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Offline Gent4life

So I'm seeing so many really pretty SPs on AW , I'll caveat that by saying they might be B&S and the pics aren't thiers', but I've seen verficiation pics.

That said, I get my hopes up and think wow that girls going on the HL then I see the dreaded Bareback on the likes.

What the hell is going on and why are SO many of these new profiles offering that, it's not as though they're expensive and offering it.

Is it because they already have something and dont care? 

Is it because they're being told they HAVE to offer it from whoever runs them?

I think I'm fairly safe if I say that most decent punters (of which I would hope is the largest market share) wouldn't touch them with somewone elses barge pole, so who the hell is seeing them and why is it being offered?

Surely they'd get more punters if it wasn't offered?

Have I missed something?

Offline ulstersubbie

How many?

Could you list some for the benefit of other members.   :unknown:

Offline Gent4life

Sadly I don't keep a record as I just groan when I see Bareback, anyone can do a quick search on the "likes" for it and get a list on new girls with it.

Offline Gent4life

A quick check, within 10 miles of me at least 2 full pages fo search results, I also notice some areas have more density of BB, I think Croydon came up as an area for that as well as some N/NW london areas.

Offline haltron1991

Perhaps both punters and SP’s are being emboldened by the ease of access and availability of Prep.

Offline babayaga69

Came across a forum sometimes ago for punters looking for bare backers, I assume there’re plenty of people would take the risk. Read some members actually praised the bareback avoidance thread on here, highlighting bare backers for them to visit.

Offline MLawro93

Where there is demand there is a supply. I'm not sure I agree with there being many genuinely open BB providers on AW, a lot of profiles do look fake, or are just the usual suspects with new profiles/pictures, etc.

The only thing you can do is test regularly, and just be smart about who you see.  :thumbsup:

Offline gamebred

It is scary to see so many offering bb and CIP especially. Playing russian roulette with their health and just desperate for the dough

Offline genghis69

A good heads up by the  OP.
The only thing that comes to my mind is that surviving the recent pandemic has maybe emboldened a lot of people. Making them feel more invincible. Admittedly it was very scary during the height of Corona. I'm sure everyone knew someone who died of COVID. I personally knew several people who died of Corona in the past 2 years. But I don't know anyone whose died of AIDS or any other STD. No way am I sticking up for barebacking, just trying to understand why?: 

Offline Makka124

A good heads up by the  OP.
The only thing that comes to my mind is that surviving the recent pandemic has maybe emboldened a lot of people. Making them feel more invincible. Admittedly it was very scary during the height of Corona. I'm sure everyone knew someone who died of COVID. I personally knew several people who died of Corona in the past 2 years. But I don't know anyone whose died of AIDS or any other STD. No way am I sticking up for barebacking, just trying to understand why?:

Yes especially with prep around making people think this will solve it but it doesn’t
I think adding bareback allows extra income especially in a time now where living costs are going up more and more

Offline macman26

I think the most scary thing when you settle on a good WG a few communications, then suddenly the offer of BB for a bit extra comes up  :crazy:  .

I’ve had three ladies, who did this to me in last couple of months, obviously I’m not going to go and see them and I’m reluctant to post information on here but maybe I should.

Offline southcoastpunter


I’ve had three ladies, who did this to me in last couple of months, obviously I’m not going to go and see them and I’m reluctant to post information on here but maybe I should.

yes you should IF it was a clear and obvious offer of BB (and not just a hint or suggestion). There is a BB avoidance thread for that purpose.

Offline puntingking

It is scary to see so many offering bb and CIP especially. Playing russian roulette with their health and just desperate for the dough

I be more scared about the sp coming back into contact wanting child support  :sarcastic:

Offline puntingking

if i were to think about having bareback with an sp i would need a clean sti test from them and proof that they are taking prep  :unknown:

I would not think that would be too much to ask. I would also share with them a recent sexual health screening results.

Safe sex is better though.


Offline gamebred

I be more scared about the sp coming back into contact wanting child support  :sarcastic:

 :lol:

Offline Gent4life

I was reading about PREP as there a few SPs stating they are on it, but what I found out is that consistent use lessens its efficiacy.

Either way it's not worth the risk, it's true that we've heard of more people dying from Corona that HIV/AIDS, but the thing is people dont die from that due to medication etc now, but tey still get it and live what people class as a normal life, but how do you tell a partner wife or future ones oh BTW I am HIV+ now.  No cure!

I think the cost of living thing may well be a lure but I cant help think at it actually puts more people off than attract people, I guess it depends on how the SPs see it themselves as let's face it, it's not in the news and many young girls coning into the trade perhaps don't realise it for that lure of money and the people who got them in telling them it's all good.  That could also account for girls who initially definitely had it on their likes remove that, especially if their profile sticks around and they're not on a holiday job type situation.

Sadly there is demand for it...I dont want to say what I'm thinking as perhaps there are punters on here who only want that, it's not my place to judge I guess, I'm only speaking from my perspective and what makes sense to me.

Offline Gent4life

I be more scared about the sp coming back into contact wanting child support  :sarcastic:

Wow...imagine that conversation at home!

Offline pantywetter

I think it is just the people who tick lots of services to get extra traffic.

There are many girls with BB ticked but then a FAQ saying not to ask for it.

Offline faquin1

I think it is just the people who tick lots of services to get extra traffic.

There are many girls with BB ticked but then a FAQ saying not to ask for it.

Yep, I think there hopefully is a bit of this going on. SP just ticks all the boxes not really looking at what the boxes actually say.

Offline Malvolio

They offer it because some punters want that service.

Offline myothernameis

Sometimes where an escort on AW offer bareback/unprotected sex, if possible check the feedback from the punters.  So punter A has seen escort B, who offers bareback/unprotected sex, now look at who else punter A has seen.

From there look at these escorts, now it more likely they wont offer bareback/unprotected sex or advertise it, but with punters who see escorts who offer bareback/unprotected sex, surprised these escorts will see these punters

So then the question, is bareback/unprotected sex offered on the side, and not advertised

Online Londonlad40

It must be a nightmare for a service provider to check a possible clients feedback and then check the SPs he’s seen.  There are some SPs who contribute here and would be interested to hear their perspective

Offline puntingking

They offer it because some punters want that service.

those punters need to take their left hand and slap themselves across their face for being a numpty   :sarcastic:

Offline Jonestown

So then the question, is bareback/unprotected sex offered on the side, and not advertised

Of course it is, Bareback, like Love, is all around and all you can do is take adequate precautions when you are on the job. Searching an SP’s clients and analysing their feedback is not going to protect you simply because people can not be relied on to tell the truth.

Online Punting2022

Prosse are prob giving thier favourite clients or regulars bareback anyway even when not advertised.

Offline JustaPunter

Prosse are prob giving thier favourite clients or regulars bareback anyway even when not advertised.

That’s a bit of weird observation to make.

I assume you have proof?

Offline alabama1

Prosse are prob giving thier favourite clients or regulars bareback anyway even when not advertised.
Is there no end to the shit that you spout from your eternal fountain of shite ?
« Last Edit: May 07, 2023, 04:43:13 pm by alabama1 »

Offline ukgreeting

Prosse are prob giving thier favourite clients or regulars bareback anyway even when not advertised.

I have once experienced the girl asked me ow or owo before the session but just go owo directly and letting me to proceed without condom, immediately I asked her to wear the condom for me lol :timeout:
I thought she may forgot the condom thing  :rolleyes:

Offline puntingking

Is there no end to the shit that you spout from your eternal fountain of shite ?

It's not shit. It's his view. i bet you have a couple of thoughts that i don't agree with but i won't call them shit or shite.  :hi:

Offline jamiekinkxxx

It's not shit. It's his view. i bet you have a couple of thoughts that i don't agree with but i won't call them shit or shite.  :hi:

Based on what though? Just his 'thoughts'? Even he said they are 'probably' doing this... he hasn't got any real proof to state it though :unknown:

« Last Edit: May 07, 2023, 05:36:50 pm by jamiekinkxxx »

Offline puntingking

Based on what though? Just his 'thoughts'? Even he said they are 'probably' doing this... he hasn't got any real proof to state it though :unknown:

if he had proof then what he said would be more like a fact rather than a thought, belief or opinion. I don't think he has proof but just a feeling or a hunch in what he said was happening which would makes what he said just a thought and nothing more.


Based on what though? Just his 'thoughts'? Even he said they are 'probably' doing this...he hasn't got any real proof to state it though :unknown:

based on his assumptions presumably  :unknown:
« Last Edit: May 08, 2023, 07:07:36 am by puntingking »

Offline MissWolf

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It must be a nightmare for a service provider to check a possible clients feedback and then check the SPs he’s seen.  There are some SPs who contribute here and would be interested to hear their perspective

It's a rabbit warren you just don't want to go down, if I did that research with every client on aw I would never see anyone and I'm only part time.

You also have to remember that if an escort has a number displayed on her profile then a very high percentage of clients will text or call without ever messaging on aw first so we have no idea who they have history with.

It is always safest to assume that everyone is having unprotected sex with someone,  be that a husband, wife, girlfriend, boyfriend, civvy hook up on a Friday night,  SB, pimp or trusted client.

All each of us can do is keep ourselves as safe as we can by using protection and getting tested regularly.
« Last Edit: May 08, 2023, 08:35:40 am by MissWolf »

Offline Punterperson1971

Prosse are prob giving thier favourite clients or regulars bareback anyway even when not advertised.
What a load of shit I have a few who I’d class as regulars and a really good regular and I’m pretty certain they’d never ever offer me bare back ever,what they do with their other boyfriend’s,husbands etc is their business as long as I’m covered up for sex and having a good time I’m happy.

Offline Southernbloke

What a load of shit I have a few who I’d class as regulars and a really good regular and I’m pretty certain they’d never ever offer me bare back ever,what they do with their other boyfriend’s,husbands etc is their business as long as I’m covered up for sex and having a good time I’m happy.

Totally agree with this. I don’t tend to demand a full sexual history with everyone I have had sex with. Use protection and test regularly as miss wolf says

Offline sim0256

  Lets face it some girls are not best at Admin!  Apart from counting money !!

One I contacted recently did not show 'penetration ' on her list on AW. When i asked , she was aghast that it was not on her and that she must have not 'ticked the box' but that she certainly did and would correct it asap , which she did.
I think many girls just want to 'tick' as many boxes as poss regardless as  to whether they offer the service or not. Always best to check these things and remember the meaning of BB to some foreigners is not what we think of it as.

Offline Doc Holliday

It's a rabbit warren you just don't want to go down, if I did that research with every client on aw I would never see anyone and I'm only part time.

You also have to remember that if an escort has a number displayed on her profile then a very high percentage of clients will text or call without ever messaging on aw first so we have no idea who they have history with.

It is always safest to assume that everyone is having unprotected sex with someone,  be that a husband, wife, girlfriend, boyfriend, civvy hook up on a Friday night,  SB, pimp or trusted client.

All each of us can do is keep ourselves as safe as we can by using protection and getting tested regularly.

I agree and yet so many still choose to enter this warren?  :unknown:

Offline FLYING BLUE

Prosse are prob giving thier favourite clients or regulars bareback anyway even when not advertised.

 :unknown:

Online finn5555

Bottom line is you don’t know who is barebacking whom… blokes claiming they don’t prossies claiming they don’t but how do you know for certain?

You have to make the decision yourself and not rely solely on what your told

Offline MissWolf

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Bottom line is you don’t know who is barebacking whom… blokes claiming they don’t prossies claiming they don’t but how do you know for certain?

You have to make the decision yourself and not rely solely on what your told

OMG you don't mean like grown up adults with common sense  :scare:

Ffs don't be silly Finn that will never take off as an idea :lol:

Offline Adoniron

It always puts me off when I see someone really fit who offers BB. There have times when I have been tempted but I have never knowingly been with a barebacker, although as has been said many SPs are probably fucking their boyfriends BB.
I also suppose that if you have covered oral and sex you are at limited risk, but I can't help thinking that an SP who does bareback might be engaged in other risky activities health wise.

Offline MissWolf

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It always puts me off when I see someone really fit who offers BB. There have times when I have been tempted but I have never knowingly been with a barebacker, although as has been said many SPs are probably fucking their boyfriends BB.
I also suppose that if you have covered oral and sex you are at limited risk, but I can't help thinking that an SP who does bareback might be engaged in other risky activities health wise.

She may be and so it makes sense to avoid those that openly advertise that as a service,  let's face it many punters are also having bb with their OH or a random civvy and taking risks with their health and WGs have zero background on them.

As said keep your own house clean and limit your known risks is all you can do

Online finn5555

It always puts me off when I see someone really fit who offers BB. There have times when I have been tempted but I have never knowingly been with a barebacker, although as has been said many SPs are probably fucking their boyfriends BB.
I also suppose that if you have covered oral and sex you are at limited risk, but I can't help thinking that an SP who does bareback might be engaged in other risky activities health wise.

Safest bet is to assume all prossies are a risk so bag up and have fun  :hi:

Offline hendrix

Safest bet is to assume all prossies are a risk so bag up and have fun  :hi:

Yep, can only control what you do.

Offline Strawberry

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It's a rabbit warren you just don't want to go down, if I did that research with every client on aw I would never see anyone and I'm only part time.

You also have to remember that if an escort has a number displayed on her profile then a very high percentage of clients will text or call without ever messaging on aw first so we have no idea who they have history with.

It is always safest to assume that everyone is having unprotected sex with someone,  be that a husband, wife, girlfriend, boyfriend, civvy hook up on a Friday night,  SB, pimp or trusted client.

All each of us can do is keep ourselves as safe as we can by using protection and getting tested regularly.

I look in immediate history, presence of feedback from an SP providing bareback intercourse means I will decline. Someone who has been contacting me for a while, who has tested my patience over several years, who has good feedback just recently acquired feedback from a BB provider. That made the decision very easy for me, cemented the 'I cannot see you'. Actually acquired this the same day as we last spoke on the phone he was asking for a booking that day - glad I could not go ahead. He has now hidden his feedback.

I don't know what anyone else is doing, I only know what I do. I haven't had unprotected intercourse even in private life for 13 years but I could be making that up. Some punters think it is ok to cum over the vagina, labia, or have bare contact between genitals. This means I have to be very aware if someone is heading in that direction, and as I have mentioned a few times in the past have developed a side scuttle for loomers. Have actually had someone in person start arguing he has a certificate he can show me, so he could cum on my nether regions or forgo the condom on future bookings.

Nope.
« Last Edit: May 08, 2023, 12:14:12 pm by Strawberry »

Offline wristjob

Probably said before but I just tick the dislike BB box on AW searches. My worry is when a new girl appears with an old profile, i wonder if she was previously offering BB and then changed it. I also insta-blacklist any BBers.

Offline RandomGuy99

The thing that gets me about the BBers is the way they're so blatant about it. There's clearly a market if there's so many doing it, but I'd rather stay safe. I think it's more the part-timers that do it.

Offline Punterperson1971

Probably said before but I just tick the dislike BB box on AW searches. My worry is when a new girl appears with an old profile, i wonder if she was previously offering BB and then changed it. I also insta-blacklist any BBers.
I tick the 2 boxes
Bareback & unprotected sex

Offline MissWolf

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The thing that gets me about the BBers is the way they're so blatant about it. There's clearly a market if there's so many doing it, but I'd rather stay safe. I think it's more the part-timers that do it.

Well that's a sweeping statement and massive assumption if ever I read one  :rolleyes:

I'm part time and I will tell you now I bloody don't so be careful with that brush your tarring part timers with.

Be grateful that they are blatant about it and do it openly that way you can avoid them more easily and stay safe  :thumbsup:
« Last Edit: May 08, 2023, 01:59:06 pm by MissWolf »

Offline RedKettle

Prosse are prob giving thier favourite clients or regulars bareback anyway even when not advertised.

I agree that this happens. I have had it offered from 3 regulars over the years, one time it happened i was a member on here and posted a BB warning. (And stopped seeing her)

The first time many many years ago I was young and naive and took advantage of the offer for several visits.  Cannot believe now that i took the risk and just thinking about it makes me shudder.  Fortunately i was lucky and got the all clear, but playing Russian roulette stopped after that.

So yes i do agree with you that some WGs offer it to regulars.

Offline RandomGuy99

Well that's a sweeping statement and massive assumption if ever I read one  :rolleyes:

I'm part time and I will tell you now I bloody don't so be careful with that brush your tarring part timers with.

Be grateful that they are blatant about it and do it openly that way you can avoid them more easily and stay safe  :thumbsup:
Apologies, I wasn't suggesting that all part-timers are doing BB. You can just see from their profiles that they're not very professional in their dealings.