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[luv2kiss54]

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Time waster and possible scammer

Arranged a meet,  on the day a few hours before meet time, she asked me to transfer money for train fare, but refused it when I offer to buy her train ticket directly.

Thanks for the warning she has just messaged me out of the blue. I never reply to those that message me first anyhow but thanks.

[paul_tall_]

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Jasm, 33
London.

Profile says recently moved to London. But registered in 2021. Spidey senses are tingling especially after the last debacle. Anyone got any intel?

Face pictures obscured , no verification on profile . There must be other profiles that interest you ? Rather than the risk of this one

[londonhunter008]

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Jasm, 33
London.

Profile says recently moved to London. But registered in 2021. Spidey senses are tingling especially after the last debacle. Anyone got any intel?

Her face is hidden, profile not verified, looking for princess treatment, age 33 but student,...Too many red flags...I dont know why you will even consider her after your last debacle. Best is to completely avoid non-verified profiles.

[BeingSilent]

Her face is hidden, profile not verified, looking for princess treatment, age 33 but student,...Too many red flags...I dont know why you will even consider her after your last debacle. Best is to completely avoid non-verified profiles.

Face wasn’t hidden when first contact was made. But in the last 12 hours, she has moved her pics around, added new ones and hidden a bunch of them. She looks Asian (from the facial pics). But the other stuff, you’re right. Need to give me head a wobble… 😆

[Budgiesmuggler]

I saw a new notification in my inbox at the bottom of the chain of messages exchanged with someone who's profile had disappeared. Always keen to know what these notifications mean to determine if someone has genuinely deactivated their account, blocked me or for some other reason.

"User is no longer active" = BLOCKED ME
"The user's account has been deactivated" = THEY HAVE DEACTIVATED THEIR ACCOUNT

But the new one...

"UNABLE TO SEND A MESSAGE AS USER IS NOT APPROVED"....Does that mean they've been banned for referencing ppm/allowances etc or similar or for some other reason?

Interested to know

TIA

Budgie

[southcoastpunter]

I mentioned this about 3 or 4 months ago ( but on the national /general seeking thread) - I think we concluded it was where a lady failed or hadn’t yet cleared the new ID checks Seeking do now!

[Reallytired86]

I saw a new notification in my inbox at the bottom of the chain of messages exchanged with someone who's profile had disappeared. Always keen to know what these notifications mean to determine if someone has genuinely deactivated their account, blocked me or for some other reason.

"User is no longer active" = BLOCKED ME
"The user's account has been deactivated" = THEY HAVE DEACTIVATED THEIR ACCOUNT

But the new one...

"UNABLE TO SEND A MESSAGE AS USER IS NOT APPROVED"....Does that mean they've been banned for referencing ppm/allowances etc or similar or for some other reason?

Interested to know

TIA

Budgie

This also isn’t totally accurate - as the message is different if they have deactivated their account vs deleted it permanently - so it’s not an accurate way to know if you’re blocked as the blocked message is identical to one of these options.

[southcoastpunter]

reallytired86 - are you saying that if a lady deletes her account permanently it says "user is no longer active" as well as in cases where she has blocked you or has been banned by seeking?

[bigden40]

I think there are 4 possibilities:
- she has blocked you
- she has deactivated account
- she has deleted account
- she has been banned

But there are two main indications we get
- account has been deactivated
- user is no longer active

So there must be duplication

[Reallytired86]

reallytired86 - are you saying that if a lady deletes her account permanently it says "user is no longer active" as well as in cases where she has blocked you or has been banned by seeking?

I can’t remember which but yes one of the options give same message as if they blocked you - god knows if there’s actually a 3rd option when they get a temporary suspension for mentioning ppm/money 

Edit: I see bigden has beat me to it!

[Zanderpanda]

thats very good for you.

To help put things into context for other guys (as this is not the usual) can i ask please what age you are and are you in good shape etc. the experience that a fit 30's guy may get could be very different to an average build mid to late 50's guy!

Women on seeking say i am younger than most. But I am middle aged at best. I am in OK shape. I am not ugly but i dont think i am especially good looking and i do treat seeking as a dating site and try to impress my dates and make them feel special. And one of them is not conventionally attractive although i think she was cute.

[Link7]

Aaaah, you have good taste. I also was (briefly) in touch with Roos, and found her pretty loathsome: it was clear that while she was bullshitting about wanting "a connection" she was mostly intent on maximising the ppm and would accept nothing under 1k. She looks very hot, but I don't need that level of hotness to have a great time, and I won't pay more than 500 per meet (which feels already a lot).

Agree - I just tend to find that above 500 there are diminishing returns. I think a lot of girls who ask 1k+ are pretty much expecting it to be a one off, which is fine, but of course there's no real incentive to make much effort for someone you know you'll never see again. Someone who will meet up with you for a more reasonable amount is generally probably a bit more interested in doing so and engaged. Not an absolute rule but generally has been my experience.

Obviously different with professional escorts - expensive ones still see it as a business and I don't think ego comes into it as much with them.

[Link7]

Spoke with Ellis on ft and she quoted 400 from memory and provides sex but she seemed too boring to sustain a conversation so I didn’t meet her.

Fair enough, thanks for the response. Being honest (I'm no saint!) my interest in her would've been for a one night thing. From a mental stimulation point of view 21 is too young for me.

[luv2kiss54]

So ive just rejoined Seeking for one month only after about 2/3 years and its still very hard work and time consuming. Ive got a few phone numbers but not arranged any meetings yet. Can anyone provide info re a couple of profiles please;-

External Link/Members Only Natalia.

Communicates like a pro and is quite pushy. Was very reluctant to give me a figure for the meet but eventually said her prices normally start at £600. When i said i dont pay that much she said she would compromise. Anyone had the pleasure ? .

External Link/Members Only  Lena in Dover. Curvy Princess.

I think i remember chatting to her when i was last on the site. Something is not quite adding up with her story. She says she works but is always available and is very keen to meet but lives a long way from me. I suggested meeting in London but she gave me the sob story that she is broke and i would need to send her the train ticket. Does anyone know if i book on Trainline and email to her does it reveal my personal details ?

Thanks for any information

[Jim19666]

So ive just rejoined Seeking for one month only after about 2/3 years and its still very hard work and time consuming. Ive got a few phone numbers but not arranged any meetings yet. Can anyone provide info re a couple of profiles please;-

External Link/Members Only Natalia.

Communicates like a pro and is quite pushy. Was very reluctant to give me a figure for the meet but eventually said her prices normally start at £600. When i said i dont pay that much she said she would compromise. Anyone had the pleasure ? .

External Link/Members Only  Lena in Dover. Curvy Princess.

I think i remember chatting to her when i was last on the site. Something is not quite adding up with her story. She says she works but is always available and is very keen to meet but lives a long way from me. I suggested meeting in London but she gave me the sob story that she is broke and i would need to send her the train ticket. Does anyone know if i book on Trainline and email to her does it reveal my personal details ?

Thanks for any information

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Stella 27


One of the guys earlier said she quoted 4 figures. Maybe she might be open to negotiation. She is on my shortlist but not at that price, let me know how it goes if you do engage.

[Jim19666]

So ive just rejoined Seeking for one month only after about 2/3 years and its still very hard work and time consuming. Ive got a few phone numbers but not arranged any meetings yet. Can anyone provide info re a couple of profiles please;-

External Link/Members Only Natalia.

Communicates like a pro and is quite pushy. Was very reluctant to give me a figure for the meet but eventually said her prices normally start at £600. When i said i dont pay that much she said she would compromise. Anyone had the pleasure ? .

Also look at Link7s post from Feb 26 where he reviewed some latest profiles and provided feedback

External Link/Members Only  Lena in Dover. Curvy Princess.

I think i remember chatting to her when i was last on the site. Something is not quite adding up with her story. She says she works but is always available and is very keen to meet but lives a long way from me. I suggested meeting in London but she gave me the sob story that she is broke and i would need to send her the train ticket. Does anyone know if i book on Trainline and email to her does it reveal my personal details ?

Thanks for any information

Also look at link7 post from Feb 26 a couple of threads above where he provides feedback on some latest SBs he has interacted with

[Garyhart]

So ive just rejoined Seeking for one month only after about 2/3 years and its still very hard work and time consuming. Ive got a few phone numbers but not arranged any meetings yet. Can anyone provide info re a couple of profiles please;-

External Link/Members Only Natalia.

Communicates like a pro and is quite pushy. Was very reluctant to give me a figure for the meet but eventually said her prices normally start at £600. When i said i dont pay that much she said she would compromise. Anyone had the pleasure ? .

External Link/Members Only  Lena in Dover. Curvy Princess.

I think i remember chatting to her when i was last on the site. Something is not quite adding up with her story. She says she works but is always available and is very keen to meet but lives a long way from me. I suggested meeting in London but she gave me the sob story that she is broke and i would need to send her the train ticket. Does anyone know if i book on Trainline and email to her does it reveal my personal details ?

Thanks for any information

Noted the same with Natalia, extremely pushy even though I made it clear I had no interest. Makes me think that she’s struggling to find an SD on the platform but she’s just not attractive in my eyes for me to pay her.

[NightKid]

External Link/Members Only Natalia.

Communicates like a pro and is quite pushy. Was very reluctant to give me a figure for the meet but eventually said her prices normally start at £600. When i said i dont pay that much she said she would compromise. Anyone had the pleasure ? .

Noted the same with Natalia, extremely pushy even though I made it clear I had no interest. Makes me think that she’s struggling to find an SD on the platform but she’s just not attractive in my eyes for me to pay her.

Fuck sake, just started speaking to her on the basis of profile reading like a civvie's so absolutely gutted to hear this    Seriously, is there no normal women on the site anymore? 

Thanks very much for the intel though lads, a lifesaver the pair of yous 🙏

External Link/Members Only  Lena in Dover. Curvy Princess.

I think i remember chatting to her when i was last on the site. Something is not quite adding up with her story. She says she works but is always available and is very keen to meet but lives a long way from me. I suggested meeting in London but she gave me the sob story that she is broke and i would need to send her the train ticket. Does anyone know if i book on Trainline and email to her does it reveal my personal details ?

Don't even bother mate, d'you not feel the sob story is red flag enough?

[NightKid]

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Stella 27

One of the guys earlier said she quoted 4 figures. Maybe she might be open to negotiation. She is on my shortlist but not at that price, let me know how it goes if you do engage.

Also look at link7 post from Feb 26 a couple of threads above where he provides feedback on some latest SBs he has interacted with

Dude, what's with your obsession for this girl? luv2kiss clearly did not reference her in any way, shape or form so why have you brought her up again without any context?

[Jim19666]

Dude, what's with your obsession for this girl? luv2kiss clearly did not reference her in any way, shape or form so why have you brought her up again without any context?

Mate, no obsession. Just like everyone on here looking for intel on some ladies they are curious about or like the look of I’m no different.

The other guy asked for potentials so pointed to her and the other thread with other SBs were discussed. But I misread it, I thought he was asking about recommendations or others but he was actually asking
About those two specific ladies, so my bad

Didn’t know it came across like that.

[Equilibrium]

So ive just rejoined Seeking for one month only after about 2/3 years and its still very hard work and time consuming. Ive got a few phone numbers but not arranged any meetings yet. Can anyone provide info re a couple of profiles please;-

External Link/Members Only Natalia.

Communicates like a pro and is quite pushy. Was very reluctant to give me a figure for the meet but eventually said her prices normally start at £600. When i said i dont pay that much she said she would compromise. Anyone had the pleasure ? .


External Link/Members Only  Lena in Dover. Curvy Princess.

I think i remember chatting to her when i was last on the site. Something is not quite adding up with her story. She says she works but is always available and is very keen to meet but lives a long way from me. I suggested meeting in London but she gave me the sob story that she is broke and i would need to send her the train ticket. Does anyone know if i book on Trainline and email to her does it reveal my personal details ?

Thanks for any information

My account has finally been activated properly, so can see alll
Profiles, this one messaged me too ( Natalie) and came down to about 400, speaking to a few others so let’s see how that goes.

[sugardaddy0511]

 Is 300 -350 no longer an acceptable ppm for a nice girl in London ? I am from down south and 250-300 have been my maximum. Now I see girls asking 450 -1000 ppm as they are spoiled by London super richs

[Equilibrium]

Is 300 -350 no longer an acceptable ppm for a nice girl in London ? I am from down south and 250-300 have been my maximum. Now I see girls asking 450 -1000 ppm as they are spoiled by London super richs

From a day or two of speaking i think what another member here said was very true, the rate is based on how attractive they find you …
But I think 400 is being repeated quite a lot, so maybe that is the rate now 

[seed_sprayer]

From a day or two of speaking i think what another member here said was very true, the rate is based on how attractive they find you …
But I think 400 is being repeated quite a lot, so maybe that is the rate now 

Yeah 400 is probably average in my experience these days (for British, mid/late 20s or early 30s, pretty)
If they find attractive or enjoy company/chat then perhaps some 300
A few asking ridiculous money 800-1000 (not necessarily that attractive!)

[Equilibrium]

Yeah 400 is probably average in my experience these days (for British, mid/late 20s or early 30s, pretty)
If they find attractive or enjoy company/chat then perhaps some 300
A few asking ridiculous money 800-1000 (not necessarily that attractive!)

Honestly it’s crazy, especially if there not even pretty 

[luv2kiss54]

Honestly it’s crazy, especially if there not even pretty 

As long as guys keep paying it thats what they will ask, you cant really blame them. I personally have a limit of £250 which is probably why im struggling this time round as im now being priced out of the game. When you add all the other costs ie travel, hotel, food, drinks it makes it a bloody expensive night out and the sex at the end can often be a let down after the build up. I wont be renewing and also feel age is a factor as im in my 60's and feeling conscious about age gaps now.

[paul_tall_]

As long as guys keep paying it thats what they will ask, you cant really blame them. I personally have a limit of £250 which is probably why im struggling this time round as im now being priced out of the game. When you add all the other costs ie travel, hotel, food, drinks it makes it a bloody expensive night out and the sex at the end can often be a let down after the build up. I wont be renewing and also feel age is a factor as im in my 60's and feeling conscious about age gaps now.

Tbf seeking has always advertised itself in the luxury end of dating. Obviously there was a time when normal girls / women were looking to make some extra money by going on dates and were happy with a meal out and an allowance . Those girls really have disappeared be that seeking clamping down on messaging , better opportunities to make extra money through side hustles or them just getting fed up with guys treating them with no respect be that on meets or messaging .

[Jardent6]

It’s simple supply and demand.  I typically do 200 and max 250 for the hot ones

[seed_sprayer]

It’s simple supply and demand.  I typically do 200 and max 250 for the hot ones

I need to drop down a bit!

[Garyhart]

It’s simple supply and demand.  I typically do 200 and max 250 for the hot ones

If there’s someone you really like the look of it’s ok to spend a bit more if you can. They’ll want to reduce the ppm over time if you both like each other, so you can spend more time together. That’s how it’s been so far with my seeking exp. Of course, not all SBs think like this but it’s a suggestion you can bring up to someone if they’re just above your limit.

[Mr Garmin]

It’s simple supply and demand.  I typically do 200 and max 250 for the hot ones

London really must be another world.  None of the girls I've spoken to in this area will meet for anything near that and the lowest I've been able to go was £350

I did have one a couple of years ago who could accommodate and was £250 however even she put the price up to £280 which was still mates-rates as it was a fraction of what she could get through an agency.

I am older and that may be a factor in my lack of success, although it shouldn't be.

[bigden40]

London really must be another world.  None of the girls I've spoken to in this area will meet for anything near that and the lowest I've been able to go was £350

I did have one a couple of years ago who could accommodate and was £250 however even she put the price up to £280 which was still mates-rates as it was a fraction of what she could get through an agency.

I am older and that may be a factor in my lack of success, although it shouldn't be.

Your lack of success, as you call it, is more likely down to the type of girl you’re dealing with and your approach to them.

I consistently get £200-250 in London.  Of course, lots of them ask for more but I’ve always been willing to walk away if the price isn’t right. 

[Mr Garmin]

My lack of success will be down to a lack of availability.  I've observed before that a 10 radius search on Seeking from my home returns precisely 17 results in the 18 to 50 age range.  A similar search from SW1 will probably result in many hundreds if not thousands of results

It's called supply & demand.

[Mr Garmin]

Sorry, that should have been a 10 mile radius or over 300 square miles.

[Jardent6]

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I did manage to see her few weeks ago  . Body didn’t have much shape to it and pussy absolutely reeked - I reckon she had some sort of Yeast infection or thrush.

[Jim19666]

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I did manage to see her few weeks ago  . Body didn’t have much shape to it and pussy absolutely reeked - I reckon she had some sort of Yeast infection or thrush.

Can you put the name and age next to the profile link mate, saves us having to click as it’s what everyone does here when posting seeking links, thanks!

[Seasoned Vet]

any discount codes atm anyone can share pls

[NightKid]

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I did manage to see her few weeks ago  . Body didn’t have much shape to it and pussy absolutely reeked - I reckon she had some sort of Yeast infection or thrush.

The irony of her being in public health as well 

[BeingSilent]

Currently in conversation with this one:

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Rya, 19

Seems to be Manchester based but willing to travel to London. Am talking about a £400 PPM. But she also wants £150 for her train ticket (which I know is punchy considering I’ve booked tickets to Manchester for much cheaper).

I’ll let you know if this progresses anywhere.

[paul_tall_]

Currently in conversation with this one:

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Rya, 19

Seems to be Manchester based but willing to travel to London. Am talking about a £400 PPM. But she also wants £150 for her train ticket (which I know is punchy considering I’ve booked tickets to Manchester for much cheaper).

I’ll let you know if this progresses anywhere.

Guessing she wants the £150 upfront ? Not a wise thing to send
Say to her you will book the tickets on Trainline and she can collect from the station and see what she says

[Mr Garmin]

Seems to be Manchester based but willing to travel to London.

Isn't that like taking coals to Newcastle

[styussr]

All the Dubai based bints are back in Blighty so Seeking is awash with porta pottied poon at the moment.

Yes, I do love an alliteration.

[Mocha78]

Spoke with Ellis on ft and she quoted 400 from memory and provides sex but she seemed too boring to sustain a conversation so I didn’t meet her.

She shot down 500 from me quite brutally fyi haha

[Confessionwalker]

Currently in conversation with this one:

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Rya, 19

Quick search of the pics shows that all of them are from a tiktok profile which is somewhat fairly known. Bradford based.
Just be wary

[Garyhart]

Quick search of the pics shows that all of them are from a tiktok profile which is somewhat fairly known. Bradford based.
Just be wary

This is very interesting information - she popped up the other day and I blocked her as the vibe seemed off from the get go.

[Zanderpanda]

Advice please. First date with a new Seeking SB. She is unreviewed and i will not have a chance to meet her before the date. dinner then if we are both comfortable back to my hotel. problem is the hotel room is booked by my employer so their name is on the booking. Is this a terrible idea. Thanks

[BeingSilent]

Quick search of the pics shows that all of them are from a tiktok profile which is somewhat fairly known. Bradford based.
Just be wary

Thanks for this. I did try to search her photos, but nothing came up? What did you use?

[BeingSilent]

Thanks for this. I did try to search her photos, but nothing came up? What did you use?

Scrap that… found her using her latest pics. 🤦‍♂️

[Shevz100]

Advice please. First date with a new Seeking SB. She is unreviewed and i will not have a chance to meet her before the date. dinner then if we are both comfortable back to my hotel. problem is the hotel room is booked by my employer so their name is on the booking. Is this a terrible idea. Thanks

It should be completely fine, she would have no idea who’s name
would be on the booking for the hotel. Who is the girl if I May ask?

[paul_tall_]

Advice please. First date with a new Seeking SB. She is unreviewed and i will not have a chance to meet her before the date. dinner then if we are both comfortable back to my hotel. problem is the hotel room is booked by my employer so their name is on the booking. Is this a terrible idea. Thanks

If she is staying overnight check the hotel policy for guests not on the booking of it says just 1.
If there is a mini bar , phone , subscription tv don’t leave her alone in the room where she might rack up costs that you don’t discover until checking out