this SP not letting me have any more meets with her after this review unfortunately.
Tbh what actually happened is I was waiting over weekend for refund, still hadn't received it by early Monday, so then I posted review here. Some mins after review posted the refund appeared. She texted saying refund had been sorted, then I told her about review. She wasn't aware of the review at that time.
Is what it is, had I waited a bit longer before doing review then I would have received refund and wouldn't need to do review. Just impatience.
How do you know she did not know about your review and just coincidentally refunded you the deposit some minutes after....
She checks this forum regularly (according to her reviews) so she probably knew about your review and now another member is saying she recently scammed him.
Until we have escrow type of services which lockup your deposit in a smart contract until you meet the SP then you both sign a digital transaction to release the funds to whichever party it should go to based on the terms agreed. Until something like that happens do not pay deposits!!
Even if we do get an escrow type of service, it provides a digital trace of your activity so your anonymity is gone.
Just stick to cash only for the full amount.