Dating a prossie. Is it as bad an idea as it sounds?

[Fuggedaboutit]

You pay for sex in one way or another, even in the sixites free lurve was never ever free!...

As the saying goes, "what's the difference between paid for sex and fee sex? Free sex costs more..."

[Watts.E.Dunn]

As the saying goes, "what's the difference between paid for sex and fee sex? Free sex costs more..."

Oi! fee sex thats paid for sex h'int it boi;!

[Fuggedaboutit]

God damn typos....

[winkywanky]

That's why I chose to stay single and happy..
No verbal ear bashings..
No noise..
No bullshit..

Just dip it yourself and go 👍👍

That's kind of #Metoo, although the one thing to consider is how things will be when you get into your dotage. 70+ on your tod is a whole different kettle of fish.

Speaking of which, perhaps someone needs to set up a dating site for over 70s, called, Kettle of Fish?

Of course though, it would just be full of bitter old women saying I told you so!! 

[king tarzan]

That's kind of #Metoo, although the one thing to consider is how things will be when you get into your dotage. 70+ on your tod is a whole different kettle of fish.

Speaking of which, perhaps someone needs to set up a dating site for over 70s, called, Kettle of Fish?

Of course though, it would just be full of bitter old women saying I told you so!! 

Personally I hope I don't live that long...
Fingers crossed die naturally in my sleep in my mid 60's

[Doc Holliday]

Personally I hope I don't live that long...
Fingers crossed die naturally in my sleep in my mid 60's

Really? Very sad to hear that. 

[winkywanky]

Personally I hope I don't live that long...
Fingers crossed die naturally in my sleep in my mid 60's

Nooooo!

I suspect by the time you get to 60 (and if your cock is still working) you might become a little Roger Daltrey over it, if you know what I mean?

[king tarzan]

Really? Very sad to hear that. 

I don't want to be living with down hill health and on medication.. not for me...each to there own..

[LilithNoir]

That's great then. So you won't mind him sitting in his pyjamas all day watching Netflix and doing nothing else? 

Why to twist and swing to the extreme? Is this this “over identification” you’re talking about? 

He was hard working and had money, I didn’t treat him as a walking wallet. It was more important that the partner pulls his weight into the relationship in other ways.  He didn’t so the door was eventually shown, there’s only this many “second chances” one can give 

[LilithNoir]

The argument that you would need to pay the WG or "be the whores cashpoint" as KT put eloquently doesn't hold much truth especially if she is still working as I would assume most earn more than the average punter. Even if she decided to end being an escort before, during or after, I would assume, like in any relationship, she would have her plans and ideas, you would discuss your plans and ideas and the two of you would find a middle ground like adults do.

Totally this ^

...I will add that if she has any sense, she’d use her current earnings to secure her own future, achieve financial independence without relying on him. So in case of divorce, she doesn’t end up on her ass. 

[Payyourwaymate]

Personally I hope I don't live that long...
Fingers crossed die naturally in my sleep in my mid 60's

KT, I used to feel like that aswell. I did not want to live past 50 if I was a poor man. I've seen one too many old people that did not make it £££££ wise and their life looks like a living hell, no relatives, friends, poor declining health, just all types of sadness. However now, I would just migrate to a cheaper country and allow the sterling currency to work its magic to lift my standard of living if all else fails  .

[Thephoenix]

Personally I hope I don't live that long...
Fingers crossed die naturally in my sleep in my mid 60's

Come back on here when your sixty four and a half KT, you might think differently.
You've no idea what life be like for you then.

[Jonestown]

The argument that you would need to pay the WG or "be the whores cashpoint" as KT put eloquently doesn't hold much truth .........

When out shopping with a WG I was "seeing" in a private capacity, I learned very quickly not to get caught anywhere near the till when she came out of the changing room.

[SunestStripper]

When out shopping with a WG I was "seeing" in a private capacity, I learned very quickly not to get caught anywhere near the till when she came out of the changing room.

Sounds no different to civvie relationships I've had 

[lillythesavage]

Personally I hope I don't live that long...
Fingers crossed die naturally in my sleep in my mid 60's

Fuck me Kt, you no how to cheer a depressed man up, 8 fucking months to the big 60 and dreading it. Mind you I never thought I would make 40. Drink. drugs, fast cars, faster women, gambling and often mixed together, different times. Pretty much gave them all up, well moderated in a major way when I did and married again.

cannot say that worked well. Life was so much more fun and stress was never issue.

[Subboy1980]

I once became very close to a wg.  We knew each others private life, real names hanged out a lot even on days when she worked we would go out.  Told me she loved me and I really was into her.  However, as time passed it was ALWAYS me paying for everything meals out and shopping that I realised she's just using me as a cash cow.  I stopped seeing her and it took me a long time to get over it.  During that time I had recently divorced from my wife and the wg knew all this and I was vulnerable and feeling so low.  Thouhgt she was my friend but found it was all just a big lie and I was deluded.

Still feel hurt about it thinking back.  How could someone do that to someone who is feeling soo low.  What kind of people are these wgs...  i think wgs are not your normal woman, they are different breed of woman who are just after cash and nothing else.  You might and its a very big might get the few wgs who are honest and may be mates with you.

Now a days I just keep it professional when visiting a wg, pay cash have a good time and bye.  Lesson well learned, never ever date a wg as they will never leave their profession and they just lie and plead the poverty status to suck more money out of you if you get close to them.

[Watts.E.Dunn]

Totally this ^

...I will add that if she has any sense, she’d use her current earnings to secure her own future, achieve financial independence without relying on him. So in case of divorce, she doesn’t end up on her ass. 

And that .. seems to be what most all EE and Romanian women are doing here! Securing their finiancial future without Rom men being involved!...

[Thephoenix]

I guess it's to be expected that some attitudes towards WG are as a result of personal experiences.
If you've been in a relationship with a WG and it hasn't worked out, that's probably going to influence your attitude to WG in general, but that doesn't necessarily mean all WG relationships are the same.
There may well be members on here who've had more positive experiences, but are reluctant to post because they know they'll be shot down in flames
In any case, this being a punter's forum, the attitudes may be a bit prejudiced anyway.

Like the attitudes and generalisations about WG's
Again, they may be greatly influenced by the type of SP one tends to visit.

Punters regularly using street girls, may well generalise and say they're all druggies and mentally unstable.
Uses of Thai massage parlours will have different experiences.
Regular visits to Roms will influence your attitude.
Then if you're a retired multi millionaire pop star like me with money no object, you're more likely to meet some of the more intelligent and classy WG's regular posting on here.

PS just remembered I've got to finish off my review of Fagash Lill from Birkenhead docks.

[Doc Holliday]

I guess it's to be expected that some attitudes towards WG are as a result of personal experiences.
If you've been in a relationship with a WG and it hasn't worked out, that's probably going to influence your attitude to WG in general, but that doesn't necessarily mean all WG relationships are the same.
There may well be members on here who've had more positive experiences, but are reluctant to post because they know they'll be shot down in flames
In any case, this being a punter's forum, the attitudes may be a bit prejudiced anyway.

Like the attitudes and generalisations about WG's
Again, they may be greatly influenced by the type of SP one tends to visit.

Punters regularly using street girls, may well generalise and say they're all druggies and mentally unstable.
Uses of Thai massage parlours will have different experiences.
Regular visits to Roms will influence your attitude.
Then if you're a retired multi millionaire pop star like me with money no object, you're more likely to meet some of the more intelligent and classy WG's regular posting on here.

PS just remembered I've got to finish off my review of Fagash Lill from Birkenhead docks.

This ^  .... apart from the pop star bit. 

Oh and Fagash Lill is on a ventilator in Arrowe Park .. I always warned her to give them up.

[HoldMichaels]

There may well be members on here who've had more positive experiences, but are reluctant to post because they know they'll be shot down in flames

I did try and present a positive experience... even if it did end eventually. But apparently the *only* reason you can break up with an SW - according to some - is because of their work. Any other reason MUST be related in some way to that. Even if it isn't.   

[Doc Holliday]

I did try and present a positive experience... even if it did end eventually. But apparently the *only* reason you can break up with an SW - according to some - is because of their work. Any other reason MUST be related in some way to that. Even if it isn't.   

You need a thick skin on here. You stood your ground well. 

[MissWolf]

I once became very close to a wg.  We knew each others private life, real names hanged out a lot even on days when she worked we would go out.  Told me she loved me and I really was into her.  However, as time passed it was ALWAYS me paying for everything meals out and shopping that I realised she's just using me as a cash cow.  I stopped seeing her and it took me a long time to get over it.  During that time I had recently divorced from my wife and the wg knew all this and I was vulnerable and feeling so low.  Thouhgt she was my friend but found it was all just a big lie and I was deluded.

Still feel hurt about it thinking back.  How could someone do that to someone who is feeling soo low.  What kind of people are these wgs...  i think wgs are not your normal woman, they are different breed of woman who are just after cash and nothing else.  You might and its a very big might get the few wgs who are honest and may be mates with you.

Now a days I just keep it professional when visiting a wg, pay cash have a good time and bye.  Lesson well learned, never ever date a wg as they will never leave their profession and they just lie and plead the poverty status to suck more money out of you if you get close to them.

Let's face it that could have been any relationship with any woman, with any job who you met on POF or tinder or any other dating platform,  someone out for what they can get from another human being is unsavoury what ever the gender, they are not exclusively WG's and that generalisation is is something that continually takes its toll on this industry and the removes the hope it will ever come out of the shadows.

[HoldMichaels]

You need a thick skin on here. You stood your ground well. 

Haha cheers... Yeah, at some point you just have to realise people only want to hear something that fits into their dogmatic narrative, it wasn't worth continuing as I wasn't changing any attitudes.

Ultimately, and while I can't speak for everyone who has ever dated an SW, I think you need to go into it with a certain 'emotional maturity' - like, if you go into it as an insecure person, untrusting and prone to jealousy, then your experience will not be a positive one. I'm quite lucky as I don't (think!) I get jealous or insecure. I've always looked as jealousy as a lack of trust, and if there's no trust you may as well not be there. Anyway, that's just my view on it... from one relationship... years ago... YMMV.

[Stevelondon]

Personally I hope I don't live that long...
Fingers crossed die naturally in my sleep in my mid 60's

As you go on to say, each to their own.
Speaking from a personal viewpoint and also one of those in their mid sixties. (How the hell did I get this far)   

I would go along with the idea of dying peacefully in my sleep.
But age hits everyone differently and so far I have managed to steer clear of anything that blights my life.
Its not so much about age, it is all about quality of life.
I suppose I might think differently if I were living on the breadline or still having to work for example.
But like a lot of you out there. I worked and dare I say, did ok for myself.
So mid sixties is ok as far as I am concerned and got a lot of life to get on with too.

I shall come back to this thread in ten years time and tell you how I am doing.

[Hobbit]

Why to twist and swing to the extreme? Is this this “over identification” you’re talking about? 

He was hard working and had money, I didn’t treat him as a walking wallet. It was more important that the partner pulls his weight into the relationship in other ways.  He didn’t so the door was eventually shown, there’s only this many “second chances” one can give 

"Had money" is the keyword here.

By the way, when I said "over-identification" I was referring to a form of fanaticism that some people have to a role that they live.

[Hobbit]

Personally I hope I don't live that long...
Fingers crossed die naturally in my sleep in my mid 60's

Have to agree with you KT. Last thing I would ever want is to end up in a care home where hardly anyone comes to visit you and you have a fat nurse called Maize looking after you and wiping your ass. I would only want to live until I was independent and healthy. 

[king tarzan]

I would only want to live until I was independent and healthy. 

Fully agreed👍👍👍👏👏

[Doc Holliday]

Last thing I would ever want is to end up in a care home where hardly anyone comes to visit you and you have a fat nurse called Maize looking after you and wiping your ass.

I don't think Maize is especially fat?

[Hobbit]

I don't think Maize is especially fat?

I think you're confusing her with Penny. 

[Doc Holliday]

I think you're confusing her with Penny. 

Oh yes ... I do get them confused. Think my meds are due soon.

[LilithNoir]

"Had money" is the keyword here.

By the way, when I said "over-identification" I was referring to a form of fanaticism that some people have to a role that they live.

I just knew you’re going to latch onto the money bit.

Yes, he had his own money and I never ever asked for it as I have my own. Jeez.

[B4bcock]

Oh yes ... I do get them confused. Think my meds are due soon.

Don't worry, Doc, big nurse Ratched will be soon taking care of you . . . . . .

[Hobbit]

I just knew you’re going to latch onto the money bit.

Yes, he had his own money and I never ever asked for it as I have my own. Jeez.

So, humour me. What do you like about him?

[Hobbit]

Don't worry, Doc, big nurse Ratched will be soon taking care of you . . . . . .

No. She was replaced by Svetlana.

[Subboy1980]

The wg i saw never treated me to anything.  Now if someone likes you and you go out with them a lot I would expect a little bit of respect and have at least sometimes for the wg to treat me to a lunch.  It doesn't have to cost a lot but this didn't happen.  Always me paying and I got sick of it.  Wgs are only interested in trying to squeeze as much out of you. What annoyed me the most is she would boast about how much she earned, "made £325 today!" Yet not even pay a lunch. They pretend to be your friend and humour you to this extent.  As mentioned i will never ever get close to a wg again as it ends in tears.  Money, money money.  There's more to life than money.

[JontyR]

you have a fat nurse called Maize looking after you and wiping your ass.

Link please.

[Watts.E.Dunn]

The wg i saw never treated me to anything.  Now if someone likes you and you go out with them a lot I would expect a little bit of respect and have at least sometimes for the wg to treat me to a lunch.  It doesn't have to cost a lot but this didn't happen.  Always me paying and I got sick of it.  Wgs are only interested in trying to squeeze as much out of you. What annoyed me the most is she would boast about how much she earned, "made £325 today!" Yet not even pay a lunch. They pretend to be your friend and humour you to this extent.  As mentioned i will never ever get close to a wg again as it ends in tears.  Money, money money.  There's more to life than money.

Huh! i went out with a lady, now not meaning to be a racist stereotype, but she was born in a place not that far from the church of the nativity, the real one!.

Not bloody once did she offer to pay for anything, it was a one way system for any money out of my pocket to pay for bloody everything, even the bloody ice creams the day we went to Hunstantion!

Even, get this!, she didnt feel as we were ever quite ready for the parting of her legs, the bloody Red sea would have split asunder  sooner if i'd have asked it!

She was in a job paying a good 60K odd a year!!!!!

And no, not a SP either!..

[Mr_Shins]

Not sure how, he wasn’t a walking wallet or a charity organisation. Of course when we went out he’d pay but apart from that I wasn’t actually taking anything from him. Not all prossies are out to get you 

But you do have a point, marriage is probably the costliest punt of all, and not always consistent service wise 

Why when you went out did he pay, given you also have a good job that makes a lot of money? Or do you mean, he often paid / treated you?

[SeriousLee]

I am somewhat a bit smitten for a particular WG that I have been seeing recently. I wouldn't dare bring up anything in a session as that would be beyond weird. If she popped the question, I would give it considerable thought.

You only live once and it's fun to live in the moment and if it ended badly, I would be fine. Better to know what had happened than what could have happened.

[Hobbit]

I am somewhat a bit smitten for a particular WG that I have been seeing recently. I wouldn't dare bring up anything in a session as that would be beyond weird. If she popped the question, I would give it considerable thought.

You only live once and it's fun to live in the moment and if it ended badly, I would be fine. Better to know what had happened than what could have happened.

If it was one life then I wouldn't want to spend it with one girl. Madness my friend, it's madness I tell you.   

[Jonestown]

I am somewhat a bit smitten for a particular WG that I have been seeing recently. I wouldn't dare bring up anything in a session as that would be beyond weird. If she popped the question, I would give it considerable thought.

You only live once and it's fun to live in the moment and if it ended badly, I would be fine. Better to know what had happened than what could have happened.

Don't be a wuss, get in there and ask her if she fancies a bit of civilian interfacing, which would probably have to be a walk in the park in current times.

[SeriousLee]

If it was one life then I wouldn't want to spend it with one girl. Madness my friend, it's madness I tell you.   

I suppose it is in a way. I've had too many bad experiences punting lately so if I were to only see one WG, which I have been contemplating after seeing a suspected TS by accident, and there was a strong connection between said WG, I may aswell pursue dating that one exclusively if it were possible.

I do still enjoy the random unknown women and places you go to while punting. In London, I can name some train stations and remember what WG I saw there and recall said experiences.

Sometimes you just need a bit of familiarity in your life!

[SeriousLee]

Don't be a wuss, get in there and ask her if she fancies a bit of civilian interfacing, which would probably have to be a walk in the park in current times.

I was toying with the idea in the next session. I will probably see her again in March or April so I'll be direct about it.

[sevenstealth]

About 2/3 years ago I saw a girl that I had a few punts with had a profile on POF. The punts were around 2014/15 so it had been a while since we had seen each other. I messaged her just saying her pics looked nice etc asked a few questions. Seemed to be getting on quite well so I asked her for her number and she gave it to me, obviously see could see my pictures so I thought if she recognises me then  she will just block us or whatever

Anyway she gave me her number and asked if we could have a chat so gave us a call the next night. Definitely her and we got on well and had a laugh on the phone

At this point she didn't have an active AW profile and she said she worked at an office in town. We arranged to meet on her lunch break a couple of days after. Was really nervous meeting her cos I thought she might get onto me once we met, had shades on when I met up with her and she asked me to take them off and it appeared that I was in the clear. Got on well and had a laugh and as I walked her back to the office we had a kiss in the car park

Memories of the punts came flooding back and the horn got the better of me, sent her a message basically asking if she wanted to come back to mine for a shag when she finished, which did not go down well!but she did kind of laugh it off and said I would have to take her out a few more times before she would be thinking of that

Went out in the week and just had some drinks in the park as it was a nice summers day, again just a few kisses and when i got home she phoned me and was talking filth down the phone telling me to get my cock out and wank off, saying what she would do to me. Said she wanted me to dangle her head over the edge of the bed and fuck her throat. Loved it

Few days later she invited me round to hers . Started watching a film when she just put her hands on my shorts and felt my cock and just asked me to get it out. She was sucking me off on the couch and then we went in the bedroom which was an absolute mess. Shagged her and she stopped partway through and fingers herself on top of me squirting her juices everywhere, ended by telling me she wanted my cum in her mouth so she sucked me off and went off to spit it all down the sink (a classic from the punts i had with her)

Felt a bit weird after and I just couldn't help but think that this is someone I wouldn't feel comfortable introducing to my friends or family really, although she was a nice girl. Never spoke about her being an escort and I'm fairly sure she didn't recognise me at any point. Didnt see her again after that, I said I wasn't ready for a relationship and she said neither was she so I don't think any damage was done

There probably is one wg that I've seen that I would actually go out with. And recently she did actually tell me that her most recent relationship was with a client of hers. Didnt end well for them though, he got jealous. Think if I was seeing her I would want her sooner rather than later to bin the escorting

The girl I saw did end up escorting again briefly after I saw her but to my knowledge any profile she had has gone now

I think if you are the jealous type then definitely don't date an escort

[Thephoenix]

Blimey.... there's plenty of us on here who only remember mid sixties as a distant memory of our younger days.

We're not allowed to call Matron by her first name at our retirement home for bewildered codgers.
She can only be referred to as Sister Ignatius.
I'm quite happy for her to change my incontinence pants and she always has a little willy fiddle, however it's usually Tarquin who wipes my anus. He seems to like sticking the thermometer up there to take my temperature......at least I think that's what it is!
He must have trouble getting a reading the last time because it was up there for ages and I missed my ovaltine.

Matron gives me and old Albert pocket money so we can go and have our regular massage.
As we're only pensioners we can only afford half an hour at Fifi's.
Albert has the first fifteen minutes, then I go in and shove him off the table.

I hope I've got many years yet.....life is wonderful.
I'm not afraid of dying..... I just don't want to be there when it happens.

If you'd like to contribute to mine and Albert's punting fund, you can send Ama... vouchers to Thephoenix c/o UKP.

[Private Parts]

Link please.

Hands off! Saw her first!
 
PP

[Home Alone]

That's right  and we all have huge cocks if what's written on here by some is to be believed. 

PAY
PODGE
PISS OFF

The 3 Pillars of punting.

 

An excellent summary, imo, mrfishyfoo. Needs to be remembered by us all, esp. those of a fluffy disposition.

[Home Alone]

When out shopping with a WG I was "seeing" in a private capacity, I learned very quickly not to get caught anywhere near the till when she came out of the changing room.

[Home Alone]

I was toying with the idea in the next session. I will probably see her again in March or April so I'll be direct about it.

And then let us know how she reacted to your approach? 

[SeriousLee]

And then let us know how she reacted to your approach? 

Didn't ask for a date but I just asked if she wanted to go to the park and talk sometime soon. She agreed.