Just to clarify a bit to just say you need to put a bit more leg work in, expect to go out for a meal/drink or even just a coffee. There are always exceptions, but when chatting, going straight to sex puts a fair few off. As in establishing the human connection, then go to the hotel 
Seeking isn't an escort service; it has a few steps in between that you need to navigate and if it requires some effort.
I never understood why opening the door (or just being polite through various acts) for someone is such a gendered thing 
if I have the chance and it makes sense, I'd always do it because its just being polite.
In reply to your previous post, it is not me going straight to sex that is the issue, it is negotiation and losing interest quickly
, if they quote figures that do not interest me I cba, always thought paying the asking price gets a better deal
, no problem doing it in shops or for work though
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I do not see opening a car door, or any door as a gender issue
, do it for anyone if needed or the chance arises. The girlfriend always says it is the little things that make a difference, like cooking, she cars for 3 family members, always cooking, so I told her not with me, I enjoy cooking for her, eats everything I cook, and it has changed my habits, reduced take away buying and compltely done away with ready meals
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I have delved right into reasons why young guys, even wealthy ones, are not attractive to women their age and it is eye opening. Boring, only interested in the made up glamarous version, demanding and expectant, no interest in personal life or issues, poncing financially, I could go on, but you get the idea
, oh and sex is shit
