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[Paris69]

 

Thank you, that's really helpful.

 

[massage-freak]

I'll give you a starter list.. There are many variations on a theme but here are some i've run into over the last few years....

My ex has left me with cc debts/not paid the utility bills/not paid the rent and we are gonna be made homeless/taken all my money and I/we (me and my child) cant afford to buy food. etc etc etc....

I/my mum/sister (whatever) has a medical emergency......

My childcarer wants paying in advance for when i meet you, so can you PayPal me...

I need taxi money to get to you... 'I'll pick you up'...'No'... I cant cos...... insert a million bullshit reasons.

I want to buy some sexy, new lingerie for our first meeting.

Send me the £ and i will book the hotel for us. I get a deal (sis works there, or such) so i can get us a suite with walk in shower/sunken bath etc etc....

My car needs an MOT/service or fuel.......PayPal me.

You promised to look after me

My previous SD paid me £xxx per meet/per month (divide by 4 to get closer to the real amount....)

The £ you sent me didn't come through.....

If it sounds too good to be true/or it doesn't add up.. Then it doesn't add up.
eg: The girl tells you she is a lawyer/architect has a good career and earns good money etc; yet is aged 21.... If she is gonna lie to you on such a trivial matter; then she is a liar, pure and simple.

etc etc etc etc etc.... and on and on and on......

Ofc... the request for £ is always  followed by the stunning sex she will deliver as a way of a thank you..

Very good compilation.

A simple question I ask to the girl is that if you have an emergency for cash then why would your best friend or parents or any one close to you not help you. Why me, I was not in the scene and we just met and suddenly the emergency came up. Lol.

[Tomi91]

I'll give you a starter list.. There are many variations on a theme but here are some i've run into over the last few years....

My ex has left me with cc debts/not paid the utility bills/not paid the rent and we are gonna be made homeless/taken all my money and I/we (me and my child) cant afford to buy food. etc etc etc....

I/my mum/sister (whatever) has a medical emergency......

My childcarer wants paying in advance for when i meet you, so can you PayPal me...

I need taxi money to get to you... 'I'll pick you up'...'No'... I cant cos...... insert a million bullshit reasons.

I want to buy some sexy, new lingerie for our first meeting.

Send me the £ and i will book the hotel for us. I get a deal (sis works there, or such) so i can get us a suite with walk in shower/sunken bath etc etc....

My car needs an MOT/service or fuel.......PayPal me.

You promised to look after me

My previous SD paid me £xxx per meet/per month (divide by 4 to get closer to the real amount....)

The £ you sent me didn't come through.....

If it sounds too good to be true/or it doesn't add up.. Then it doesn't add up.
eg: The girl tells you she is a lawyer/architect has a good career and earns good money etc; yet is aged 21.... If she is gonna lie to you on such a trivial matter; then she is a liar, pure and simple.

etc etc etc etc etc.... and on and on and on......

Ofc... the request for £ is always  followed by the stunning sex she will deliver as a way of a thank you..

For me the taxi was the most common. I always offer them to pay their taxi when we meet in the hotel. So ex. we agree on 200 and taxi is 20, then I will pay 220. They never accepted this, they wanted the taxi cost before that... (never sent it)

[Fraggle901]

Quick question on payment etiquette, if it's a ppm, always make it clear that you'll pay them at the end of their date or is this generally accepted with SBs? The real ones I mean lol...thanks.

[stampjones]

Quick question on payment etiquette, if it's a ppm, always make it clear that you'll pay them at the end of their date or is this generally accepted with SBs? The real ones I mean lol...thanks.

I dont usually mention it at all. Agree the amount up front and just give her the cash afterwards (or leave it somewhere). Tbh anyone discussing when they want it is a bit of a red flag though some girls have undoubtedly been burned

[Fraggle901]

Great, thank you mate 

[Fraggle901]

Anyone have any intel on this lady - External Link/Members Only

I'm now focusing on profiles setup for at least 6mts/1yr and the slightly mature lady...hopefully less scammers amongst that segment of users...thanks.

[aceface11]

Would like to contribute to this thread but am I being thick here... how do I post images in a thread? The attachment box doesn't seem to do it, nor does the IMG tags.
 

[90125]

Would like to contribute to this thread but am I being thick here... how do I post images in a thread? The attachment box doesn't seem to do it, nor does the IMG tags.
 

What is the image file extension. Not all are supported.

[aceface11]

Plain old jpg - or is it a permissions thing as I don't have many posts under my belt?

[KorbenDallas]

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[KorbenDallas]

Would like to contribute to this thread but am I being thick here... how do I post images in a thread? The attachment box doesn't seem to do it, nor does the IMG tags.
 

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=287911

[aceface11]

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=287911

You're a gent! Thank you

1. So, I'm trying to work out where I've seen External Link/Members Only before...
She's given me permission to view her private photos and I'm fairly certain she's an escort.

2. I've just been down a rabbit hole with someone who initially matched on another similar site. Her Insta is: External Link/Members Only
I've attached one of her photos. She looks a little like Simwise but with smaller boobs. She openly admits she's a sex worker (her words) and wants a deposit before any meets. £100 via PayPal.
I requested her PayPal but she insisted on sending me a request. Her name came up as Andrea Cortez Luca. I asked for proof of ID (or a video call etc.), she repeatedly told me I didn't pick up, then sent a video of a torso with her allegedly saying my "name" over the top of it. I have a million alarm bells going off in my head here.

 

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[HomerC]

1. She's discussed further up this thread (or another large thread about Seeking). Someone was saying she has a boring personality but nice tits. You may have also seen her on Tinder.

2. Never ever send money up front. If you're talking about sex work using Seeking then you risk being banned. A lot of profiles are scammers or using stolen photos. Maybe even most?!

[Paris69]

Can't believe i forgot to add the most obvious scam.. The Mobile phone..

Babes; my credits are about to run out and i can't afford to top up......and i just 'love' talking to you. We are really hitting it off aren't we? Send me £20/30 and we can chat even more. WE are really connecting, yeah.

My phone is broken and about to give up. I have the iPhone 11; but would love the 12 Pro. Ofc, when we meet i am 'really' paying you back with the wildest sex uv ever had.

I'd love to send you naughty photos, but i have a basic phone/phone doesn't work etc etc etc... ££££

The phone scam is right up there with every other scam going on.

Any phone issues.... dump her immediately or be the UKP mug..

[Fraggle901]

Thank you. Luckily, so far, I've not come across too many scammers, only been on there for just over a month so i'm sure i'm tempting fate.

Loads of escorts and wanna be girl-next-door types just wanting to offer their bodies for a couple of hours .. most are quoting 250/300 .. have rates gone up?

[aceface11]

This one: External Link/Members Only (is no longer available to view for me, maybe she blocked me or has deactivated her profile) - claims she used to live in London but is now on 'holiday' in Croatia until Covid blows over. She does have a cousin there, so that checks out. But a look at her IG shows no London connection, only student days in Bristol.

Asking multiple times for cash - first bigger amounts before relenting and asking for £10/£20 at a time. For that she will send you videos.  I did it once and asked her pose and use a mango - have some fun with it, why not! 

[Paris69]

Thank you. Luckily, so far, I've not come across too many scammers, only been on there for just over a month so i'm sure i'm tempting fate.

Loads of escorts and wanna be girl-next-door types just wanting to offer their bodies for a couple of hours .. most are quoting 250/300 .. have rates gone up?

For every genuine SB, there must be a scammer on Seeking - so take care...

You can likely find girls for £100 for a few hours right up to £2k overnighters.... Just depends what you consider is VFM and within your personal financial limits.
FWIW i've had the budget options and the other end of the scale ending up with 2 of them living with me (separately ofc).... so as you would guess, that was £££££££££

If you're new to this, stick around the £200ppm for 2-3 hour mark until you learn the ropes.
Never pay upfront: and a genuine SB will be happy to take your cash after the meet is over.

If you come across to them as a decent bloke and not some dodge-pot they will be ok with this...

[Fraggle901]

Thanks for the advice @Paris69, this is really useful.

[Lone-punter]

Babygirl_2222_
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She's quite pushy at London's reasonable SA ppm, can accommodate too. Any intel on her? 

[Lone-punter]

Missfifties External Link/Members Only

Nice conversationalist, curvy (suspect on plus size), and fine with intimacy. Info from anyone here dealing with her is appreciated?

[y101y]

Missfifties External Link/Members Only

Nice conversationalist, curvy (suspect on plus size), and fine with intimacy. Info from anyone here dealing with her is appreciated?

That’s a big unit! Wonder if her mates know their faces are being used on a sugar baby site?

[mrflash]

Started using seeking from yesterday. Thanks for all the advice on the thread. After having plenty of chats, filtering out timewasters and scammers, I have got four numbers already.
The only problem right now is place. Some SB's are pushing me to book hotels. They tell that hotels won't enquire. But I am afraid. One SB said she can come to my home. But I am not comfortable with it. Based on the above advice, it looks like quite a risky thing.
All SB's are asking 200-300. Almost the same I pay for escorts. But I get to spend more time with these women. For longer bookings, seeking is clearly a much better place than AW or agency girls.
I will cancel my premium membership after first month. Let me see how it goes.

[MrMatrix]

Started using seeking from yesterday. Thanks for all the advice on the thread. After having plenty of chats, filtering out timewasters and scammers, I have got four numbers already.
The only problem right now is place. Some SB's are pushing me to book hotels. They tell that hotels won't enquire. But I am afraid. One SB said she can come to my home. But I am not comfortable with it. Based on the above advice, it looks like quite a risky thing.
All SB's are asking 200-300. Almost the same I pay for escorts. But I get to spend more time with these women. For longer bookings, seeking is clearly a much better place than AW or agency girls.
I will cancel my premium membership after first month. Let me see how it goes.

Never take/invite an escort or SB back to your place. Its a recipe for total disaster, especially if you have a regular partner

[mrflash]

Never take/invite an escort or SB back to your place. Its a recipe for total disaster, especially if you have a regular partner

I don't have a regular partner. I live alone. But I can think of so many reasons why this could turn out to be a bad idea 

[Paris69]

Started using seeking from yesterday. Thanks for all the advice on the thread. After having plenty of chats, filtering out timewasters and scammers, I have got four numbers already.
The only problem right now is place. Some SB's are pushing me to book hotels. They tell that hotels won't enquire. But I am afraid. One SB said she can come to my home. But I am not comfortable with it. Based on the above advice, it looks like quite a risky thing.
All SB's are asking 200-300. Almost the same I pay for escorts. But I get to spend more time with these women. For longer bookings, seeking is clearly a much better place than AW or agency girls.
I will cancel my premium membership after first month. Let me see how it goes.

For work reasons i'm living in a hotel for 6 months.... and have used half a dozen more at least for SB PPM's... Not one gives a stuff why i booked the room...all they asked was for me to use track and trace app.
I didnt. I lifted my phone and used the QR scanner to look like i was logging into that portal...

I wouldn't worry about hotels.

But i wouldn't take an SB to my home that's for sure. Way, WAY too much that can go wrong; even if you're single... (Obv the two who ended up living with me is a different matter altogether)..
Wont list the scams/threats that can come your way from taking one home..... but blackmail is the most obvious. If you need to ask how she can blackmail you; you really shouldn't be on Seeking..

[mrflash]

For work reasons i'm living in a hotel for 6 months.... and have used half a dozen more at least for SB PPM's... Not one gives a stuff why i booked the room...all they asked was for me to use track and trace app.
I didnt. I lifted my phone and used the QR scanner to look like i was logging into that portal...

I wouldn't worry about hotels.

But i wouldn't take an SB to my home that's for sure. Way, WAY too much that can go wrong; even if you're single... (Obv the two who ended up living with me is a different matter altogether)..
Wont list the scams/threats that can come your way from taking one home..... but blackmail is the most obvious. If you need to ask how she can blackmail you; you really shouldn't be on Seeking..

Thanks for the input. That gives me some confidence. I will check out some hotels.

[Paris69]

Thanks for the input. That gives me some confidence. I will check out some hotels.

 

[martini2429]

Started using seeking from yesterday. Thanks for all the advice on the thread. After having plenty of chats, filtering out timewasters and scammers, I have got four numbers already.
The only problem right now is place. Some SB's are pushing me to book hotels. They tell that hotels won't enquire. But I am afraid. One SB said she can come to my home. But I am not comfortable with it. Based on the above advice, it looks like quite a risky thing.
All SB's are asking 200-300. Almost the same I pay for escorts. But I get to spend more time with these women. For longer bookings, seeking is clearly a much better place than AW or agency girls.
I will cancel my premium membership after first month. Let me see how it goes.

Cancel it now before you forget, it won't affect anything

 

[HomerC]

Started using seeking from yesterday. Thanks for all the advice on the thread. After having plenty of chats, filtering out timewasters and scammers, I have got four numbers already.
The only problem right now is place. Some SB's are pushing me to book hotels. They tell that hotels won't enquire. But I am afraid. One SB said she can come to my home. But I am not comfortable with it. Based on the above advice, it looks like quite a risky thing.
All SB's are asking 200-300. Almost the same I pay for escorts. But I get to spend more time with these women. For longer bookings, seeking is clearly a much better place than AW or agency girls.
I will cancel my premium membership after first month. Let me see how it goes.

You should do a meet and greet before your first hotel booking. They could be a catfish. They could be a man. You'll never know until you actually see them.

I booked a hotel last week or the week before. They ask if it is "for work" and I say "yes". They also asked for ID. I didn't have any but they accepted my debit card.

[mrflash]

Cancel it now before you forget, it won't affect anything

 

Didn't know it won't affect it. Doing it right now.

[mrflash]

You should do a meet and greet before your first hotel booking. They could be a catfish. They could be a man. You'll never know until you actually see them.

I booked a hotel last week or the week before. They ask if it is "for work" and I say "yes". They also asked for ID. I didn't have any but they accepted my debit card.

That's interesting. One of the girls seem to be very pushy(the one who wanted to meet at my place) and wanted to book a hotel right now. Let me see how she reacts for a normal meet.

[JAYZ]

Thanks for the input. That gives me some confidence. I will check out some hotels.

Because of the current situation you should be able to find some very good deals on hotel bookings.

[massagepuntingfan]

I don't have a regular partner. I live alone. But I can think of so many reasons why this could turn out to be a bad idea 

In 3 years on seeking I've only ever entertained from home. In that time I've been single on and off and its not until recently that I've had any concerns about hosting from home. I met a lovely girl a few weeks ago who couldn't believe I hosted from home and warned me that I was opening myself up to all kinds of scams, robbery and blackmail. It was an eye opening chat, but I took it with a pinch of salt.
All I can say is I never meet an SB I haven't been chatting to for some time and had at least one or two phone calls with, or even a coffee meeting before hand. I always trust my gut instinct and never go through with it if any alarm bells are going off. I never ever do meet the Sbs wanting an instant meet up, young Sbs or women who can barely spell.
So far I've had no problems what so ever. I am always courteous and polite, so perhaps that helps and I have had my fair share of one off arrangements all the way through to long term arrangements.
For sure there are lots of horror stories but so far I have steered clear of the bad SBs. Just wanted to show that it is possible to host from home and not get fucked over!

[martini2429]

Didn't know it won't affect it. Doing it right now.

Nope, just turn it off in account settings under payments, the majority of people on here do it

 

[mrflash]

In 3 years on seeking I've only ever entertained from home. In that time I've been single on and off and its not until recently that I've had any concerns about hosting from home. I met a lovely girl a few weeks ago who couldn't believe I hosted from home and warned me that I was opening myself up to all kinds of scams, robbery and blackmail. It was an eye opening chat, but I took it with a pinch of salt.
All I can say is I never meet an SB I haven't been chatting to for some time and had at least one or two phone calls with, or even a coffee meeting before hand. I always trust my gut instinct and never go through with it if any alarm bells are going off. I never ever do meet the Sbs wanting an instant meet up, young Sbs or women who can barely spell.
So far I've had no problems what so ever. I am always courteous and polite, so perhaps that helps and I have had my fair share of one off arrangements all the way through to long term arrangements.
For sure there are lots of horror stories but so far I have steered clear of the bad SBs. Just wanted to show that it is possible to host from home and not get fucked over!

Of course, it is not often that such bad things happen. But it requires some work and a good instinct as you say to stay clear of danger. To be honest, I don't trust my instinct in these matters. To put it crudely, I let my dick rule over my brain more often than not. So my plan right now is to do at least one ppm outside. Maybe if I am comfortable, I can let the person to my home. Still I need to think about how the person would react if I stop seeing her later. One step at a time for now 

[Fraggle901]

Yup, be careful, you don't want her going all bunny boiler on you 

[DeanoDeano]

Every part of using Seeking to meet girls requires the use of a considerable amount of common sense, a switched on bullshit detector, and the ability to think with the brain not the dick.

There are risks with hotel use as well as with hosting or going to their place.

[massagepuntingfan]

Every part of using Seeking to meet girls requires the use of a considerable amount of common sense, a switched on bullshit detector, and the ability to think with the brain not the dick.

There are risks with hotel use as well as with hosting or going to their place.

Completely agree.

[mrflash]

Every part of using Seeking to meet girls requires the use of a considerable amount of common sense, a switched on bullshit detector, and the ability to think with the brain not the dick.

There are risks with hotel use as well as with hosting or going to their place.

Given time, I would learn that skill. For now, I have basic set of rules like no money transaction without meeting, not giving away personal information etc. But still, there is a good chance that I miss out on something and pay the price for it. As I am only starting this, I feel that meeting in a hotel is relatively better than giving my home address. Maybe with time, I will develop a better bullshit detector.

[martini2429]

Given time, I would learn that skill. For now, I have basic set of rules like no money transaction without meeting, not giving away personal information etc. But still, there is a good chance that I miss out on something and pay the price for it. As I am only starting this, I feel that meeting in a hotel is relatively better than giving my home address. Maybe with time, I will develop a better bullshit detector.

Just remember that meeting in a Hotel isn't 100% safe, I was robbed in one, let my guard down, paid the price, gave her the money when we met in the bar for a drink, she went to the toilet and my money went with her never to be seen again, money in the room and only after the deed has been done 

 

[mrflash]

Just remember that meeting in a Hotel isn't 100% safe, I was robbed in one, let my guard down, paid the price, gave her the money when we met in the bar for a drink, she went to the toilet and my money went with her never to be seen again, money in the room and only after the deed has been done 

 

That's good to know. Definitely a mistake I am capable of doing.

[Bikerboy]

Just remember that meeting in a Hotel isn't 100% safe, I was robbed in one, let my guard down, paid the price, gave her the money when we met in the bar for a drink, she went to the toilet and my money went with her never to be seen again, money in the room and only after the deed has been done 

 

Many SD’s have been robbed despite well developed BS sensors and experience including me. But it’s gotta be safer meeting in a hotel most of the time. If you get robbed in your home they know where to find you.
Anyways I’ve been robbed of £100 on seeking once in 6 years but the fun times more than compensate. I’ve also met an SB in my home - when we knew each other well. Just be sensible and it’ll work out 99.9% ott.

[Paris69]

Just remember that meeting in a Hotel isn't 100% safe, I was robbed in one, let my guard down, paid the price, gave her the money when we met in the bar for a drink, she went to the toilet and my money went with her never to be seen again, money in the room and only after the deed has been done 

 

What i would add are these little gems...

Having a 3some increases exponentially the risk of scam.

Never pay before your meet is over... as if she has the cash she may just need to pop out to the car for the condoms or a ciggie or etc etc etc...and you will never see her again.

Never open the door to a knock when the girl is in your room.. You don't want to get rushed by her b/f or /b/f's who will rob you...

If the fire alarm goes off, make sure you have your wallet/money and valuables before you evacuate. The girl leaves your room in-front of you.

Any 'real' valuables, Rolex, gold chain etc etc have locked away before she arrives.

If it's your thing, it's understandable...but never let one of these PPM girls tie you up 'for fun'.... That needs time before u can trust her.

Make sure u keep or email her texts to yourself, showing she has consented to being with you/having sex...  Limits the chance of being accused of rape.

Be aware/use your gut instinct, but don't ruin your meet. After all, its costing you your hard earned cash..

[Cunning Punt]

That's interesting. One of the girls seem to be very pushy(the one who wanted to meet at my place) and wanted to book a hotel right now. Let me see how she reacts for a normal meet.

Being pushy, and particularly for an intimate meet straight away, would be a red light for me. She's at best a pro, at worst a scammer.

I have had intimacy in a first meet a few times, after a video call, but this has always been at a hotel. When I've hosted at mine for the first intimate meet, it has been with local girls and always had a M&G first to see if a) there is chemistry and b) if I think they may be prone to going odd on me (admittedly you can never tell).

But that's me and I wouldn't necessarily recommend doing this - quite the opposite, and I would never host at mine if I had a regular partner, no matter how many times I'd seen a SB.

My advice, certainly when you are starting out, is to have a M&G (meet in a local park for a drink/picnic if everything's shut) and then have the first couple of intimate meets in a hotel. Make clear you don't pay allowances for a M&G and, if things progress to an intimate then you will provide the allowance discretely at the end (never at the start), as others has suggested. If a girl isn't happy with all that, then it's probably best to bin her and not proceed.

[FlaccidChimp]

My seeking premium expires in a couple of days. I haven't been able to arrange a single meet. I'm done with seeking. I've met one girl this month and it was through AW. It wasn't worth the money though.

[Payyourwaymate]

My seeking premium expires in a couple of days. I haven't been able to arrange a single meet. I'm done with seeking. I've met one girl this month and it was through AW. It wasn't worth the money though.

review coming soon on this one.

So where was the review?  You know, going off your posts in general...I sense this whole paying women for sex engagement as a whole, whether SA or AW, is not for you. Maybe you should call it a day and seek enjoyment with a more fufilling hobby.

[Trenlover]

i was considering subscribing again but when I looked at all the messages in my inbox , I cant read them but I know from the girls profiles they will all be dead ends.

Plus most of the profiles im seeing have joined in last 7 days which is usually another big red flag of a fake.

Can anyone vouch if its currently worth it?

[Apu]

Met a mother of 2.
Went to her house. Her youngest was awake.
Fucked her and left.
For free.

She then asked me to borrow her £200 so I did.
Then the bullshit began.
So I don't dumped her. Would have liked to bang again but there was Red flags.

[Apu]

Got scammed £50, I did recieve a bunch of pics and videos. But she said she was going to send her address but never did.

....

Has anyone met up with a lesbian couple? On SA, there's a...
Indian girl with boyish red hair and white English girl with red braids. Very sexy English girl.

For the English girl, it maybe worth it, the other one looks like proper butch lesbian.