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[bigden40]

Is anyone here above average looking as has it helped you on seeking?

I like to think I’m above average, but I don’t have profile pics.  I think the thing that has helped me the most has been having a well written profile and then not acting like a dick when I get them on WhatsApp.

The girls get quite quickly inundated with very direct offers and many of them don’t like it. They don’t want to regard themselves as prostitutes even if technically they are.   Treating them with a bit of civility can pay dividends.  I’m happy to pay a fair PPM but still manage to have a reasonable number of freebies too. 

e.g. I got an AirBnB in London for 3 days this week and I’m seeing 4 SBs.  2 freebies and 2 x £200 PPMs, one of which is overnight. 

Lockdown, what lockdown?

[GMontag]

Have also seen this one a couple of times, at the same PPM.  I found her good fun, but maybe just a bit too opinionated when she’s had a couple 🤣

Also not a clock watcher, last time she was with me for about 8 hours from 6pm until 2am.  Told her to bring a toothbrush next time 😛

Very similar experience. Didn't spend that long as I had things to get on to but definitely not a clock watcher. Had a bottle of prosecco which was gone by half the time she was there.

[Teejay]

Depends what above average looking is, but I guess it does help if you're not a pensioner with saggy balls. The girls sometimes ask me for anal which is a weird one but i will comply as needed  and they are looking for another cock to join usually too so if anyone out there is in good form and 30s pm me as have a couple of girls up for it.

hi I can't send you message as i am new or may be something else could you please pm me.

[bigden40]

Very similar experience. Didn't spend that long as I had things to get on to but definitely not a clock watcher. Had a bottle of prosecco which was gone by half the time she was there.

Yeah, she downs it pretty fast.  On the second meet I made sure my cock was in her before I offered her a drink 🤣 Then we did a bottle of Prosecco in bed. 

[pa5151]

On the second meet I made sure my cock was in her before I offered her a drink 🤣

This is the way 

[finn5555]

Yeah, she downs it pretty fast.  On the second meet I made sure my cock was in her before I offered her a drink 🤣 Then we did a bottle of Prosecco in bed.

I was due to meet her before we went into lockdown but wasn’t sure if she would be any good in the sack. She agreed to £200 ppm and said no rush

[Cunning Punt]

I've also had quite a few quite a few morrocan/ arab pros exchange numbers @300.

some of them seem TGTBT. I dont know whats their play as i am pretty sure they aren't on AW. I wonder where else they solicit business

Most meets are going to be 2-3 hrs, so 300 is naturally a prossie rate for that. Escorts exchange notes, as do many less pro SBs, so 300 is a default asking 'price' among London girls on Seeking.
It's also what lots of SDs in London offer, even though few of them actually go through with a meet. But that doesn't matter because the damage is done, and these girls then think that's the standard fee and what they're 'worth'.

[ddboy4u]

Depends what above average looking is, but I guess it does help if you're not a pensioner with saggy balls. The girls sometimes ask me for anal which is a weird one but i will comply as needed  and they are looking for another cock to join usually too so if anyone out there is in good form and 30s pm me as have a couple of girls up for it.

hi I can't send you message as i am new or may be something else could you please pm me.

+1

[pa5151]

This girl is up for anal but wouldn't give a blowjob

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[Cunning Punt]

This girl is up for anal but wouldn't give a blowjob

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But I bet when you got down to it, she wouldn't be up for it unless you were hung like a snail. Her profile doesn't inspire confidence.

In all in all, it would be an expensive but shit shag with a dumb, conceited minger.

"MY TIME IS VALUABLE! ..so I 'move on swiftly!' to the next without hesitation!" her profile screams.

Exactly what I did, luv. 
 

[exhippy]

3 things:
I am 70 but I keep being told by SB’s how handsome I am. I suppose this is because I don’t have a belly 2) I dress casually but with an eye to fashion 3) my profile is detailed, full of humour but I don’t brag.

I have paid £350 once to a very hot 33 yr old. She was a classy fuck but too much a routine. And even though she offered me £250 for an arrangement, I didn’t feel intimate with her. Otherwise it has all been £150 or £200 with to me hot girls. But I am never sexist or abusive while chatting and I am honest. I have a beautiful 27 yr old Spanish hottie lined up for tomorrow for £200. The other London girl I think I will have an arrangement with Is £150. I do have a young mixed race lass  who I am going to stay with for a weekend in another city but we haven’t fixed a price yet . She won’t be to most guy’s taste - Bi, into kinks and pierced heavily but we share views about the world, and we r both lefties and we share mutual acquaintances. I can see this going far.

3) External Link/Members Only. This woman changes profiles every week. She just messaged me despite the fact that in a previous avatar we WhatsApped

[randompunter1234]

The blog continues..

So an update to my experience so far on SA. a little over a week in

1.) made my debut today. A late 20s brazilian midget.   Fairly new in the UK , very poor english but a very sweet girl. Super soft brazilian butt. Open to most things and managed quite a climax.
We had agreed 150. exchanged 160 as i didnt have change.  total damage. 40 quid for a super clean bayswater hotel + 15 pizza takeaway. She mentioned SA has today deleted her account for some reason. She may be back. I could have linked however the account has been deleted. She will surely be back.

Would i repeat. possibly but now i have a lot of options.

2.) i have two lined up at 200 and they will host.  opening bid is 300. I always mention the hotel cost and travel and the rest as part of the negotiation , immediately my offer of 150 is negotiated down to 200.

One of these two is a colombian which i quite fancy. definitely doing it at some point

The other one is the polish girl mentioned here. I may or may not go ahead, any feedback will be appreciated.

3. A few observations.

As i mentioned earlier, figures of 400- 300 being quoted and accepted are absolutely crazy. If I have to spend that kind of money I would use Diva. particularly for  any girl that straightaway suggests a ppm. She has absolutely no intention of hanging around and it would never be full experience that ought to be if you find a gem. I would only ever pay 500-600 for full monthly access and have one lined up. I probably will not take up on it as I have a few more options materialising.

I would only every pay that kind of money to woo someone genuinely unique and stunning.

4. 18-22 yr olds are more likely to pull the deposit scam or hook you in and ask to help out with some little money or an amazon wishlist. also more likely to be flaky

5. I have become more battle hardened and mix things up just to take the piss, and sometimes it has quite interesting results. 
A started off my conversation with a couple of really hot (and who i thought were definitely genuine) ranting about the pisstake on SA. (and these were genuine frustrations) and how i dont agree with the set up and money demanded, and how i will scale up if there was a genuine built up of trust.
they immediately opened up with their realistic expectations and it was  quite interesting.

guys in these times even a monthly figure of £400-500 in these times is a huge sum, not to be parted for a 2 hour meet.

6. Once you identify  a genuine one (not a semi pro eager for a ppm), just a normal interesting conversation rather then sex or any potential arrangement is likely to yield a much better result.

I have two meet and greets over the weekend. more keen on the sunday one , so the sat one might get cancelled.

to be continued....

[randompunter1234]

This girl is up for anal but wouldn't give a blowjob

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scammmer

was very keen to agree a meet on the same day.sent number straightaway (another sign of a pro/ semi pro)  I lowballed, she blocked. this was on my first day on SA

[Whoisarrypotter]

Apologies if this has been covered already.

So im conversing with this girl (cant work out how to copy the link).
Essentially she is asking loaded questions "what do you mean mutually beneficial? "  and "do you mean pay per meet".

As im new to SA i just wanted to check as i get the impression she is trying to trick me i to saying yes then ill get banned.   It also says on her list her career is JD /law
Am i just being paranoid or am i reading this right?  I considering giving her my whatsapp to discuss it properly but my gut tells me this is dodgy and move on.

Cheers potter

[Bikerboy]

The blog continues..

So an update to my experience so far on SA. a little over a week in

1.) made my debut today. A late 20s brazilian midget.   Fairly new in the UK , very poor english but a very sweet girl. Super soft brazilian butt. Open to most things and managed quite a climax.
We had agreed 150. exchanged 160 as i didnt have change.  total damage. 40 quid for a super clean bayswater hotel + 15 pizza takeaway. She mentioned SA has today deleted her account for some reason. She may be back. I could have linked however the account has been deleted. She will surely be back.

Would i repeat. possibly but now i have a lot of options.

2.) i have two lined up at 200 and they will host.  opening bid is 300. I always mention the hotel cost and travel and the rest as part of the negotiation , immediately my offer of 150 is negotiated down to 200.

One of these two is a colombian which i quite fancy. definitely doing it at some point

The other one is the polish girl mentioned here. I may or may not go ahead, any feedback will be appreciated.

3. A few observations.

As i mentioned earlier, figures of 400- 300 being quoted and accepted are absolutely crazy. If I have to spend that kind of money I would use Diva. particularly for  any girl that straightaway suggests a ppm. She has absolutely no intention of hanging around and it would never be full experience that ought to be if you find a gem. I would only ever pay 500-600 for full monthly access and have one lined up. I probably will not take up on it as I have a few more options materialising.

I would only every pay that kind of money to woo someone genuinely unique and stunning.

4. 18-22 yr olds are more likely to pull the deposit scam or hook you in and ask to help out with some little money or an Axxxxxx wishlist. also more likely to be flaky

5. I have become more battle hardened and mix things up just to take the piss, and sometimes it has quite interesting results. 
A started off my conversation with a couple of really hot (and who i thought were definitely genuine) ranting about the pisstake on SA. (and these were genuine frustrations) and how i dont agree with the set up and money demanded, and how i will scale up if there was a genuine built up of trust.
they immediately opened up with their realistic expectations and it was  quite interesting.

guys in these times even a monthly figure of £400-500 in these times is a huge sum, not to be parted for a 2 hour meet.

6. Once you identify  a genuine one (not a semi pro eager for a ppm), just a normal interesting conversation rather then sex or any potential arrangement is likely to yield a much better result.

I have two meet and greets over the weekend. more keen on the sunday one , so the sat one might get cancelled.

to be continued....

Hmm interesting, you’ve had a lot of success and the ongoing debate on what’s a fair/market rate for ppm/allowance will continue.
Sounds like a lot on the forum currently struggle to find any genuine offers for any ppm/arrangement unless they’re young and good looking enough to pull civvies or paying semi pros/pros at the moment. Things have eased a bit since unis let a few on practical courses return to halls but it’s still really thin on the ground unless you want online.

[martini2429]

Apologies if this has been covered already.

So im conversing with this girl (cant work out how to copy the link).
Essentially she is asking loaded questions "what do you mean mutually beneficial? "  and "do you mean pay per meet".

As im new to SA i just wanted to check as i get the impression she is trying to trick me i to saying yes then ill get banned.   It also says on her list her career is JD /law
Am i just being paranoid or am i reading this right?  I considering giving her my whatsapp to discuss it properly but my gut tells me this is dodgy and move on.

Cheers potter

Don't talk money on Seeking, get her onto WA asap, tell her you will discuss the finer details on WA, she may not be trying to trick you but it will lead to you being banned

 

[Whoisarrypotter]

Don't talk money on Seeking, get her onto WA asap, tell her you will discuss the finer details on WA, she may not be trying to trick you but it will lead to you being banned

 

Thanks for the reply mate.
I read on here that any talk of finance will get you banned which is why i suspected maybe she was just a fake profile designed to trick guys into talking about financial arrangement and then get banned, seeking get to keep your subscription so they win.
Maybe i am being a bit too paranoid heh heh i guess my time on here and online dating sites has taught me never trust anyone.
I will suggest w/a and see what transpires and will of course update my findings on here.

Thanks again

[deenblack2014]

Thanks for the reply mate.
I read on here that any talk of finance will get you banned which is why i suspected maybe she was just a fake profile designed to trick guys into talking about financial arrangement and then get banned, seeking get to keep your subscription so they win.
Maybe i am being a bit too paranoid heh heh i guess my time on here and online dating sites has taught me never trust anyone.
I will suggest w/a and see what transpires and will of course update my findings on here.

Thanks again

I think you are right in being paranoid about it. I did have a suspicion that the admins have fake profiles on there to check new SD profiles.

Have been there for 2 years. I usually get premium membership for a month collect numbers and delete it. Also, majority of the time they send you discount codes to join a week after u join.

Once got a msg from a girl who seemed like 25 to me from the pics. The msg said that she was 17 and hope I don't mind. I advised her that this is a 18+ website and she shouldn't be on here and cause problems for herself and other SDs. Moved on to responding to other msgs and one hour later my account was suspended. The cheeky Cs reinstated the account only after I replied to them over email stating that I will not do any illegal activities on there

After that incident, I have been cautious like you

[GMontag]

Anyone come across this lady? External Link/Members Only
Been chatting with her, seems open to meet but being a bit cagey on whatsapp. Seems genuine but not as open to discuss, just says lets see how it goes and then doesnt engage.

[SpaceRaiderDave]

Does anyone know when it will be possible to book a Dayuse hotel without having a work related reason? It is either 12th April or 17th May. Certainly for overnight stays it is the May date but I was wondering if it might be possible to book a day room with someone from the same bubble in April. Of course my SA date won’t be in my bubble but that isn’t something reception staff can check and as the booking will only be for a couple of hours in the afternoon it doesn’t include overnight.

[Whoisarrypotter]

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Update to my earlier post.
Based in Basildon, cant accomodate says shes half Portuguese half Jamaican.
Profile says she studies JD/law  yet when i was chatting on whatsapp, I mentioned about SA policies on Solicitation etc and she seemed a bit clueless.
Saw her picture on whatsapp and she looked a little masculine for my liking.

Got chatting, agreed on £100 per meet and would try to meet at least 2 times in a month maybe more.
We discussed accomodation and although my profile say married and i asked her first if it was a problem, she said "I dont want to be a homewrecker".
Fair enough says I maybe we should move on it clearly wont work.
She then goes on to say she really needs the money though and can we meet today.
Wanted to suggest we do a car meet in a quiet spot in Basildon.

That is enough to tell me all I need to know.
Im not saying she isnt genuine but if your planning on contacting her or have already i would exercise caution.

[Bikerboy]

Don't talk money on Seeking, get her onto WA asap, tell her you will discuss the finer details on WA, she may not be trying to trick you but it will lead to you being banned

 

Good general advice though I’ve never had an issue talking ppm or money on seeking but I know many have. Only seeking admin problems I’ve heard of is when the girl gets pissed off and reports the SD profile.

[randompunter1234]

Anyone come across this lady? External Link/Members Only
Been chatting with her, seems open to meet but being a bit cagey on whatsapp. Seems genuine but not as open to discuss, just says lets see how it goes and then doesnt engage.

haha. I am talking to a few similar ones.  Mid late twenties, possibly working, quite choosy.  my feeling with these is it could only work if there is some genuine chemistry and you will need at least a date to get anywhere.

Not come across this particular one. She looks persian, almost a copy of Shapi Khorsandi. Whole foods....ummm could turn out to be quite expensive

[Whoisarrypotter]

Also i know its a bit obvious

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Not only has a very similar profile name to

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But they both use the same phone number.
(I havnt posted incase of breaking the rules to which im not sure on.)

Happy to stick it on here if its ok though

[pa5151]

Also i know its a bit obvious

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Not only has a very similar profile name to

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But they both use the same phone number.
(I havnt posted incase of breaking the rules to which im not sure on.)

Happy to stick it on here if its ok though

Yeah met that one She's hot and does ppm. I found her a bit mechanical so not seen more than once.

[finn5555]

Yeah met that one She's hot and does ppm. I found her a bit mechanical so not seen more than once.

Which one and how much ppm

[pa5151]

Which one and how much ppm

Pretty sure that's the same person. Marianna. Think it was 200 ppm. She basically has no limits anal etc.

[finn5555]

Pretty sure that's the same person. Marianna. Think it was 200 ppm. She basically has no limits anal etc.

Shame she’s mechanical as looks quite fit 

[pa5151]

Shame she’s mechanical as looks quite fit 

She's hot no doubt looks as good in real life, student in her early 20s.

 I'm just picky as I've had some great bangs on the site and some more average bangs. I'm sure plenty of guys would have a good time with her.

[Man99999]

Depends what above average looking is, but I guess it does help if you're not a pensioner with saggy balls. The girls sometimes ask me for anal which is a weird one but i will comply as needed  and they are looking for another cock to join usually too so if anyone out there is in good form and 30s pm me as have a couple of girls up for it.

Hey I can't PM you. Maybe you can me

[ampithestud1]

Any intel on this one?

ArianaLa x
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Asking for £400 but seems open to negotiate. Any info is appreciated 

I checked her profile and within a minute shes favourited me and asked if I'd like to meet this weekend 

I'm still new to SA but definitely smell a scammer / escort

[bigden40]

I checked her profile and within a minute shes favourited me and asked if I'd like to meet this weekend 

I'm still new to SA but definitely smell a scammer / escort

+1

One line profile, random picture of a pair of legs.

Scam, move on.

[bigden40]

Does anyone know when it will be possible to book a Dayuse hotel without having a work related reason? It is either 12th April or 17th May. Certainly for overnight stays it is the May date but I was wondering if it might be possible to book a day room with someone from the same bubble in April. Of course my SA date won’t be in my bubble but that isn’t something reception staff can check and as the booking will only be for a couple of hours in the afternoon it doesn’t include overnight.

I have been successfully using this place ....

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They only require you to self certify that your stay is valid and check no details.  Place has a back door next to lifts that you can easily bring in a guest. 

Have also used a couple of AirBnBs with self checkin no problems too.

[SpaceRaiderDave]

I have been successfully using this place ....

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They only require you to self certify that your stay is valid and check no details.  Place has a back door next to lifts that you can easily bring in a guest. 

Have also used a couple of AirBnBs with self checkin no problems too.

Thanks for the tip. There are however a few of the Dayuse hotels in the Earls Court area which are easier to get to for my SA meet thas why I am particularly interested in that site

[randompunter1234]

removed. happy to answer  in PM if anyone needs any info

[Singh54]

Any intel on this one?

ArianaLa x
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Asking for £400 but seems open to negotiate. Any info is appreciated 

I saw her back in December. Was 200, she is fit about 5ft2 slim. In the hotel room she likes to get you to cum as quick as possible. Bj then sex, no touching tits or pussy as she is very ticklish 😏. After sex she had shower and said she had to go back as she had a class to go to.

Messaged me for another meet but I declined

[Lone-punter]

figures of £400 absolutely bonkers.  Its always gonna end in disappointment

You're right but there are some who even say "my last arrangement was 1K per meet 

Ha, prime example of what I meant when I said sometimes, you can get so used to paying, you forget why you're even doing it. I assume you've seen more than just her legs...? If she put the same profile up on AW we would all laugh. It's basically no pictures, no likes list, £400 price tag 

We have moved to WA, where she has shared her photos and a couple of snapchats, in photos and videos she's so pretty to believe this would be her 

I checked her profile and within a minute shes favourited me and asked if I'd like to meet this weekend 

I'm still new to SA but definitely smell a scammer / escort

This in my experience is a telltale sign of a scammer 

One line profile, random picture of a pair of legs.

Scam, move on.

+1

I saw her back in December. Was 200, she is fit about 5ft2 slim. In the hotel room she likes to get you to cum as quick as possible. Bj then sex, no touching tits or pussy as she is very ticklish 😏. After sex she had shower and said she had to go back as she had a class to go to.

Messaged me for another meet but I declined

Thanks for this info. So, at least now we know she's real. She's scaled down from £400 significantly.

[randompunter1234]

Another small update.. to my Blog

Had a very interesting experience today. No shame in admitting that everyone can trip. A small loss for me, but they didnt gain anything

I was chatting to someone since yesterday . Really fit mid twenties, quite a lot of body art, we get along really well exchange numbers. agree a date, no agreement or anything, just a normal date. I suggested i will bring flowers just cuz no one ever bought her any. She goes,  just had a vaccine today and I can buy some today and I have her address. I being a gentleman ended up ordering some flowers. What could possibly go wrong.....

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Half an hour later she's asking for 50 quid for shopping, doesnt get paid until next week. WTF


Those flowers will be redirected to me tomorrow   

[pa5151]

She's scaled down from £400 significantly.

Thank god for covid 

[Whoisarrypotter]

She's hot no doubt looks as good in real life, student in her early 20s.

 I'm just picky as I've had some great bangs on the site and some more average bangs. I'm sure plenty of guys would have a good time with her.

Wow thankyou for the intel, i admit at most i thought escort if shes hot does ppm and has few limits im now sorely tempted.
If you dont mind me asking does she do inc... eh hem accomodate?
Cheers

[Lone-punter]

This girl is up for anal but wouldn't give a blowjob

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This one says will give BJ after having sex 
MariaVel
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[Lone-punter]

Also i know its a bit obvious

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Not only has a very similar profile name to

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But they both use the same phone number.
(I havnt posted incase of breaking the rules to which im not sure on.)

Happy to stick it on here if its ok though

Met her in 2019 through a different profile of her, she's Greek and a student of the University of Surrey. Friendly and eager to please but at that time I had found her a little inexperienced.

[Convince Me]

A girl around Richmond area has a profile in seeking and vivastreet. If u guys don't want to go through seeking.c0m here are the links

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If anyone has seen her on past, can you let us know. Thanks.

AVOID AVOID AVOID, high as kite, paranoid, drunk & totally vulnerable. I could of taken ££ back & she would not of been the wiser. I ended up feeling sorry for her & tried to offer advice. Anybody who see her is potentially one call from the police turning up.

[Singh54]

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I also had a very good meet with this sexy lady.
Got her to FaceTime me on wa first and then arranged meet.

She is Spanish and has a very tight fit body. Lots of dfk, great bj and good sex.
Meet was 200, hope to see again after lockdown as I only do meets in hotels.

[Prifessionallondinguy]

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I also had a very good meet with this sexy lady.
Got her to FaceTime me on wa first and then arranged meet.

She is Spanish and has a very tight fit body. Lots of dfk, great bj and good sex.
Meet was 200, hope to see again after lockdown as I only do meets in hotels.

Cheers  :thumbsup:looks a nice looking girl.  £200 seems to be the norm.. Covid might’ve brought some reality to proceedings.

[Fitzjew]

Just a little story that also has tips:
So I met this girl on seeking a year ago, just 2months before lock down,I am quite younger than the typical sugar daddy, I just wanted something that is a little more GFE and less WG experience on a regular. I get bored quickly with dating hence why this was  a good option. Her profile is currently deactivated so cannot share link or pics but also, I am no animal 

Girl:
She is stunning, new to the continent (1/2yrs), petite with a fat ass like those Latin women you see in Brazilian porn(i wish i could put up a pic)

The arrangement:
We hit it off from the first chat. Finally, came back to the country after a month away on a work assignment and we had been talking almost daily. This girl was literally falling for me, even without saying it, I could tell. I booked a rather posh hotel(according to her) every week for the time i was back here. She is a pocket rocket so the sex is pretty much in the top 3, ever and recording allowed, anal, owo etc so It was literally a fantasy. KILLER: SHE REFUSED ANY SORT OF MONEY ETC But i was nice and i sent her some flowers as I got her address when she left her shopping account logged onto my laptop as I had given her a cold(not COVID lol).

Problem:
We away again for two months and I came back as I couldn't travel anymore due to lockdowns, I could not book any place so I was totally hungry for a meet, I made what i now regard as the worst mistake of my adult life, I invited her to my house. She wanted me to log  into my netflix on her laptop and I ended up on her history page, MY WORD, I saw searches with my name, my companies, my social media pages she had visited etc. This freaked me out and I should have taken this as a wake up call.   Now, I got busy so pushed back another meet and I just got freaked out and started to ignore her.

NIGHTMARE 
THIS WEIRDO Hunted me down, messaged my family members on social media, called my office even. Proper stalker and I blocked her off everywhere possible.

Lesson; NEVER TELL THEM YOUR REAL NAME, NEVER GIVE THEM HOPE THAT THEY CAN GET MORE OUT OF YOU THAN AN ARRANGEMENT  & NEVER BRING THEM TO YOUR HOUSE.

[what-a man]

Have you guys noticed that these SA girls are quick to say they study law. I wonder why they do it cos it’s easy to know they are lying(well probably some........)

[Cunning Punt]

Another small update.. to my Blog.

There are some helpful points in some your reports, so thanks for those. However, perhaps try to avoid just doing a running blog, which, if not linked to a named girl, is not really of benefit to anyone.
If several people did anonymous quasi-reviews, it would just clog up the thread and eventually it descends into willy waving - as it did with the closed Seeking thread, which is why those posts were banned by Admin.

So by all means, please share experiences but consider focusing on the specific part that may help others, so what precisely you learned from it and others could take away.  eg are you suggesting don't get too soppy with a girl and send her flowers etc because she might think you're a mug?

[Cunning Punt]

Anyone come across this lady? External Link/Members Only
Been chatting with her, seems open to meet but being a bit cagey on whatsapp. Seems genuine but not as open to discuss, just says lets see how it goes and then doesnt engage.

Not contacted her, but I reckon you're almost certainly not going to get anywhere with girls who are cagey, don't engage and say "let's see how it goes" - they're what I call 'just curious' girls who are faffing about on SA without committing. They are just timewasters.
She joined SA 2 years ago and I wonder if she has actually an arrangement in that time. She even looks timid in her photos, nice girl though she may be.

Maybe you can charm her, but I don't waste my time with these girls tbh.

[HarryHart]

Just a little story that also has tips:
So I met this girl on seeking a year ago, just 2months before lock down,I am quite younger than the typical sugar daddy, I just wanted something that is a little more GFE and less WG experience on a regular. I get bored quickly with dating hence why this was  a good option. Her profile is currently deactivated so cannot share link or pics but also, I am no animal 

Girl:
She is stunning, new to the continent (1/2yrs), petite with a fat ass like those Latin women you see in Brazilian porn(i wish i could put up a pic)

The arrangement:
We hit it off from the first chat. Finally, came back to the country after a month away on a work assignment and we had been talking almost daily. This girl was literally falling for me, even without saying it, I could tell. I booked a rather posh hotel(according to her) every week for the time i was back here. She is a pocket rocket so the sex is pretty much in the top 3, ever and recording allowed, anal, owo etc so It was literally a fantasy. KILLER: SHE REFUSED ANY SORT OF MONEY ETC But i was nice and i sent her some flowers as I got her address when she left her shopping account logged onto my laptop as I had given her a cold(not COVID lol).

Problem:
We away again for two months and I came back as I couldn't travel anymore due to lockdowns, I could not book any place so I was totally hungry for a meet, I made what i now regard as the worst mistake of my adult life, I invited her to my house. She wanted me to log  into my netflix on her laptop and I ended up on her history page, MY WORD, I saw searches with my name, my companies, my social media pages she had visited etc. This freaked me out and I should have taken this as a wake up call.   Now, I got busy so pushed back another meet and I just got freaked out and started to ignore her.

NIGHTMARE 
THIS WEIRDO Hunted me down, messaged my family members on social media, called my office even. Proper stalker and I blocked her off everywhere possible.

Lesson; NEVER TELL THEM YOUR REAL NAME, NEVER GIVE THEM HOPE THAT THEY CAN GET MORE OUT OF YOU THAN AN ARRANGEMENT  & NEVER BRING THEM TO YOUR HOUSE.

You must be quite a charmer, sounds like she was head over heels for you pal  This sounds absolutely horrendous though, how did you get out explaining to your family members about her messages?