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[Punting2022]

there was a guy using tinder for SB .
Any tips, what do you actually write on the profile. Seeking etc.


Also anyone recommend a stunning girl. I want to spend a night or day with her. Someone dresses up glamorously. Sexy lingerie etc.

Money wise happy to spend 700 for this tbh. One 700 ppm is better then then a few 300 ppm that have plain girls. Recently getting average chubsters wanting 400

[Jardent6]

there was a guy using tinder for SB .
Any tips, what do you actually write on the profile. Seeking etc.

Intrigued about this usualy any attempt to hint at SB then they’ll ban you without warning

[styussr]

Intrigued about this usualy any attempt to hint at SB then they’ll ban you without warning

It's so easy, literally just write you're a provider or some shite and all the gold diggers will come running.

[yeahbaby]

She works as a massage(with Extra) girl near Enfield. I met her. Decent girl. Willing to please.

did you post a review?

[Prifessionallondinguy]

Intrigued about this usualy any attempt to hint at SB then they’ll ban you without warning

Messaging an attractive Indian milf with a nice pair of legs.  She asked about being paid then corrected her post. Do chicks teceive bans and warnings too?

It’s a minefield on there now.

“ I AM A PROVIDER “ will this achieve the life ban I deserve?

[bigden40]

Messaging an attractive Indian milf with a nice pair of legs.  She asked about being paid then corrected her post. Do chicks teceive bans and warnings too?

It’s a minefield on there now.

“ I AM A PROVIDER “ will this achieve the life ban I deserve?

I think that the women are treated more leniently on language, but obvious touting for business can get them a ban too. 

That said I honestly don’t understand the difficulty people have with the getting banned site.

I usually open with a message saying why I liked their profile and wondering if we’re looking for similar things, try to make it not look like a cut and paste job.  Then if I get a positive response it’s not hard to just say “I suggest that we continue on WhatsApp”.  If the girl isn’t willing to do so, even after you explain why, then move on.

[Kixonthemix]

I've seen Brunette Jade, she's Ok but nothing more. Lives in Brighton or somewhere outside of London, decent body, sex was so so. I wouldn't see her again.

Went pro:
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[londonhunter008]

Another one.
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Saw her profile on Seeking and Secret Benefits and have spoken in past. Tried to meet her in person but she cancelled last minute with no apology. She gets annoyed(and offended) easily when I spoke about Per meet and  as expect monthly allowance because she meet only "one man" and seek financial security.
Some women sounds too proud on Seeking as if its a wrong place for them to be...but stays on that site for year. I came across her profile just now. Glad I did not meet.

[Tkmax]

Bit of a strange one but after some advice. Have planned to meet with someone and they've stated money up front but you can take my phone or keys...what are the chances they're going to do a runner? I feel like I've heard similar before

[PLeisure]

Bit of a strange one but after some advice. Have planned to meet with someone and they've stated money up front but you can take my phone or keys...what are the chances they're going to do a runner? I feel like I've heard similar before

She's offering her phone and keys... really?
Somehow, I don't think that anyone would be so stupid 

[paul_tall_]

Bit of a strange one but after some advice. Have planned to meet with someone and they've stated money up front but you can take my phone or keys...what are the chances they're going to do a runner? I feel like I've heard similar before

How much money are you handing over and where are you handing it over?
There is obviously a risk that the phone may not be her main one, keys what good are they to you? Also she hands them over if they are legit items where are you going to stash them and how without her seeing

 

[stampjones]

Bit of a strange one but after some advice. Have planned to meet with someone and they've stated money up front but you can take my phone or keys...what are the chances they're going to do a runner? I feel like I've heard similar before

Offer to leave the money on the dresser or somewhere like that. If she goes for it before the end you have time to react. Obviously don't put it near the door

[Prifessionallondinguy]

Offer to leave the money on the dresser or somewhere like that. If she goes for it before the end you have time to react. Obviously don't put it near the door

Alternatively just insist on paying her after. I’ve done this every time. I’ve had at least 35 ppm dates and not one has ever asked for money up front.  She’s either a scammer or has previously been fucked then the scumbag guy has not paid her.  Both are reasons I would never see her.

You want to get in a wrestling match over money? Think about what she could accuse you of.

[Hantsolo]

Bit of a strange one but after some advice. Have planned to meet with someone and they've stated money up front but you can take my phone or keys...what are the chances they're going to do a runner? I feel like I've heard similar before

Just walk away!

Everything screams scam.

She wont be worth the risk and if she was that amazing I am sure you would find reviews or comments on here from someone who'd met her.

[Jardent6]

Yeah honestly don’t do it

That’s how I got scammed. If its a white girl who is 24 ish , short with lip fillers and brunnette hair she is 100% scammer

[john122350]

Yeah honestly don’t do it

That’s how I got scammed. If its a white girl who is 24 ish , short with lip fillers and brunnette hair she is 100% scammer

Do you remember her name?

[PLeisure]

Bit of a strange one but after some advice. Have planned to meet with someone and they've stated money up front but you can take my phone or keys...what are the chances they're going to do a runner? I feel like I've heard similar before

Tk, post the profile link so we know who to look out for, thks 

[paul_tall_]

Yeah honestly don’t do it

That’s how I got scammed. If its a white girl who is 24 ish , short with lip fillers and brunnette hair she is 100% scammer

Did she also hand over a phone and keys as security or something similar ?

[Tkmax]

She ended up cancelling as i was en route. Lost money on the hotel but such is life. Would have lost 250 if something had gone sideways. Don't plan on attempting to sort out another meet. Could be a scammer but oh well. Don't want to post her profile here on the off chance it gets linked back.

[Prifessionallondinguy]

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Can’t find her name now as she’s likely been suspended. Fuck tease in comms, thought she was poking her head a bit above the radar in terms of the language she used.

Cute little Asian mix.
Hopefully she’ll resurface at some point.

[Jardent6]

Do you remember her name?

She re profiles a lot , I have already posted her page then she re profiled and someone posted on here and I confirmed it was her and she’s a scammer , unless we can post pics of profile I don’t see a point of saying the name as she will just change it

[Sperminator22]

I have a silly question about this website.
How does it work for finding SPs? As I've notice you can't even send messages without paying?
Thanks

[finn5555]

I have a silly question about this website.
How does it work for finding SPs? As I've notice you can't even send messages without paying?
Thanks

You have to sign up and pay

[southcoastpunter]

You have to sign up and pay

Seeking is not an Escort site so they are not SP’s ( well most aren’t) and you need to approach them and treat them differently to traditional Escorts! If you say anything on the Seeking chat system that could be taken to be offering money for sex, you will be banned!

[wukkas]

External Link/Members Only Cherry

Anyone had dealings with her? Been speaking for a few days and gives out slightly pro vibes.

[Prifessionallondinguy]

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Elle, 33

Pretty perfect find for me. Right ethnicity, right age, fit,  great in comms. Looking more long term.
BUT
Wants platonic start, might be one meet might be several?
 £300 isn’t massive but I’ve only ever met once for a platonic meet (other subsequent meets with the lady after were all intimate)
So it can be done.

Undecided. Go all in on one lady? See if it pays off! Replaces escorts for me. 2/3 meets a month.

Has anyone seen? Got to 2nd, 3rd base?

[finn5555]

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Elle, 33

Pretty perfect find for me. Right ethnicity, right age, fit,  great in comms. Looking more long term.
BUT
Wants platonic start, might be one meet might be several?
 £300 isn’t massive but I’ve only ever met once for a platonic meet (other subsequent meets with the lady after were all intimate)
So it can be done.

Undecided. Go all in on one lady? See if it pays off! Replaces escorts for me. 2/3 meets a month.

Has anyone seen? Got to 2nd, 3rd base?

She wants £300 for platonic meet?

[paul_tall_]

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Elle, 33

Pretty perfect find for me. Right ethnicity, right age, fit,  great in comms. Looking more long term.
BUT
Wants platonic start, might be one meet might be several?
 £300 isn’t massive but I’ve only ever met once for a platonic meet (other subsequent meets with the lady after were all intimate)
So it can be done.

Undecided. Go all in on one lady? See if it pays off! Replaces escorts for me. 2/3 meets a month.

Has anyone seen? Got to 2nd, 3rd base?

Depends how happy you are to pay £300 per platonic meet plus the rest of the cost of what she wants to do ie restaurant , theatre etc with no guarantee of a second meeting and how many platonic meets she wants to progess to anything else

[bash_eer]

there was a guy using tinder for SB .
Any tips, what do you actually write on the profile. Seeking etc.

I done this on the past ended up with quite a few contacts and met a couple of girls. I think i entered into a conversation with one girl which was trap to see to see what i was offering and then my account got banned. I signed up again over a year later and I just got banned before i even had the chance to get any contacts.

[bash_eer]

External Link/Members Only Cherry

Anyone had dealings with her? Been speaking for a few days and gives out slightly pro vibes.

I spoke to her defiantly semi pro has set criteria and prices for incall and outcall and all timed meets

[bigden40]

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Elle, 33

Pretty perfect find for me. Right ethnicity, right age, fit,  great in comms. Looking more long term.
BUT
Wants platonic start, might be one meet might be several?
 £300 isn’t massive but I’ve only ever met once for a platonic meet (other subsequent meets with the lady after were all intimate)
So it can be done.

Undecided. Go all in on one lady? See if it pays off! Replaces escorts for me. 2/3 meets a month.

Has anyone seen? Got to 2nd, 3rd base?

In this scenario I’ve said that I’m happy to do a platonic first meet - as a get to know you/vibe check - but it’s unpaid.  Going along with paid platonic meets carries a high chance of just wasting your hard earned.

[john122350]

In this scenario I’ve said that I’m happy to do a platonic first meet - as a get to know you/vibe check - but it’s unpaid.  Going along with paid platonic meets carries a high chance of just wasting your hard earned.

+1

[cottray]

Caroliza 33 London

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Anyone had dealings? Pics look good so I am considering it.

[southcoastpunter]

Caroliza 33 London

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Anyone had dealings? Pics look good so I am considering it.

I have chatted to her in the past - she has very high expectations and always talked out the rich guys who had taken her out etc!  Ended by her saying something like “ men like you want everything cheap , well you aren’t getting me cheap “ etc ! At one stage she claimed she had hired a private plane to Dubai and did I want to go with her at only £5k

[southcoastpunter]

In this scenario I’ve said that I’m happy to do a platonic first meet - as a get to know you/vibe check - but it’s unpaid.  Going along with paid platonic meets carries a high chance of just wasting your hard earned.

Normally I have always refused paid platonic meets but last year after chatting and a couple of video calls with one girl I agreed to a £200 platonic dinner date as I was so wanting to meet her! We had a great and fun night out and agreed to meet next time for an intimate overnight at her place.  We did and and again had a great night together! She was “posh tottie “ and I fully believed her stories of the rich guys that (seeking) dated her! It came out she had a famous dad and had lots of rich connections that way! I never understood what she saw in me!
I gave her up about meet 6 for a variety of reasons and we parted amicably! So paid platonic meets can lead to something - but as always there is a risk!

[bigden40]

Normally I have always refused paid platonic meets but last year after chatting and a couple of video calls with one girl I agreed to a £200 platonic dinner date as I was so wanting to meet her! We had a great and fun night out and agreed to meet next time for an intimate overnight at her place.  We did and and again had a great night together! She was “posh tottie “ and I fully believed her stories of the rich guys that (seeking) dated her! It came out she had a famous dad and had lots of rich connections that way! I never understood what she saw in me!
I gave her up about meet 6 for a variety of reasons and we parted amicably! So paid platonic meets can lead to something - but as always there is a risk!

I’m sure it can work, but it’s a long shot.

[luv2kiss54]

You have to sign up and pay

Has anyone else noted that the membership offers have dried up. I used to get a pop up offering me a discount virtually every time i went on the site but dont get it anymore ?

[styussr]

I rejoined a few days ago, was getting 20% pop ups constantly.

[vitalyztvvvv]

External Link/Members Only Cherry

Anyone had dealings with her? Been speaking for a few days and gives out slightly pro vibes.

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[Link7]

Another one.
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Saw her profile on Seeking and Secret Benefits and have spoken in past. Tried to meet her in person but she cancelled last minute with no apology. She gets annoyed(and offended) easily when I spoke about Per meet and  as expect monthly allowance because she meet only "one man" and seek financial security.
Some women sounds too proud on Seeking as if its a wrong place for them to be...but stays on that site for year. I came across her profile just now. Glad I did not meet.

She used to charge a lot less than that - can't remember precisely, but don't think it would've been more than 250 when I met her a few years back. She has or had an AW profile too. It was decent, she was keen to please although pretty vanilla. The tits are as big as advertised but so is the rest of her (which wasn't as apparent from her photos at the time). I never went back as I wasn't overly attracted to her but in fairness the tits are nearly good enough to make me question that decision now.

I'd agree that her personality was a bit proud and pretentious but I just ignored that and focused on the cannons.

[Prifessionallondinguy]

She wants £300 for platonic meet?

Exchanged a bit since then, all good, open to more impedance if that makes sense?

[londonhunter008]

She used to charge a lot less than that - can't remember precisely, but don't think it would've been more than 250 when I met her a few years back. She has or had an AW profile too. It was decent, she was keen to please although pretty vanilla. The tits are as big as advertised but so is the rest of her (which wasn't as apparent from her photos at the time). I never went back as I wasn't overly attracted to her but in fairness the tits are nearly good enough to make me question that decision now.

I'd agree that her personality was a bit proud and pretentious but I just ignored that and focused on the cannons.

Thank you for similar feedback. I have spoken her couple of times...only because of those amazing tits and thought may be this time her attitude will be a lot better. I was overly cautious to ensure I do not offend her and tried my best to charm my way....but it never worked and her proud(arrogant) attitude always put me off. Even on her independent link, she has not shown her clear face but asking men to send linked in profile id, advance deposit etc.

[Prifessionallondinguy]

Exchanged a bit since then, all good, open to more impedance if that makes sense?

It doesn’t.
Immediate.

I likely misunderstood her initial messages, she was just being coy.

[londonhunter008]

Florence, 37
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Another one...too proud...who thinks this site is wrong place for her and she is "not like" other women on the site but still here.
Profile pic is not real but she shows picture later but very discreet (nothing wrong with that...may be because her work involves being in media and stage). Lady has   high expectations because she is better than others . 
If you get her image you do reverse image search and can find her Instagram profile...and if you do bit more digging...you can also find her onlyfans page and dominatrix website.

Before I meet anyone in person I always do reverse image search and it has helped me flagged many professional escort, cam models, online findom etc. At least I know whom I am seeing(try to avoid most of professional girls) and have right expectations.

[metalqaz]

Before I meet anyone in person I always do reverse image search and it has helped me flagged many professional escort, cam models, online findom etc. At least I know whom I am seeing(try to avoid most of professional girls) and have right expectations.

what's your go to for the reverse image search?

[paul_tall_]

Florence, 37
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Another one...too proud...who thinks this site is wrong place for her and she is "not like" other women on the site but still here.
Profile pic is not real but she shows picture later but very discreet (nothing wrong with that...may be because her work involves being in media and stage). Lady has   high expectations because she is better than others . 
If you get her image you do reverse image search and can find her Instagram profile...and if you do bit more digging...you can also find her onlyfans page and dominatrix website.

Before I meet anyone in person I always do reverse image search and it has helped me flagged many professional escort, cam models, online findom etc. At least I know whom I am seeing(try to avoid most of professional girls) and have right expectations.

Forgetting the fact she wants to remain anonymous.
This shows that it’s possible for someone to verify their account by selfie and id which this account has done but upload a completely different picture ? How does that get through their verification process !

[BeingSilent]

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Sarah, 40, Nottingham

Posted this in East Midlands but not a bite there.  Any of you gents met this lady?  She knows the game.  Trying to figure out if she's worth the time/money.

[highlander7777]

Latest Findings in London from my last subscription.

Aysha External Link/Members Only Looks cute platonic only
Aktar External Link/Members Only Has Trans friendly. QUESTIONED if she was said not then she blocked.
Roma - External Link/Members Only Wants Monthly. Wont have sex straight away has to be built. In other words will never happen, Your committing 2k a month to her too.

Mandi - talks the game wants fun. But when come to arrange ignoed. Wanted her Whatsapp tg so could discuss allowance. Ignored External Link/Members Only
Riya External Link/Members Only 500 per meet. sex on cards.
TIA External Link/Members Only WANTS 800 per meet few hours.
Apsara- External Link/Members Only 2k a meet. few hours. bad attitude when dont agree
Mayaa External Link/Members Only wants 700 per meet. Not that attractive for it

Tyana External Link/Members Only Ghosted on whatsapp
Serena External Link/Members Only attractive, 400 per meet. But then demands other things. Wanted me to also give allowance for her holiday she went on week after we meant to meet. Also wanted money to buy lingerie. I said ill buy what you want and bring to meet.

Navi External Link/Members Only 300 per meet few hours. but went quite

External Link/Members Only Zahra Wants 800 per meet. Found her on insta pics are like 4 years old

Jasmine External Link/Members Only ghoster

Safa- External Link/Members Only 400 per meet. But says sex has to be natural and a connection. I was like yes develop it over dinner etc. She agreed. then said don't always expect o a meet. Meets would be if we feel the intimacy we will have fun. In other words an excuse all time not to do it.

Alara External Link/Members Only Ghoster
Layla - Ghoster External Link/Members Only
Amara External Link/Members Only 800 per meet few hours.

Nia- External Link/Members Only 400 Per meet. But doesnt want to go out. For me need a outing too,.
Lina External Link/Members Only 350 per meet. But looked a bit chubby in pics etc. so left it
Sal External Link/Members Only ghoster

Yasmine External Link/Members Only 300 per meet. Went quite
Angel External Link/Members Only Looking for monthly build sex up not straight away.

Saffie- External Link/Members Only Bit of a mad one. Talks the game and flirty on chats. Had a date planned. Goes quite then comes back a few weeks after. 500 per meet. Book a day use with this one. Likely to loose hotel money and have a backup.

i agree on the Mandi one. think she just wants a chat , tried to book something , just went cold !

[BeingSilent]

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Yasmina, 29

Looks like Yasmina Khan (yeah, that one) has just created a profile on Seeking.

Or someone claiming to be her.

[styussr]

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Yasmina, 29

Looks like Yasmina Khan (yeah, that one) has just created a profile on Seeking.

Or someone claiming to be her.

Wants platonic so may well be her