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Offline Joran

She sent me a generic message on SA with her whatsapp number. I never replied.
It was a clear Red Flag (either as Escort/ Serial SB / Fake profile )

Be aware of someone asking you to come on Whatsapp without any interaction on SA. There are ppl who wants to get hold of your personal information ->Whatsapp->your number will be linked to other social apps(if you are not using putting phone)...and will ask money

I have linked my punting phone to fake social media account and I have noticed many male social media profile recommendations from SA girls numbers. For the same reason I would recommend not using a phone number linked to your real social media if you want to keep anonymous. I am also cautious when a girl sends her number without interaction or wants to meet the same week for intimate encounter as it is usually a red flag as mentioned above.

Offline Link7

Has anyone seen External Link/Members Only ?
Wants £350 for ppm.


You do know that you are "talking" to a Russian model called Sveta Bilyalova with 6m Instagram followers?

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I routinely reverse image search anyone who interests me - doesn't always work but often does. Too many catfishes out there. Never really been caught out or exposed myself, but have certainly wasted plenty of time chatting.

Once spoke to two different birds - (supposedly) a brunette from Essex and a blonde from wimbledon - who gave me the same mobile number  :)

I also agree, as others have noted, a lot of the genuine ones are amenable to a video call. Good litmus test.

Offline Jason1971

Has anyone had the embarrassment ( if you can call it that) of chatting with two girls who it turns out happen to know each other, know they are both on the site and share details with each other about who they are chatting with. Only I have recently and it was really awkward, turned out one of them was the others hairdresser, got a real shitty message from the one who was the hairdresser and subsequently blocked.

How the hell am I supposed to know they know each other? Have previously chatted with a girl who stated in her profile she was studying a specific subject at a specific uni, so have avoided any other profiles that I saw stating the same but this was totally random.

Offline NightKid

Has anyone had the embarrassment ( if you can call it that) of chatting with two girls who it turns out happen to know each other, know they are both on the site and share details with each other about who they are chatting with. Only I have recently and it was really awkward, turned out one of them was the others hairdresser, got a real shitty message from the one who was the hairdresser and subsequently blocked.

How the hell am I supposed to know they know each other? Have previously chatted with a girl who stated in her profile she was studying a specific subject at a specific uni, so have avoided any other profiles that I saw stating the same but this was totally random.

Well, what exactly was she pissed at you for?

Way I see it, if I'm talking to 2 girls who happens to know each other then s'not like it's any of either one's business what I might be talking to her mate about anyway, unless I were criticising her or something.

Offline Jason1971

Well, what exactly was she pissed at you for?

Way I see it, if I'm talking to 2 girls who happens to know each other then s'not like it's any of either one's business what I might be talking to her mate about anyway, unless I were criticising her or something.

Yeah that is my view. I think she was quite new and had some idea of exclusivity in that once she had me chatting that it was it and I wasn't allowed to talk with anyone else. Her loss, or rather my gain especially as her friend was a good fuck, bit more than what I would normally pay but she does work as a stripper and is on babestation.

Offline martini2429

Yeah that is my view. I think she was quite new and had some idea of exclusivity in that once she had me chatting that it was it and I wasn't allowed to talk with anyone else. Her loss, or rather my gain especially as her friend was a good fuck, bit more than what I would normally pay but she does work as a stripper and is on babestation.

And there's the rub, she can talk to all the blokes she likes, but you can't talk to anymore women  :dash: :dash: :dash:

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Offline Convince Me

White British from Liverpool  :cool:
Not orange? I thought all Scouse slappers were that colour 🤔😆😆


Offline GMontag

Hi everyone thank you for your advices. I signed up SA last week and managed a date next week. 
We have been chatting for a few day and she suggested for the meet. Is it normal to be happened in a few day? I have only sent her pictures which do not show my face. I am feeling quite strange.

Here is the SA Link of the lady. She looks pretty and has average body.

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This one lol.
Met her 2 years ago. Chubbier than pictures suggests so probably very old pics. She was a bit pushy for a meet from the start, not much conversation otherwise. I almost cancelled as she would keep asking to check we were still on.
British Pakistani. Nice enough girl. Day job but I think she's been on SA so long she could as well be a pro. £150 I think it was. Spent a couple of hours. The sex wasn't great, just ok. She is quite chatty once she got comfortable.
I did intend to meet again but wasn't in a rush. She still sends speculative messages asking to meet up but haven't been able to find the time especially as it wasn't a particularly memorable session.



Offline punterstanding

Anyone seen this lady?

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Anyone seen?

Gents, when asking if anyone has seen, please can you put in location and profile name so as not to have everyone checking her profile. If you want help, make it easy for people to help you! I have a 'ghost' profile that doesn't show up on their 'viewed me' list but many others will just use their normal profile so they may get views from all over!
« Last Edit: February 26, 2021, 02:05:51 pm by punterstanding »


Offline HomerC

Gents, when asking if anyone has seen, please can you put in location and profile name so as not to have everyone checking her profile. If you want help, make it easy for people to help you! I have a 'ghost' profile that doesn't show up on their 'viewed me' list but many others will just use their normal profile so they may get views from all over!

Tip: another way to get a ghost profile is to have a free account without a photo.
Otherwise only way is to be premium and select that option.



Offline Link7

Anyone seen this lady?

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I've let my subscription lapse for the time being (not even the cost - need to focus on work lol). But there's an unread message in my inbox from her.

First thought was, more one you'd take home from 'spoons after several pints....not so sure I'd actually pay, to be brutally honest.

Offline Link7

Gents, when asking if anyone has seen, please can you put in location and profile name so as not to have everyone checking her profile. If you want help, make it easy for people to help you! I have a 'ghost' profile that doesn't show up on their 'viewed me' list but many others will just use their normal profile so they may get views from all over!

I might be being slow here - how would posting profile name and location help? Still need to click the link to find out what she looks like...?

Thought everyone here was in/close to London, anyway.

Also, why do you need a ghost profile to view girls?

Offline stevee

Hello has anyone seen her:

BrtiJR
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I met her back in November through SA . Said her name was Jenny not sure how true lol

PPM was £200 spent around 3 hours together . Would say she is a 12 but cracking boobs and the body pretty much all in proportion .

Sex was good ( vag pen covered ) did all bar Anal told me she wanted me to cum in her mouth while on her knees to finish off session . Very responsive to Oral on her and the banter in between was good . Is a Rock / Metal fan lol

Offline HomerC

Has anyone conversed with

Peaceful_Madness
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Location: West Kensington

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Oh another is

lunaaa02
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London

She is blonde and slim.
She was last active 2 months ago.

Has anyone managed to get anywhere with her?

Offline Bobbins1973

Has anyone conversed with

Peaceful_Madness
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Location: West Kensington

Selfies in a Travelodge but probably wants £500 ppm 😂

Offline Cunning Punt

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Has anyone conversed with

Peaceful_Madness
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Location: West Kensington

I am also curious about

Auror25
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London

Oh another is

lunaaa02
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London

She is blonde and slim.
She was last active 2 months ago.

Has anyone managed to get anywhere with her?

Homer, as has been mentioned before, please stop spamming this thread with every girl you're vaguely interested in.  :thumbsdown:

Offline NightKid

I might be being slow here - how would posting profile name and location help?

I'll give you the location bit, but there's still every chance you get someone who posts one that isn't on occasion

As for the name, it helps with searches on UKP when the link fails at times

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I might be being slow here - how would posting profile name and location help? Still need to click the link to find out what she looks like...?

Thought everyone here was in/close to London, anyway.


Up to a point, London is a big place and difficult to get to from one side to another. And some guys in NW London won't go to Bromley, for example, let alone those of us who live outside London for what would be a 5hr+ round trip.

Giving names may also help guys recognise a SB and prevents them clicking on a blast from the past, leaving a mark. Also Nk's point above.

Basically, every bit of information  saves guys wasting time when something doesn't apply to them and registering as visiting a SB's profile when they don't want/need to. And helps us help you.  :thumbsup:
« Last Edit: February 26, 2021, 11:37:18 pm by Cunning Punt »

Offline HomerC

Homer, as has been mentioned before, please stop spamming this thread with every girl you're vaguely interested in.  :thumbsdown:

They are very carefully picked - I have invested a lot of time in the past trying to connect with these 3. I am refraining from posting profiles Willy nilly, I promise.  I seemingly got quite far with two of them in conversation before they fizzled out. I’m dying to know if others have had success.

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They are very carefully picked - I have invested a lot of time in the past trying to connect with these 3. I am refraining from posting profiles Willy nilly, I promise.  I seemingly got quite far with two of them in conversation before they fizzled out. I’m dying to know if others have had success.

If the conversation has fizzled out between you, then either contact them again amd try your luck.... or a better idea would be to move on!

I really don’t see the point of posting profiles of women you’ve chatted to in the past but haven’t met and now aren’t even talking to. Especially ones that haven’t been active recently, this probably means she’s no longer interested so why post it?

If we all put links of girls we’d swapped a few messages with in the past, this thread would be huge.


Offline Link7

Fair enough lads, no big deal to include profile names/location when posting, just wondered reasoning. So many profiles change though, and personally I don't really commit profile names to memory - badgirl114 vs sugababy231 vs sugarlover118 - bit of a job keeping track! Still easiest to just click on the link and check photos.

Don't see issue with girls seeing you viewed their profile (or perceived benefit from avoiding this). Unless followed up with a message, a view doesn't mean much? You could have been showing your friends how ugly she is for all she knows  :sarcastic: I'm trigger happy with the block button so no issues with blasts from past. Unless a conversation goes somewhere /I'd want to speak to them again, I pretty much block by default.

Offline massagepuntingfan

If you go into SA settings there is an option to turn off visibility settings - i.e. if you look at a ladies profile she won't know.

Offline NightKid

If you go into SA settings there is an option to turn off visibility settings - i.e. if you look at a ladies profile she won't know.

AFAIK that option is supposed to be for premium i.e. subbed members only, and I don't think it has changed?

Offline Link7

AFAIK that option is supposed to be for premium i.e. subbed members only, and I don't think it has changed?

I think you are right - another reason I didn't understand the comment above about having a ghost profile which doesn't show up on "viewed me" list. Are people paying twice?

Offline massagepuntingfan

AFAIK that option is supposed to be for premium i.e. subbed members only, and I don't think it has changed?

Yes you're right, its for paid up members.

Offline HomerC

If the conversation has fizzled out between you, then either contact them again amd try your luck.... or a better idea would be to move on!

Well in one case I do have new replies, but I can't read them because I started a new profile (to get a bigger discount). (So it says "upgrade to premium" to read.)

In the cases of peaceful madness, i can't quite recall our exchanges, and they are now behind a paywall (old account). (There was a lot of back and forth but never got her number.)

As for the final one, she wants to sell me pictures and says she has a boyfriend now. I was wondering if low balled her - like maybe I should offer her more money?



The participants of this thread are amazing. I've had PMs giving me intel - it's fucking class - you guys are legends.

I will post profiles sparingly; I am mindful of being annoying.

« Last Edit: February 27, 2021, 01:08:23 pm by HomerC »

Offline anotherwoody69

Anybody going to 'fess up to trying to hit on the bird from the Apprentice (TV show)?

I wouldn't have had a clue, don't watch that tripe, but its made a couple of papers today.

I'll resist adding the link on the basis I'm not sure its allowed, perhaps somebody else might that knows better.

Offline HomerC

I made a hotel booking for tonight
The hotel just called me and asked if I can produce an email or a letter to prove the visit is for work purposes.

So, I will send myself an email to print out. This is ridiculous. Not sure how to word it.

Offline martini2429

Anybody going to 'fess up to trying to hit on the bird from the Apprentice (TV show)?

I wouldn't have had a clue, don't watch that tripe, but its made a couple of papers today.

I'll resist adding the link on the basis I'm not sure its allowed, perhaps somebody else might that knows better.

Someone has posted the link on the Closed Seeking thread and also on a Thread started on the main board

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Offline Link7

Yeah that is my view. I think she was quite new and had some idea of exclusivity in that once she had me chatting that it was it and I wasn't allowed to talk with anyone else. Her loss, or rather my gain especially as her friend was a good fuck, bit more than what I would normally pay but she does work as a stripper and is on babestation.

I know there are loads of cam girls on SA, but is the babestation one you refer to a bbw originally from Yorkshire (but advertising London), by any chance? PM if you like. Thanks


Offline Link7

Anybody going to 'fess up to trying to hit on the bird from the Apprentice (TV show)?

I wouldn't have had a clue, don't watch that tripe, but its made a couple of papers today.

I'll resist adding the link on the basis I'm not sure its allowed, perhaps somebody else might that knows better.

Haha, nah haven't tried it on. I'd be wary of somebody like that selling a story, or otherwise just not being discreet enough - she's got nothing to lose really, having already talked to the national press about being a SB...

Did remind me of this though 😂 a timely reminder that there are journalists active on SA:

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=195949.msg2029181#msg2029181



Offline HomerC

Update - I’m at the hotel and the lady hasn’t turned up. She’s been active on whatsapp but isn’t looking at my messages (no blue ticks)

What is the point in wasting both of our time?  :dash:

She did a photo verification so she seemed genuine. She also sent me some sexy videos - she has a cracking body.

The hotel I’m at have locked their main entrance - I had to go in through the side.

I did message her to say that the hotel are asking for names and ID becuse of the lockdown. She said that’s fine.

I’m now texting backup SBs to see if they can come at short notice lol
« Last Edit: February 27, 2021, 09:49:42 pm by HomerC »

Offline Bobbins1973

Update - I’m at the hotel and the lady hasn’t turned up. She’s been active on whatsapp but isn’t looking at my messages (no blue ticks)

What is the point in wasting both of our time?  :dash:

She did a photo verification so she seemed genuine. She also sent me some sexy videos - she has a cracking body.

The hotel I’m at have locked their main entrance - I had to go in through the side.

I did message her to say that the hotel are asking for names and ID becuse of the lockdown. She said that’s fine.

I’m now texting backup SBs to see if they can come at short notice lol

Even AW on times like these but it’s always good to have a backup for any meets

Offline Alexmck

Update - I’m at the hotel and the lady hasn’t turned up. She’s been active on whatsapp but isn’t looking at my messages (no blue ticks)

What is the point in wasting both of our time?  :dash:

She did a photo verification so she seemed genuine. She also sent me some sexy videos - she has a cracking body.

The hotel I’m at have locked their main entrance - I had to go in through the side.

I did message her to say that the hotel are asking for names and ID becuse of the lockdown. She said that’s fine.

I’m now texting backup SBs to see if they can come at short notice lol

Bad luck on the lady. Happened to me a few times long ago so now tend to go with agencies or incalls. Don't know why ladies do that, especially with not bothering to answer. Simple courtesy, even to say f*** off as they found something better

Hope you find a replacement soon

Offline exhippy

I have to say this thread is very useful. We all are looking for different things. I have used SA in Argentina (7 girls), Uruguay (1) and Brazil (1). But not in London. I am about to upgrade as I have received about 15 messages. I know some will be fakes and scammers, some will be professionals (which I don’t necessarily mind. But some may be authentic. I need a hobby, lol.

Offline HomerC

Update - I’m getting blue ticks now, but still radio silence.

I wonder if it’s because I picked a hotel with good security? If it’s some sort of scam or robbery setup they’d be dissuaded

I have saved £200 so it’s not all bad. And I did get some explicit videos

Offline Link7

Update - I’m at the hotel and the lady hasn’t turned up. She’s been active on whatsapp but isn’t looking at my messages (no blue ticks)

What is the point in wasting both of our time?  :dash:

She did a photo verification so she seemed genuine. She also sent me some sexy videos - she has a cracking body.

The hotel I’m at have locked their main entrance - I had to go in through the side.

I did message her to say that the hotel are asking for names and ID becuse of the lockdown. She said that’s fine.

I’m now texting backup SBs to see if they can come at short notice lol

Mentioned it before mate, think this comes with the territory given your age preference. No surprise you've been stood up a couple of times now. Every SA girl I've ever spoken to 21 or under is flaky as hell. There are a couple so fit, if I could ever pin them down, I'd be dancing home through the streets like Anton du Beke. But they go weeks/months without messaging at times.

Just remembered a stunner from Brighton...19/20 I think. Received last WhatsApp from her on 29 December:"Hey, how are you? X". I replied same day and my message is still unread.

Offline The888

Update - I’m getting blue ticks now, but still radio silence.

I wonder if it’s because I picked a hotel with good security? If it’s some sort of scam or robbery setup they’d be dissuaded

I have saved £200 so it’s not all bad. And I did get some explicit videos

Had this before as well. Met the girl for drinks, all fine, agrees to meet the following week. Plenty of good comms in between.

Gets to D Day, confirmed still fine (mid morning). Hotel booked. Gets to 5pm, all fine still in comms.

Gets to 7pm, immediately blocked me. Game over.

Whats the point in that game!?

Seemed fine face to face but I assume either bottled it or has a screw lose.

Offline HomerC

She hasn’t blocked me yet. Maybe it’s cold feet. I’ve got the room until noon so I’ve attempted one last time to see if she’ll come (she won’t).

I might try a backup or I might go home and save £200.

Offline massagepuntingfan

She hasn’t blocked me yet. Maybe it’s cold feet. I’ve got the room until noon so I’ve attempted one last time to see if she’ll come (she won’t).

I might try a backup or I might go home and save £200.

As Link said the younger SBs are flakey and much more likely to go cold on you. Did you do a video call/phone call before meeting? It really is a great way to suss each other out and see if you're likely to click or not. I can't comment on hotels as I always host, and I rarely have anyone stand me up having agreed to a plan. I have had a few younger SBs go cold the day before and now I tend to see over 25s.
I'd recommend not carrying on trying to contact the lady who ghosted you. Its part of the process, move on.
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Offline Jpmcgee

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As others have said - no, you haven't had 60% freebies. You may look like Chris Hemsworth, but that would simply give you access to the best looking women.

Ultimately, guys go on the site knowing that they have to pay. And the girls go on there knowing it too. So they'll ask for money much, much more often than not, no matter how amazing you are. Just common sense - why turn down cash when it's already assumed (on both sides) to be on the agenda?

Respectfully, I disagree.

I've used SA for a while, and also once in that mindset of paying ppm but now only fuck for free. In the past year alone, I've had around 15 first dates. Of them around 13 I slept with the first night. I haven't given an allowance nor paid any money. Some of them were drinks and/or a cool date (not swanky, but not dive and defo no meal) and back to mine, or near the end of the 1st lockdown, just an uber over. Certainly the best sex stories by a mile.

I'll add, all quite pretty and slim, mostly English women. I'm ok looking but defo no chiselled model.

Yes, a lot of the women come onto SA looking for money but there are quite a few who are open to normal dating and there are quite a few who are a mix of the both- for the right guy. There is an art to filtering for these profiles, an art to crafting a certain type of profile and an art to the messages/things you need to say. It starts clicking into place when you understand their mindset.

I'm not here looking for any validation but to say if you approach in a certain way and use emotional intelligence, you can 100% clean up and fuck for free. It really is one of life's hidden sweet shops.

I'm happy to discuss some more. I've made more detailed posts previously, feel free to read.
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Mentioned it before mate, think this comes with the territory given your age preference. No surprise you've been stood up a couple of times now. Every SA girl I've ever spoken to 21 or under is flaky as hell. There are a couple so fit, if I could ever pin them down, I'd be dancing home through the streets like Anton du Beke. But they go weeks/months without messaging at times.

Just remembered a stunner from Brighton...19/20 I think. Received last WhatsApp from her on 29 December:"Hey, how are you? X". I replied same day and my message is still unread.

Have you ever seen a hottie's phone? She'll be on various social media and messaging platforms and have tonnes of messages from thirsty guys. If she's on SA then even more so. don't take it personally, you just need to make sure you stand out, in the right way
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