I say on my profile - my age and I am looking for a woman who won't run screaming from an old guy. I wrote quite a long profile, and I start off conversations by saying have you read it...
I agree with what all you have mentioned. Creating a genuine profile with good description is important. You being old may not appeal to many...but others may take it as a positive sign (someone experienced and not only about sex).
As men, we are on SA to find girls who may need help with money but are not professional escort. Similarly, many women need someone they feel safe and secure instead of meeting man who just want to fuck.
It is better to be focused on the type of women into you (and there will be plenty)...instead of trying to meet everyone.
SA can be time consuming, disappointing and frustrating...but the main reason behind that might be our own bad judgment and trying to meet/talk wrong girls...or trying to meet as many as possible.
There are many links shared on this thread itself when a girl has amazing pictures, but hardly any description, recently joined, non-verified profile etc. There are clear red flags. A girl who cant put bit of effort in creating a profile or to know a stranger before meeting...can not be trusted to even turn up on the meeting or turn out to be fake. But then, we all are mature men here and have our own reasons to be on SA.
Really happy to see read your positive experience
