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Author Topic: Am I Being Paranoid?  (Read 3130 times)

Offline Sparquin

As I am new here forgive me if this has been raised before.

My home sex life with Mrs. Sparquin is somewhat vanilla to say the least.

But my sex life with WGs is far more adventurous, shall we say. I get worried that I might accidentally introduce some of my WG tendencies/techniques etc into the domestic bedroom only to hear "where did you get that idea from?"

Admittedly if Mrs. Sparquin pushed a digit into my rectum during the act I might have similar suspicions......

Anyone else have this concern?

Offline Matium

For the sake of your marriage, learn to be a Walter Mitty.

Women are extremely suspicious and if you do anything with your wife that you've never, ever done before, she's going to start rifling through your things to find out where and what you've been doing.

Your best defence is to just let your wife be the boss at home, act stupid always so that it will never. ever occur to your wife that you could go to prostitutes as she'll always think you're far too gormless to ever do anything like that.


Offline d00fer

saw it on a porno?

I assume that it was said jokingly, but that has opened up a whole new world of hurt in my experience most of the time. When it has worked it's been awesome short term, but still same end result. The old 'why do you need to watch porn when you have me / what do they do that I haven't?' discussion. It's like they weren't even watching.

Offline NIK

As I am new here forgive me if this has been raised before.

My home sex life with Mrs. Sparquin is somewhat vanilla to say the least.

But my sex life with WGs is far more adventurous, shall we say. I get worried that I might accidentally introduce some of my WG tendencies/techniques etc into the domestic bedroom only to hear "where did you get that idea from?"

Admittedly if Mrs. Sparquin pushed a digit into my rectum during the act I might have similar suspicions......

Anyone else have this concern?

Tell her you have a headache and turn away.  :D

As I am new here forgive me if this has been raised before.

My home sex life with Mrs. Sparquin is somewhat vanilla to say the least.

But my sex life with WGs is far more adventurous, shall we say. I get worried that I might accidentally introduce some of my WG tendencies/techniques etc into the domestic bedroom only to hear "where did you get that idea from?"

Admittedly if Mrs. Sparquin pushed a digit into my rectum during the act I might have similar suspicions......

Anyone else have this concern?

No. Just say you used a bit of imagination and invite Mrs S to do likewise....... ball back in her half

tcm

saw it on a porno?

Works wonders if you can get your OH into this. Mrs tcm wouldn't have entertained it 12 months ago, although she knew I watched it.

Told her to lose her inhibitions (in a fairly frank and heated discussion), that our sex life was shite and if she didn't loosen up I'd be off.

Six months later, not perfect, but we're getting there. Her BJ has improved dramatically after watching a few videos and now rivals some of the WG's I've seen. Even do the hotel 'outcall' where she texts me the room number and opens the door in her 'gear'. I don't hand her any money, of course, she has her own credit card on my account (ouch!). WG's are a lot cheaper :lol: :lol: :lol:

Amazing what can be achieved if you tell 'em what you want

tcm

Offline JV547845

Can't you just say you found a copy of Cosmopolitan or something on the train and rifled through the `30 ways to keep your man happy this summer' and that's where you got the idea to ask your wife to deep throat you from?

Offline Daffodil

The trouble with women, in my experience, is that when they get a suspicion (even a small one) it leads to snooping, which leads to more suspicion, which leads to more snooping.

We all need to try and prevent that initial whiff of suspicion.

In regards to the op's situation, if you think it would arouse suspicion then you're going to need to be very careful with it.

Offline seeker

If your other half is not in her twentys and fit ,do you really want to be teaching her new tricks  :unknown:
I punt not for friendship or company but because I love shagging fit twenty year old. :thumbsup:

Offline CBPaul

As I am new here forgive me if this has been raised before.

My home sex life with Mrs. Sparquin is somewhat vanilla to say the least.

But my sex life with WGs is far more adventurous, shall we say. I get worried that I might accidentally introduce some of my WG tendencies/techniques etc into the domestic bedroom only to hear "where did you get that idea from?"

Admittedly if Mrs. Sparquin pushed a digit into my rectum during the act I might have similar suspicions......

Anyone else have this concern?

Just say it was an idea, trying to change things a bit and thought she might like it. If you slip up once you'll be a lot more careful in the future so I wouldn't worry too much.

All relies on you being able to say it convincingly though, if you go bright red and blurt out that your favorite prossie just loves it when you take her up the batty then you're screwed.

If your other half is not in her twentys and fit ,do you really want to be teaching her new tricks  :unknown:

Well, it worked for tcm. I say if you don't ask you don't get. And that's definitely the case with mrs fg.

So you never know you might end up getting a better quality of shag between punts, which would be nice.  :thumbsup:

Oldstager

You just buy one of the better sex manuals on sale in W.H.Smiths, thumb the pages a bit, and then leave it lying around the house where she can`t avoid finding it.  When questioned you can say "I just thought I`d like to see what I`m missing.  Any variations from the normal boring sexual routine will then be attributed to your research.

Mind you, there`s every chance that as soon as she sees the book she`ll burn it

Offline potato

Its not only about introducing new things that you have to be careful of, its also the improvements in technique on the old stuff as well!  I love giving RO and over the years I have got pretty good at it. This has been mainly due to a few regs ( where time hasn't been an issue) where I have experimented and got reliable feedback - and a lot of reading up on the subject!  I could probably write a thesis on it...  If I tried it on the missus now there is no doubt she would enjoy it followed by the thought running through her head of "how the fuck did he get that good when he hasn't done it for years?"

Offline doc14

whatever you do, :rolleyes: do not say "well the other girls let me cum over their face"

Works wonders if you can get your OH into this. Mrs tcm wouldn't have entertained it 12 months ago, although she knew I watched it.

Told her to lose her inhibitions (in a fairly frank and heated discussion), that our sex life was shite and if she didn't loosen up I'd be off.

Six months later, not perfect, but we're getting there. Her BJ has improved dramatically after watching a few videos and now rivals some of the WG's I've seen. Even do the hotel 'outcall' where she texts me the room number and opens the door in her 'gear'. I don't hand her any money, of course, she has her own credit card on my account (ouch!). WG's are a lot cheaper :lol: :lol: :lol:

Amazing what can be achieved if you tell 'em what you want


And it's amazing how many of them couldn't give a shit ---you're lucky ..I've had this heart to heart on a number of occasions - and NOTHING has changed . There are lots of postings on the forum about wives attitudes .

Again , consider yourself lucky .. I wonder how many members of the forum would never of started punting -even if they received 'vanilla' sex on a regular basis (once a week ? ). Fortunately most of us love our wives / partners .. BUT , if you asked most blokes what is the ONE bugbear in their relationship it would be SEX !!!

tcm

Sorry - did something wrong - my posting is shown in the quote..!

Sorry - did something wrong - my posting is shown in the quote..!

I was pretty firm about what I wanted and we've had another firm discussion more recently. Mrs tcm wants the same things as me but her inhibitions are deep-rooted. I'm encouraging her to take the lead which she's never done before. Pushing boundaries is the biggest hurdle but she's doing fine. As I keep saying 'I'll try anything once!'

tcm

Oldstager

And it's amazing how many of them couldn't give a shit ---you're lucky ..I've had this heart to heart on a number of occasions - and NOTHING has changed . There are lots of postings on the forum about wives attitudes .

Again , consider yourself lucky .. I wonder how many members of the forum would never of started punting -even if they received 'vanilla' sex on a regular basis (once a week ? ). Fortunately most of us love our wives / partners .. BUT , if you asked most blokes what is the ONE bugbear in their RELATIONSHIP it would be SEX !!!

I am afraid that I`m never sure whether to be sympathetic or condemnatory when I read postings of this nature, but I must confess that my first inclination is to ask "Just how hard have you actually tried to have a good sexual relation ship in your marriage before you decided it was easier to go out and fuck a prossie?". It`s an odd fact of life, that although very few men want to marry a prossie, most of them nevertheless expect their new wives to come ready equipped with all the sexual knowledge and attributes of a prossie without actually having had any real experience. At the same time the men themselves, although they consider themselves God`s gift to women,  probably have only a very rudimentary knowledge of sex and little of the finer points and only the rutting instinct to guide them. So neither of them starts out equipped for a mutually happy sex life and the problem is that neither of them seems prepared to do anything about it - the wife gets little or no enjoyment, so gets bored and decides it not worth the bother, and the husband takes himself of to a prossie, who shows him what it`s all about.
AND IT`S THEIR OWN FAULT - BOTH OF THEM.

When my wife and I first started courting in our teens (in the 1940s) neither of us had had any sexual experience, but we experimented together - each of us finding out what pleased the other most - we bought sex manuals and read them in bed together, trying out everything we read, and we built up a most satisfactory sex life.  I can truthfully say that in all the years of my marriage I never once felt either the desire or the need to bed any other woman.  We started with sex every night, and even when we reached out 70s it was at least once each week. We knew all the positions we liked best, we both knew how to give the other the greatest pleasure, and we always finished with both of us completely satisfied. She would initiate sex as often as I did, and when her menstrual cycle prevented vaginal intercourse anal was always on offer (and she enjoyed it as much as I did).

When I had got over her death, and started punting none of the girls I saw gave me any better sex than I had had with my wife, and most of them nowhere near as good.

All I can say is that most of those who complain about sex with their wives have only themselves to blame for not working harder at it from the start

I am afraid that I`m never sure whether to be sympathetic or condemnatory when I read postings of this nature, but I must confess that my first inclination is to ask "Just how hard have you actually tried to have a good sexual relation ship in your marriage before you decided it was easier to go out and fuck a prossie?". It`s an odd fact of life, that although very few men want to marry a prossie, most of them nevertheless expect their new wives to come ready equipped with all the sexual knowledge and attributes of a prossie without actually having had any real experience. At the same time the men themselves, although they consider themselves God`s gift to women,  probably have only a very rudimentary knowledge of sex and little of the finer points and only the rutting instinct to guide them. So neither of them starts out equipped for a mutually happy sex life and the problem is that neither of them seems prepared to do anything about it - the wife gets little or no enjoyment, so gets bored and decides it not worth the bother, and the husband takes himself of to a prossie, who shows him what it`s all about.
AND IT`S THEIR OWN FAULT - BOTH OF THEM.

When my wife and I first started courting in our teens (in the 1940s) neither of us had had any sexual experience, but we experimented together - each of us finding out what pleased the other most - we bought sex manuals and read them in bed together, trying out everything we read, and we built up a most satisfactory sex life.  I can truthfully say that in all the years of my marriage I never once felt either the desire or the need to bed any other woman.  We started with sex every night, and even when we reached out 70s it was at least once each week. We knew all the positions we liked best, we both knew how to give the other the greatest pleasure, and we always finished with both of us completely satisfied. She would initiate sex as often as I did, and when her menstrual cycle prevented vaginal intercourse anal was always on offer (and she enjoyed it as much as I did).

When I had got over her death, and started punting none of the girls I saw gave me any better sex than I had had with my wife, and most of them nowhere near as good.

All I can say is that most of those who complain about sex with their wives have only themselves to blame for not working harder at it from the start

Spot on! And the experimenting is great fun.

tcm

Offline JV547845


AND IT`S THEIR OWN FAULT - BOTH OF THEM.


Cool story bro.  I enjoyed that.  My bachelor's take on it is that a bloke ought to know how important his sex life is to him before he pops the question (or says yes).  It's just the same as having the Children Talk before getting married, or allowing for the fact that shoes are important to one part and foot ball is to the other, and agreeing to compromise/ tolerate the other.  A couple need to have a full and frank Sex Talk before going down the aisle too.  Or just stop moaning and get divorced, plenty more fish etc.

Offline potato

Am I the only one where I find no sex with the missus is a good thing?  Frankly, she is out of my age criteria being pretty much the same age as me and I much prefer the younger age group. Don't get me wrong, we are best of friends etc., but sex would be weird with her now!  It would be much cheaper of course and my punting days really only started when the sex fizzled out at home.  I am also not at all sure whether she would be in to the things that I like these days and that's one sure way to destroy a friendship!

Oldstager

Am I the only one where I find no sex with the missus is a good thing?  Frankly, she is out of my age criteria being pretty much the same age as me and I much prefer the younger age group. Don't get me wrong, we are best of friends etc., but sex would be weird with her now!  It would be much cheaper of course and my punting days really only started when the sex fizzled out at home.  I am also not at all sure whether she would be in to the things that I like these days and that's one sure way to destroy a friendship!

Suppose that she decides that she  also would like sex with someone years younger than herself, and  punts with a young male service provider on AW (paid for out of the housekeeping, of course).  How would you feel then?

Offline yorkshire123

Am I the only one where I find no sex with the missus is a good thing?  Frankly, she is out of my age criteria being pretty much the same age as me and I much prefer the younger age group. Don't get me wrong, we are best of friends etc., but sex would be weird with her now!  It would be much cheaper of course and my punting days really only started when the sex fizzled out at home.  I am also not at all sure whether she would be in to the things that I like these days and that's one sure way to destroy a friendship!

Sex with my wife is great but far too limited for my current sex drive. So to answer your question no its not a good thing in fact if things carry on the way they are maybe i won't have the need to see prostitutes, but thats probably easier said than done  :cool:
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Sex with my wife is great but far too limited for my current sex drive. So to answer your question no its not a good thing in fact if things carry on the way they are maybe i won't have the need to see prostitutes, but thats probably easier said than done  :cool:

I think me and thee are in the same boat Y123. More sex with Mrs tcm this year than the previous 10 put together.

tcm


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