and sprog(s) in tow) or became more demanding of special treats in lieu of payment for sex such that it was less tiresome to just revert to another SP in a "professional" capacity at the same original price point.

[speakercat]

this entire thread feels like an obvious work of fiction written by a teenager. Don't buy any of it

[Georgebarber]

I get what you mean. Pretty responsible on that part only from time to time and never by myself or bought by me usually a social thing if someone else has I’ll join to not be a party pooper. BB however is not wise on my part I can admit that.

What do you smoke with her?

[syfodas]

A freebie and bb you gave her nothing let’s hope she didn’t give you something

[scutty brown]

What do you smoke with her?

Careful
read rule 30

[Sdotkid121]

this entire thread feels like an obvious work of fiction written by a teenager. Don't buy any of it

Do you seriously think I would go into such detail for a fantasy? I’m clearly not even on this forum enough to waste my time being on here without a purpose. I posted this to connect with anyone who’s had a similar experience and gain wisdom and experience from them as it’s my first time navigating a situation with a WG like this

[Sdotkid121]

A freebie and bb you gave her nothing let’s hope she didn’t give you something

All clean thankfully and still seeing each other

[Iloveoral]

So context. Been seeing a WG over last month. Quite frequently as I’ve had more urges. In total now 5 times over the past month and a half.

Daft question, is there a reason you haven’t reviewed her? Or anyone recently ?
Your last review was in 2022

[Sdotkid121]

Daft question, is there a reason you haven’t reviewed her? Or anyone recently ?
Your last review was in 2022

All good not a daft question but mainly due to shit storm it will cause + was advised not too earlier in the thread. As for reviews been in a relationship the past 3 years now hence why I just renewed my subscription recently

[doyouforgetit]

I have had semi relationships with a few working girls, including Nana from about 12 years ago. I even ended up paying her wifi bills. That was when I was younger and less ugly though.

[Scottychap]

Do you seriously think I would go into such detail for a fantasy? I’m clearly not even on this forum enough to waste my time being on here without a purpose. I posted this to connect with anyone who’s had a similar experience and gain wisdom and experience from them as it’s my first time navigating a situation with a WG like this

Had a few like this over the years - letting the time run over (sometime massively over), or the occasional freebie for a small favour I’d done that felt more like an excuse. One I saw gave me an overnight because she’d booked a hotel room and I was last guy of the day, and said she was enjoying herself so just go stay. Sometimes I’ve had not advertised services like anal given in the heat of a meet. You do the hobby for long enough it’ll happen to you, especially if you’re young. In terms of advice, I always took it at face value, enjoyed myself and made sure it was clear I wasn’t expecting the same next time. It’s normal that you might hit it off and connect occasionally with a girl - I don’t think there necessarily has to be any sinister. motive there. Sometimes they just want fucked by someone competent, sometimes they’re enjoying the moment. Just keep your head on and don’t get carried away. If you feel like you’re getting too attached, just step back for a bit

[jamiekinkxxx]

Had a few like this over the years - letting the time run over (sometime massively over), or the occasional freebie for a small favour I’d done that felt more like an excuse. One I saw gave me an overnight because she’d booked a hotel room and I was last guy of the day, and said she was enjoying herself so just go stay. Sometimes I’ve had not advertised services like anal given in the heat of a meet. You do the hobby for long enough it’ll happen to you, especially if you’re young. In terms of advice, I always took it at face value, enjoyed myself and made sure it was clear I wasn’t expecting the same next time. It’s normal that you might hit it off and connect occasionally with a girl - I don’t think there necessarily has to be any sinister. motive there. Sometimes they just want fucked by someone competent, sometimes they’re enjoying the moment. Just keep your head on and don’t get carried away. If you feel like you’re getting too attached, just step back for a bit

Wise words

[Sdotkid121]

Situation has dwindled away. Maybe due to EAS on my part but I noticed she would give me mixed signals as time went. Like telling me I’m the best she’s had in person and literally collapsing after our sessions to I can’t see you I need a break, or slight remarks to disprove that I’m the best when I joke about it on text. Long story short she asks me to come see her and I decline because I’m not into the whole mixed signals stuff I like honesty as to protect myself from feeling resentment. Left it at that and it’s been a while noticed she blocked me on IG. Haven’t said a word since. Thank fuck I didn’t fall too deep and can brush it over a bit but am I in the wrong for making this move? I can understand that girls can take not wanting to see them quite personally even if I explain my reasonings. To me mixed signals is disrespectful and I wouldn’t want to involve myself with someone who shows them characteristics

[southcoastpunter]

but am I in the wrong for making this move?

if you think it was the right thing for you then you weren't wrong to do it! who are any of us to tell you differently? Not sure why you think it important/necessary to ask us!

[Atrueyorkie]

this entire thread feels like an obvious work of fiction written by a teenager. Don't buy any of it

[Imjondoe18]

Who is the wg?

So context. Been seeing a WG over last month. Quite frequently as I’ve had more urges. In total now 5 times over the past month and a half. Thing is I’ve never paid more than her half hour rate which is v reasonable for me. Since the first meet she never clock watched and we had a very intimate time crossing way over the 30 mins more like 1h 30min. The second time was even more now being 2 hours even though I paid for 30min. In this meet she got really wet and we was really into it, every meet we normally smoke before and go crazy after. Now 3rd meet I told her that I had a girlfriend and that I would have to see her way less often as I needed to prioritise. Wasn’t so great this meet we didn’t click like before left at the 30 min mark.
Next meet was a week after and at this point just wanted to confirm my suspicions that this was all an act to begin with to keep me coming. Still do think that’s the case but nonetheless it went great again stayed 2 hours maybe more and she was pleading me to stay the night. Bear in mind she’s quite young and seems like she’s not as business driven as other WG’s she says she only does this because she has to and isn’t a fan of it much. Left anyways nonetheless. So a few days goes by and we’re just flirting back and forth. Night time hits and she starts calling me back to back asking me to come over as she really wants to see me. At the point I’m not a fool and of course I’m going to be responsible with my finances so I was hesitant, we speak otp and I tell her look I have to be reasonable with how much I spend and said I won’t see her. I was feeling quite ballsy cause I know I have her mentally when we get into the action so I said “unless you don’t want me to pay” she went quite for a bit and said “yeah”.

So I ended up seeing her again but brought some cash just in case this was an act. This meet to say the least was the most intense, I ended up doing something I regret I shouldn’t have to say you can probably guess but in the heat of the moment we took it off and went in.(will be getting tested in a few days and post 3 months🤦🏽‍♂️). Ended up pulling out and finishing around about 1 hr and a half in. Even typing this now it seems really wild to think I was even lasting this long but I think the combination of being really high plus some cialis, and the overall length of foreplay and how long she gives me head each meet resulted in this. So we ended up laying up together under the sheets and she got really tried and slept on my chest I woke her up after a bit and told her I have to go. She seems really sad but she’s says ok go please close the door.
At the point I’m thinking what? Is she not going to ask for the money somehow?? Long story short she didn’t she was fine with me leaving as is while she fell asleep we even spoke the day after and she was complimenting me saying I’m amazing.

It’s been a strange one while I don’t think I have any strong emotional attachment to her and more so like her because of her playful energy I don’t know if this is an act probably is to be fair but yeah a strange one to say the least. Mind you I’m 27 too not too far off from her age but I can tell she has a more young mindset and less business oriented like other WG’s. Regarding the situation in the last meet both of us and more so me was really stupid. I don’t plan to see her anytime soon though. Has anyone else had an experience similar that kind of blurred the lines between WG and normal hookup?

[Heph]

Who is the wg?

Oh, dude, get a grip!

[Colston36]

Looking back this seems too good to be true. But it happened.

Maybe 8 years ago I wanted to go down on a woman - an escort - while she was being fucked. This was arranged, happened, was great but then the guy involved said he didn't like it. To my surprise she then said he could fuck off and I then spent quite a few months as her partner.

I still have a lot of videos and pics of her, plus very fond memories. But one day she suddenly decided she wanted to quit, and although I have helped her out financially since, she went 100% straight - and still is. A sad end to a wonderful time. She was marvellous and some of the videos are funny - especially one of her talking to her mum on the phone, pausing at intervals to suck my cock.

Whenever I wonder if life has been worthwhile I think of her.

[Spidey69]

They always count it, and take note.

I appreciate the insight. But not that it bothered me even if she did, but, you know, at least she had the decency not to do it right in front of me, also, she never even touched the money on the table before I left... I mean, a little bit of class goes a long way, right? so you do get it now, m not saying she was exactly a saint, but at least she knew better than to count the money right in front of me. Gotta appreciate those tiny gestures of respect.
Also,
She usually wrapped up work by 5 PM, but she always managed to make exceptions for me, staying past her usual clock-out time, knowing my schedule. That’s probably why our meetings often ran longer...we’d end up chatting about all sorts of random things.
In her later years, she raised her rates, but she always charged her old and regular clients the same rates as when she first started.
She was quite the popular girl in the business, So, anyone who’s been around in this game for a while and has a bit of experience would probably have a pretty good idea of who I’m talking about.. She retired a couple of years ago though.

[Heph]

I appreciate the insight. But not that it bothered me even if she did, but, you know, at least she had the decency not to do it right in front of me, also, she never even touched the money on the table before I left... I mean, a little bit of class goes a long way, right? so you do get it now, m not saying she was exactly a saint, but at least she knew better than to count the money right in front of me. Gotta appreciate those tiny gestures of respect.
Also,
She usually wrapped up work by 5 PM, but she always managed to make exceptions for me, staying past her usual clock-out time, knowing my schedule. That’s probably why our meetings often ran longer...we’d end up chatting about all sorts of random things.
In her later years, she raised her rates, but she always charged her old and regular clients the same rates as when she first started.
She was quite the popular girl in the business, So, anyone who’s been around in this game for a while and has a bit of experience would probably have a pretty good idea of who I’m talking about.. She retired a couple of years ago though.

K

AMIRITE?