I had a good education private school till I was eleven when I failed my 11 plus and was sent to the local secondary school. The shame of it for my mother, but I did well there and was lining up for university, enginering. Me well I was into planes and wanted to join the RAF, my family was a military one mainly army and thanks to my Gran who forced my parents into letting me. Wonderful times as an armourer, loved it and was on a career path for life, then I developed psoriasis, end of career.
Not a lot of call for making/ fixing weapons in civvy st I found, could not go to Saudi Arabia because of the disease. So I had an interest in all things historical and took an Archeology degree at Durham university. Got married whilst there, the 80s where hard to be a round. We had kids on the way and money was tight, to tight and no way was I begging for money from out parents. I got a part time job, it was different and was soon full time and left the Archeology behind it just did not pay enough. Stayed for over thirty years brought up a family, bought houses and I feel happy at what I have done, no regrets.
My son's had the chances, my eldest is not good at schooling bit but he is practical, university was never for him. I sorted him out a job at a local firm as an apprentice he now owns and runs the firm employing 30 people. My other son went to uni did a degree and joined a large retail group he is now an area manager and is doing nicely.
Uni can and does work, it should based on ability with less academic people being streamed into apprenticeships as was the case years ago. As we retire the skill set is dropping. We have a severe skills shortage now and it going to get worse, penny pinching on training is going to hit us hard in the next twenty years.