Have you ever had a regular not charge you?

[Colston36]

Taking out a loan to buy gifts for prostitutes is a TERRIBLE idea. (And this is coming from a prostitute btw)

 

Maybe you should be buying your girlfriend nice things instead….

Taking a loan out for any reason except buying property is usually unwise, but this is insane.

[LLPunting]

I appreciate the insight. But not that it bothered me even if she did, but, you know, at least she had the decency not to do it right in front of me, also, she never even touched the money on the table before I left... I mean, a little bit of class goes a long way, right? so you do get it now, m not saying she was exactly a saint, but at least she knew better than to count the money right in front of me. Gotta appreciate those tiny gestures of respect.
Also,
She usually wrapped up work by 5 PM, but she always managed to make exceptions for me, staying past her usual clock-out time, knowing my schedule. That’s probably why our meetings often ran longer...we’d end up chatting about all sorts of random things.
In her later years, she raised her rates, but she always charged her old and regular clients the same rates as when she first started.
She was quite the popular girl in the business, So, anyone who’s been around in this game for a while and has a bit of experience would probably have a pretty good idea of who I’m talking about.. She retired a couple of years ago though.

"Class" and "respect" would be not putting the money openly on the table at the start.  If you need to pretend it's not a paid sex encounter between trusting friends then I recommend handing the money to her inside an enveloped thankyou card or wrapped gift.  East Asians might appreciate something similar to the Chinese giving of red hong bao.  Koreans use white envelopes. Colour may symbolise the occasion so avoid colours associated with funerals.

[Spidey69]

I don’t need to “pretend” to have class or respect because I earn it naturally..through who I am and how I carry myself. And guess what? I already did. So, you can keep your piece of advice, seal it in an envelope of whatever color u want, and keep it safe. You might need it someday.
Your idea of class seems to revolve around societal norms of appearances and illusions, but let me tell u, it isn’t about hiding realities or dressing things up to make them more palatable. It’s about authenticity, confidence, and owning who you are without pretense. So, spare me the etiquette lesson, I don’t need it.

[JustaPunter]

I don’t need to “pretend” to have class or respect because I earn it naturally..through who I am and how I carry myself. And guess what? I already did. So, you can keep your piece of advice, seal it in an envelope of whatever color u want, and keep it safe. You might need it someday.
Your idea of class seems to revolve around societal norms of appearances and illusions, but let me tell u, it isn’t about hiding realities or dressing things up to make them more palatable. It’s about authenticity, confidence, and owning who you are without pretense. So, spare me the etiquette lesson, I don’t need it.

You’re trolling, right?

Though the use of American spellings makes me thing that could be the case

[nfarday]

Around 25 years ago I had a punt with a young lady in London's Notting Hill area and a few days later she messaged me to come see her for free, as she had enjoyed what I had done. I took her up on that and we had an amazing time for a couple of hours at no cost.

[daviemac]

Around 25 years ago I had a punt with a young lady in London's Notting Hill area and a few days later she messaged me to come see her for free, as she had enjoyed what I had done. I took her up on that and we had an amazing time for a couple of hours at no cost.

Aye, then you woke up.

Any reason you haven't bothered to post any reviews since you joined?

[advent2016]

Taking a loan out for any reason except buying property is usually unwise, but this is insane.

Long ago, when I had a real sex addiction I was taking out money (£100) on credit cards to to pay for a punt when my current account was near zero. Some years ago I started paying money into my credit card after a purchase so that at statement time my balance was near zero. I used to laugh at people until I had a sizeable credit card debt and was paying interest. When I worked briefly for a bank they only allowed two types of interest paid loan debt - Mortage and a car loan

[Veinspulser]

My more than five year regular (who we have with something like Seeking meets) never counted cash in front me.
One day I left acasionally the bath door open and have seen in mirror as soon I was in she grabbed it from the table and counted very professionaly.
Then she spotted me but I pretend that not watching...

Well, such is life!

[Heph]

My more than five year regular (who we have with something like Seeking meets) never counted cash in front me.
One day I left acasionally the bath door open and have seen in mirror as soon I was in she grabbed it from the table and counted very professionaly.
Then she spotted me but I pretend that not watching...

Well, such is life!

They always count- and take note if you short-charge them, even if it's not raised with you. But then, why wouldn't they?

[signy]

They always count- and take note if you short-charge them, even if it's not raised with you. But then, why wouldn't they?

Of course they do, and rightly so. Especially with notes direct from an ATM, it's easy to make an innocent mistake. Recently, I gave the escort the money soon after entry as usual, but on getting to the shower I found a £20 note left caught in my pocket; nipped out and gave it to her before she even noticed, but shows how easy it is to do. That's before we get onto people who think they are being clever by underpaying (stealing) for anything in life by a few pounds.

[Boi79]

General reply to all of you I appreciate the words and opinions I’m not some arrogant prick who just needs a ego boost, my heads just kind of scrambled as the last meet was in fact last night/this early morning. She just messaged me about 20 mins ago asking if I’m coming again. I’m going to decline as going bb was stupid I need to lay off a bit. However my post was more so a of a feeler to see if anyone’s been in a situation like this before with a WG. That way I can see if it’s just a ploy to keep me coming back or she genuinely likes me. I’m sure there’s an attraction there but it’s weird because it went up a notch ultimately with that last meet once I told her I had a GF, Mind you me and her are practically over just going through the motions at this point. But it’s as though since I told her that she goes the extra mile when I see her. Anyways i reckon I’ll see her again once I get tested and report back in due time I’ll probably drop her AW link.

Has he told anyone who she actually is?

[boardyhell]

kid you ever try anal

[Ivor Hunch]

Of course they do, and rightly so. Especially with notes direct from an ATM, it's easy to make an innocent mistake. Recently, I gave the escort the money soon after entry as usual, but on getting to the shower I found a £20 note left caught in my pocket; nipped out and gave it to her before she even noticed, but shows how easy it is to do. That's before we get onto people who think they are being clever by underpaying (stealing) for anything in life by a few pounds.

There might be an interesting question around consent here.  If an escort consents to sex for, say, £200 in advance, and you deliberately only pay £180, does the sex become non-consensual, with the panoply of potential consequences that would bring?

[Thehatedone]

Week ago, some lady gave me over an hour free first time seeing her.
She was much older than me though but not bad looking at all.
 At the end I felt embarrassed so I told her I must leave. Im an ugly mug not sure why she done it. Perhaps she felt sorry for me but then Ive never known an escort to have any genuine empathy for clients. Perhaps she had nothing better to do.

Few days ago a lady let me have an extra for free, my second visit.
 I tried to pay her she said "dont be in such a rush" or something to that effect we never discussed payment after that...

[daviemac]

Week ago, some lady gave me over an hour free first time seeing her.
She was much older than me though but not bad looking at all.
 At the end I felt embarrassed so I told her I must leave. Im an ugly mug not sure why she done it. Perhaps she felt sorry for me but then Ive never known an escort to have any genuine empathy for clients. Perhaps she had nothing better to do.

Few days ago a lady let me have an extra for free, my second visit.
 I tried to pay her she said "dont be in such a rush" or something to that effect we never discussed payment after that...

How about posting some reviews of all these escorts you've seen, it is what the site is all about.