Why are so many SPs offering Bareback!

[Punterperson1971]

Although my punter base tends towards over 50s I do see a range of ages right down to early 20s. My experience is many older punters are used to not wearing a condom or associate it with what is likely age related ED.

I have a few anecdotes one who'll be in his 70s now insistent on trying anal, recommended Vaseline as a better lubricant for anal penetration. I advised him Vaseline can weaken condoms,  he replied condoms aren't necessary 'HIV is only for gays'.   

That’s Crazy

[Strawberry]

That’s Crazy

He boasted about shagging his cleaner, not sure that is true but he was a boundary pusher and I know other SPs had similar experiences with him.

[Watts.E.Dunn]

Although my punter base tends towards over 50s I do see a range of ages right down to early 20s. My experience is many older punters are used to not wearing a condom or associate it with what is likely age related ED. Some also carry lifelong assumptions and misinformation.

I have a few anecdotes one who'll be in his 70s now insistent on trying anal, recommended Vaseline as a better lubricant for anal penetration. I advised him Vaseline can weaken condoms,  he replied condoms aren't necessary 'HIV is only for gays'.   

There we are, someone who ought to know better so what should the average rom girl know;?..

[Strawberry]

There we are, someone who ought to know better so what should the average rom girl know;?..

I would guess this depends on the sexual health education she has received, same for anyone of any nationality - however if under duress (once again same for anyone of any nationality) this may be overridden.

[bushman]

That's the reality, although it is far from restricted to under 30s.

100%. I mainly targeted 28-43 olds with the odd older one. One used to be a WG turned SB. Unfortunately she let it slip that she BB another SD as she thought they had mutual trust.
I have 4 SB's at present. One which helped me through the isolation months, we made a mistake during the second lockdown which wasn't repeated (I don't want to make excuses for it). I still see her when she can manage as she's now in a relationship.
However in the process of whittling it down to those 4, BB has been offered at a high rate. Never carried condoms to a WG meet, but I do now when visiting a SB.

[stampjones]

100%. I mainly targeted 28-43 olds with the odd older one. One used to be a WG turned SB. Unfortunately she let it slip that she BB another SD as she thought they had mutual trust.
I have 4 SB's at present. One which helped me through the isolation months, we made a mistake during the second lockdown which wasn't repeated (I don't want to make excuses for it). I still see her when she can manage as she's now in a relationship.
However in the process of whittling it down to those 4, BB has been offered at a high rate. Never carried condoms to a WG meet, but I do now when visiting a SB.

This and others like it are very strange to me. Ive been on SA for many years and spoken to and seen many girls. Its certainly true that many are a bit laisse faire when it comes to sexual health and if I didnt whip out a condom then they likely wouldnt insist (it does seem to be getting better recently - previously almost none mentioned condoms before a meet, these days a fair percentage do). Now while that is all true I think I can honestly say that I’ve never been offered bb (as in asking explicitly if thats what I wanted). So Im kind of curious that you’re experiencing that. Maybe as SCP says its the type of girl you’re talking to but even then I see a wide range (semi pro to proper SB). Can you give us some more details?

[datwabbit]

I think that maybe down to two main factors:
- its a reflection of how many younger people (say under 30) see sexual risks. They have grown up with not only the pill but the day after pill, the 7 days after pill, HIV not being the killer it used to be, most STI's being cured by just a course of antibiotics etc. 
- SB's don't see themselves as sex worker and therefore don't have same view on sexual health as most WG's

Having said that, of the ladies I have seen from SA, most have been hot on sexual health so maybe its also a reflection of the ones you saw or perhaps timing. I only started using SA nearly 4 years ago maybe things were different several years before that?

My experience is that safe sex=coil for young people. Unbelievable.

[bushman]

This and others like it are very strange to me. Ive been on SA for many years and spoken to and seen many girls. Its certainly true that many are a bit laisse faire when it comes to sexual health and if I didnt whip out a condom then they likely wouldnt insist (it does seem to be getting better recently - previously almost none mentioned condoms before a meet, these days a fair percentage do). Now while that is all true I think I can honestly say that I’ve never been offered bb (as in asking explicitly if thats what I wanted). So Im kind of curious that you’re experiencing that. Maybe as SCP says its the type of girl you’re talking to but even then I see a wide range (semi pro to proper SB). Can you give us some more details?

I am fairly straightforward in my discussions with them and I ask if they use protection, as mentioned elsewhere some think that is a reference to birth control. I try and stay away from pro's or SB' s with a multiple SD's. One or two SD's are fine but a different one every day of the week is nothing different to escorting.My current 4 - 2 x nhs workers, 1x personal assistant and then my favourite - a retail worker.

[stampjones]

I am fairly straightforward in my discussions with them and I ask if they use protection, as mentioned elsewhere some think that is a reference to birth control.

Ah ok thanks. I thought you were saying they were offering you bb with no discussion of anything but this makes more sense. In my case I never mention it as I know Im going to wear a condom and I’ve never had anyone object so not an issue. Have had a couple of strange looks to be fair 😂

[sensualencounter]

There’s a lot of talk here blaming the younger generation for the spread of stis. But it would be interesting to see some stats behind it. From what I’ve seen of the education system, heard from younger people and also what I’ve heard from various older people (indeed from people of all different ages) I’d say that youngsters are way more clued up than a lot of the older generation.

Youngsters in general seem a lot more open with way less sexual hang ups and so the previous awkwardness and taboo of sex isn’t such a barrier to seeking advice and sharing information.

That being said, I’d expect that the quantity of sexual encounters between different people is higher amongst the younger generation (being “freer” and less tied down in marriage), so the absolute number of sexual encounters is more and hence, if someone has an infection, the infection rate might be higher.

[datwabbit]

There’s a lot of talk here blaming the younger generation for the spread of stis. But it would be interesting to see some stats behind it. From what I’ve seen of the education system, heard from younger people and also what I’ve heard from various older people (indeed from people of all different ages) I’d say that youngsters are way more clued up than a lot of the older generation.

Youngsters in general seem a lot more open with way less sexual hang ups and so the previous awkwardness and taboo of sex isn’t such a barrier to seeking advice and sharing information.

That being said, I’d expect that the quantity of sexual encounters between different people is higher amongst the younger generation (being “freer” and less tied down in marriage), so the absolute number of sexual encounters is more and hence, if someone has an infection, the infection rate might be higher.

I'm think that most guys are referring to civvy meets with the younger generation (including arrangements). Younger escorts are probably just as safe as older ones.

In my opinion...

[southcoastpunter]

There’s a lot of talk here blaming the younger generation for the spread of stis.

i don't think there was a lot (or any) of that.

[Doc Holliday]

There’s a lot of talk here blaming the younger generation for the spread of stis. But it would be interesting to see some stats behind it.

That being said, I’d expect that the quantity of sexual encounters between different people is higher amongst the younger generation (being “freer” and less tied down in marriage), so the absolute number of sexual encounters is more and hence, if someone has an infection, the infection rate might be higher.

The stats are readily available showing the rates are significantly higher in the younger age groups, particularity chlamydia in the 15 to 24 olds (majority female) The main reason as you suggest is the higher number of sexual partners, although it is believed younger women are also more susceptible.

It is therefore recommended that everyone who is sexually active and under the age of 25, should be screened annually, but that does not happen.

[sensualencounter]

The stats are readily available showing the rates are significantly higher in the younger age groups, particularity chlamydia in the 15 to 24 olds (majority female) The main reason as you suggest is the higher number of sexual partners, although it is believed younger women are also more susceptible.

It is therefore recommended that everyone who is sexually active and under the age of 25, should be screened annually, but that does not happen.

[Watts.E.Dunn]

I would guess this depends on the sexual health education she has received, same for anyone of any nationality - however if under duress (once again same for anyone of any nationality) this may be overridden.

This is just so bad for them. Someone, clinic i suppose, has told them they have an Infection so either they do belive that as they are infected its OK now to do bareback as i've got a STI so it dosent matter, and if a punter picks that up so what they should look after themselves etc..

So it seems that no ones treating them for an infection or as you say under duress some Pimp is now telling to them make me more by offering bareback? surely thats a Criminal action from them?..