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[Joran]

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Met her once, good in sex, anal, rimming all available. Plus a huge arse. Very inconsistent so left her.


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Sounds very tempting, what was the ppm agreement roughly?

[massagepuntingfan]

Broadly speaking, what are early 30s normal women looking for, in terms of allowance or arrangement.  (Yes, what is normal, I mean has a proper job and seems, genuinely, to be in it for fun as well as help).

My two most recent in that age range, 28 year old £200ppm, 31 year old £250ppm. Both are ongoing and have been regular since first lockdown. The length of the meet is anything from 2-4 hours depending on my libido. The meetings are 75% sexual, 25% chat and drink. They all end naturally. One caveat I host from home and both parties know that we are there to fuck.

[testgenie]

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Met her once, good in sex, anal, rimming all available. Plus a huge arse. Very inconsistent so left her.


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Welcome back to SA maakriman

[maakriman]

Welcome back to SA maakriman

Thanks, rejoined recently.

[Froomey]

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I am in my mid-thirties myself and I also look for women in late twenties and early thirties. Once I even met someone in late 30s but she was superfit and great on bed. These women are much more mature compared to the younger ones. Every person I have decided to meet for M&G, I have eventually had PPM meets too. No one has ever ghosted me. The conversations flow really well. The sex is amazing. And they usually ask for reasonable PPMs. Yes, it's hard to get them to accept lower PPMs like the younger ones who are new to SA. But within my budget, I can meet really fit and good looking women and also have a wholesome enjoyable meet.

100% this. I have no specific age group that I focus on in my SA activities and over my years using the site have been with women from 18 to 52. On the whole I find women at the upper end of that range the most reliable when I'l looking for something good quality but short-term - eg when in a new town on business for just a day or two. In my experience they are significantly more likely actually to turn up and to be ready to move into the bedroom quickly. As others have said, they tend to know the ropes and often do not have excessive ideas of what they are worth - they key is finding the ones who are looking for much the same as oneself: companionship, conversation and no-commitment sex on an irregular basis. Avoid those that are 'professional' SBs.  For what it's worth. probably (as the lads form Carlsberg would say) the best sex of my 'career' was with a very well presented 46 year old in Manchester about 4 years ago - enthusiastic, energetic and inventive.

[Froomey]

Dipping my toes into SA scene. Anyone had any luck with her?

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Chatted to - and met - her pre-Covid. As Prifessionalguy said, not one for PPM. I did manage to get a 'preliminary' bedroom session with her but it was quite hard work. We did an M&G and she's actually interesting company and good for conversation. Told her I was looking for long-term/monthly (which she was keen on) but that I couldn't commit until we'd had one 'intimate' (she does not like to talk directly about sex in public places) date to ensure we'd be compatible in bed together. She agreed but it was a bit underwhelming - quite passive and very vanilla - so didn't pursue any further (as I pretty much knew form the outset would be the case).

[spartacusf]

My two most recent in that age range, 28 year old £200ppm, 31 year old £250ppm. Both are ongoing and have been regular since first lockdown. The length of the meet is anything from 2-4 hours depending on my libido. The meetings are 75% sexual, 25% chat and drink. They all end naturally. One caveat I host from home and both parties know that we are there to fuck.

Thanks, I quite like this particular woman and would like a not-in-your-face transactional thing.  What's a realistic monthly, for say a weekly overnighter?  As I said above, she's early 30s, not an escort, and not desperate either.

[Prifessionallondinguy]

Thanks, I quite like this particular woman and would like a not-in-your-face transactional thing.  What's a realistic monthly, for say a weekly overnighter?  As I said above, she's early 30s, not an escort, and not desperate either.

 

[HarryHart]

Chatted to - and met - her pre-Covid. As Prifessionalguy said, not one for PPM. I did manage to get a 'preliminary' bedroom session with her but it was quite hard work. We did an M&G and she's actually interesting company and good for conversation. Told her I was looking for long-term/monthly (which she was keen on) but that I couldn't commit until we'd had one 'intimate' (she does not like to talk directly about sex in public places) date to ensure we'd be compatible in bed together. She agreed but it was a bit underwhelming - quite passive and very vanilla - so didn't pursue any further (as I pretty much knew form the outset would be the case).

 Thanks for the insight 

[massagepuntingfan]

Thanks, I quite like this particular woman and would like a not-in-your-face transactional thing.  What's a realistic monthly, for say a weekly overnighter?  As I said above, she's early 30s, not an escort, and not desperate either.

Its been said again and again on this thread every girl is different and will have different financial requirements. I've only done an overnighter with 3 SBs. Each were regulars and all were comfortable with the idea. There's a fair amount of down time during an overnighter and personally I wouldn't recommend doing it with a stranger, it's a long night if you've got fuck all to talk about.
As for cost it was the same PPM as per usual.

[Man99999]

I've done overnights with 3 SBs as well. Each time it's because we've got on well and they've asked if they can stay.

Was a lot of fun

[Hantsolo]

Anyone had the pleasure of Black Panther Online?

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Was going to meet her last year, but changed my mind. She got back in touch and wants to do an overnight for less money than the afternoon we were due to spend together. Am undecided, she sounds filthy but also very pro

[stampjones]

I've done overnights with 3 SBs as well. Each time it's because we've got on well and they've asked if they can stay.

Was a lot of fun

Im not into overnights as its harder for me to organize it but Ive had a few SBs push me to do it for the normal ppm price. If it wasnt such a pain to sort out I’d be doing them all the time

[Heph]

It’s ridiculous

On the contrary: the sex is better, the company is better, the rates are better, and you stand out less as a man paying to treat his niece for her successful exam results for the third time that month.

Broadly speaking, what are early 30s normal women looking for, in terms of allowance or arrangement.  (Yes, what is normal, I mean has a proper job and seems, genuinely, to be in it for fun as well as help).

Speaking only for myself: I have a lovely, tall, athletic, clever, funny and good-looking graduate in her early 30s, with a high sex-drive and an appetite to meet as often as I please on £700 per month. In reality, it usually boils down to once or twice a week, sometimes less - usually in hotels, but when her flatmate is away, she hosts. It's delightful and I feel blessed.

I've recently retired a nice-looking, fiercely bright little hottie of 19, on the grounds that even after a long build up (which is almost all on me), the £800pm felt very poor value compared to the above - I was nearly £4k in before it felt safe or right to leg-over. That said, it looks like it could be rekindled under different circs when she goes to University in the Autumn... we shall see. I doubt I can keep both on the books at the same time, so my guess is that the former will stay and I might have a few flings with the other du temps en temps.

So: swings & roundabouts   

[maakriman]

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Any one seen this girl please

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[Deku69]

Has anyone had an arrangement with the below?
Can you also confirme if the first one is female?


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[PLeisure]

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Any one seen this girl please

That's a link to your mailbox

[maakriman]

That's a link to your mailbox

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[Steve2]

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40,000 followers on Instagram if you search the pics!!

Raises a few red flags

[Link7]

You’re right in pretty much everything you say (Im not upset at anything though) but it feels like you post that same shit in every second post. Fine, you know believe what you will, but we all got it the first 20 times. Maybe give us a break and stick with the interesting stuff is all Im saying 

Sounded like you had a personal problem (you are not the only one - I am tiring of constant sniping and mischaracterisation of my posts from the same people). This is a public place, my advice is ignore posts you don't like rather than try to police the conversation. There are a million things I've seen I don't agree with but I don't bitch and complain at people's right to post. Let's stick with the interesting stuff and give me a break from your finger-wagging

[Link7]

Pretty much, I look more for girls with a connection on the site and who are up for a good time - and that is rare. If I wanted anal for an hour I'd sign up Lola, than 99% of the girls on the site who are going around doing bareback and don't know how to have sex.

It has clearly emerged as the consensus view that exclusivity is rare and bareback is commonplace. For some reason, there are people who cannot accept this.

[Link7]

It’s ridiculous

Like most punters, you've more than likely paid for sex with women in their 30s many a time. Half the twentysomethings on adultwork are much older.

[maakriman]

40,000 followers on Instagram if you search the pics!!

Raises a few red flags

Please Pm me her insta. How do you search? Google images never return anything.

[DeanoDeano]

40,000 followers on Instagram if you search the pics!!

Raises a few red flags

Not necessarily… I’ve met a number of girls off seeking who have followers well into the tens of thousands. And one with 120k….

[DeanoDeano]

40,000 followers on Instagram if you search the pics!!

Raises a few red flags

Whoops double post.

[JauntyDude]

Very Basic Question : Does SA have an iOS app

[bigden40]

Not necessarily… I’ve met a number of girls off seeking who have followers well into the tens of thousands. And one with 120k….

Indeed, I was fucking one at 55k followers.  Unfortunately she moved to Barcelona.

[mrflash]

Very Basic Question : Does SA have an iOS app

No. From the looks of it, the android app will go away too.

[puntingpumping1920]

40,000 followers on Instagram if you search the pics!!

Raises a few red flags

 
I saw that too
 
The followers seem fake though, as she has hardly any social media engagement
 
She doesn't look like a girl you can fuck for £200/250 for a few hours

She looks expensive

[Cunning Punt]

It has clearly emerged as the consensus view... bareback is commonplace. For some reason, there are people who cannot accept this.

Well, no, it didn't. A handful of members have posted about barebacking multiple times, giving the impression that it is. Anecdotes relate to a tiny number of girls - even fewer because no doubt some of you have been fucking the same girls. 

That said, no-one's naive and nothing is guaranteed- it's all about managing/reducing risk and most of us do that by being smart in filtering profiles and comms, but not guys all do, clearly.

[maakriman]

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Anyone met this girl please. Looks like a time waster. She would say will meet with her friend. Then go silent.

[Hi5_lo5]

Has anyone had an arrangement with the below?

Eleanor
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This one, I was trying to get an arrangement since last week. Today she dropped me what's app message .
"Do you want sex or not?"
And a few minutes laters she blocked me. Seem like a time waster to me.

[Deku69]

This one, I was trying to get an arrangement since last week. Today she dropped me what's app message .
"Do you want sex or not?"
And a few minutes laters she blocked me. Seem like a time waster to me.

I think she's mentally unstable tbh, I noticed our message quality deteriorated over some days.  Then she blocked me after I refused paying for a meet & greet

[pa5151]

I think she's mentally unstable tbh, I noticed our message quality deteriorated over some days.  Then she blocked me after I refused paying for a meet & greet

I spoke with her as well on SA. She kept asking me what I'm looking for. Complete weirdo 

[theHappyLondonPigeon]

I've seen this one at some point on SA:

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Can't remember her SA name but maybe others can?

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[JohnGB]

I've seen this one at some point on SA:

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Can't remember her SA name but maybe others can?

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Rubyb11
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Had a chat with her a couple of months back. We settled on 300 but the meet never happened as she was giving me very strong pro vibes. I guess I should’ve taken it’s half price! 

[londonroad]

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Had a chat with her a couple of months back. We settled on 300 but the meet never happened as she was giving me very strong pro vibes. I guess I should’ve taken it’s half price! 

I exchanged WA messages with her around the time that day use hotels opened up after lockdown. She started looking for £500 ppm but after a week or so accepted my maximum offer of £300, with a daytime meet then set up. On the day she was ‘running late’ and asked if we could push back to later. Initially I agreed, but then she asked to change the time again. I declined as by then I had fixed up to see another SB. Late in the afternoon she did get in touch (whilst I was with the other SB!) saying she was now available.
At the time, I was beginning to think she was a pro and the post by HappyLondonPigeon, showing her on the glamour girls escort site comes as no surprise. I reckon on the day she was stringing me along as a reserve whilst she was looking for someone who would pay more.

[pa5151]

This girl charging 200 pounds for meets to take her to a restaurant. Hardly a beauty as well and definitely not fit.

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[martini2429]

This girl charging 200 pounds for meets to take her to a restaurant. Hardly a beauty as well and definitely not fit.

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I think she has been to enough restaurants 

 

[Prifessionallondinguy]

I think she has been to enough restaurants 

 

That’s a bit harsh…. I wouldn’t class Gregg’s as a restaurant 

[ma825]

Do I get a prize for the most expensive SA person to talk to? Had a look at External Link/Members Only

Looked good in pictures so sent a message over. She said she is starting at uni and she wanted TEN THOUSAND POUND up front! She had the cheek to send her IBAN over too assuming I'd say yes to it!

[hardhans75]

I just wanted to share the profile this lady but she de-activated herself. I always pride that when i choose women from SA iam careful and cautious. I had 2 great arrangements and both are now in relationships. So i was looking for one , i messaged this girl with profile name SweetlikeCaylaa during lockdown and promised to meet her. But could not , finally now due to the availability of hassle free hotel bookings i thought i should meet someone from SA.

I messaged this one and she said something like you promised to meet me earlier but did not meet me ,so unless you send me 100 pounds in advance i wont meet you. Alarm bells rang but i was a thick dick idiot and cash apped her. She said come to a particular tube station i will pick you from there. I went to the station and ofcourse she did not come , i rang her. She blocked me , i rang her from other phone. She became very abusive and called me a "Paki", "Pedo" and terrorist. She laughed at me and said iam enjoying your 100 pounds arsehole. I could not even complain to anyone. But i do have her profle photo (attached). Be careful of this bitch guys.

I did google her , her instagram id is the same name as her SA profile name.

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[pa5151]

Do I get a prize for the most expensive SA person to talk to? Had a look at External Link/Members Only

Looked good in pictures so sent a message over. She said she is starting at uni and she wanted TEN THOUSAND POUND up front! She had the cheek to send her IBAN over too assuming I'd say yes to it!

Tell her it is against the site rules to pay upfront (which it is) and then tell her you'll report her. Then actually report her.

The less people like that the better.

[martini2429]

Do I get a prize for the most expensive SA person to talk to? Had a look at External Link/Members Only

Looked good in pictures so sent a message over. She said she is starting at uni and she wanted TEN THOUSAND POUND up front! She had the cheek to send her IBAN over too assuming I'd say yes to it!

She has been on Seeking for over 2 years now, obviously not getting the 10k she is asking for and I doubt she ever will 

 

[martini2429]

I just wanted to share the profile this lady but she de-activated herself. I always pride that when i choose women from SA iam careful and cautious. I had 2 great arrangements and both are now in relationships. So i was looking for one , i messaged this girl with profile name SweetlikeCaylaa during lockdown and promised to meet her. But could not , finally now due to the availability of hassle free hotel bookings i thought i should meet someone from SA.

I messaged this one and she said something like you promised to meet me earlier but did not meet me ,so unless you send me 100 pounds in advance i wont meet you. Alarm bells rang but i was a thick dick idiot and cash apped her. She said come to a particular tube station i will pick you from there. I went to the station and ofcourse she did not come , i rang her. She blocked me , i rang her from other phone. She became very abusive and called me a "Paki", "Pedo" and terrorist. She laughed at me and said iam enjoying your 100 pounds arsehole. I could not even complain to anyone. But i do have her profle photo (attached). Be careful of this bitch guys.

I did google her , her instagram id is the same name as her SA profile name.

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1st lesson - Never send money upfront

Here endeth the first lesson

 

[Steve2]

1st lesson - Never send money upfront

Here endeth the first lesson

 

2nd lesson, always follow lesson 1

[hardhans75]

2nd lesson, always follow lesson 1

I know but sometimes dick rules not the head

[Jardent6]

How many times are people going to get done by paying 'deposit' ???!

[stampjones]

How many times are people going to get done by paying 'deposit' ???!

I know 
I mean Im sorry the guy lost his money but Im reading it thinking ffs. Im mean how many times does it need to be said

[Prifessionallondinguy]

I know but sometimes dick rules not the head

Dickhead?