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Offline Joe112

Anyone read about this? Did anyone see her profile?

Or a link

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Offline big-al93

No, but why would you post a facebook link instead of the link to the actual story?? Which was on the FB page.  :dash:

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Also would this not be best posted in the correct region? I doubt many London punters are likely to have seen her, likewise Scottish or North East.


Offline Stevelondon

Damn. She taught at an infants school.

My jokes work best if she was teaching teenagers.
‘O’.  ‘A’ levels etc

Offline Charliehutton

I suppose the person who dobbed her in is feeling very pleased with themselves.

Does it mean she posed a risk to the infants she taught, or make her less of a teacher? I wouldn't have thought so, but rules is rules, and I can see why she had to go. I daresay she's far from being the only teacher moonlighting in this way. Pricey, mind you, at £120 for half an hour!


Offline Colston36

I suppose the person who dobbed her in is feeling very pleased with themselves.

Does it mean she posed a risk to the infants she taught, or make her less of a teacher? I wouldn't have thought so, but rules is rules, and I can see why she had to go. I daresay she's far from being the only teacher moonlighting in this way. Pricey, mind you, at £120 for half an hour!

Why someone who does this is any less of a teacher mystifies me. I know four women on here who are marvellous mothers. Come to think of it my mother who was a successfu business woman, ran a charity and had half page obituary in the paper had a highly adventurous sex life.

Offline RandomGuy99

Why someone who does this is any less of a teacher mystifies me. I know four women on here who are marvellous mothers. Come to think of it my mother who was a successfu business woman, ran a charity and had half page obituary in the paper had a highly adventurous sex life.
In a time before the internet

Offline Munter84

A shame, as there's nothing immoral about sex, and nothing illegal about selling it. There is no reason she shouldn't have been able to do both jobs, and keep those two sides of her life (very) separate.

Her biggest mistake was uploading anything with her face on it; all plausible deniability is out of the window as soon as you do that. Still, I do hope whoever grassed her up gets some kind of karma for needlessly ruining a young woman's career.

Offline akauya

A shame, as there's nothing immoral about sex, and nothing illegal about selling it. There is no reason she shouldn't have been able to do both jobs, and keep those two sides of her life (very) separate.

Her biggest mistake was uploading anything with her face on it; all plausible deniability is out of the window as soon as you do that. Still, I do hope whoever grassed her up gets some kind of karma for needlessly ruining a young woman's career.

I agree.

Foolish of her to uploads photos, with her face, online. There's so much stigma attached to prostitution you'd think she'd be careful specially being a teacher. Shame; I feel sorry for her. Really nasty of the person who grassed her.

Offline oddson1970

A shame, as there's nothing immoral about sex, and nothing illegal about selling it. There is no reason she shouldn't have been able to do both jobs, and keep those two sides of her life (very) separate.

Her biggest mistake was uploading anything with her face on it; all plausible deniability is out of the window as soon as you do that. Still, I do hope whoever grassed her up gets some kind of karma for needlessly ruining a young woman's career.
totally agree.....nothing  to be gained by grassing her up,do gooding  prick

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Opinion on here will inevitably be biased.  :D
A poll of parent opinion at the primary school would be very different and likely overwhelming.
As a teacher she knew this, but took the risk. She got discovered. It is what it is.

Offline Nathxxx

Opinion on here will inevitably be biased.  :D
A poll of parent opinion at the primary school would be very different and likely overwhelming.
As a teacher she knew this, but took the risk. She got discovered. It is what it is.

But opinions should not trump someone’s rights. She hasn’t broken the law. I would imagine it was fairly common in the 1960s for parents to have an issue with a teacher being black. Let’s say the teacher had a second job as a divorce lawyer (unlikely I know) and did well out of ruined lives, would it be right for parents to say they don’t want her teaching because she does something questionably moral in that role?

Bottom line, just because people don’t like it doesn’t mean her rights should get removed.

Offline DastardlyDick

totally agree.....nothing  to be gained by grassing her up,do gooding  prick
There are several scenarios, wife found hubby has seen her, she refused service etc etc.
If she was on AW, they demanded face pics until fairly recently, so the grass could have seen it there.
I can see why a parent would object to a hooker teaching their kids, especially if she was offering some of the more niche services.

Offline oddson1970

There are several scenarios, wife found hubby has seen her, she refused service etc etc.
If she was on AW, they demanded face pics until fairly recently, so the grass could have seen it there.
I can see why a parent would object to a hooker teaching their kids, especially if she was offering some of the more niche services.
even taking everything you said into consideration,l don't think the girl in question should have her life potentially ruined for what she does in her private life.The fact she turns tricks shouldn't impact on her ability to teach.l had a regular pre covid who had a friend who was a teacher and a very part time escort.She didn't advertise and relied on her friend drumming up a bit of work for her.Her paranoia was understandable given what could happen.
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But opinions should not trump someone’s rights. She hasn’t broken the law.

She is in breach of the terms of her employment contract. All professions have professional standards and expectations as part of that contract. Her only right is to present her case and be judged fairly by those who are tasked with making the decision.

Her actions are deemed to have jeopardised public confidence and trust in the profession. The opinions of parents about a teacher who is also a sex worker are important in evaluating such.

All professions are fully aware of this situation and she has taken a chance.

Outside of professional standards many other employment contracts contain a clause along the lines of 'behaviour that may have a negative impact on the company/business in terms of public opinion'. This had led to a significant number of people losing their jobs who supplement their income on the likes of Onlyfans and are spotted and reported.

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I've shagged a SB who works as a teacher at the comprehensive I went to...

Offline Charliehutton


Her only right is to present her case and be judged fairly by those who are tasked with making the decision.


Aye, which meant she had no chance, not in the era of that ghastly, pernicious cover-your-arse word 'inappropriate'. Even after her 5 year ban she'll never be employed in teaching again, because it would be 'inappropriate'. Rules is rules, but it's still a shame.

Offline nombre

She has a right to privacy in her personal life, and if her work as a teacher wasn't affected, some might say her private business shouldn't matter. Whether it's fair to fire her depends on balancing her privacy with what her job and community expect. Teachers are expected to be role models, and some people might think her side job goes against that.

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But opinions should not trump someone’s rights. She hasn’t broken the law. I would imagine it was fairly common in the 1960s for parents to have an issue with a teacher being black. Let’s say the teacher had a second job as a divorce lawyer (unlikely I know) and did well out of ruined lives, would it be right for parents to say they don’t want her teaching because she does something questionably moral in that role?

Bottom line, just because people don’t like it doesn’t mean her rights should get removed.
Have I missed something? where does it say she has committed or been charged with a crime?  :unknown: She was barred from teaching for breaching professional standards.

What is immoral about divorce lawyers representing the parties involved?  :unknown:

BTW things have moved on from what happened in the past.

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I've shagged a SB who works as a teacher at the comprehensive I went to...

How old were you at the time?

Offline myothernameis

I suppose the person who dobbed her in is feeling very pleased with themselves.

Does it mean she posed a risk to the infants she taught, or make her less of a teacher? I wouldn't have thought so, but rules is rules, and I can see why she had to go. I daresay she's far from being the only teacher moonlighting in this way. Pricey, mind you, at £120 for half an hour!


Wouldn't surprise me if its been a jealous wife, and outraged at what the teacher is doing

Offline jakplo22

I suppose uninvolved people reading this article will be thinking "£1,600-a-night" is expensive, when it's actually kind of a bargain for an overnight.

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How old were you at the time?
Mid 40's, but I'm very young looking...

Offline big-al93

I suppose uninvolved people reading this article will be thinking "£1,600-a-night" is expensive, when it's actually kind of a bargain for an overnight.

I wouldn't have said a bargain, although maybe not over the top either. Her half hour rate was definitely quite high though.

Offline Nathxxx

Have I missed something? where does it say she has committed or been charged with a crime?  :unknown: She was barred from teaching for breaching professional standards.

What is immoral about divorce lawyers representing the parties involved?  :unknown:

BTW things have moved on from what happened in the past.

Having your job taken away is in breach of human rights unless justified. I reasoned it as unjustifiable .  How is having a second job considered in breach of a profession? Like it or not, escorting is not illegal in the UK (it would be different in the US, for example). I was also suggesting that some may view lawyers as acting immorally (surely I am not alone in being aware that lawyers can be viewed negatively), but again my point was that should not be a reason to deny someone of their job.

Offline willie loman

I wouldn't have said a bargain, although maybe not over the top either. Her half hour rate was definitely quite high though.

i would be astonished if she had even had one client on an overnight, 1600 is insanely expensive, i reckon she was going for the 30 minute market.

Offline willie loman

totally agree.....nothing  to be gained by grassing her up,do gooding  prick

i would bet my life savings , that she was grassed up  a mate, its unlikely a do gooder would have come across her profile.

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She is in breach of the terms of her employment contract. All professions have professional standards and expectations as part of that contract.

Her actions are deemed to have jeopardised public confidence and trust in the profession. The opinions of parents about a teacher who is also a sex worker are important in evaluating such.

All professions are fully aware of this situation and she has taken a chance.

Outside of professional standards many other employment contracts contain a clause along the lines of 'behaviour that may have a negative impact on the company/business in terms of public opinion'. This had led to a significant number of people losing their jobs who supplement their income on the likes of Onlyfans and are spotted and reported.

but again my point was that should not be a reason to deny someone of their job.

as the Doc says, you agree certain terms and conditions when you accept the offer of a job. Because you think it OK to be a teacher and an escort, doesn't matter. Its what she agreed to in accepting the job. Whilst on here (UKP) many of us might think "so what? she can do both jobs, no harm done!" - most other teachers and most parents etc would not agree with us!

In the commercial world, bring the organisation/company into "disrepute" (ie doing something even in your own time which the organisation does not regard as fitting in with its ethos, values or brand can get you fired. That is fact. She must have known that if she got caught, she would get dismissed!


Offline willie loman

We may disagree, but its long been accepted that if you do certain jobs, teacher, police , nurse etc, you cannot work in the sex industry,she knew the risk , she took it, If sex work ever stops being a taboo, prices will tumble thats for sure, but its not going to happen any day soon,,

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She is in breach of the terms of her employment contract. All professions have professional standards and expectations as part of that contract.

This  :thumbsup:
Banned reason: Can’t stop having a pop at punters, on a punting forum, warned to many times now, no more!!
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Offline alabama1

Having your job taken away is in breach of human rights unless justified. I reasoned it as unjustifiable .  How is having a second job considered in breach of a profession? Like it or not, escorting is not illegal in the UK (it would be different in the US, for example). I was also suggesting that some may view lawyers as acting immorally (surely I am not alone in being aware that lawyers can be viewed negatively), but again my point was that should not be a reason to deny someone of their job.
Every single word you have written is complete bollocks mate.  :drinks:

Offline Jameson20

She looks hot in a GND way. If she does £100 for 30 and takes a facial I'm there.
 

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Having your job taken away is in breach of human rights unless justified. I reasoned it as unjustifiable .  How is having a second job considered in breach of a profession? Like it or not, escorting is not illegal in the UK (it would be different in the US, for example). I was also suggesting that some may view lawyers as acting immorally (surely I am not alone in being aware that lawyers can be viewed negatively), but again my point was that should not be a reason to deny someone of their job.
She signed a contract of employment when she took the job, she was in breach of the terms and conditions of that contract. Are you really saying that no matter what an employee does by way of having a total disregard for the conditions of employment they shouldn't be sacked?

Actions have consequences, by joining this site you agreed to abide by rules as laid down, if you don't you get banned, she chose not to abide by the rules of her job so she got sacked what's the difference.   :unknown:

Offline DastardlyDick

I wouldn't have said a bargain, although maybe not over the top either. Her half hour rate was definitely quite high though.
I suppose the vfm would depend on how many services that you enjoy are included in the price.

Offline JontyR

Having read through the verdict it strikes me that her was a woman thast really needed a decent union rep. External Link/Members Only

If I was an SP reading this though I'd be seeking to contact my own union or equivalent because there are some pretty discriminatory things in the verdict about the perception of sex work and to maintain that this perception is maintained:

"The fact that Ms Barguss had been seeking to sell sexual services and the
impact that this could have had on pupils’ perceptions of the sex work industry was a
significant factor in forming that opinion. Accordingly, the panel made a recommendation
to the Secretary of State that a prohibition order should be imposed with immediate
effect.
"

I'm certainly not suggesting that promotion of sex work is something that should be after double maths on Thursday morning. But isn't there a need to stop presenting that you can't be a sex worker if you are educated or capable of a "professional career"

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"The fact that Ms Barguss had been seeking to sell sexual services and the
impact that this could have had on pupils’ perceptions of the sex work industry was a
significant factor in forming that opinion. Accordingly, the panel made a recommendation
to the Secretary of State that a prohibition order should be imposed with immediate
effect.

What a load of rubbish! I would like to think that Primary School pupils don't have "perceptions of the sex work industry" in the first place, and secondly, why would she tell them? "Hello children, today,  I'm going to teach you about my other job as a prostitute, which I have to do because my teachers pay is rubbish." Yeah, right!

Offline Blackpool Rock

Having read through the verdict it strikes me that her was a woman thast really needed a decent union rep. External Link/Members Only

If I was an SP reading this though I'd be seeking to contact my own union or equivalent because there are some pretty discriminatory things in the verdict about the perception of sex work and to maintain that this perception is maintained:

"The fact that Ms Barguss had been seeking to sell sexual services and the
impact that this could have had on pupils’ perceptions of the sex work industry was a
significant factor in forming that opinion. Accordingly, the panel made a recommendation
to the Secretary of State that a prohibition order should be imposed with immediate
effect.
"

I'm certainly not suggesting that promotion of sex work is something that should be after double maths on Thursday morning. But isn't there a need to stop presenting that you can't be a sex worker if you are educated or capable of a "professional career"
There have been previous threads on here about police officers who had been offering sexual services with the knowledge of their bosses so this thing about certain jobs not allowing it isn't perhaps as cut and dry as people are making out  :unknown:

Selling sex isn't illegal therefore she hasn't broken the law but yet again this seems to come down to historical taboos of sex and in particular prostitution, society's views have changed on many things over the years but on this it's still stuck in the past.

Plenty of other things she could have done that are illegal but I doubt she would have lost her job however many people would be of the opinion that they were worse than selling sex (although I accept my view of prostitution may be more liberal than the average person).
What if she was taking recreational drugs or got caught drink driving  :unknown: Far worse in my own personal opinion and both can result in a criminal record but it's questionable whether she would get sacked for it, more likely they would "work with her" to overcome any issues and conclude it was the stress of the job that was the root cause blah blah blah

What about if she was attending a swingers club so getting fucked by 10 or 12 guys but not charging  :unknown:
What about simply going to a party; getting pissed then it gets out of hand and she fucks a few blokes  :unknown:
Surely all these things could also cause reputational damage too but it's the taboo about paid sex specifically that people object to

It's only 50 or 60 years since you could be imprisoned for being gay yet it's not a barrier to being a teacher and plenty of stories of teaching quite young children (too young to really know what they are being taught) that gay relationships are perfectly normal and actively pushing it.
I'm sure plenty of parents are probably of the opinion that they wouldn't want someone who is gay teaching their kids and they don't want them being taught about gay relationships either yet any complaint wouldn't be held up would it  :unknown:

I'm waiting for someone to now jump on the above paragraph and take it the wrong way so just to confirm i'm not saying gay people shouldn't teach etc but using it as an example of how morals and standards have changed drastically for some things yet for other things they are still stuck in the past

This is part of the problem with people quoting morals and moral standards as what is moral / immoral to one person is deemed normal by others, so who decides  :unknown:

Offline Bedasha

Why is this allowed to be reported in the media?
 She hasn't committed a crime, she has a right to privacy!

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There have been previous threads on here about police officers who had been offering sexual services with the knowledge of their bosses so this thing about certain jobs not allowing it isn't perhaps as cut and dry as people are making out  :unknown:

Selling sex isn't illegal therefore she hasn't broken the law but yet again this seems to come down to historical taboos of sex and in particular prostitution, society's views have changed on many things over the years but on this it's still stuck in the past.

Plenty of other things she could have done that are illegal but I doubt she would have lost her job however many people would be of the opinion that they were worse than selling sex (although I accept my view of prostitution may be more liberal than the average person).
What if she was taking recreational drugs or got caught drink driving  :unknown: Far worse in my own personal opinion and both can result in a criminal record but it's questionable whether she would get sacked for it, more likely they would "work with her" to overcome any issues and conclude it was the stress of the job that was the root cause blah blah blah

What about if she was attending a swingers club so getting fucked by 10 or 12 guys but not charging  :unknown:
What about simply going to a party; getting pissed then it gets out of hand and she fucks a few blokes  :unknown:
Surely all these things could also cause reputational damage too but it's the taboo about paid sex specifically that people object to

It's only 50 or 60 years since you could be imprisoned for being gay yet it's not a barrier to being a teacher and plenty of stories of teaching quite young children (too young to really know what they are being taught) that gay relationships are perfectly normal and actively pushing it.
I'm sure plenty of parents are probably of the opinion that they wouldn't want someone who is gay teaching their kids and they don't want them being taught about gay relationships either yet any complaint wouldn't be held up would it  :unknown:

I'm waiting for someone to now jump on the above paragraph and take it the wrong way so just to confirm i'm not saying gay people shouldn't teach etc but using it as an example of how morals and standards have changed drastically for some things yet for other things they are still stuck in the past

This is part of the problem with people quoting morals and moral standards as what is moral / immoral to one person is deemed normal by others, so who decides  :unknown:

There can be ethical considerations what if she inadvertently has a client who is a parent of a child at school or in her class?

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our rights to privacy are actually few and far between.  It could be argued that the people/public have a right to know! The fact that its not "illegal" is not the issue in this case!

Offline magnetico

Why is this allowed to be reported in the media?
 She hasn't committed a crime, she has a right to privacy!

I was thinking the same thing, but the court records seem to be public, for this specific kind of situation.

See : External Link/Members Only

Medias are happy to expose anyone if it's legal to do so,, but she was publicly exposed first by the government website itself!

She's now going to struggle to find any job, for life.
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our rights to privacy are actually few and far between.  It could be argued that the people/public have a right to know! The fact that its not "illegal" is not the issue in this case!

As I just posted it's not simple.

Also interesting that some punters tell SPs other SPs professional occupations (and real names) during pillow talk, also some write occupations such as nurse, teacher in posts and FRs. I'm wondering if they might think twice about doing so after reading this thread?

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Having read through the verdict it strikes me that her was a woman that really needed a decent union rep.

If I was an SP reading this though I'd be seeking to contact my own union or equivalent because there are some pretty discriminatory things in the verdict about the perception of sex work and to maintain that this perception is maintained:

But isn't there a need to stop presenting that you can't be a sex worker if you are educated or capable of a "professional career"

She will have been represented and as a result admitted both offences and agreed her conduct was unprofessional. She did however deny she was seeking to make money out of the escort profile and that it was just a means of meeting 'like minded' people. That seems a very feeble defence and not surprisingly the panel dismissed it.

It is not the role of the individual panel to decide if a teacher engaged in sex work is unprofessional conduct. This is already largely a given based on the overwhelming view of society. We may not like that and it may be changing slightly, but not to the extent that view can be challenged in cases such as this.

"On balance, the panel considered that Ms Barguss’ conduct was relevant to her position as a teacher, in that as a teacher she is expected to be a role model to students. The
panel considered that it was at least possible that pupils may have been able to find this profile and that viewing their teacher in this way may lead pupils to consider that posting
images of this nature is a way to make money. The panel considered that this was a potentially dangerous perception".

I repeat again, as with all professionals she will have been fully aware of the consequences if she was discovered. With regard to intelligence/education etc of sex workers that is irrelevant to the overall situation here, though it strikes me she wasn't particularly intelligent when setting up her profile.
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I was thinking the same thing, but the court records seem to be public, for this specific kind of situation.

It's not a court, it is a professional conduct hearing. Each profession has its own procedure eg GMC. The findings are made public. As a member of the public, would you be happy if they were not?

Once again she will have been fully aware of this in advance of her decision to set up the profile. She was careless and got caught.

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Also interesting that some punters tell SPs other SPs professional occupations (and real names) during pillow talk, also some write occupations such as nurse, teacher in posts and FRs. I'm wondering if they might think twice about doing so after reading this thread?

Indeed they do, but I don't think that will ever change  :hi:

Offline Blackpool Rock

There can be ethical considerations what if she inadvertently has a client who is a parent of a child at school or in her class?
I do get what you're saying however using the same logic why is there no comeback on the punter booking her  :unknown:
Should the punter have his child's school friends round to visit etc etc, it just opens up a can of worms like throwing a stone in a pond the ripples go in all directions for miles
I'm sure many parents wouldn't want their kids anywhere near a punter or a punters kids as they would view us as lepers or some sort of sexual deviants

Also whoever grassed her up, how did they find out, could be a multitude of ways but if someone was looking on AW then likely they were a punter so total double standards to report it  :thumbsdown:

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I do get what you're saying however using the same logic why is there no comeback on the punter booking her  :unknown:
Should the punter have his child's school friends round to visit etc etc, it just opens up a can of worms like throwing a stone in a pond the ripples go in all directions for miles
I'm sure many parents wouldn't want their kids anywhere near a punter or a punters kids as they would view us as lepers or some sort of sexual deviants

Also whoever grassed her up, how did they find out, could be a multitude of ways but if someone was looking on AW then likely they were a punter so total double standards to report it  :thumbsdown:

Could have been a wife following her husbands browsing history he'd not covered  :unknown:

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I do get what you're saying however using the same logic why is there no comeback on the punter booking her  :unknown:
Should the punter have his child's school friends round to visit etc etc, it just opens up a can of worms like throwing a stone in a pond the ripples go in all directions for miles
I'm sure many parents wouldn't want their kids anywhere near a punter or a punters kids as they would view us as lepers or some sort of sexual deviants

Also whoever grassed her up, how did they find out, could be a multitude of ways but if someone was looking on AW then likely they were a punter so total double standards to report it  :thumbsdown:

To you and I and many others posting here, it may seem double standards if a punter reported it, but let's not forget that many punters have a very low opinion of sex workers.

If we were able to hold an anonymous UKP poll with the question "Would you be happy with your child's primary school teacher being a sex worker?" I would suggest there would be very many who would reply no. Also UKP is not entirely representative of the broader range of punters.


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UKP is not entirely representative of the broader range of punters.

nor of society as a whole - and that is the main issue - whether its her behavour is acceptable to other teachers, teacher bodies, parents and the wider society!