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[Wowgeek]

This is a bit of a long shot, but does anyone have any information about a couple on Sugar Daddy Meets called BritishAmerican mix?

They offer threesomes only, 3-4 hours for £250 each. Exchanged a few emails and they come across as genuine as far as I can tell and am thinking about arranging a meet. Any info appreciated.

[martini2429]

Got scammed £50, I did recieve a bunch of pics and videos. But she said she was going to send her address but never did.

....

Has anyone met up with a lesbian couple? On SA, there's a...
Indian girl with boyish red hair and white English girl with red braids. Very sexy English girl.

For the English girl, it maybe worth it, the other one looks like proper butch lesbian.

Links to SA profiles and profile names usually helps

 

[martini2429]

This is a bit of a long shot, but does anyone have any information about a couple on Sugar Daddy Meets called BritishAmerican mix?

They offer threesomes only, 3-4 hours for £250 each. Exchanged a few emails and they come across as genuine as far as I can tell and am thinking about arranging a meet. Any info appreciated.

If it's the same 2 that are on Seeking (Megan & Mary), they are mentioned on the Open Seeking Thread, look back to 2 August for more info, that's if it's the same 2

 

[Wowgeek]

If it's the same 2 that are on Seeking (Megan & Mary), they are mentioned on the Open Seeking Thread, look back to 2 August for more info, that's if it's the same 2

 

I love this site, spot on, that’s them. I have dropped the OP a PM. Thank you kindly.

[FlaccidChimp]

So where was the review?  You know, going off your posts in general...I sense this whole paying women for sex engagement as a whole, whether SA or AW, is not for you. Maybe you should call it a day and seek enjoyment with a more fufilling hobby.

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=288056.new#new

[Trenlover]

This is a bit of a long shot, but does anyone have any information about a couple on Sugar Daddy Meets called BritishAmerican mix?

They offer threesomes only, 3-4 hours for £250 each. Exchanged a few emails and they come across as genuine as far as I can tell and am thinking about arranging a meet. Any info appreciated.

I have heard they are genuine but I dont find the tall skinny one at all attractive ( the other one is quite hot ) so I declined seeing them as they only see guys for 3som

[HomerC]

My seeking premium expires in a couple of days. I haven't been able to arrange a single meet. I'm done with seeking. I've met one girl this month and it was through AW. It wasn't worth the money though.

Fair enough, it was worth a shot.

[HomerC]

Met a mother of 2.
Went to her house. Her youngest was awake.
Fucked her and left.
For free.

She then asked me to borrow her £200 so I did.
Then the bullshit began.
So I don't dumped her. Would have liked to bang again but there was Red flags.

Well it wasn't free if you lost £200...

I'd much rather pay something and know there are no strings attached.

[HomerC]

I met a lovely girl a few weeks ago who couldn't believe I hosted from home and warned me that I was opening myself up to all kinds of scams, robbery and blackmail. It was an eye opening chat, but I took it with a pinch of salt.

Yikes, maybe you should start taking it more seriously? Unless you have very good security.

It sound like, in your case, your vetting has been good at filtering out bad actors, so far. So far!

With a 4 star hotel being as cheap as £100, I would never do a first ppm at my home. I would perhaps consider it if she was cool for the second PPM. But even then, I like to use a clean space, with freshly laundered sheets etc. and everything beautifully presented.

Even if the SB isn't a bad actor, what if she gets robbed? Or her email gets hacked? Now the robbers people have your personal info. They might think you're a millionaire trust fund baby who "deserves" to be robbed. Sure, it's unlikely but why even risk it?

Checkout isn't until noon. I like to do some work in the morning. I find it easier to think in a new space without distractions. 

[Lfc4life]

i was considering subscribing again but when I looked at all the messages in my inbox , I cant read them but I know from the girls profiles they will all be dead ends.

Plus most of the profiles im seeing have joined in last 7 days which is usually another big red flag of a fake.

Can anyone vouch if its currently worth it?

Since joining SA, I have renewed once (although when I started I said I wouldn't!). My most recent membership expired a couple a days ago, and although I managed to connect and line up a few meets post lockdown, I personally won't be renewing until the covid restrictions/tiers have been removed. At the same time I have started receiving WA messages from SBs who I haven't spoken to in a while, it definitely seems the lockdown is biting and have considerably lowered their demands, so might be worth it.

Also, I will add, this lockdown has massively helped getting the initial M&G out of the way via prolonged conversations and video calls... post lockdown straight to hotel meets 

[Paris69]

Got scammed £50, I did recieve a bunch of pics and videos. But she said she was going to send her address but never did.

....

Has anyone met up with a lesbian couple? On SA, there's a...
Indian girl with boyish red hair and white English girl with red braids. Very sexy English girl.

For the English girl, it maybe worth it, the other one looks like proper butch lesbian.

Are you trying to get scammed?

Fucked some skank whose child was awake in the house 'for free' then gave her £200 later. So not free at all

Then scammed by a pic/video sellers for £50...

Now looking at meeting a lesbo couple....


Hey, I'm never going out double dating with you...... You're like a scam magnet

[Cunning Punt]

Met a mother of 2.
Went to her house. Her youngest was awake.
Fucked her and left.
For free.

She then asked me to borrow her £200 so I did.
Then the bullshit began.
So I don't dumped her. Would have liked to bang again but there was Red flags.

So what? Pointless post. 

Got scammed £50, I did recieve a bunch of pics and videos. But she said she was going to send her address but never did.

....

Has anyone met up with a lesbian couple? On SA, there's a...
Indian girl with boyish red hair and white English girl with red braids. Very sexy English girl.

For the English girl, it maybe worth it, the other one looks like proper butch lesbian.

No link for either? Again, pointless post. 

[Cunning Punt]

My seeking premium expires in a couple of days. I haven't been able to arrange a single meet. I'm done with seeking.

I also blanked out on a month's subscription recently when previously I've usually managed a couple of arrangements from each sub, though admittedly I am now picky in what I look for in terms of attitude/personality so filter out lots of profiles.

Very few girls on SA are prepared to have an intimate arrangement at the moment due to the pandemic, so it's hard work for even seasoned SDs to seal a deal and even tougher for uncertain newbies.

i was considering subscribing again but when I looked at all the messages in my inbox , I cant read them but I know from the girls profiles they will all be dead ends.

Can anyone vouch if its currently worth it?

As we've said, it's tough at the moment but it's impossible to give someone a definitive answer because a SB's success depends on the individual. You'll need put in a lot of time and effort, not get downhearted by timewasters, hone your search and chat skills quickly, have a reasonable budget and not expect to bed a model. You stand more chance of getting an arrangement in London than anywhere else due to sheer numbers.

If you're determined to join, wait till you get a discounted offer from SA and join for just a month with a fairly phlegmatic attitude, ie use it to hone your search and chat techniques, and not get stressed if you don't bed an SB during the month. The situation will gradually improve but until the country reverts to something like normality, then SA won't.

[Fraggle901]

Scammer alert - External Link/Members Only

Wants to be paid via PayPal (or bitcoin) before any meet takes place..says she was stung in the past. When I said no, she asked if I can pay at least half upfront...

[mrflash]

Damn they should have an option for one week subscription. You can browse through all the profiles you want in 2-3 days. After that, you only see the same ones again and again. Even if it takes 2/3 days of chat to move to Whatsapp, one week should be enough.
Having said that, one tip is to make sure that you visit more pages on the search results with your filters. I was just seeing the profiles of same people who frequently log in as they are displayed at the top. Last night, I visited more pages on the search results and found more interesting profiles. It makes sense to look at the profiles of girls who logged-in within last two days. Time consuming, but well worth it.

[Jardent6]

To my knowledge there used to be a 1 week option in the form of a trial & they got rid of it

[londonhunter008]

Yikes, maybe you should start taking it more seriously? Unless you have very good security.

It sound like, in your case, your vetting has been good at filtering out bad actors, so far. So far!

With a 4 star hotel being as cheap as £100, I would never do a first ppm at my home. I would perhaps consider it if she was cool for the second PPM. But even then, I like to use a clean space, with freshly laundered sheets etc. and everything beautifully presented.

Even if the SB isn't a bad actor, what if she gets robbed? Or her email gets hacked? Now the robbers people have your personal info. They might think you're a millionaire trust fund baby who "deserves" to be robbed. Sure, it's unlikely but why even risk it?

Checkout isn't until noon. I like to do some work in the morning. I find it easier to think in a new space without distractions.

I totally agree with above points...but there is an another perspective to this as well.
1. A SB can be a scammer...which is already discussed about and is obvious reason to not meet at home.
2. Other side of the spectrum, if you get along really well and start meeting regularly. No matter how good the SB is and how much GFE you get...eventually you will get bored of her and may need breaks in between. I have had good long term arrangements (but never exclusive...we are punters for a reason and don't enjoy monogamous relationship) but it always help to take breaks in between. Its easier to do that when your personal information (specially your home address) remain private. If a SB is non-professional and meet you because she feel good connection and enjoy your company (the kind of girls we look for on SA)...its easy for her to be emotionally attached to you. In that case, it might be difficult to get rid of her.
This topic is not discussed much on this thread but it has happened in past when SBs wanted to rent place close to mine or insisted if she can come and stay for few days.

Doesn't matter how much you like a girl...keep your personal life private and give her only details she must know. Important things to avoid...exact home address, company details, sending gift online (bills with your addresses) or anything else which can reveal about you more than needed.

We all want a girl friend experience from a SB...but if it "genuine"...it can have its own side effects.

[dmitrybulgakov]

We all want a girl friend experience from a SB...but if it "genuine"...it can have its own side effects.

Referring to EAS?

[mrflash]

Scammer alert:
External Link/Members Only

When I started chatting, her access location of Hong Kong was not visible. Anyway, I found out she was trying to scam after some chat messages. Just wanted to see how it works as the things she asked me to do were weird. Then I came across this link:
External Link/Members Only

Apparently, it doesn't require you to give away your own money. They already have a victim. They want you to make the transaction from the victim's account so that they can't be traced. So you are not a victim but accomplice 

Sorry if this has been discussed before.

[HomerC]

I had my second meet and greet.

The girl was very nice, personality wise,  but facially she seemed ten years older than she claims to be.
Her lips were either dry and chapped or she had herpes scars/fissures (i didn't want to ask; it would cause offence, obviously!). Come to think of it, I think it was almost certainly just dry lips. It would put me off kissing her.

I'm perhaps being too fussy but she had a lot of facial wrinkles and some teeth stains. Her SA photo is low resolution, I kind of suspected she would look older IRL.

In other words , she claims to be in her 20s, appears to be in her 30s. She might be telling the truth about her age, but things like smoking and bad diet can accelerate ageing.

I'm probably being way too fussy about her mouth. She is still kind of pretty.

I feel bad because I haven't paid her a penny yet, and I'm thinking of not booking her. I do want younger and prettier.

I really want a woman who is not past her prime, on the way down. I already compromised with my first SB (she is mid 30s, she claimed to be early 30s) but I got a discounted rate from her in the end.

[Cunning Punt]

Having said that, one tip is to make sure that you visit more pages on the search results with your filters. I was just seeing the profiles of same people who frequently log in as they are displayed at the top. Last night, I visited more pages on the search results and found more interesting profiles. It makes sense to look at the profiles of girls who logged-in within last two days. Time consuming, but well worth it.

Clicking 'Unviewed' makes scanning and filtering infinitely easier, while searching a smaller radius but within more locations also helps screen out girls who live a lot farther away than the range suggests.

[martini2429]

I had my second meet and greet.

The girl was very nice, personality wise,  but facially she seemed ten years older than she claims to be.
Her lips were either dry and chapped or she had herpes scars/fissures (i didn't want to ask; it would cause offence, obviously!). Come to think of it, I think it was almost certainly just dry lips. It would put me off kissing her.

I'm perhaps being too fussy but she had a lot of facial wrinkles and some teeth stains. Her SA photo is low resolution, I kind of suspected she would look older IRL.

In other words , she claims to be in her 20s, appears to be in her 30s. She might be telling the truth about her age, but things like smoking and bad diet can accelerate ageing.

I'm probably being way too fussy about her mouth. She is still kind of pretty.

I feel bad because I haven't paid her a penny yet, and I'm thinking of not booking her. I do want younger and prettier.

I really want a woman who is not past her prime, on the way down. I already compromised with my first SB (she is mid 30s, she claimed to be early 30s) but I got a discounted rate from her in the end.

let her down gently then, tell her you enjoyed yourself, however she isn't what you are looking for, wish her good luck and that you hope she finds what she is looking for and then move on, simple

But remember one thing, she isn't an Escort, so you aren't booking her, she is a SB and you are making an arrangement, even if it is ppm

 

[testgenie]

I have heard they are genuine but I dont find the tall skinny one at all attractive ( the other one is quite hot ) so I declined seeing them as they only see guys for 3som

agreed - this is megan and mary. I was due to meet them a while back, but like you I'm not too keen on the taller one. She seems lovely but not my cup of tea. The other one looks stunning and would love to meet her

[HomerC]

let her down gently then, tell her you enjoyed yourself, however she isn't what you are looking for, wish her good luck and that you hope she finds what she is looking for and then move on, simple

But remember one thing, she isn't an Escort, so you aren't booking her, she is a SB and you are making an arrangement, even if it is ppm

 

Her expectations are £300 Pay Per Meet.
I would see her--for a lower rate. I can't exactly say, "well, you're not as hot IRL as I hoped, would you compromise on price?"
Any ideas for strategy? I feel like it's bad etiquette to haggle, especially at this stage; maybe I should just wish her luck and say goodbye.

[HomerC]

Scammer alert - External Link/Members Only

Wants to be paid via PayPal (or bitcoin) before any meet takes place..says she was stung in the past. When I said no, she asked if I can pay at least half upfront...

You are 100% talking to a man pretending to be a SB. No woman has ever used bitcoin.

[HomerC]

Also, I will add, this lockdown has massively helped getting the initial M&G out of the way via prolonged conversations and video calls... post lockdown straight to hotel meets 

There is no substitute for an IRL meeting. Video calls: what about angles and lighting? She may not be as pretty as you're being lead to believe. What if she's fatter IRL? If a girl won't make the effort to do a meet and greet then I won't consider her.

[HomerC]

What are the limitations for SB who are not premium?

I googled it and it appears they cannot see "read" status of their messages.
How much are babies charged per month for premium? (I'm just curious.)

I hate that, in my searches, the top 2 placements are always "Premium" babies who are outside my filter/preferences. I don't want some old bird, or some fat bird, but they still come up (as adverts or "featured"). It's mildly annoying.

[Cunning Punt]

Her expectations are £300 Pay Per Meet.
I would see her--for a lower rate. I can't exactly say, "well, you're not as hot IRL as I hoped, would you compromise on price?"
Any ideas for strategy? I feel like it's bad etiquette to haggle, especially at this stage; maybe I should just wish her luck and say goodbye.

Okay, that's a different issue, which requires a different response as you're now effectively asking a different question.

Your first post seemed to suggest you didn't want to see her at all and wanted advice on how to let her down gently, hence Martini's great advice.

If, however, you are actually saying you would be prepared to see her but for less than she is asking, then, while funny, it's obviously probably best not to say "I wouldn't mind fucking you if nothing else is available" and "Blimey! 300? I only give that to models and you're a plain looking older burd!" 

Saying she's not what you're looking for is almost certainly not going to get you a discount and is just going to shut down the communication, so just go on your budget line, saying "sorry, you're a nice girl and it would be lovely to meet you, but I'm afraid my maximum is £200 considering I'm also covering other costs including hotel" or similar.

Lots of girls in London quote 300 as their starting price and then come down, particularly if they're not stunners, so I would imagine she would. If she doesn't, then best to walk away.

[HomerC]

The thing is, I already said I was okay with £300 before we met IRL.

Can I now just say my budget has changed? It's probably too late for that.

[HomerC]

A different girl messaged me "let's meet".
I wrote back saying I wanted a meet & greet.. she blocked me.
She's been active since 2019 so I was hoping she would be more of a traditional SB.

[martini2429]

The thing is, I already said I was okay with £300 before we met IRL.

Can I now just say my budget has changed? It's probably too late for that.

If you have agreed £300 then you are right, it's probably too late, your only course of action is the "I am sorry, but you are not what I am looking for" and move on

 

[martini2429]

A different girl messaged me "let's meet".
I wrote back saying I wanted a meet & greet.. she blocked me.
She's been active since 2019 so I was hoping she would be more of a traditional SB.

Probably not even a girl then, probably dodged a bullet with this one

 

[Paris69]

Her expectations are £300 Pay Per Meet.
I would see her--for a lower rate. I can't exactly say, "well, you're not as hot IRL as I hoped, would you compromise on price?"
Any ideas for strategy? I feel like it's bad etiquette to haggle, especially at this stage; maybe I should just wish her luck and say goodbye.

Why not tell her your bonus structure at work has just changed and hence, your available funds..... 'While we did agree on £300; unfortunately circumstance mean that for the next few months my budget is £200.

£200 in her purse might be better than starting all over again..

If you don't ask; you don't get. Worth a try if u do wanna fuck her.

[HomerC]

Thank you, Paris69, that's an excellent way of phrasing it!

[Paris69]

 

Thank you, Paris69, that's an excellent way of phrasing it!

 

[Cunning Punt]

The thing is, I already said I was okay with £300 before we met IRL.

Can I now just say my budget has changed? It's probably too late for that.

Okay, that's different. If you're clear in your 1st post on what the scenario is, then others won't waste time giving you mismatched advice.   

In that case, yes, Paris's suggested line is good, and really the only feasible one.

However, as you seem very ambivalent about the girl then even if you do get a lower rate, then there is a risk that you will end up regretting it - unless she is a great shag, of course. For it will still be a big outlay once you consider allowance, hotel, food/drink and travel.
Up to you, but may be worth saving that £350 and spending it on someone that really does take your fancy.

 

[Fraggle901]

You are 100% talking to a man pretending to be a SB. No woman has ever used bitcoin.

I've no doubt Homer, definitely a bloke...not met a girl yet who has a clue what Bitcoin is 

[CheeseBoard]

The thing is, I already said I was okay with £300 before we met IRL.

Can I now just say my budget has changed? It's probably too late for that.

From what I've read, you agreed an amount and secured a m&g.  There is an inherent time waster tactic in telling her what she wants to secure a m&g and then low balling her after you got your m&g.  I'm not saying you have done this, but to her it may come across this way.

If you don't want to carry on with her just say that and move on.

Only negotiate what you can or will pay.  It means that if you don't want to continue then money isn't the reason.  If you had a m&g and then agreed a lower rate, im sure you won't get the fun or connection you wanted as she would be mindful that you had agreed an amount and then changed it.  Not the best way to build rapport or trust.

[wukkas]

Really wish SA would go back to having a 7 day membership. Signed up again recently and its such a waste! As someone said above, after a few days I've messaged everyone I want to and now its just profiles I have no interest in.

In this recent stint, managed to do 3 meets which were all excellent and fun girls, would definitely see again. 

However, along with all the fun, so many absolute idiots as well. One girl wanted £500 and a gift to go for a walk. Another wanted £800 for an initial meet and great. I mean seriously, are they dumb?!?!

To whoever considering to join now - its ok. Some gems out there but I would say at least 80-90% of messages I dont respond to as either I am not into them, online only or just too expensive. Its no where near as much fun as pre covid days but if you have money to burn, go for it. Otherwise would suggest holding out till post Christmas. 

[Lfc4life]

From what I've read, you agreed an amount and secured a m&g.  There is an inherent time waster tactic in telling her what she wants to secure a m&g and then low balling her after you got your m&g.  I'm not saying you have done this, but to her it may come across this way.

If you don't want to carry on with her just say that and move on.

Only negotiate what you can or will pay.  It means that if you don't want to continue then money isn't the reason.  If you had a m&g and then agreed a lower rate, im sure you won't get the fun or connection you wanted as she would be mindful that you had agreed an amount and then changed it.  Not the best way to build rapport or trust.

+1 completely agree with this.

I had a hotel meet agreed at 200 for 3hours or so.. after an hour or so, the SB states she needs to catch the last train back home or if I was happy to pay for the taxi (circa 50£); I wasn't really feeling her so said no issues if she wants to leave early, I then suggested the said PPM should be pro-rated and we agreed to 100 for the time spent. Everything ended very friendly, however when I suggested another meet at a later date her tune completely changed.

[HomerC]

From what I've read, you agreed an amount and secured a m&g.  There is an inherent time waster tactic in telling her what she wants to secure a m&g and then low balling her after you got your m&g.  I'm not saying you have done this, but to her it may come across this way.

If you don't want to carry on with her just say that and move on.

Only negotiate what you can or will pay.  It means that if you don't want to continue then money isn't the reason.  If you had a m&g and then agreed a lower rate, im sure you won't get the fun or connection you wanted as she would be mindful that you had agreed an amount and then changed it.  Not the best way to build rapport or trust.

Yes, I see exactly what you're saying. I would have been happy to pay £300 if she was very pretty. She's still not bad, but she's not amazing.
At the meet & greet it transpired she expects the meet will last 2 hours. I was hoping for more like 3.

So yeah, I am very hesitant to offer her lower as it may come across as insulting.

[HomerC]

I did a google search for "seeking.com london ppm" and it lead me to a sugar baby subreddit. There was some discussion about whether 400 was too high, for example, and some talk of negotiations. A moderator shut down the thread - shame, I wanted to see more discussion. It seems that babies are used to negotiating.

I also saw a baby saying that she had hundreds of messages and wanted tips on pruning them. I saw someone say they filter by income. To me, that seems silly, as anyone can just lie about income. I have my income set as one of the lower tiers (which is still like £100k a year). Are most SDs saying they earn millions?

On the issue of PPM, they were saying that it can be lower in London because there are so many SBs compared to SDs. So consistent with what people say here.

[Fraggle901]

I have my income and net worth set to the lowest figures..fuck if i'm gonna tell em the truth and I don't care if i'm filtered..avoids some of the gold diggers hopefully.

[HomerC]

It still blows my mind when I see SBs that are "online only" or "platonic only". It's like, why did you even bother to make a profile? What a waste of everyone's time.

[Fraggle901]

Most of my prospects don't want to meet until after lockdown which is fair enuff but let's see when the time comes whether they will make the effort. even on whatsapp, its hard to keep a fluid conversation going with sum of them, do they really have such busy lives or are they stringing along loads of blokes.

[HomerC]

I have my income and net worth set to the lowest figures..fuck if i'm gonna tell em the truth and I don't care if i'm filtered..avoids some of the gold diggers hopefully.

Exactly, even if i was earning Elon Musk level income, I wouldn't admit it.

[Fraggle901]

It still blows my mind when I see SBs that are "online only" or "platonic only". It's like, why did you even bother to make a profile? What a waste of everyone's time.

that and I'm not here for anything sexual...wtf love, you're on the wrong site then lol

[HomerC]

As an alternative to Google Image reverse search, has anyone tried External Link/Members Only ?

It's apparently very good at matching faces, even if the photo is unique.

[Fraggle901]

not tried yet but thanks for the tip Homer.

[Fraggle901]

holy shit..it's actually come back with results where others havent...interesting