Booking in advance

[nuckingfuts]

How far in advance do people book?

I have a duo in mind and I’d like to secure a date that is many months away and ideally make sure both have time to figure out if the date is possible, and if they would be comfortable playing with each other as much as be comfortable with me.

So furthest in advance // average timescale // shortest ?

Muchos Gracias
NF
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[JontyR]

How far in advance do people book?

I have a duo in mind and I’d like to secure a date that is many months away and ideally make sure both have time to figure out if the date is possible, and if they would be comfortable playing with each other as much as be comfortable with me.

So furthest in advance // average timescale // shortest ?

Muchos Gracias
NF
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Strike whilst the iron is hot. If you have the money and desire look to book the punt at the earliest date convenient to all 3.

Plenty of threads on here about the dynamics of an MFF booking. But in terms of dates...one may be planning to retire in the new year so get it booked.

Otherwise many will want to see a deposit to prove you aren't a timewaster.

[alibirmingham]

Depends on the wg tbh. 90% of my punts are on the day and literally as soon as they  are available. I rarely pre book. Some regs I see however pre booking is a must and then it’s a case of when they are available as opposed to when I’m free.

[JonasG]

A day before max. but mostly on the day.

Most girls even the so called popular ones are usually free, don't find it necessary to book so much in advance. The popular ones usually can book em in a day before.

Anyone else on the day is mostly always fine.

[RandomGuy99]

I usually book a few days or a week in advance.

Sometimes there are tourers who I've met before who I keep a lookout for and book them weeks or months in advance. 

There can be problems with booking weeks or months in advance as life happens and SSs' and SPs' plans can change (people get busy with work, people get injured or sick, life gets in the way, etc ) and that can result is changes to bookings which can be annoying for both SSs and SPs.

Some SPs won't take advance bookings as they're harder to manage and there's a chance that people won't turn up, so they prefer on the day bookings.

That's why I tend to stick with booking a week or so in advance or on the day now.

[hendrix]

Depends really. Multi girl bookings can take months to plan out/ensure availability for the girls and the venue.

[MissWolf]

OP as the guys above prove this is not a one size fits all, it will depend entirely on the SPs you are intending to book.

My advice is to read their profile thoroughly,  look at their preferred booking methods and contact them in accordance with that, have a decent idea of the dates you are looking at, 'sometime in the summer' is going to be taken less seriously than 'I'm in your area in the second week of June' , the more clear and sensible you can be in comms the better, but as stated its often not necessary to book quite as far in advance as you think.

Good luck and have fun

[nuckingfuts]

Depends really. Multi girl bookings can take months to plan out/ensure availability for the girls and the venue.

OP as the guys above prove this is not a one size fits all, it will depend entirely on the SPs you are intending to book.

My advice is to read their profile thoroughly,  look at their preferred booking methods and contact them in accordance with that, have a decent idea of the dates you are looking at, 'sometime in the summer' is going to be taken less seriously than 'I'm in your area in the second week of June' , the more clear and sensible you can be in comms the better, but as stated its often not necessary to book quite as far in advance as you think.

Good luck and have fun

Yep, the calendars, and non-participant scheduling usually means planning well in advance.
I have a specific date that I know I’ll have a venue for, and hopefully if I do it this far in advance, I can try and be the preferred booking of the day.

One of the SPs I’ve seen before so hopefully I’m less of an “unknown entity”

Muchos gracias
NF
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[Blackpool_Mark]

I used to book in with my regular 2 or 3 days in advance but she sometimes took a while to reply so that is why.

Other punts I have had I have arranged on the day unless they specifically state to book in advance.

[andyw1969]

It depend for me, if she has a number I normally text for an appointment that day. If no number is displayed then I’ll email to see when she will be next free. In which case I have blood for an appointment in a couple of days time.

Never booked further in advance than a couple of days.

[Stevelondon]

Just depends who I’m seeing.
I’ve booked on the day lots of times. Call up or text, get a slot, done.

Most of my punts this year have been with SP’s I’ve seen before. So booking in advance has been best. Simply because it gives me the opportunity of chatting about how I’d like things to go etc.

Of course there are a lot of SP’s out there who it’s just impossible to see short notice. Booking in advance being the only option.
I recall years back I met the lovely Mistress Sidonia Von Bork. I had to wait four weeks to see her 😂

[Hobbit]

So I used to book several weeks in advance and I did that for many years. However, as age and experience have caught up with me, I began to learn that booking that far in advance can lead to a sense of dependency and any desire to be in control of your punting addictions can go out the window.

Secondly, so many factors can change in that time, especially the way you feel. You could be horny right now and in a few weeks or a few months, you may not feel the same.

So nowadays, I just go with the flow and book maybe a week in advance at the most but only because some girls require advance booking due to popularity or their work schedule.

[poundstock]

Always a week in advance. Rail tickets to purchase. Route from the railway station to the venue has to be plotted and the surrounding area checked out on Streetview. I enjoy the anticipation. Spontaneity has proven to be my enemy, not only following my punting hobby but also life in general.

[jamiekinkxxx]

I always book in advance, well maybe not always but certainly 90% of the time.

I may very very occasionally do a spur of the moment booking (e.g. https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=383910.0 - Lolita) but I tend to just think it is my dick dictating rather than well thought out and researched plan.

[Stevelondon]

I always book in advance, well maybe not always but certainly 90% of the time.

I may very very occasionally do a spur of the moment booking (e.g. https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=383910.0 - Lolita) but I tend to just think it is my dick dictating rather than well thought out and researched plan.

Know what you mean me old mate.
Sometimes I think the planning and anticipation of it all adds to the overall enjoyment.

[David1970]

Due to my work schedule I have to book on the day, that can be frustrating as you can be left with the dregs. If I had a more structured work schedule I would book 2 or 3 days in advance.

[jamiekinkxxx]

Know what you mean me old mate.
Sometimes I think the planning and anticipation of it all adds to the overall enjoyment.

100%

[jamiekinkxxx]

Due to my work schedule I have to book on the day, that can be frustrating as you can be left with the dregs. If I had a more structured work schedule I would book 2 or 3 days in advance.

Indeed 100% one of the risks of last minute bookings. I'd prefer to have a wank in those situations

[alabama1]

Know what you mean me old mate.
Sometimes I think the planning and anticipation of it all adds to the overall enjoyment.

i am with you 100% on this one 

[theeaglekid]

Usually with a touring provider, a few weeks before.

Longest before has been 5 weeks.

Those who are regular, a few days before.

[Stevelondon]

i am with you 100% on this one 

I think Jamie and you would also agree with me on this one.

Booking in advance has its drawbacks too.
As in the case of me arranging something with a well reviewed SP on here. No same day booking with this girl. Always had to plan ahead. So I did.
Was looking forward to it a lot.
Morning of the meet I sent a polite confirmation that I would be coming (pun intended)
Only to get a “Sorry I’m not well” response.

Bugger.

The planning and anticipation was all to do with this SP……… so the thought of an off the cuff last minute booking with someone else just wouldn’t do it for me.

Went to the pub instead 😂

[advent2016]

Usually a day before or friday before weekend maximum.
Special events like Xmas day or  New years eve I've booked over a month in advance and paid a deposit (the only time I do) and with an agency / pimp whom I've dealt with before.

Generally I'm a creature of impulse and I like same day or in a few hours and for this I like a plan B though try and have the courtesy to alert them if I'm not coming

[jamiekinkxxx]

I think Jamie and you would also agree with me on this one.

Booking in advance has its drawbacks too.
As in the case of me arranging something with a well reviewed SP on here. No same day booking with this girl. Always had to plan ahead. So I did.
Was looking forward to it a lot.
Morning of the meet I sent a polite confirmation that I would be coming (pun intended)
Only to get a “Sorry I’m not well” response.

Bugger.

The planning and anticipation was all to do with this SP……… so the thought of an off the cuff last minute booking with someone else just wouldn’t do it for me.

Went to the pub instead 😂

I do agree, that can be a real let down

[nuckingfuts]

I think Jamie and you would also agree with me on this one.

Booking in advance has its drawbacks too.
As in the case of me arranging something with a well reviewed SP on here. No same day booking with this girl. Always had to plan ahead. So I did.
Was looking forward to it a lot.
Morning of the meet I sent a polite confirmation that I would be coming (pun intended)
Only to get a “Sorry I’m not well” response.

Bugger.

The planning and anticipation was all to do with this SP……… so the thought of an off the cuff last minute booking with someone else just wouldn’t do it for me.

Went to the pub instead 😂

I do agree, that can be a real let down

I agree with you both…the anticipation, for me, is part of the enticement. I’m also someone who has a need to plan, so ahead of time will always be the case but specific outfits, scenarios, experiences take time to assess/procure.

Awesome to hear the schools of thought for this topic.

Cheers
NF
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[Malvolio]

Maybe two or three weeks in advance tops.

I assume you're lining up something special for your birthday?  If so, you'll stand a better chance if these are WGs you have punted before.

[nuckingfuts]

Maybe two or three weeks in advance tops.

I assume you're lining up something special for your birthday?  If so, you'll stand a better chance if these are WGs you have punted before.

Not my birthday, but an occasion on equal footing. An anniversary of sorts.

I’ve given them the exact date, timings and activities wanted, it’s the holidays so I’m not expecting anyone to get back to me in the next couple of weeks but hopefully I can nail down their schedule and get everyone together.

Fingers crossed
NF
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[oinki]

1-7 days in advance depending on the WG. I have had countless of times having done a morning punt with the intention to punt again but failed to find a punt to follow up on the day.

[Murray Mint]

I virtually always book in advance, but generally by just a couple of days, and seldom more than a week. I like the certainty, and the anticipation of knowing who I’m going to see.

I understand the complexity of the OPs requirement, but, even then, would be reluctant to make the arrangements and book by more than a couple of weeks in advance.

On-the-day booking has been rare, and not always satisfactory. You need to have several options available, and unless the SP answers your enquiry pretty quickly, how long do you wait before trying the next option?

[jamiekinkxxx]

I do agree, that can be a real let down

Which ironically happened to me between Christmas and New Year!

Was looking forward to a lazy few hours of pure GFE with Lilana (External Link/Members Only) only to have radio silence on the day.

Disappointing. Not happened to me in very long time

[Marmalade]

Most SPs can't think more than 2 or 3 days ahead poor things.

[MissWolf]

Most SPs can't think more than 2 or 3 days ahead poor things.

  oh dear and I've just put 3 bookings in the diary for late January and early February I should know my place 

[Marmalade]

oh dear and I've just put 3 bookings in the diary for late January and early February I should know my place 

maybe your punters will be lucky 

[MissWolf]

maybe your punters will be lucky 

Maybe 

[Marmalade]

Maybe 

External Link/Members Only. who knows?   
Daily Mail do horoscopes...

But of course you are not "most" SPs, having survived this forum for soooo long dear. 
But there again, at your age maybe you have to try harder to think straight and be nice?

[JonasG]

I virtually always book in advance, but generally by just a couple of days, and seldom more than a week. I like the certainty, and the anticipation of knowing who I’m going to see.

I understand the complexity of the OPs requirement, but, even then, would be reluctant to make the arrangements and book by more than a couple of weeks in advance.

On-the-day booking has been rare, and not always satisfactory. You need to have several options available, and unless the SP answers your enquiry pretty quickly, how long do you wait before trying the next option?

Escorts i found in general answer queries pretty quickly so same day bookings don't tend to ever be a problem even these so called popular WGs aren't never as busy as you'd think. Think a few you'd prob need to book a day before but found it's exception to the rule.

Say on the day you look at your HL and 3 girls you like have their green light on, your main preference if she's not answered in 45 minutes then I'd prob text the 2nd girl etc.

[MissWolf]

External Link/Members Only. who knows?   
Daily Mail do horoscopes...

But of course you are not "most" SPs, having survived this forum for soooo long dear. 
But there again, at your age maybe you have to try harder to think straight and be nice?

  you are such a knob
I'm a fucking delight darling I don't need to try it just comes naturally 

[Marmalade]

I don't need to try it just comes naturally 

what, getting old or trying to think straight?

[MissWolf]

what, getting old or trying to think straight?

Both I'm a woman I can multitask 

[Southernbloke]

My experience with advance booking is that most ( not all) SPs that you are booking for the first time prefer a booking a few days beforehand.
I have tried to book ahead several times with SPs who have loads of positive feedback and have always been unlucky, so I am unsure how to book them. Some people have told me to book a month ahead and others have said to book on the day, so as we have moved into a new year I have decided to keep away from really well reviewed SPs as I am sure they have lots of regulars and don’t really want new customers.
I am probably generalising a bit but that’s been my experience.
SPs I have seen before are usually quite happy to take a booking a couple of days before and sometimes on the day .

[PaulRuff]

I've made a booking with a SP in the next few days I've never seen before - nor has seemingly been reviewed on here either - and booking process went without a hitch.

Whenever I've seen someone for the first time it's typically been a booking in advance as I want to be able to do my due diligence and also the back-and-forth when booking usually gives an insight into the SP too in terms of how well organised they are, how busy they seem to be & things on the day usually turn out well if the process goes well.

[Strawberry]

oh dear and I've just put 3 bookings in the diary for late January and early February I should know my place 

I accept bookings to to 4 months ahead, 6 months for tours.

[badsin]

Escorts tend to be same day, and very infrequent nowadays.
Previously with regular SPs or SBs, could be a fortnightly meeting, that would just run along, until something in our diaries caused an issue. Had some great times doing that

[Marmalade]

Escorts tend to be same day, and very infrequent nowadays.
Previously with regular SPs or SBs, could be a fortnightly meeting, that would just run along, until something in our diaries caused an issue. Had some great times doing that

Except the ones on UKP who, we are told, are timelessly perfect. 
But let us not argue the point, bless ‘em.

I doubt there’s many, if any, that refuse a booking a couple of months in advance. After all, business is business. Delivering is a different task altogether. 

Women traditionally are scatterbrains. Their minds seem to jump delightfully from one thing to another and, if they run out of things, they’ll probably jump back to first one. Like having a limited number of toys in the pram. They call this External Link/Members Onlywhich is a pretty word for hopping from one thing to another. It can be quite pleasant: which is why women are valued for providing a nice distraction.

There is sometimes also another phrase for it:  double booking. 

[Thephoenix]

Except the ones on UKP who, we are told, are timelessly perfect. 
But let us not argue the point, bless ‘em.

I doubt there’s many, if any, that refuse a booking a couple of months in advance. After all, business is business. Delivering is a different task altogether. 

Women traditionally are scatterbrains. Their minds seem to jump delightfully from one thing to another and, if they run out of things, they’ll probably jump back to first one. Like having a limited number of toys in the pram. They call this External Link/Members Onlywhich is a pretty word for hopping from one thing to another. It can be quite pleasant: which is why women are valued for providing a nice distraction.

There is sometimes also another phrase for it:  double booking. 

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[MissWolf]

Except the ones on UKP who, we are told, are timelessly perfect. 
But let us not argue the point, bless ‘em.

I doubt there’s many, if any, that refuse a booking a couple of months in advance. After all, business is business. Delivering is a different task altogether. 

Women traditionally are scatterbrains. Their minds seem to jump delightfully from one thing to another and, if they run out of things, they’ll probably jump back to first one. Like having a limited number of toys in the pram. They call this External Link/Members Onlywhich is a pretty word for hopping from one thing to another. It can be quite pleasant: which is why women are valued for providing a nice distraction.

There is sometimes also another phrase for it:  double booking. 

I read this in the voice of Professor Higgins in My Fair Lady 

Wretched creatures 

[Marmalade]

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Both    But always let woman finish stirring 

p.s. remember ye old adage from ancient Chinese sage:
"Woman always win argument. If woman seem to lose argument, that is just start of next argument!"

[Watts.E.Dunn]

Marmalade.. that may be so where your from, but here in Cambridge we have a lot of well edcuated ladies around quite a few Professors among them!..

You'll find a lot on the cambridge neuroscience group:)...

[Marmalade]

I read this in the voice of Professor Higgins in My Fair Lady 

Oh, spot on dear. 

And before anyone fonds my remarks sexist, allow me to contextualise…

This is a ‘punting’ forum and you are a ‘Service Provider’. In the unlikely event that you are an astrophysicist working at NASA, let us proceed by lauding your profession — or calling — a prossie — as noble, together with all things administered by Venus, the great God of Love.

Being, or appearing, a bit scatty is utterly charming and you should be proud of who you are, as i think is probably the case.

Now what if you weren’t?

I can think of the stereotypical Romanian Prossie who is completely ‘focused’. One pays her money and she opens her legs. That is her complete one-pointed focus the whole of the session and it’s appalling.

So yes, it is a good and proper feminine characteristic not to be able to focus on one thing for very long. In its place its very attractive.

Men and women are, to an extent, ‘different’, even though we can hopefully learn the qualities of the each other’s sex. Occasionally i also do ‘venusian’ things like watering the plants but I’m not very good at it.

Now although you got your hackles up you did it nicely, realising there was no malice in my post. That is also an admirable ‘feminine’ quality and altogether worthy of a reply, which I’ve just given.

Searching at random i found a list of ladylike qualities here:
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Now most of those also apply to a gentleman though we, i.e. gentlemen, also have a few manly things going for us. We are expected to chivalrous, courageous and… have serious interests. That last one especially means we need to be more focused.

There’s a woman on here we have teased for years about her claim to be busy ‘going to the gym’. Then one day she floored us with expert knowledge of such things. So occasionally it’s quite ‘accepted’ for a woman to display ‘manly’ qualities.

 

[Doc Holliday]

Oh, spot on dear. 

And before anyone fonds my remarks sexist, allow me to contextualise…

This is a ‘punting’ forum and you are a ‘Service Provider’. In the unlikely event that you are an astrophysicist working at NASA, let us proceed by lauding your profession — or calling — a prossie — as noble, together with all things administered by Venus, the great God of Love.

Being, or appearing, a bit scatty is utterly charming and you should be proud of who you are, as i think is probably the case.

Now what if you weren’t?

I can think of the stereotypical Romanian Prossie who is completely ‘focused’. One pays her money and she opens her legs. That is her complete one-pointed focus the whole of the session and it’s appalling.

So yes, it is a good and proper feminine characteristic not to be able to focus on one thing for very long. In its place its very attractive.

Men and women are, to an extent, ‘different’, even though we can hopefully learn the qualities of the each other’s sex. Occasionally i also do ‘venusian’ things like watering the plants but I’m not very good at it.

Now although you got your hackles up you did it nicely, realising there was no malice in my post. That is also an admirable ‘feminine’ quality and altogether worthy of a reply, which I’ve just given.

Searching at random i found a list of ladylike qualities here:
External Link/Members Only

Now most of those also apply to a gentleman though we, i.e. gentlemen, also have a few manly things going for us. We are expected to chivalrous, courageous and… have serious interests. That last one especially means we need to be more focused.

There’s a woman on here we have teased for years about her claim to be busy ‘going to the gym’. Then one day she floored us with expert knowledge of such things. So occasionally it’s quite ‘accepted’ for a woman to display ‘manly’ qualities.

 

Sorry Marmalade it still all sounds very sexist to me. Just my opinion 

Women with strong qualities (which of course wasn't all of them) meant my professional life benefited greatly and at all levels including my direct peers.

In my personal life then I cannot begin to contemplate where would I would have been without them. This includes mother, sisters, wives, daughters, friends and I suppose 'Prossies' too? 

I hold women in high regard and every bit my equal 

[Marmalade]

Sorry Marmalade it still all sounds very sexist to me. Just my opinion 

Women with strong qualities (which of course wasn't all of them) meant my professional life benefited greatly and at all levels including my direct peers.

In my personal life then I cannot begin to contemplate where would I would have been without them. This includes mother, sisters, wives, daughters, friends and I suppose 'Prossies' too? 

I hold women in high regard and every bit my equal 

I accept your apologies!