Can an escort be too hot?

[shortbread]

Can an escort be too hot?

I'm not an attractive bloke and so in civvy life I wouldn't even bother approaching a 9 or a 10. However, if I see an escort that is a 9 or a 10 and I could pay to fuck her, I still find myself thinking "she's too hot".
I will find her attractive and want to book her but something always puts me off.

I don't know if it's a function of poor self esteem or if there's some inbuilt code to not fuck someone waaay out of my league, as if going against nature somehow. Its as if I'm happy going a few notches above my level but not too far.

 Does anyone else experience this?

[boardyhell]

out of interest, who was your hottest ?

[shortbread]

out of interest, who was your hottest ?

Tough choice but i fancied this one a lot:

External Link/Members Only

Havent reviewed her yet

[Ghost89]

I know one thing….An escort can be too expensive. £220 an hour?!

[Herts_Outcaller]

Not for me

The hotter the better. The appeal of punting is fucking the types of girls I missed out on in my youth

As long as you're clean , nice, and turn up on time, the girl won't mind if she's better looking than you.

[Cheltclient]

The hotter the better. That’s the appeal. Have sex with someone I could never get in real life. 

[alabama1]

Can an escort be too hot?

I'm not an attractive bloke and so in civvy life I wouldn't even bother approaching a 9 or a 10. However, if I see an escort that is a 9 or a 10 and I could pay to fuck her, I still find myself thinking "she's too hot".
I will find her attractive and want to book her but something always puts me off.

I don't know if it's a function of poor self esteem or if there's some inbuilt code to not fuck someone waaay out of my league, as if going against nature somehow. Its as if I'm happy going a few notches above my level but not too far.

 Does anyone else experience this?

Surely the whole point of punting is fucking a hottie who wouldn't give you a second glance in the street. IMO you are wasting your money if you aren't doing this.

[A Decent Fist]

Tough choice but i fancied this one a lot:

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Havent reviewed her yet

Bear in mind that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. To me that one's far too porky and I'd have no interest in paying her for sex, even at a quarter of those prices.

[shortbread]

Fair points. I guess I just have bad self esteem then.
I think it's that that the hotter they are , the more nervous I get, which in turn negatively effects my performance.

[Watts.E.Dunn]

Fair points. I guess I just have bad self esteem then.
I think it's that that the hotter they are , the more nervous I get, which in turn negatively effects my performance.

Maybe practice makes perfect;?

Remember your paying her, shes not doing you any favours, its just a transaction simple as that!

[Thephoenix]

Fair points. I guess I just have bad self esteem then.
I think it's that that the hotter they are , the more nervous I get, which in turn negatively effects my performance.

Tbf I understand what you're saying.
Sometimes if they're 'too hot' they can be up themselves and rather aloof.
My best punts have not necessarily been with hotties, but with someone I've clicked with and felt at ease.
We're all different so I suggest you choose WGs you're comfortable with particularly if you're anxious about performance.
'Hotties' don't necessarily mean 'best'.

[mr.bluesky]

Tbf I understand what you're saying.
Sometimes if they're 'too hot' they can be up themselves and rather aloof.
My best punts have not necessarily been with hotties, but with someone I've clicked with and felt at ease.
We're all different so I suggest you choose WGs you're comfortable with particularly if you're anxious about performance.
'Hotties' don't necessarily mean 'best'.

I agree with The phoenix 100%, some girls who I would class as " hot" don't put much effort in to provide a good service as they think they can get by because they are good looking , others may not be stunning looking or rather plain but have good personalities or friendlier and will make more of an effort.  You can't judge a book by its cover as the saying goes

[Stevelondon]

Definitely hotter the better.

As for some hot girls not wanting or needing to put everything into providing a good service simply because they ARE hot.

I can only say I’ve had great service from from seriously hot girls and equally poor service from mediocre looking SP’s.
Similarly……… also the other way round.

As we all have differing tastes. Is there such a thing as a really hot girl (SP)
What might be hot to me might just be tepid to another. 

[Hobbit]

The hotter the better but I find it's usually the not-so-attractive ones that provide the better service.

[hairdownthere]

The hotter the better but I find it's usually the not-so-attractive ones that provide the better service.

100% agree

I punt to have a good time with my 'type' which constantly evolves but none are superhot, in civvy street I'd take what I can get.  Only once have I went to a superhot escort, with a corresponding very high rate.  Despite promising me the best sex of my life, all she did was fuck about for 20 mins then gave me a half hearted wank and threw me out when the time was up. I didnt even shoot my load.

Likewise only once in my life have I pulled a girl way out of my league, and her fanny smelled like a dead kipper.

[CanOfRedBull]

Can an escort be too hot?

I'm not an attractive bloke and so in civvy life I wouldn't even bother approaching a 9 or a 10. However, if I see an escort that is a 9 or a 10 and I could pay to fuck her, I still find myself thinking "she's too hot".
I will find her attractive and want to book her but something always puts me off.

I don't know if it's a function of poor self esteem or if there's some inbuilt code to not fuck someone waaay out of my league, as if going against nature somehow. Its as if I'm happy going a few notches above my level but not too far.

 Does anyone else experience this?

I complete agree with this.  It is down to your own self esteem and confidence levels, for some blokes they don’t have this ‘self esteem’ worry. 

Have you ever done the people watching thing when you’re in a queue.  You must have noticed sometimes an ugly f*c£er with a beauty,  you’re like how did he get her? I’m better looking than him.   Women are attracted to confident men,  men that know what they want.  He has a high level of confidence and doesn’t worry about rejection.   He isn’t afraid of approaching the pretty girls.   

Got to work on your self esteem and confidence levels.  Got to be that alpha male

[shortbread]

Thanks for the replies, it's been interesting to me. I guess i just need to man up

[PilotMan]

Tough choice but i fancied this one a lot:

External Link/Members Only

Havent reviewed her yet

How did you conclude she was hot, I can't see any face pics?

[shortbread]

How did you conclude she was hot, I can't see any face pics?

I didn't know until I saw her. She opened the door and I thought "wow", she's really pretty". I immediately fancied her. After that I was a bundle of nerves and didn't perform as well as well I'd like.

[myothernameis]

Yeh hot escort, and she was also a nymphomaniac 

[PilotMan]

I didn't know until I saw her. She opened the door and I thought "wow", she's really pretty". I immediately fancied her. After that I was a bundle of nerves and didn't perform as well as well I'd like.

Ahh, there's my confusion, I just noticed you said you haven't reviewed her.

[PilotMan]

Yeh hot escort, and she was also a nymphomaniac 

Review?

[myothernameis]

Review?

Escort was known as Kelly and worked in various Glasgow sauna's in the 80's - 90's

[PilotMan]

Escort was known as Kelly and worked in various Glasgow sauna's in the 80's - 90's

Her AW age at 27 would have her born in 1996 - how does that work with your dates, are you talking about 6116368, or someone else?

[Thephoenix]

  Got to be that alpha male

Why? 

[Stevelondon]

How did you conclude she was hot, I can't see any face pics?

Exactly.
When I think hot I’m thinking everything about the girl is hot.
Face, body, her aura etc.

She could have a smoking hot body but of she looks like Margaret Thatcher used to…… then……!!!!

[Justjim1987]

Can an escort be too hot?

I'm not an attractive bloke and so in civvy life I wouldn't even bother approaching a 9 or a 10. However, if I see an escort that is a 9 or a 10 and I could pay to fuck her, I still find myself thinking "she's too hot".
I will find her attractive and want to book her but something always puts me off.

I don't know if it's a function of poor self esteem or if there's some inbuilt code to not fuck someone waaay out of my league, as if going against nature somehow. Its as if I'm happy going a few notches above my level but not too far.

 Does anyone else experience this?

I completely understand where you are coming from. That being said personally I prefer them to be very attractive & that's why I'm paying tbh. My nerves usually go within a few minutes & the more I see the less nervous I get.

So to answer your question I don't think they can be to hot but I do expect a great service as they usually charge far more.

[jesse4585]

The 'too hot' thing is possibly quite a common attitude. At least I've read reports saying a high proportion of lasses on OnlyFans, and even an increasing proportion of regular porn starts,  are only about averagely good looking. And that this is as a good percentage of men prefer this,  as they see a more average lass as more "attainable" .  (This was just in random web articles, not in proper studies, so not sure if its true.)

[Fisherman]

I understand your point, I have had a couple over the years that I thought were so hot that I sort of lost it.

One memorable occasion when I was so tongue tied (I literally couldn’t get a coherent sentence out) she said she hadn’t seen a grown man revert to a 16 year old boy in the space of 1 min before. The next hour was worth it though.

Generally though as others have said part of what I am paying for is access to women I couldn’t get and didn’t get when I was younger

[rubric]

My experience is that an attitude is much more correlated with a girl adopting the typical mannerisms of glamming up.  Whereas I've met and been with plenty of very pretty/hot girls who didn't have an attitude at all.

[chadpitt]

My experience is that an attitude is much more correlated with a girl adopting the typical mannerisms of glamming up.  Whereas I've met and been with plenty of very pretty/hot girls who didn't have an attitude at all.

Agreed; but there is a difference between tarted up and beautiful.

Service doesn't correlate with looks, but if you get both then your a lucky man.

[sparkus]

I generally find hot women to be quite arrogant and that's never attractive.

It's obvious that some men punt women they'd never get to fuck for free but that just doesn't feel very 'natural' to me.

[akauya]

Can an escort be too hot?

I'm not an attractive bloke and so in civvy life I wouldn't even bother approaching a 9 or a 10. However, if I see an escort that is a 9 or a 10 and I could pay to fuck her, I still find myself thinking "she's too hot".
I will find her attractive and want to book her but something always puts me off.

I don't know if it's a function of poor self esteem or if there's some inbuilt code to not fuck someone waaay out of my league, as if going against nature somehow. Its as if I'm happy going a few notches above my level but not too far.

 Does anyone else experience this?

You're letting the "dating" mentality ruin your punting experience. You need to remember one of the joys of punting is hooking up with women we wouldn't normally be able to in civvy life.

I appreciate your concerns about not being an attractive bloke, but remember WGs see all kinds of blokes, young, old, fit, unfit, obese, smelly, etc. They are providing a service for financial remuneration, and thank God they do, otherwise most of us would end up with a life of eternal wanking. The least they care is what we look like.

Just remember, you are booking a WG for your pleasure, enjoy their hotness, enjoy their bodies. To me there's nothing more amazing than a beautiful woman giving you access to her body, so pay her price, be polite and enjoy her.

I guess i just need to man up

I don't think you do. I would be weary of being an "alpha male" (I have serious opinions about alpha males but will leave that for another conversation). Just be comfortable with yourself first, try to find some self confidence. Remember, in civvy world the majority of women are not attracted by looks. You sound like a sensitive guy, nothing wrong with that. Some women like that in men, but let's not deviate, this is not dating, it's punting.

If it makes it easier go punting with not-so-hot girls first then progress to hotter girls as you gain more confidence. Who knows, that may give you confidence with civvy girls too.

Have fun!

[Thephoenix]

Many alpha males I've met weren't happy and had experienced a string of failed relationships.
They'd also suffered with high stress levels resulting in them becoming burnt out in their fifties with heart attacks and breakdowns.
They also tended to have poor work/life balances with the pressure of living up to their persona.
Driving a top of the range Audi or a Subaru with a big exhaust might also mean you have a small dick so I'm told.

[simping]

Came across this on a porn site of all places "a 5 will get you off better than a 10" 😂

[Doc Holliday]

You're letting the "dating" mentality ruin your punting experience. You need to remember one of the joys of punting is hooking up with women we wouldn't normally be able to in civvy life.

That is very true, but I sort of get where he is coming from. For many the GFE is important and the concept that she is enjoying having sex with you and which can require you to suspend disbelief. That psychological process may be easier if the SP is not a ten?

Hot for me is not based on looks anyway. There is the old cliche 'has a pulse' which is more apt for me, but only if that pulse is capable of rising to 120 at the appropriate time.

[Payyourwaymate]

No, you would be surprised of the insecurities women of that looks calibre can have.

[simon07]

Sometimes the photoshopped, surgically enhanced hottie is totally different to reality.

I had one punt with a Barbie lookalike and she was more bothered about her looks than the punt. She even wanted me to take some photos of her using her iPhone. Completely detached from the ‘being in the now’. I try and avoid the narcissistic looking photos in case i meet another cold fish escort with a pout.

[Charliehutton]

Fair points. I guess I just have bad self esteem then.
I think it's that that the hotter they are , the more nervous I get, which in turn negatively effects my performance.

One of the great joys of punting is that it's so different from real life. Remember, it isn't her pleasure and satisfaction that matters, it's yours, and yours alone, so there's no reason for any kind of performance anxiety.

[Steely Dan]

Can an escort be too hot?

I'm not an attractive bloke and so in civvy life I wouldn't even bother approaching a 9 or a 10. However, if I see an escort that is a 9 or a 10 and I could pay to fuck her, I still find myself thinking "she's too hot".
I will find her attractive and want to book her but something always puts me off.

I don't know if it's a function of poor self esteem or if there's some inbuilt code to not fuck someone waaay out of my league, as if going against nature somehow. Its as if I'm happy going a few notches above my level but not too far.

 Does anyone else experience this?

I hate poor service from a 10 or from a 5.  And I think it is a myth that less hot escorts always give better service.  There are red reviews (for service) from all sorts.  And strong greens from some really beauties. So if part of your thinking is the hot girls wont give the same service, check out more reviews on this site.

What I do find is that everyone's 10 is different. Fake boobs and especially fake lips do nothing for me. Your perfect 10 might not see herself that way anyway - since she is not a 10 to everybody.

A suggestion.  Why not rock up to one of the more premium parties? Have a turn with a 9 - there are some there.  And they fuck everybody at the party with gusto.  Also, you will see guys there even less attractive than you having a go!

[rubric]

No, you would be surprised of the insecurities women of that looks calibre can have.

Yep, absolutely.

[shortbread]

Sorry if a bit waffley, trying to get my thoughts in order.

Fascinating range of views and replies. Thanks chaps.

 It's made me realise that my problem was I needed to fancy the girl enough to want to fuck her but also not fancy her so much I lost wood.
I punted last night and the girl had epic tits. If it weren't for me finding those melons so stupendously hot then I wouldn't have been able to cum a second time (because of the antidepressants I'm now taking). But then again if she had been a stunner then I don't think I would've managed either. So there seemed to be a sweet spot in hotness for me.

 But this thread has made me reflect on why I punt and what I'm after, which for some reason i hadn't really done before. I think I do want to suspend disbelief for a moment and pretend it's like with a gf (or at least someone who wants to be there). Maybe that's the wrong approach to punting but seems to be what floats my boat. It seemed to be harder to do if they are too hot. It burst the bubble of illusion as Doc suggested. It almost as if i start to feel sorry for the girl having to fuck unattractive me. But maybe as some of you have suggested, I can try to remember that whilst they wouldn't chose to fuck me for free ever, they are still choosing to be there. Just for a different reason. There is an escort i find hotter than any of the others i have punted so far. Now youve helped me process this Im going to try and book her keeping this in mind.

Your replies have also made me realise I had an unconscious assumption a hottie will give less good service but that isn't necessarily true. Thanks for dispelling that myth.

[mills_and_bhuna]

Sorry if a bit waffley, trying to get my thoughts in order.

Fascinating range of views and replies. Thanks chaps.

 It's made me realise that my problem was I needed to fancy the girl enough to want to fuck her but also not fancy her so much I lost wood.
I punted last night and the girl had epic tits. If it weren't for me finding those melons so stupendously hot then I wouldn't have been able to cum a second time (because of the antidepressants I'm now taking). But then again if she had been a stunner then I don't think I would've managed either. So there seemed to be a sweet spot in hotness for me.

 But this thread has made me reflect on why I punt and what I'm after, which for some reason i hadn't really done before. I think I do want to suspend disbelief for a moment and pretend it's like with a gf (or at least someone who wants to be there). Maybe that's the wrong approach to punting but seems to be what floats my boat. It seemed to be harder to do if they are too hot. It burst the bubble of illusion as Doc suggested. It almost as if i start to feel sorry for the girl having to fuck unattractive me. But maybe as some of you have suggested, I can try to remember that whilst they wouldn't chose to fuck me for free ever, they are still choosing to be there. Just for a different reason. There is an escort i find hotter than any of the others i have punted so far. Now youve helped me process this Im going to try and book her keeping this in mind.

Your replies have also made me realise I had an unconscious assumption a hottie will give less good service but that isn't necessarily true. Thanks for dispelling that myth.

She is likely getting 120 to 180 an hour for the inconvenience of having to service guys who are not that great looking.
She will be fairly happy if you are clean and respectful and straightforward to conduct business with.
And a bonus if you are an interesting conversationalist or have a sense of humour.
It's a lot better than working as a waitress getting 10 to 15 an hour and dealing with rude, arrogant diners and having to suck it up.
I think guys get too hung up on the looks issue.
Women are way less shallow in general regarding physical appearance and as has already been mentioned pick up on other things like confidence and attitude.

[Doc Holliday]

@ shortbread. You are way overthinking it. If physical appearance is highly important to get you aroused, then by all means choose SP's accordingly and enjoy, but empty your head of any thoughts of reciprocation on her part.

[Stevelondon]

Driving a top of the range Audi or a Subaru with a big exhaust might also mean you have a small dick so I'm told.

    Speaking as someone who has a couple of cars on the drive that are considered topper than top end Audis 
I've heard that remark too.
You usually hear it coming from someone who can't afford the big exhaust that would fit his Skoda 
Jealousy, terrible thing.

Yea I've had a few remarks from wankers who fancy a bit of road rage. But for the most, driving a top end car (as TP puts it)...I more often get compliments.
Compliments from SP's about my cock too.
Usually in the form of,
"Its marvelous how something so small can give so much enjoyment"
(Then of course I realised it was my enjoyment she was on about) 

[jimbobted]

If the girl is too hot I usually help her out of a few layers of clothing.


I'll get me coat.

[django0700]

The hotter the better. That’s the appeal. Have sex with someone I could never get in real life.

Agreed +1

[Malvolio]

I generally find hot women to be quite arrogant and that's never attractive.

It's obvious that some men punt women they'd never get to fuck for free but that just doesn't feel very 'natural' to me.

I'm not convinced that any of the women I've punted would want to fuck me for free - but I don't care as long as they want to fuck me when I'm paying.

The OP really seems to be overthinking this - bear in mind you're there to enjoy yourself, and whatever physical shortcomings / insecurities you may have, she will have seen worse.

[shortbread]

Thanks, yes I probably am overthinking it. I'm paying them money to be there and so they are happy to take part. That has to be enough.

[datwabbit]

Surely the whole point of punting is fucking a hottie who wouldn't give you a second glance in the street. IMO you are wasting your money if you aren't doing this.

+1

Paying uglies to punt with. How low must someone's self-esteem be m.