Porsha_xx - not received refund yet [Resolved]

[gurds]

Seen Porsha twice before in London, was a good time. She's a nice girl and gave her positives on both occasions.

Last London tour I booked and had to give a deposit of 1/2 the incall rate as she said she was fully booked, never had to give deposit previously.

Meet didn't happen as she had a problem with train delays, so is not her fault but she said she will refund deposit on Saturday but still haven't received the refund of deposit.

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[patelprat]

Might just be a genuine delay. Give it a few more days I'd say, especially as it was a weekend.
Unless there are other red flags likes she's blocked you, number doesn't work etc.

[gurds]

Update: refund been sorted now, have received.

[Ron89]

Leveraging ukp for a refund I absolutely love it.

[Porsha97]

This is a really unfair review and I'd like to say my piece. I came to London to work for the weekend and became fully booked several days before I was meant to arrive and asked everyone including my regulars to pay a deposit as I was turning people away for booking. My train was delayed for 2 hours and I had to cancel a few clients including this gentleman. I apologised and have even sent him proof and offered him a refund as we couldn't reschedule. I was a few days late sending it as I have been fully booked the entire weekend and have only just got 2 seconds to do so. This review didn't force me to refund him as he told me he had posted this after I'd sent him the refund and apologised again. I can't believe my first bad review is due to a 2 hour train delay completely out of my hands.

[scutty brown]

two hours delay?
Don't forget to claim for delay repay - you should be able to get the whole fare back

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[patelprat]

Update: refund been sorted now, have received.

Told you

Maybe nothing to do with UKP.

[Porsha97]

I have they're issuing me a full refund, thank you

[gurds]

Would like to say as well that Porsha is one of the best escorts around, great body and very friendly. I gave her 2 positive reviews previously as had a great time with her.

Don't want this negative review to hurt her.

Only reason I posted negative was because of delay in receiving refund. But I understand that she was busy on the weekend.
Maybe I could have waited a few more days for the refund before I posted negative review if still hadn't received it.

[massagepuntingfan]

Bit confused - Gurds did you write the review before the Lady refunded you?
If so you had been waiting 2 days to be refunded and I too would have questioned whether that money was coming back to me. Looks like it's all sorted now but personally I would have expected repayment to come back quicker, no matter how busy we all can be with work/life etc it takes 5 mins to refund.

[finn5555]

Would like to say as well that Porsha is one of the best escorts around, great body and very friendly. I gave her 2 positive reviews previously as had a great time with her.

Don't want this negative review to hurt her.

Despite this review now giving her 3 negatives I don't think you are going to damage her reputation. 

We all know trains get delayed, and you have had your refund as promised.

To be fair unless she was doing back to back bookings transferring money takes seconds nowadays. So her excuse is a little poor.

 

[gurds]

Bit confused - Gurds did you write the review before the Lady refunded you?
If so you had been waiting 2 days to be refunded and I too would have questioned whether that money was coming back to me. Looks like it's all sorted now but personally I would have expected repayment to come back quicker, no matter how busy we all can be with work/life etc it takes 5 mins to refund.

Yh wrote review today before the refund was received. I was expecting it Saturday as per aw message. So was two days later than I expected.

Mods can modify my review to neutral instead of negative. Just that she is a great escort overall so don't want to hurt her reputation.

[patelprat]

Yh wrote review today before the refund was received. I was expecting it Saturday as per aw message. So was two days later than I expected.

Mods can modify my review to neutral instead of negative. Just that she is a great escort overall so don't want to hurt her reputation.

Yes sometimes it's just a genuine thing. No point rushing straight to the worst conclusion if you have seen her before.

[jesse4585]

Would like to say as well that Porsha is one of the best escorts around, great body and very friendly. I gave her 2 positive reviews previously as had a great time with her.

Good on you for posting this Gurds. It's been a couple of years since I even tried to arrange an AW punt as I prefer the ease of agency bookings. But adding Porsha to the hotlist, looks great and it's been a while since I had a fellow brit.

[PilotMan]

@Porsha97

The fact that you took the time to come on here and explain says a lot in my book 

[PumpDump]

At the least it shows her lack of respect for you, she should have been on her app at the first opportunity to return your money. I cant see why it could have taken any longer than the end of the working day in which you asked for it. Bad form.

If the roles were reversed, let's say during a booking you requested an extra paid for service, and she agreed you could transfer the money after the appointment. But two days later you had yet to transfer. Would she have considered that acceptable? I think not.

[patelprat]

If there's an unexpected delay, first thing is to follow up with the SP, not straight post here.

[finn5555]

If there's an unexpected delay, first thing is to follow up with the SP, not straight post here.

What's to say he didn't do that 

[patelprat]

What's to say he didn't do that 

Maybe he did chase, but wasn't mentioned above.

[jesse4585]

I cant see why it could have taken any longer than the end of the working day

Well I can.  It may only takes seconds to send money if you already have someone as a Payee. But on many apps, it takes about 5 mins to send money to a new person the first time as you have to set them up as a Payee, pass security checks etc.  She said she was fully booked and might have been stressed due to the hassle of the 2 hour train delay.  So understandable if she didn't feel up to transacting the refund straight after her last punter.  For many people, if they try to work apps when they're tired they're more at risk of sending money to the wrong person. Nothing to do with not respecting Gurds, she's met him twice so of course she'd respect him.

Not meaning to have a go PD, or to white knight. It's just annoying so many are so judgement of young people these days. There's about 800,000 16-24 year olds in UK  neither in education or looking for work and in many cases the cause is being stressed out by all the nonsense typed out on the internet.

[massagepuntingfan]

At the least it shows her lack of respect for you, she should have been on her app at the first opportunity to return your money. I cant see why it could have taken any longer than the end of the working day in which you asked for it. Bad form.

If the roles were reversed, let's say during a booking you requested an extra paid for service, and she agreed you could transfer the money after the appointment. But two days later you had yet to transfer. Would she have considered that acceptable? I think not.

I agree with this. £130 is a large deposit - had the SP refunded quickly as is common courtesy then she wouldn't have the review. To whinge that the review is unfair, is IMO well a bit unfair of her!

[PumpDump]

Well I can.  It may only takes seconds to send money if you already have someone as a Payee. But on many apps, it takes about 5 mins to send money to a new person the first time as you have to set them up as a Payee, pass security checks etc.  She said she was fully booked and might have been stressed due to the hassle of the 2 hour train delay.  So understandable if she didn't feel up to transacting the refund straight after her last punter.  For many people, if they try to work apps when they're tired they're more at risk of sending money to the wrong person. Nothing to do with not respecting Gurds, she's met him twice so of course she'd respect him.

Not meaning to have a go PD, or to white knight. It's just annoying so many are so judgement of young people these days. There's about 800,000 16-24 year olds in UK  neither in education or looking for work and in many cases the cause is being stressed out by all the nonsense typed out on the internet.

Thanks for calling me young, I will take that as a compliment 

Seriously though, it is bullshit. He was not important enough for her to give his money back in a timely manner. There is no reason it should take > 48 hours it did. I bet if it was something she really wanted for herself, she would have no problem jumping through hoops at the end of a working day.

And another thing is Porsha should have held her hands up and apologised instead of making excuses.

[gurds]

Alls well that ends well.

I think what a lot of SPs don't realise is that if you are a good looking escort and young, loads of men will see you even if you have loads of negative reviews.

English Lucy is a good example, I am still considering seeing her at some point despite some negatives. Escort scene nowadays is grim in that there are only a handful of very good looking escorts that give good service.

[jakplo22]

Well I can.  It may only takes seconds to send money if you already have someone as a Payee. But on many apps, it takes about 5 mins to send money to a new person the first time as you have to set them up as a Payee, pass security checks etc.  She said she was fully booked and might have been stressed due to the hassle of the 2 hour train delay.  So understandable if she didn't feel up to transacting the refund straight after her last punter.  For many people, if they try to work apps when they're tired they're more at risk of sending money to the wrong person. Nothing to do with not respecting Gurds, she's met him twice so of course she'd respect him.

Not meaning to have a go PD, or to white knight. It's just annoying so many are so judgement of young people these days. There's about 800,000 16-24 year olds in UK  neither in education or looking for work and in many cases the cause is being stressed out by all the nonsense typed out on the internet.

I have the cheapest phone there is and I can do it in less than five minutes. People whom you owe money should be treated as a priority imho.

[petercamford]

So much fuss and fighting about nothing
 I feel sorry for both Porsha and Gurds. Let it go everyone. Simple misunderstandings/ slips : its life.

[Atrueyorkie]

Would like to say as well that Porsha is one of the best escorts around, great body and very friendly. I gave her 2 positive reviews previously as had a great time with her.

Don't want this negative review to hurt her.

Only reason I posted negative was because of delay in receiving refund. But I understand that she was busy on the weekend.
Maybe I could have waited a few more days for the refund before I posted negative review if still hadn't received it.

What nonsense from both of you.

I didn’t want it to hurt her? What’d you think it would do? Make her into the next pop star??

You at the time posted a relevant negative. Someone delayed sending your money back. A deposit is temporary hold. Her excuse for train delays or whatever is irrelevant for sending your money back promptly. Anyone with internet banking and a decent cellular connection can do it in 5 minutes.

Quick to take the deposit, and slow to give it back.

[Atrueyorkie]

At the least it shows her lack of respect for you, she should have been on her app at the first opportunity to return your money. I cant see why it could have taken any longer than the end of the working day in which you asked for it. Bad form.

If the roles were reversed, let's say during a booking you requested an extra paid for service, and she agreed you could transfer the money after the appointment. But two days later you had yet to transfer. Would she have considered that acceptable? I think not.

I agree with this take, returning your money was low on her pecking order. Might not even have been on it if you didn’t create the review.

[scutty brown]

At the least it shows her lack of respect for you, she should have been on her app at the first opportunity to return your money. I cant see why it could have taken any longer than the end of the working day in which you asked for it. Bad form.

If the roles were reversed, let's say during a booking you requested an extra paid for service, and she agreed you could transfer the money after the appointment. But two days later you had yet to transfer. Would she have considered that acceptable? I think not.

To put it simply, what a load of bollocks.
Her logistics went to ratshit through no fault of her own, she was probably scrambling around ass-to-tit trying to make sense of  her bookings and how to recover as many as possible. She obviously wouldn't want to launch refunds for everyone until she was certain of who she could/couldn't see or rebook. Besides which if she'd tried to reverse too many payments at one go her bank may well have queried things and stopped  the job.
Those of you criticising her haven't a clue over practicalities.

[jamiekinkxxx]

So much fuss and fighting about nothing
 I feel sorry for both Porsha and Gurds. Let it go everyone. Simple misunderstandings/ slips : its life.

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[PilotMan]

We can all look at things from the outside and think everything is as simple as we want it to be. We often make judgements based on how we see everything, without consideration for others or their personal circumstances.

Life isn't like that, there are always things going on, people, situations, delays and setbacks.

I don't think a refund on the Monday following the weekend was unreasonable, and Porsha stated that the refund was sent before the review was written.

[Stevelondon]

To put it simply, what a load of bollocks.
Her logistics went to ratshit through no fault of her own, she was probably scrambling around ass-to-tit trying to make sense of  her bookings and how to recover as many as possible. She obviously wouldn't want to launch refunds for everyone until she was certain of who she could/couldn't see or rebook. Besides which if she'd tried to reverse too many payments at one go her bank may well have queried things and stopped  the job.
Those of you criticising her haven't a clue over practicalities.

Well said scutty.
Let’s face it. We all know punters are the most impatient people on the planet. 🤷🏼😂

Good luck to gurds every trying to get another booking with this SP 

[patelprat]

Hopefully you're not blacklisted gurds.

[SantanaCarlos]

I was a few days late sending it as I have been fully booked the entire weekend and have only just got 2 seconds to do so. This review didn't force me to refund him as he told me he had posted this after I'd sent him the refund and apologised again. I can't believe my first bad review is due to a 2 hour train delay completely out of my hands.

Scandalous! She's having you on 

Yh wrote review today before the refund was received. I was expecting it Saturday as per aw message. So was two days later than I expected.

Let's have it right, had you not posted this, Gurds - you would have never got your money back still been waiting for your hard-earned. Count yourself lucky, I say

There could be more punters in your situation, but they don't have UKP to call her out and get their money back n'all.

After all, she was "fully booked" but still wanted to take more bookings by deposit only?  Humorous!

At the least it shows her lack of respect for you, she should have been on her app at the first opportunity to return your money. I cant see why it could have taken any longer than the end of the working day in which you asked for it. Bad form.

If the roles were reversed, let's say during a booking you requested an extra paid for service, and she agreed you could transfer the money after the appointment. But two days later you had yet to transfer. Would she have considered that acceptable? I think not.

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[Stealthmode]

To put it simply, what a load of bollocks.
Her logistics went to ratshit through no fault of her own, she was probably scrambling around ass-to-tit trying to make sense of  her bookings and how to recover as many as possible. She obviously wouldn't want to launch refunds for everyone until she was certain of who she could/couldn't see or rebook. Besides which if she'd tried to reverse too many payments at one go her bank may well have queried things and stopped  the job.
Those of you criticising her haven't a clue over practicalities.

Having worked in banking and a bank for many years this take is
incorrect.

Even if she was able to rearrange then she should have refunded first and then have them resend the deposit if they wanted to set another date, the only acceptable alternative is if she immediately followed up with OP and asked how he wanted to proceed. Absolutely no one would complain about getting the funds back and then having to resend a second time. Holding onto it for an extended period is unacceptable in my opinion.

[last_days_of_logan]

After all this I'm putting her on the hotlist

wonder who is better between her and baby ariel?

[dboy74]

I can't believe my first bad review is due to a 2 hour train delay completely out of my hands.

Not your first 

[Colston36]

To put it simply, what a load of bollocks.
Her logistics went to ratshit through no fault of her own, she was probably scrambling around ass-to-tit trying to make sense of  her bookings and how to recover as many as possible. She obviously wouldn't want to launch refunds for everyone until she was certain of who she could/couldn't see or rebook. Besides which if she'd tried to reverse too many payments at one go her bank may well have queried things and stopped  the job.
Those of you criticising her haven't a clue over practicalities.

Totally agree. Many "legitimate" companies are slower than she was - and escorting, though lucrative, is very stressful. You never really know what's coming through the door.

[gurds]

After all this I'm putting her on the hotlist

wonder who is better between her and baby ariel?

I like them both. Ariel's ass in doggy is amazing though, Ariel's ass reminds me of bethfit when she had a bigger ass before.

Porsha better owo skills.

[Jokerface]

Having worked in banking and a bank for many years this take is
incorrect.

Even if she was able to rearrange then she should have refunded first and then have them resend the deposit if they wanted to set another date, the only acceptable alternative is if she immediately followed up with OP and asked how he wanted to proceed. Absolutely no one would complain about getting the funds back and then having to resend a second time. Holding onto it for an extended period is unacceptable in my opinion.

+ 1

[Ren2495]

I’ve been scammed 150£ by this escort. Doesn’t reply back to messages to confirm booking once i paid deposit.

[daviemac]

I’ve been scammed 150£ by this escort. Doesn’t reply back to messages to confirm booking once i paid deposit.

Is there a reason you haven't posted any reviews during your 2 1/2 years of membership?

[Ren2495]

I’ve been in and out of country for past 2 years. I’ve only punted a handful of times but I can confirm this escort is nasty peace of work!  Scammed me!! and I’ve got evidence to back it up.

[Garyhart]

I’ve been in and out of country for past 2 years. I’ve only punted a handful of times but I can confirm this escort is nasty peace of work!  Scammed me!! and I’ve got evidence to back it up.

If you’ve punted recently post it. If the Porscha thing was also recent, let us know more of the details

[Ren2495]

 she asked me to pay deposit to secure booking. I obliged and paid 150£. I’ve sent her 4 messages to confirm if she’d   received it. No replies, silenced for almost 2 hours. So I kindly asked for refund. 2 minutes after I get text saying sorry I was busy blah blah.😑. By this point I replied saying I’m not interested in booking no longer. She replies back says deposit are non refundable 😠

[Spidey69]

I honestly don’t think “being busy” was a genuine excuse. We’re not in the 1980s where you had to stand in a bank queue just to make a transfer. I get it..sometimes we all feel a bit lazy, even with small stuff. But when it involves someone else and trust is on the line, saying you didn’t have two minutes in an entire day? That just sounds a bit ridiculous.

What’s more frustrating is that she didn’t hesitate for a second to ask for the upfront payment when the booking was made, even though he’d already seen her twice and left good reviews. And it’s not even like @gurds asked for the refund the moment she cancelled on him..he actually agreed to the time she preferred.

At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter how much money we’re talking about... If you’re so particular about your own time and money, you really shouldn’t expect others to just sit quietly, wait with no response from the other side, and be okay with being messed around. Respect works both ways.

[Colston36]

This is a really unfair review and I'd like to say my piece. I came to London to work for the weekend and became fully booked several days before I was meant to arrive and asked everyone including my regulars to pay a deposit as I was turning people away for booking. My train was delayed for 2 hours and I had to cancel a few clients including this gentleman. I apologised and have even sent him proof and offered him a refund as we couldn't reschedule. I was a few days late sending it as I have been fully booked the entire weekend and have only just got 2 seconds to do so. This review didn't force me to refund him as he told me he had posted this after I'd sent him the refund and apologised again. I can't believe my first bad review is due to a 2 hour train delay completely out of my hands.

Fair do's.

[scutty brown]

she asked me to pay deposit to secure booking. I obliged and paid 150£. I’ve sent her 4 messages to confirm if she’d   received it. No replies, silenced for almost 2 hours. So I kindly asked for refund. 2 minutes after I get text saying sorry I was busy blah blah.😑. By this point I replied saying I’m not interested in booking no longer. She replies back says deposit are non refundable 😠

just when was this? and where was it supposed to happen?

[daviemac]

I’ve been in and out of country for past 2 years. I’ve only punted a handful of times but I can confirm this escort is nasty peace of work!  Scammed me!! and I’ve got evidence to back it up.

Please don't think we're stupid or that we won't check, you were logging in regularly in this country up until Oct 2024 using one of two ISP's, between Oct '24 (not even 1 year ago) and May this year you were out of the country, since May logging in from the UK again.

As you have now shown you are capable of being dishonest and the fact the issue referred to in this thread has been resolved I personally don't believe what you are saying about this escort.

[Ren2495]

How do you know I’m being dishonest? Do you want me post screenshots of messages?  I literally seen about 4 escorts since 2023. Hence why I didn’t bother posting reviews.

[PilotMan]

I literally seen about 4 escorts since 2023. Hence why I didn’t bother posting reviews.

Is that not an Oxymoron?