I’ve had SA subscriptions on and off for the past 4-5 years, based in London. I started off with PPMs to then a mix of ‘freebies’ with some PPM, and now to only exclusively freebies over the past year or so. My musings are as follows…
The personality type of women on SA is what makes them so prized over other forms of dating. I’m active on dating apps, bars (pre-c19) and have briefly dabbled with escorts. The winning combination is that they are more sexually promiscuous, adventurous, kinky and eager to please you which make for the wildest sex stories. This year alone I’ve fucked an ex-print model, had an SA girl introduce her friend who I’ve fucked in a sort of threesome, a girl who demanded to be used as a piece of meat for my pleasure and a few risky but seriously hot al fresco plays.
My original tactic was to spam as many profiles as possible in order to acquire a large set of numbers that I would work on being a somewhat ‘pleasant, respectful and complimentary’ guy to procure value for money quotes. If you want the so-called ‘hidden gems’, this tactic doesn’t really work. I now only send targeted messages or work off a few select ones I receive. Hot women here, are not attracted to Mr Nice, nor do they respond best to logic. The interesting part I’ve found, if you pay a woman an allowance/ppm, they don’t respect truly respect/like you. The more a woman likes you, the better the fuck will be, 100%. Hot women know they are hot and if you are a guy who doesn’t know how to handle them then they have the emotional intelligence to run circles around you and they know it. That’s why to some extent, the scammers, onliners and ‘spoil me’ girls exist.
Women on SA have a particular personality type and what changed for me over the years is the way I think about SA. On the surface, SA is a cash/benefits for company platform but if you look under the hood, it’s really a BDSM fetish platform with a power play dynamic. The ‘daddy issues’ cliché certainly holds true. These are younger women who enjoy the company of older, dominant, successful men. The key word here is dominant. Success does not necessarily mean rich. If you understand this, you’ll go further.
When you’ve been on a number of times, you notice the patterns, flags and indicators on profiles and conversations that emerge and you can then ‘game’ accordingly (and avoid scammers or pros). I’ve read a couple of posts up questioning the phrase ‘mentoring’. If you scratch under the surface, subliminally what they really mean is someone who is an experienced domme who can guide them through exploring their submissive side. There are similar synonyms for other phrases like ‘open-minded’ etc.
It’s been said many times, you get what you put in and how you approach; if your profile is threadbare with no picture and you’re after the most efficient comms and play, you’ll only attract the escort/pro/semi-pro end of the spectrum and you might end up disappointed.
I’m aware of the nature of this forum and most my rumination could be considered pick-up artist/game stuff (it is), which means I’m prob not welcome here, however I’d be happy to discuss advanced tactics on private message for those who are interested and have a similar mind-set.
