Seeking.com (London)

[finn5555]

I’m also not sure where to find these type of SBs too in all fairness

That’s because it’s bullshit 

[Wowgeek]

That’s because it’s bullshit 

So that’s it then, you say so, so it must be true.

I’ve had several arrangements with different women with no financial outlay save for the dinner and hotel. I’ve had trips away, all expenses on me of course but no further payment. I am also 60+ and have had no problems with attracting younger women, I currently juggle a 22 year old, two 27 year olds and a 43 year old.

Whilst with most of my arrangements there is a financial outlay, of course, I never go above £300 for an all day ‘day room’ or an overnight. I use SA and SB primarily with a Tinder dabble every now and then. I’ve had a few one off dates but most are repeats as I wouldn’t go away with someone I wasn’t completely comfortable with. There’s a lot more time spent sightseeing and eating than shagging and you have to be compatible.

So it’s not necessarily cheap but it’s two people having fun together. I get the feeling from this particular thread that some guys treat arrangement dates as seeing an escort but for a little longer than usual. That’s fine, each to their own, but if that’s what you seek that’s what you’ll find.

[Mr Garmin]

Looking at your reviews Mr. Geek it looks like you may be based in the capital, I'm certain that the scene is a little different there.  My landing page on Seeking is flooded with attractive young hotties from the big smoke.
I my area, searching brings up the same tired old faces continually and a 10 mile radius search from my home brings up a total of 17 results.  I'm sure that a search of the same radius from SW1 will probably bring up thousands.

London, as they say, is another country.

[Wowgeek]

Looking at your reviews Mr. Geek it looks like you may be based in the capital, I'm certain that the scene is a little different there.  My landing page on Seeking is flooded with attractive young hotties from the big smoke.
I my area, searching brings up the same tired old faces continually and a 10 mile radius search from my home brings up a total of 17 results.  I'm sure that a search of the same radius from SW1 will probably bring up thousands.

London, as they say, is another country.

I am indeed sir, I agree we’re probably spoilt for choice and it’s likely more of a buyer’s market.

[southcoastpunter]

The funny thing is, that many girls down on the south coast (Portsmouth, Southampton, Bournemouth) and even into rural Dorset, say they get a lot of interest from London guys.

Like wowgeek, i have been away/abroad (sometimes for just a couple of days, sometimes for 2 weeks) with SB's for just the coast of the trip and no additional money, I am sure we aren't alone. I have also had a few one off freebee's as have a number of other guys. So these ones are out there but in my experience, it is not the "norm".

I do still look a bit in london (and am currently actively in discussions with a London lady) but much more so from down on the south coast and I think Seeking has changed recently with more ladies after money for not a lot/platonic dates.  I usually `do a couple of dinner dates (platonic) as "getting to know you "  - more seem to want payment for that now. One even showed me her bank account on her phone which showed a £1000 and a £500 coming in from guys she said that she has talked to but not met nor sent any pics etc. They seem to be asking for more thesedays and many are getting it! There are some rich guys out there who seem happy enough to throw their money about! Again maybe its not the norm but it seems to becoming more than just an occasional thing.

[cosworth]

Seeking seems to be the same old faces again and again .. Very few new girls from what i've seen recently.

[paul_tall_]

Seeking seems to be the same old faces again and again .. Very few new girls from what i've seen recently.

I agree still a few old faces on everytime you login, not many new ones. There appear to be a few that last login in last couple of weeks that were on the site a while back , or have suddenly reappeared from a few years back.

[Mr Garmin]

There will be some very old hands at Seeking on here and they will perhaps be recounting memories from over a couple of decades when, it is universally agreed that the girls were younger, sexier, more available & cheaper (anecdotally) making it sound like that's what it's like today, although they do admit that it's not like it was.

I'm a recent user of the site at about 18 months, in an area which is considered a desert even for escorts so I will probably have a different take on the scene (which seems to broadly agree with most others experiences)

I certainly don't treat it like meeting an escort, if I wanted to do that I'd see an escort who would be much more available with mostly known services and it would be cheaper as well.

I treat the meetings like I'm going on a date with a much greater chance of ending up in the sack together.  Once at the M&G stage my success rate is 100% but getting to that stage is really hard work, even getting a reply to a message can be like pulling teeth.

I'm certain that some will have had freebees, holidays at no extra charge etc. (I'm talking to a girl right now about that) but it's far from the norm.

I have 2 SB's on the go ATM and they both travel nearly 100 miles (round trip) to see me and that's reflected in the renumeration.  There may be some on here who only need to take a 15 minute tube ride to have their pick of the cream.

[paul_tall_]

There will be some very old hands at Seeking on here and they will perhaps be recounting memories from over a couple of decades when, it is universally agreed that the girls were younger, sexier, more available & cheaper (anecdotally) making it sound like that's what it's like today, although they do admit that it's not like it was.

I'm a recent user of the site at about 18 months, in an area which is considered a desert even for escorts so I will probably have a different take on the scene (which seems to broadly agree with most others experiences)

I certainly don't treat it like meeting an escort, if I wanted to do that I'd see an escort who would be much more available with mostly known services and it would be cheaper as well.

I treat the meetings like I'm going on a date with a much greater chance of ending up in the sack together.  Once at the M&G stage my success rate is 100% but getting to that stage is really hard work, even getting a reply to a message can be like pulling teeth.

I'm certain that some will have had freebees, holidays at no extra charge etc. (I'm talking to a girl right now about that) but it's far from the norm.

I have 2 SB's on the go ATM and they both travel nearly 100 miles (round trip) to see me and that's reflected in the renumeration.  There may be some on here who only need to take a 15 minute tube ride to have their pick of the cream.

Sounds like you are doing well esp having two current ones that are happy to travel .
Personally and I have been a member of seeking for many years now I don’t recall it ever being as simple as chatting and meeting straight away if you were looking beyond the quick meet scenario. What’s changed in my eyes is there are less messages to sift through certainly now. I’m also probably more fussy than ever as I know what works for me and doesn’t ie any girl that messages me and calls me babe or daddy is a complete no go now esp if they are old enough to know better , also too much facial jewellery, tattoos etc just draws too much attention if you are out in public with them

[Mr Garmin]

Both my SB's have children which severely limits their availability and what we can do together.  My selfish preference would be for someone with no offspring but it's rare to click on a profile in my general area where they admit to having none.  Conversely, it seems from the outside looking in, that the majority of younger (18 to 30) girls in the big cities tend not to be mothers.

[paul_tall_]

Both my SB's have children which severely limits their availability and what we can do together.  My selfish preference would be for someone with no offspring but it's rare to click on a profile in my general area where they admit to having none.  Conversely, it seems from the outside looking in, that the majority of younger (18 to 30) girls in the big cities tend not to be mothers.

I would imagine that it’s not just women with children that have limited availability , ones working are hardly likely to be able to travel a distance just like that .
You just learn what works for you and be up front from the start

[Mr Garmin]

I would imagine that it’s not just women with children that have limited availability , ones working are hardly likely to be able to travel a distance just like that .
You just learn what works for you and be up front from the start

A job is 9 to 5, 5 days a week (generally) leaving weekends and evenings/nights free.

Being a (usually) single mother is a 24 hour job and care has to be arranged for them to be available.

[paul_tall_]

A job is 9 to 5, 5 days a week (generally) leaving weekends and evenings/nights free.

Being a (usually) single mother is a 24 hour job and care has to be arranged for them to be available.

Maybe you have been lucky with the girls and their careers , lots in my experience work in
Industries that include weekends , think care, service sector , beauty , medical type professions

[Mr Garmin]

Maybe you have been lucky with the girls and their careers , lots in my experience work in
Industries that include weekends , think care, service sector , beauty , medical type professions

Even girls with more time-demanding jobs will likely have plenty of free time compared to the 24 hour commitment that is looking after children.  They literally have to run away at a set time to pick them up from school/ballet/scouts etc.

I met one Polish girl who had 3 children but also had a husband at home to look after them.  I would say that's pretty rare.

[Zanderpanda]

That’s because it’s bullshit 

I've met 3 women from seeking. One wanted money for ppm the other two didnt and in fact one of them was angry it was even a thought.

[seed_sprayer]

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Gracey, 24

Has anyone partaken?
Looks fun but slightly wierd vibe on messaging - am tempted
Age 24 but been on SA since 18 though!

[Shevz100]

Has anyone’s here’s arrangements ever turned into a long term casual based relationship where you ended up seeing the girl with no charge or payment, or would you still always help to provide for something?

[tazz]

I've met 3 women from seeking. One wanted money for ppm the other two didnt and in fact one of them was angry it was even a thought.

So did the two that didnt want money think you were their boyfriend and want a serious relationship. Met one women who thought seeking was a dating site and didnt expect an allowance.

[southcoastpunter]

So did the two that didnt want money think you were their boyfriend and want a serious relationship. Met one women who thought seeking was a dating site and didnt expect an allowance.

maybe because that is what it is marketed as now and what they are trying to change it to - a high end dating site and not the "seeking arrangements" that it used to be.   

[paul_tall_]

So did the two that didnt want money think you were their boyfriend and want a serious relationship. Met one women who thought seeking was a dating site and didnt expect an allowance.

How did that work out in the end ?
I would never meet without knowing what they are looking for.
I’ve mentioned a couple of times the last couple of years that there are women on the site that are shocked when you ask about allowance . There are a few new profiles that still appear that read like they are looking for relationships .
Has anyone noticed that there are some profiles that are appearing where the women has been a member since pre 2020 with little or no substance to the profile .

[Mr Garmin]

How did that work out in the end ?
I would never meet without knowing what they are looking for.
I’ve mentioned a couple of times the last couple of years that there are women on the site that are shocked when you ask about allowance . There are a few new profiles that still appear that read like they are looking for relationships .
Has anyone noticed that there are some profiles that are appearing where the women has been a member since pre 2020 with little or no substance to the profile .

My guess is that as long as they look good in their pictures, they don't need to say anything else to get interest.

[paul_tall_]

My guess is that as long as they look good in their pictures, they don't need to say anything else to get interest.

Can’t remember what they looked like now , can’t find the exact profile , if I recall what stood out for the one whose profile was completely blank was they appeared on the home page list of profiles and had England as their location. I was more interested in have older profiles for some reason been triggered out of hidden .

[bigden40]

So did the two that didnt want money think you were their boyfriend and want a serious relationship. Met one women who thought seeking was a dating site and didnt expect an allowance.

It is a dating site, sugar dating is still dating. The population on there is not homogeneous, there’s a range of expectations from very transactional to not transactional at all.

[zak]

I saw Dolly in the last 12 months - she was actually more nice than I thought personality wise. Has quite an interesting backstory as I believe she became Muslim after getting married to some Arab. Sex was the usual and I do remember she was asking me to creampie her even though I could have sworn she preferred protection in an earlier conversation I had so if she liked you - she seems liberal.

This girl has a large following on instagram (100’s of thousands) and I remember when I had her socials, she’d show her only fans earning which were crazy amounts to the point I didn’t know why she was on seeking as she didn’t seem to need the money unless? Who knows..

Hey mate! I’m planning to book with her soon — could you provide any details on pricing, services/duration? Much appreciated!

[daviemac]

Hey mate! I’m planning to book with her soon — could you provide any details on pricing, services/duration? Much appreciated!

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[tazz]

It is a dating site, sugar dating is still dating. The population on there is not homogeneous, there’s a range of expectations from very transactional to not transactional at all.

Anyone ever had that experience with Sugar Daddy meet?

[Mr Garmin]

Anyone ever had that experience with Sugar Daddy meet?

My guess is that if you're young, attractive and eligible a girl my fall for/ fancy you in the same way as with any social interaction.

However, as many of us won't meet that criteria it won't be something that we will experience.

[Link7]

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Gracey, 24

Has anyone partaken?
Looks fun but slightly wierd vibe on messaging - am tempted
Age 24 but been on SA since 18 though!

I agreed to meet her a while back but we were both slightly unbothered and never actually went through with it. Didn't find her weird but didn't really talk very much beforehand and only seemed interested in the cash. Not hard to believe she's been doing it a while

[seed_sprayer]

I agreed to meet her a while back but we were both slightly unbothered and never actually went through with it. Didn't find her weird but didn't really talk very much beforehand and only seemed interested in the cash. Not hard to believe she's been doing it a while

Thanks - have decided to trust my gut feel and not to see her - pics look hot but quite a bit of competition at moment...

[Link7]

Here are some fit ones I haven't met, but  would welcome any feedback from others.

External Link/Members Only Roos, 25

Dutch influencer. Hot but quoted me 4 figures (even after quite a long chat first to build rapport). Didn't bother to negotiate. Talks about wanting connection but felt she just wants someone she can properly rinse tbh 

External Link/Members Only Stella, 27

Also quoted me 4 figures. Has been in the papers before for shagging a footballer. I think an old profile was discussed here before and maybe someone met her

External Link/Members Only Valentina, 19

Professional cocktease. Made it to WhatsApp but have drawn a blank from there. Not sure if she actually meets (annoyingly, my gut feeling is she does) but would be interested if anyone knows

External Link/Members Only Jade, 27

Fit-but-she-knows-it attitude. Does ppm but stopped replying when I mentioned 500 is my max (honestly think this is reasonable if they want repeat business and factoring in that I cover hotel, drinks and taxi if they need). 

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Irine,33
 
Ex reality TV. Quoted me 800, didn't fancy her as much as that and couldn't be bothered to negotiate

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Ellis,21

Liked the look of her but she went cold after seeing my photos unfortunately. Or it could be that I said the wrong thing - not entirely sure if she even provides intimacy. Just curious if anyone knows the score.

[TheOracle]

Here are some fit ones I haven't met, but  would welcome any feedback from others.

External Link/Members Only Roos, 25

Dutch influencer. Hot but quoted me 4 figures (even after quite a long chat first to build rapport). Didn't bother to negotiate. Talks about wanting connection but felt she just wants someone she can properly rinse tbh 

External Link/Members Only Stella, 27

Also quoted me 4 figures. Has been in the papers before for shagging a footballer. I think an old profile was discussed here before and maybe someone met her

External Link/Members Only Valentina, 19

Professional cocktease. Made it to WhatsApp but have drawn a blank from there. Not sure if she actually meets (annoyingly, my gut feeling is she does) but would be interested if anyone knows

External Link/Members Only Jade, 27

Fit-but-she-knows-it attitude. Does ppm but stopped replying when I mentioned 500 is my max (honestly think this is reasonable if they want repeat business and factoring in that I cover hotel, drinks and taxi if they need). 

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Irine,33
 
Ex reality TV. Quoted me 800, didn't fancy her as much as that and couldn't be bothered to negotiate

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Ellis,21

Liked the look of her but she went cold after seeing my photos unfortunately. Or it could be that I said the wrong thing - not entirely sure if she even provides intimacy. Just curious if anyone knows the score.

Aaaah, you have good taste. I also was (briefly) in touch with Roos, and found her pretty loathsome: it was clear that while she was bullshitting about wanting "a connection" she was mostly intent on maximising the ppm and would accept nothing under 1k. She looks very hot, but I don't need that level of hotness to have a great time, and I won't pay more than 500 per meet (which feels already a lot).

[Garyhart]

Here are some fit ones I haven't met, but  would welcome any feedback from others.

External Link/Members Only Roos, 25

Dutch influencer. Hot but quoted me 4 figures (even after quite a long chat first to build rapport). Didn't bother to negotiate. Talks about wanting connection but felt she just wants someone she can properly rinse tbh 

External Link/Members Only Stella, 27

Also quoted me 4 figures. Has been in the papers before for shagging a footballer. I think an old profile was discussed here before and maybe someone met her

External Link/Members Only Valentina, 19

Professional cocktease. Made it to WhatsApp but have drawn a blank from there. Not sure if she actually meets (annoyingly, my gut feeling is she does) but would be interested if anyone knows

External Link/Members Only Jade, 27

Fit-but-she-knows-it attitude. Does ppm but stopped replying when I mentioned 500 is my max (honestly think this is reasonable if they want repeat business and factoring in that I cover hotel, drinks and taxi if they need). 

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Irine,33
 
Ex reality TV. Quoted me 800, didn't fancy her as much as that and couldn't be bothered to negotiate

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Ellis,21

Liked the look of her but she went cold after seeing my photos unfortunately. Or it could be that I said the wrong thing - not entirely sure if she even provides intimacy. Just curious if anyone knows the score.

Spoke with Ellis on ft and she quoted 400 from memory and provides sex but she seemed too boring to sustain a conversation so I didn’t meet her.

[NightKid]

External Link/Members Only Stella, 27

Also quoted me 4 figures. Has been in the papers before for shagging a footballer. I think an old profile was discussed here before and maybe someone met her

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[Jim19666]

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Any intel on her from anyone her would be appreciated, would like to know if any good before blowing 4 figures.

External Link/Members Only Stella, 27

Also quoted me 4 figures. Has been in the papers before for shagging a footballer. I think an old profile was discussed here before and maybe someone met her

[BeingSilent]

External Link/Members Only Jessica - 27
Warning profile emailed out of blue with link to pornhub , and followed up with an abusive message before i had a chance to block

Fuck sake... she messaged.  Straight to WA and asking about testing for STDs and when I said no intention to do so at the moment (cos, I don't)... gets abusive and tells me she's going to report my profile on Seeking.  All in the space of 5mins.

Will update you on this if anything happens.

I wish I had spotted this warning sooner.

I have her phone number if anyone needs to cross check it.

[NightKid]

Any intel on her from anyone her would be appreciated, would like to know if any good before blowing 4 figures.

Reckon you'll have to undertake your own TOFTT mission mate, there's nowt form for players in courtesanal leagues sharing open intel anyway & soliciting PMs is a bannable offence if you read the rules.

[Jim19666]

Reckon you'll have to undertake your own TOFTT mission mate, there's nowt form for players in courtesanal leagues sharing open intel anyway & soliciting PMs is a bannable offence if you read the rules.

Understood mate, thanks. Still new to the forum so trying to get used to the decorum around here

[delta69]

Aaaah, you have good taste. I also was (briefly) in touch with Roos, and found her pretty loathsome: it was clear that while she was bullshitting about wanting "a connection" she was mostly intent on maximising the ppm and would accept nothing under 1k. She looks very hot, but I don't need that level of hotness to have a great time, and I won't pay more than 500 per meet (which feels already a lot).

That Roos is on onlyfans and on socials.
I believe she had a sugar daddy in the states, so she accustom to the ££££

[Equilibrium]

Just signed up for seeking again, after a long break as I’m single again 
There’s hardly any profiles showing up, is that maybe because I’m a new member or?

[Equilibrium]

Just signed up for seeking again, after a long break as I’m single again 
There’s hardly any profiles showing up, is that maybe because I’m a new member or?

Also can’t open any links from this thread, maybe account is still getting approved or verified 

[PLeisure]

Also can’t open any links from this thread, maybe account is still getting approved or verified 

Think it's more likely to be this ^^

[Equilibrium]

Think it's more likely to be this ^^

Maybe yes, I guess I’ll have to wait a day or two then 

[keij]

External Link/Members Only - Louise

Time waster and possible scammer

Arranged a meet,  on the day a few hours before meet time, she asked me to transfer money for train fare, but refused it when I offer to buy her train ticket directly.

[Prifessionallondinguy]

There will be some very old hands at Seeking on here and they will perhaps be recounting memories from over a couple of decades when, it is universally agreed that the girls were younger, sexier, more available & cheaper (anecdotally) making it sound like that's what it's like today, although they do admit that it's not like it was.

Absolutely 👍a typical meet = very beautiful Malaysian student nurse. Great legs. Went to lots of trouble to dress to impress. £300 per meet. Excellent attitude = nowadays (since about 2 years ago for me)  it’s all a bit lacklustre. Back then I was juggling multi Asian ladies £300 max each even for overnights.
Rivalled the Asian escorts I was seeing. Just something about spending an evening with a dolled up Asian chick dinner drinks theatre knowing in a few hours she’ll be in stockings blowing you and your tongue up her arse and fanny.

£700 is about as low as they go now.

None Asian ladies uk/usa around £400 still but I clearly don’t fancy them 🥢

Not active much at all these days and I’m thoroughly miserable 😞  it’s not just the money as I’d pay a bit for the right girl but so many want several fully paid up platonic dates initially before any sex. I’m skeptical after 3/4 platonic meets they’ll just move on to the next sucker and I won’t even get a sniff.
In fact this happened to someone I message regularly.  A girl I suspected of doing this, did him the dirty.

It’s a different game now hence why I’m starting to look at escorts again.

[paul_tall_]

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Irine,33
 
Ex reality TV. Quoted me 800, didn't fancy her as much as that and couldn't be bothered to negotiate

Anyone that meets this one without doing research first needs their head examined, she was vile on MAFs

[Zanderpanda]

So did the two that didnt want money think you were their boyfriend and want a serious relationship. Met one women who thought seeking was a dating site and didnt expect an allowance.

They dont want boyfriends and that is not what is on offer. I didnt ask about money and they didnt ask for any. Until i stupidly mentioned it to one of them and she was offended and wouldnt see me again. Both contacted me first. The one I still see does ppm but wanted to date me normally and we are now good FWB.

[southcoastpunter]

They dont want boyfriends and that is not what is on offer. I didnt ask about money and they didnt ask for any. Until i stupidly mentioned it to one of them and she was offended and wouldnt see me again. Both contacted me first. The one I still see does ppm but wanted to date me normally and we are now good FWB.

thats very good for you.

To help put things into context for other guys (as this is not the usual) can i ask please what age you are and are you in good shape etc. the experience that a fit 30's guy may get could be very different to an average build mid to late 50's guy!

[Yung]

Has anyone seen this girl External Link/Members Only Jade ?

I am not sure if she actually does sex but she has offered to bring a friend and the idea of a 3 sum is good!

[finn5555]

Has anyone seen this girl External Link/Members Only Jade ?

I am not sure if she actually does sex but she has offered to bring a friend and the idea of a 3 sum is good!

Have you not asked her

[BeingSilent]

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Jasm, 33
London.

Profile says recently moved to London. But registered in 2021. Spidey senses are tingling especially after the last debacle. Anyone got any intel?