Paloma Birmingham

[Freddybigstuff1983]

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Meet was confirmed, but cancelled by her last minute
1Hr Booking last month
Initial comms via text, she seemed polite and professional, a date and time was agreed on, 3pm in 4 days time.  With a "confirm by 11 on the day please" by her.  No problem.
I text at 10am on the day, very excited. No reply, waited and waited had given up all hope, and at 1:30 got a text saying "sorry I have had a personal appointment moved so I cant make it"

Shame if a genuaine cancellation.  Annoying if shes just flakey.  Very hot girl, plenty of great reviews, gutted I missed it.  But more gutted that I planned my day around it and got cancelled on.

[Spurt]

Showing as Cheltenham today , hope she has not left Birmingham on the HL.

[Wibblewibble123]

Shame to hear this buddy!! Paloma gives a brilliant, professional and flawless performance!!

She did show as away towards the back end of last month as I tried to book in again with her!

I’d try again when she’s back in brum, as her body is as amazing as it looks on the photos!!

[Freddybigstuff1983]

She was very apologetic, and I know these things happen.  But the last minute annoyed me when you arrange your day around the timing.
Perhaps a negative is too harsh, but It couldnt be anything else

I would give her another final chance, and perhaps will try again in a few months.

[Wibblewibble123]

Oh I’d definitely be annoyed as well!! So I get the negative!! Did you end up finding a ‘last minute deal’ to scratch the itch

[Freddybigstuff1983]

Nah, I had set my sight on a "high quality" escort, not a crappy Rom.  Tried Lileth for a last minute but missed her reply and lost my slot for her cancellation.  Molly delux is outcalls only. 
So decided to save my punting fund until the next oppourtunity for a high quality one.

Probably the first time I have ever thought with my head not my dick !

[Spurt]

Probably the first time I have ever thought with my head not my dick !
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Can you patent this skill,it would save me a small fortune.

[alabama1]

She was very apologetic, and I know these things happen.  But the last minute annoyed me when you arrange your day around the timing.
Perhaps a negative is too harsh, but It couldnt be anything else

I would give her another final chance, and perhaps will try again in a few months.

Will she give you another opportunity though now that you posted a negative on here ?   

[Night king]

New SIM card, easy

 

[Moby Dick]

Last minute?

Shit happens.
Yes it’s frustrating to be cancelled a few hours before a punt. Even more so if you have to take time off work, or have an excuse in place, travelling long distances etc.....but at least she responded to you 1.5 hours before the punt.

Your review your rating and maybe this negative gives a fair warning to other UKP members? But I can’t help but think how much notice would have been acceptable. Respond at 11am rather than 1:30pm perhaps
Maybe she had a genuine excuse, and she couldn’t respond earlier?
She apologised. Did she offer an alternative date or discount?
 

[lamboman]

Is there a job that has more emergency problems than being an SP,practically never happens in any other type of work.
Bullshit I'd say.

[Palomaxxxxxx]

Will she give you another opportunity though now that you posted a negative on here ?   

No

[Freddybigstuff1983]

Waiting a few hours after her 11am "confirmation time" to respond to my confirmation message is whats made it a negative
Had she replied at 11, "yep all as planned", then canceled last minute that does point to a genuine emergency.
Had she replied at 11 and canceled then, again, annoying but probably not a negative.

No, no discount or alternatives offered, it was left as "please book again for an alternative date"

[lamboman]

No

Great CS.

[Freddybigstuff1983]

Great CS.

Sometimes these broads do themselves no favours 

[lamboman]

Sometimes these broads do themselves no favours 

Indeed.

[Palomaxxxxxx]

Sometimes these broads do themselves no favours 

Didn’t you just say you wanted to try and book me again, despite posting this? I’m sorry, but no, I don’t want to see anyone who has blasted me on here. If the roles were reversed I’m sure you’d feel a similar way.

I work everyday and barely cancel. If I do there’s a reason. Apologies for having somewhat of a life outside of being a whore.

[lamboman]

Didn’t you just say you wanted to try and book me again, despite posting this? I’m sorry, but no, I don’t want to see anyone who has blasted me on here. If the roles were reversed I’m sure you’d feel a similar way.

I work everyday and barely cancel. If I do there’s a reason. Apologies for having somewhat of a life outside of being a whore.

Oh the irony.

[Freddybigstuff1983]

I didnt reply?  You must have cancelled on more punters than you think !
You have genuinely good reviews, and I'm sure you are a good service provider.  But when you mess up, own it.  It has been the downfall of many a girl on these boards.

[JontyR]

I’m sorry, but no, I don’t want to see anyone who has blasted me on here.

I think they wanted to blast you at your place.

Oh, you mean, oh right, sorry.

[Hotdogboy88]

Thanks for the review. It’s so annoying when that happens especially when planned so far in advance.

She does look super hot. Has anyone who seen her confirm that she le a proper gym bunny and is toned? Is she muscled as well like a female bobdybuilder as her photos show her lifting some weights. Thanks in advvance.

[Cheltclient]

Thanks for the review. It’s so annoying when that happens especially when planned so far in advance.

She does look super hot. Has anyone who seen her confirm that she le a proper gym bunny and is toned? Is she muscled as well like a female bobdybuilder as her photos show her lifting some weights. Thanks in advvance.

I’ve just reviewed her. Yes, very gym fit and toned. No, I wouldn’t say she’s a bodybuilder type of body. Just very toned, petite, and everything is very tight. It’s hard to describe but if you use a gym, there’s often a super attractive girl not wearing a lot and with a body that looks amazing in gym clothes. She’s a body like that.

[Hotdogboy88]

I’ve just reviewed her. Yes, very gym fit and toned. No, I wouldn’t say she’s a bodybuilder type of body. Just very toned, petite, and everything is very tight. It’s hard to describe but if you use a gym, there’s often a super attractive girl not wearing a lot and with a body that looks amazing in gym clothes. She’s a body like that.

Cheers mate. I know the type. They so hot In They gym gear as well. If I can get to see will definitely have to be in gym clothes I think.
Was hoping though that she’d have some biceps on her to flex. But can’t get everything I guess. 

[Palomaxxxxxx]

I didnt reply?  You must have cancelled on more punters than you think !
You have genuinely good reviews, and I'm sure you are a good service provider.  But when you mess up, own it.  It has been the downfall of many a girl on these boards.

Urm. I barely cancel on anyone. It’s a last resort as I’m scared someone will come and moan on here.

Unsure where I have messed up. I cancelled and was ‘very apologetic’, pretty sure that’s owning it, I apologised .

I was responding to another member asking if I would allow you to book again. I would rather push my fingers into my eyes

[Punter S Thompson]

Urm. I barely cancel on anyone. It’s a last resort as I’m scared someone will come and moan on here.

Unsure where I have messed up. I cancelled and was ‘very apologetic’, pretty sure that’s owning it, I apologised .

I was responding to another member asking if I would allow you to book again. I would rather push my fingers into my eyes

Would I have to pay extra to watch you push your fingers into your eyes, or is it included in your price?

[Freddybigstuff1983]

Would I have to pay extra to watch you push your fingers into your eyes, or is it included in your price?

If the eye pushing got canceleld last minute due to an emergency, would I be banned from future eye pushing bookings ?

[lamboman]

If the eye pushing got canceleld last minute due to an emergency, would I be banned from future eye pushing bookings ?

 

[CoolTiger]

Will she give you another opportunity though now that you posted a negative on here ?   

No

Terrible Customer Service.

Look at the following Negative review which a SP then turned it into a Postive. The Negative is still there for all to see, but it was her response to it that did it. Only ended up with 1 Negative review out of 79.

Pity you couldn't learn from this.

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=122459.0

[Placebo88]

The review wasn't that off putting. She did give reasonable warning of the cancellation. Things can happen and reviews like this help to show how reliable an escort is. I'd have given a second chance but not everyone is so generous, including Paloma on her profile.

Her replies to this review are the real failing. She does her best work in the bedroom and if she had any sense would not come on here and risk tarnishing her own rep. Reviews show she is very good at her job. Her replies to this review make her look like a mardy chav and are the opposite of good advertising.

[lamboman]

The review wasn't that off putting. She did give reasonable warning of the cancellation. Things can happen and reviews like this help to show how reliable an escort is. I'd have given a second chance but not everyone is so generous, including Paloma on her profile.

Her replies to this review are the real failing. She does her best work in the bedroom and if she had any sense would not come on here and risk tarnishing her own rep. Reviews show she is very good at her job. Her replies to this review make her look like a mardy chav and are the opposite of good advertising.

She didn't give reasonable warning of cancellation at all and for me that's a lost booking for her as she's unreliable and a bit arsey by the look of it.

[Cryton123]

I’ve seen her (and reviewed) and was surprised at how chilled she was. She’s a really nice girl but clearly has the balls to defend herself on here.

[Palomaxxxxxx]

Why on earth would I want to see someone who has reviewed me negatively on here? If I left a bad review on my hair stylist’s Facebook page because she cancelled, I highly doubt she’d ever want to book me in again, it’s just awkward.

If people want to conclude from this one review that I am ‘unreliable’ then that’s fine, but I really don’t like cancelling on people and it’s the last thing I will do. Shame as none of you see how hard I have worked and what social and family life I have sacrificed in 4 years. I work 6/7 days a week and pick up the phone as much as I possibly can, somehow still finding time to go to the gym and complete a bachelors degree. As much as I don’t ever want to cancel and disappoint anyone, life happens and sometimes I can’t do anything about it

[Fac51]

Why on earth would I want to see someone who has reviewed me negatively on here? If I left a bad review on my hair stylist’s Facebook page because she cancelled, I highly doubt she’d ever want to book me in again, it’s just awkward.

If people want to conclude from this one review that I am ‘unreliable’ then that’s fine, but I really don’t like cancelling on people and it’s the last thing I will do. Shame as none of you see how hard I have worked and what social and family life I have sacrificed in 4 years. I work 6/7 days a week and pick up the phone as much as I possibly can, somehow still finding time to go to the gym and complete a bachelors degree. As much as I don’t ever want to cancel and disappoint anyone, life happens and sometimes I can’t do anything about it

If I earned £150 per hour - I would work 7 days per week

I'd be able retire at 50 ! 

[Straightsix]

If I earned £150 per hour - I would work 7 days per week

I'd be able retire at 50 ! 

I'd have a sore cock and walk like John Wayne with one leg.

[Freddybigstuff1983]

There was another provider of a recent thread,  Mandy Foxxx.  She got some stick, came on here, and came accross really well in my opinion.
I hadnt read the Lucie thread, but having done so now, that too, came across incredibly well. 

[Placebo88]

She didn't give reasonable warning of cancellation at all and for me that's a lost booking for her as she's unreliable and a bit arsey by the look of it.

It is reasonable for some punters. Depends how far the punter had to travel and what other plans he had to rearrange to make time for it. Her record doesn't indicate someone who is prone to being unreliable. This review shows she isn't perfect in that department, still better than many.

I’ve seen her (and reviewed) and was surprised at how chilled she was. She’s a really nice girl but clearly has the balls to defend herself on here.

I have not seen her. Her reviews largely read well, she lets herself down with her involvement on this site. You say balls, I'd say stupidity. She says how busy she is and how little spare time she has. Leaving this place alone and letting her work speak for itself frees some time up and loses her less bookings as well.

[teddyking]

Why on earth would I want to see someone who has reviewed me negatively on here? If I left a bad review on my hair stylist’s Facebook page because she cancelled, I highly doubt she’d ever want to book me in again, it’s just awkward.

If people want to conclude from this one review that I am ‘unreliable’ then that’s fine, but I really don’t like cancelling on people and it’s the last thing I will do. Shame as none of you see how hard I have worked and what social and family life I have sacrificed in 4 years. I work 6/7 days a week and pick up the phone as much as I possibly can, somehow still finding time to go to the gym and complete a bachelors degree. As much as I don’t ever want to cancel and disappoint anyone, life happens and sometimes I can’t do anything about it

Give yourself a huge pat on the back for making £150 an hour, life must be sooo hard eh. As if anyone on here gives a shit lol

[PunterNumber69]

From what I've read Paloma seems to have a good reputation and doesn't have a track record for last minute cancellations.  The OP could have played this differently especially if he still wanted to see her.  I agree with Paloma's stance on not wanting to see the OP.  Sometimes last minute issues do arise and yes it might screw up your day, but sadly that is life sometimes. The OP could have privately discussed the situation with Paloma and perhaps agreed a way to compensate him for the impact on his day e.g. a discount on a future booking.  Now he doesn't get to see her.

[Wood2017]

From what I've read Paloma seems to have a good reputation and doesn't have a track record for last minute cancellations.  The OP could have played this differently especially if he still wanted to see her.  I agree with Paloma's stance on not wanting to see the OP.  Sometimes last minute issues do arise and yes it might screw up your day, but sadly that is life sometimes. The OP could have privately discussed the situation with Paloma and perhaps agreed a way to compensate him for the impact on his day e.g. a discount on a future booking.  Now he doesn't get to see her.

I think this is a fairly reasoned post on the whole and agree things can pop up last minute but there's also an element of double standards and hypocrisy here that i don't think should be looked past....

I've just looked at Paloma's profile and it says 'New clients first impressions count. cancel upon your first booking and you are blocked'.

That to me just screams double standards if she's then stating things outside of her control came up but doesn't afford her clients the same leeway.

[Cheetah_321]

I think this is a fairly reasoned post on the whole and agree things can pop up last minute but there's also an element of double standards and hypocrisy here that i don't think should be looked past....

I've just looked at Paloma's profile and it says 'New clients first impressions count. cancel upon your first booking and you are blocked'.

That to me just screams double standards if she's then stating things outside of her control came up but doesn't afford her clients the same leeway.

Hit the nail on the head! Spot on mate

[PunterNumber69]

I think this is a fairly reasoned post on the whole and agree things can pop up last minute but there's also an element of double standards and hypocrisy here that i don't think should be looked past....

I've just looked at Paloma's profile and it says 'New clients first impressions count. cancel upon your first booking and you are blocked'.

That to me just screams double standards if she's then stating things outside of her control came up but doesn't afford her clients the same leeway.

Her policy on new clients seems pretty standard to me. She may privately give people a bit of leeway if they have good feedback on AW or a decent excuse. Trying to resolve this type of situation privately is always better. The OP shouldn't be surprised by Paloma not wanting to take a booking from him. If he really wanted to see her, then he'd have tried to resolve this privately not throw his toys out of his pram on here by leaving negative review.

We do seem to be a fairly grumpy and unforgiving bunch at the moment. I've had cancellations of bookings from SPs with a few days notice when I've booked time off work to see them.  They were annoying, but I just cancelled the days off and worked the days as normal, so I didn't lose anything. I wouldn't have left a  negative review in these situations as I was still interested in seeing the SPs and eventually I did.  If I had left a negative then I would not be surprised if the SP declined a booking from me.

[Wood2017]

Her policy on new clients seems pretty standard to me. She may privately give people a bit of leeway if they have good feedback on AW or a decent excuse. Trying to resolve this type of situation privately is always better. The OP shouldn't be surprised by Paloma not wanting to take a booking from him. If he really wanted to see her, then he'd have tried to resolve this privately not throw his toys out of his pram on here by leaving negative review.

We do seem to be a fairly grumpy and unforgiving bunch at the moment. I've had cancellations of bookings from SPs with a few days notice when I've booked time off work to see them.  They were annoying, but I just cancelled the days off and worked the days as normal, so I didn't lose anything. I wouldn't have left a  negative review in these situations as I was still interested in seeing the SPs and eventually I did.  If I had left a negative then I would not be surprised if the SP declined a booking from me.

That's a different scenario altogether though mate. In your scenario the bookings was cancelled days in advance which in my books is fine, however in this scenario the booking was cancelled 1.5 hours in advance. If the OP was already in the area for other reasons i agree it may be no big loss for him but if he's lost a days work or if he's self employed and even lost a days pay by her cancelling on the afternoon 1.5 hours before the meet has not only lost him time but money too 

Similarly Paloma might give more leeway and be reasonable with a one-off cancellation but i'm just quoting her own profile which seems pretty black and white.

I do agree though that if i'd had cause to leave someone a negative review i probably wouldn't as a punter want to see them again anyway.

[JontyR]

If I had left a negative then I would not be surprised if the SP declined a booking from me.

PULL!!!

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[jay121]

If people want to conclude from this one review that I am ‘unreliable’ then that’s fine, but I really don’t like cancelling on people and it’s the last thing I will do. Shame as none of you see how hard I have worked and what social and family life I have sacrificed in 4 years. I work 6/7 days a week and pick up the phone as much as I possibly can, somehow still finding time to go to the gym and complete a bachelors degree. As much as I don’t ever want to cancel and disappoint anyone, life happens and sometimes I can’t do anything about it

I sometimes wish i had learned how to play  a violin, as many have commented £150 an hour is plenty of motivation to work 6/7 days a week.  That sacrifice has not been forced on you thats a choice you have made yourself.

[vindici]

If I had left a negative then I would not be surprised if the SP declined a booking from me.

Why is this a controversial statement?

I've written a fair few negs myself, and I would never dream of trying to book those SPs again, and in some cases I actively warn others when their name comes up as a recommendation.

As far as I'm concerned, once you write a negative review, it's understood that you will never see that SP again.

This is a person to person business, for a really satisfying punt you're gonna need some chemistry between you. If you've gone on the record with a negative review, I really find it hard to understand how you're gonna be able to have a good atmosphere and mutual chemistry should a punt later be arranged.

What am I missing here?

[pbrown355]

Nothing I can think of

[alibirmingham]

Why is this a controversial statement?

I've written a fair few negs myself, and I would never dream of trying to book those SPs again, and in some cases I actively warn others when their name comes up as a recommendation.

As far as I'm concerned, once you write a negative review, it's understood that you will never see that SP again.

This is a person to person business, for a really satisfying punt you're gonna need some chemistry between you. If you've gone on the record with a negative review, I really find it hard to understand how you're gonna be able to have a good atmosphere and mutual chemistry should a punt later be arranged.

What am I missing here?

I can only speak for myself but depends on the reason for the negative. If it’s service yes I won’t return. Not unless there’s a compelling reason to and an example of that would be Sensai from Lush. Saw Hera few years ago and service was shit, but recently she had a few good reviews and a lot of time had passed, no other sps available so gave it another go and she is known to be up and down.

If the neg review was down to cancelled meet, poor timekeeping, double booking etc I would still do a beg review to warn others of what happened but may still try to book for a different day and keep trying if it was a sp that was highly rated or someone I really wanted to see.

During a punt I go for my own release but always friendly etc towards to wg. So if the chemistry is there great as that will make it a memorable punt and ensure repeat visits. if not then as I’m paying I expect at the very least a friendly positive time. If the wg does not want to see me based on a neg then that’s also fine as is her right, but what would annoy me more is if she did take a booking knowing she was unhappy about a previous neg and provide a shot service knowing herself it’s a shit service.

So for that reason if a wg calls me out on a neg review I’ll never see her again. But if she doesn’t know or doesn’t remember the neg review then yes I would see a wg who I’ve reviewed as neg as long as the neg wasn’t service based.

Also isn’t the whole idea about being able to post more then one review for a wg based on different ratings so a neg to pos or vice versa?

[Freddybigstuff1983]

If the neg review was down to cancelled meet, poor timekeeping, double booking etc I would still do a beg review to warn others of what happened but may still try to book for a different day and keep trying if it was a sp that was highly rated or someone I really wanted to see.

^^ Exactly this.  It was only a neg due to flakeyness.  Her other reviews were still good, so I would have re booked anyway when it was convenient incase I got messed around again.  I would have booked with a different punting number obviously to avoid awkwardness.  2 cancellations and I wouldnt go back

But her reaction to this thread has put me off for good

[AciQ541.45]

But her reaction to this thread has put me off for good

+1

[sanjman]

I posted a neg about Thai Jeen due to location mess up.  My number must have got blocked as when I tried to apologise for my rant and rearrange, they went answered.

New sim, got to see her again and had a great time!