If I went to a swingers party, what would the difference be, compared to this event?
I’m trying to differentiate.
Friend of mine does swingers in Derby, he pays to enter, sometimes gets lucky, nothing guaranteed.
Sounds like this place.
Hi ILO,
I have been swinging (both as a single man and with female partners/lovers) for many years as well as punting so I'm pretty confident in distinguishing a real swingers party to one where the women are paid to attend and fuck the guys. I am also well aware of the rules about not discussing/reviewing swingers parties. If I had been 100% confident it was a swingers party I wouldn't have posted this at all. In fact I posted a review of
Hot Horny Vanessa after an aborted visit to a real/bona fide swingers party.
I went to 'Swingers and Sinners' late in the day and stayed barely enough time to get any action, the ratio of guys to women was ridiculously high and the place looked so dingy I didn't find it appealing at all*. For all I now, the women sitting down on chairs might have been having a well earned break, but as I said I didn't stay long enough to find out.
To answer your question:
"If I went to a swingers party, what would the difference be, compared to this event?" There would have been couples, lots of them and fewer single men. Also it would have the feel of a real social party with sex in between. Also, bona fide swingers parties restrict the numbers of single men to parties unless it's expressly organised as a 'greedy girls/gangbang' event. Swingers and Sinners is not, they are playing the numbers, they advertise as having 20+ women and the entrance fee is relatively cheap so as to get as many paying punters as possible whilst giving the appearance of a swingers party.
I really don't mind what the mods decide, the purpose of this review was (as always) to inform fellow UKP punters so they are aware of the quality of the event if they decide to go there. Whether the mods agree with me or not at least fellow UKP punters will be able to find this post if they search for it.
Cheers.
* The fact that the place was dingy/sleazy might be tempting in itself for some punters who may be looking for that. As another poster mentioned above, sleaziness may appeal to some folk. As they say, whatever rocks your boat. It didn't appeal to me but it may appeal to others. I'm not one to judge.