Author Topic: Seeking.com (London) (Read 2102753 times)

Steve2 · « **Reply #700 on:** March 04, 2020, 02:41:29 am »

Do we know this one? supposedly in Harrow and only been on SA for 7-10 days but registered in NOVEMBER 2019

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Spencer Fobby · « **Reply #701 on:** March 04, 2020, 08:42:07 am »

Quote from: Steve2 on March 04, 2020, 02:41:29 am

Do we know this one? supposedly in Harrow and only been on SA for 7-10 days but registered in NOVEMBER 2019

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Why would anyone want to know that one???

Stickitin · « **Reply #702 on:** March 04, 2020, 09:59:55 am »

Quote from: Spencer Fobby on March 04, 2020, 08:42:07 am

Why would anyone want to know that one???

Just thinking the same!

aronteo · « **Reply #703 on:** March 04, 2020, 12:18:47 pm »

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Right back at you...

aronteo · « **Reply #704 on:** March 04, 2020, 02:16:12 pm »

Quote from: Apu on February 28, 2020, 06:53:54 pm

She flaked on me so I don't have good things to say!

I blocked her (him...) immediately - I think you can consider yourself lucky........

NightKid · « **Reply #705 on:** March 05, 2020, 12:52:48 am »

Quote from: Steve2 on March 04, 2020, 02:41:29 am

Do we know this one? supposedly in Harrow and only been on SA for 7-10 days but registered in NOVEMBER 2019

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No offence, but a blatant hooker if I ever saw one. Sorry mate.

Steve2 · « **Reply #706 on:** March 05, 2020, 02:38:21 am »

Quote from: NightKid on March 05, 2020, 12:52:48 am

No offence, but a blatant hooker if I ever saw one. Sorry mate.

I guessed as much from her messages but as this is a forum for reviewing hookers, it seemed the obvious place to ask the question

ratedj · « **Reply #707 on:** March 05, 2020, 07:17:00 pm »

Anyone come across this one?

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aronteo · « **Reply #708 on:** March 06, 2020, 04:08:11 pm »

This one......contacted me and asked me for 3K for a private meeting..... and she also doesn't look that great......., it's becoming really surreal now......

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Just in case it's useful...

MrBlackDude · « **Reply #709 on:** March 13, 2020, 10:10:23 pm »

Any intel on this one? They've engaged, but I suspect something is off.

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aronteo · « **Reply #710 on:** March 13, 2020, 10:14:34 pm »

Quote from: MrBlackDude on March 13, 2020, 10:10:23 pm

Any intel on this one? They've engaged, but I suspect something is off.

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Didn't come across her - what is bugging you?

MrBlackDude · « **Reply #711 on:** March 13, 2020, 10:49:03 pm »

Quote from: aronteo on March 13, 2020, 10:14:34 pm

Didn't come across her - what is bugging you?

Just that I've asked what she's after, and haven't gotten an answer. She wants to meet for a drink.

aronteo · « **Reply #712 on:** March 13, 2020, 11:41:56 pm »

Quote from: MrBlackDude on March 13, 2020, 10:49:03 pm

Just that I've asked what she's after, and haven't gotten an answer. She wants to meet for a drink.

If she doesn't request you to pay her for just meeting you for drinks (or attempt to scam you by asking you money in advance)......go for it (if you have some spare time). Be careful if she insists in meeting you directly in a hotel room, or if she starts asking for money up front. Follow your guts and try to sense if she is a nutcase from her replies.

ddubs2 · « **Reply #713 on:** March 14, 2020, 07:45:41 pm »

Got reached out about meeting 2 girls, ended up chatting on whatspp for a bit but something feel fishy. Any experience with this one lads?

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ddubs2 · « **Reply #714 on:** March 14, 2020, 07:46:34 pm »

Was chatting with her earlier was asking for 350

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Has anyone encountered this SB?
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SwenyTodd · « **Reply #715 on:** March 15, 2020, 12:41:55 pm »

Quote from: ddubs2 on March 14, 2020, 07:46:34 pm

Was chatting with her earlier was asking for 350

What's her private gallery?

ddubs2 · « **Reply #716 on:** March 20, 2020, 01:08:22 am »

Quote from: ddubs2 on March 14, 2020, 07:45:41 pm

Got reached out about meeting 2 girls, ended up chatting on whatspp for a bit but something feel fishy. Any experience with this one lads?

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AVOID--got scammed by these girls and i got set back 150, not the full amount at least but i should have listened to my instincts... they have another profile too so consider this your warning!

NightKid · « **Reply #717 on:** March 20, 2020, 04:47:56 pm »

FYI a 2-girl deal is generally considered to be dodgy when it comes to SA.

MrBlackDude · « **Reply #718 on:** March 21, 2020, 12:43:55 am »

Quote from: aronteo on March 13, 2020, 11:41:56 pm

If she doesn't request you to pay her for just meeting you for drinks (or attempt to scam you by asking you money in advance)......go for it (if you have some spare time). Be careful if she insists in meeting you directly in a hotel room, or if she starts asking for money up front. Follow your guts and try to sense if she is a nutcase from her replies.

We met earlier in the week, and thankfully she's friendly and legit.

pa5151 · « **Reply #719 on:** March 21, 2020, 07:57:19 am »

Quote from: NightKid on March 20, 2020, 04:47:56 pm

FYI a 2-girl deal is generally considered to be dodgy when it comes to SA.

Two girls who know each other together are really fucking dangerous on SA. I’ve heard quite a few stories of guys getting robbed when two girls are involved.

Trenlover · « **Reply #720 on:** March 26, 2020, 03:14:54 pm »

Agree avoid 2 girl arrangements from SA you will be in a very vulnerable position if they decide to get nasty on you.

nckbob · « **Reply #721 on:** March 26, 2020, 03:34:48 pm »

I've recently joined seeking as I can't exactly go out and meet anytime so it's the perfect time for me to pay the long game.
There's are some real fruitcakes on there. Within 2 days I was offered bareback. But also there is are about 3 or 4 where we are building up a rapport with. But so many soon stories and pros, just been offered an evenings threesome at my place for 350 but seeing as I don't want to be robbed blind I'll give that a miss!

Jpmcgee · « **Reply #722 on:** March 26, 2020, 04:54:28 pm »

Quote from: nckbob on March 26, 2020, 03:34:48 pm

I've recently joined seeking as I can't exactly go out and meet anytime so it's the perfect time for me to pay the long game.
There's are some real fruitcakes on there. Within 2 days I was offered bareback. But also there is are about 3 or 4 where we are building up a rapport with. But so many soon stories and pros, just been offered an evenings threesome at my place for 350 but seeing as I don't want to be robbed blind I'll give that a miss!

I’d say the long game is not a great method. Most of the girls are fickle, whimsical and when in a few months this dies down then they’ll be back on talking to other guys.

You’ll also have to up keep the chat for a couple of months which is very difficult without meeting

It’s best when rapport and chemistry is instantly built and a meet is arranged quickly.

Cunning Punt · « **Reply #723 on:** March 26, 2020, 08:39:50 pm »

Quote from: Jpmcgee on March 26, 2020, 04:54:28 pm

I’d say the long game is not a great method. Most of the girls are fickle, whimsical and when in a few months this dies down then they’ll be back on talking to other guys.

You’ll also have to up keep the chat for a couple of months which is very difficult without meeting

It’s best when rapport and chemistry is instantly built and a meet is arranged quickly.

Agreed, there is no point being a subbed member and messaging anyone at the moment. Long games do sometimes pay off but more often than not they don't and just prove a total waste of time.

Chances of something happening diminish rapidly the longer the texting goes on; it's important to meet relatively quickly, even if it's for a drinks date, in order to strike while the iron is hot, keep momentum and show each other you are both serious.

One would find that many of the girls will have lost interest by the time this lockdown is lifted. Their heads will be turned by the large number of SDs suddenly re-entering the game who will be offering more money (having saved some money during the hiatus) and may be younger/better looking.

Deeeazy · « **Reply #724 on:** April 18, 2020, 09:42:56 pm »

Can you message the girls without a paid subscription?

Steve2 · « **Reply #725 on:** April 19, 2020, 03:10:53 am »

Quote from: Deeeazy on April 18, 2020, 09:42:56 pm

Can you message the girls without a paid subscription?

You can send 10 with a new profile

BUT any contact info you put it will be deleted and the message changed to a generic reply

Spencer Fobby · « **Reply #726 on:** April 19, 2020, 10:06:01 am »

Quote from: Steve2 on April 19, 2020, 03:10:53 am

You can send 10 with a new profile

BUT any contact info you put it will be deleted and the message changed to a generic reply

The messages show as sent in your outbox, but the girls don't actually receive the messages. And even if they did, and they replied, you wouldn't be able to read them.

Hammerguy · « **Reply #727 on:** April 19, 2020, 03:04:31 pm »

Ive been a member of Seeking.com however I have been banned from the site, I think someone reported me.

It is bloody hard work on there but you can meet the more normal sort of person on there if you really go into it, Ive been seeing a lovley lady of there now for over 3 years, so it does work.

Just wish I could get back on there somehow

Spencer Fobby · « **Reply #728 on:** April 19, 2020, 03:54:50 pm »

Quote from: Hammerguy on April 19, 2020, 03:04:31 pm

Ive been a member of Seeking.com however I have been banned from the site, I think someone reported me.

It is bloody hard work on there but you can meet the more normal sort of person on there if you really go into it, Ive been seeing a lovley lady of there now for over 3 years, so it does work.

Just wish I could get back on there somehow

It's not hard, use a different browser, a different email address, preferably log in on a different wifi when you set up (and pay) make a different profile, use different pictures and use a different card to the one you gave last time. Or if you have an android phone use the app.

They don't make much of an effort.

Jacobkim · « **Reply #729 on:** April 19, 2020, 04:15:12 pm »

I have come across a site called illicit encounters.com
Has any one tried it?
Also wat is the scene of SA nowadays ?

Spencer Fobby · « **Reply #730 on:** April 19, 2020, 04:22:14 pm »

Seems that seeking arrangement is not what it used to be... then again, it never was

londonhunter008 · « **Reply #731 on:** April 20, 2020, 12:00:42 pm »

illicitEncounter:
I did try illicit Encounter. It is for married ppl. Just like SA, i prefer to meet someone who is not a professional escort, but looking for fun without commitment
But I will not recommend it.

Cons:
- Firstly it is very expensive
-Few of the members are bots (you will get interests and email from few members the moment you create account but will never be able to contact in real)
-Average age is very high...and most of the women I found were not very good looking. Consider an average 40-60 yrs old married woman and few kids (with all due respect but we are punters and physical attraction is important) and long marriage, looking for someone to spark the interest.
- If you are less that 40 many women will find you too young.
-You will need to spend time with the lady, to build trust before any real action. Time consuming.

Pros
- There are few genuine ladies too. I did meet couple, but I would rather spend my money of time on someone better.
- If you are a mature man, and need a companion to have a long term discreet (or with chances for something serious in future)...this can be a good site.

Hope it helps.

londonhunter008 · « **Reply #732 on:** April 20, 2020, 12:05:08 pm »

Seeking Arrangement:
I have used SA for many years and had few beautiful long term affairs.
But this is the not the best time. You can not meet anyone in person and its frustrating. If you open SA on computer, you can see the current location of the member. Many of them are outside UK and put location as London and wont admit unless you ask specifically. I wont even chat with someone who joined SA after March 1st.

Most of the new members are looking for online arrangement. The kind of girls I try to look for is someone who is not on SA only for money (that can be one of the options) and it is difficult to find now.

londonhunter008 · « **Reply #733 on:** April 20, 2020, 12:10:52 pm »

Quote from: Hammerguy on April 19, 2020, 03:04:31 pm

Ive been a member of Seeking.com however I have been banned from the site, I think someone reported me.

It is bloody hard work on there but you can meet the more normal sort of person on there if you really go into it, Ive been seeing a lovley lady of there now for over 3 years, so it does work.

Just wish I could get back on there somehow

If you were a paid member, drop email to customer service and say that there was some misunderstanding. They will activate your account with a warning.

Hammerguy · « **Reply #734 on:** April 20, 2020, 01:21:31 pm »

Quote from: londonhunter008 on April 20, 2020, 12:10:52 pm

If you were a paid member, drop email to customer service and say that there was some misunderstanding. They will activate your account with a warning.

Thanks for the info mate, I will give it a go, I did tell them it was along those lines but they would not except it, But I will try...

I have set up a new profile names etc pics too, just going to get a new card to pay

The things we all do

londonhunter008 · « **Reply #735 on:** April 20, 2020, 01:39:07 pm »

Quote from: Hammerguy on April 20, 2020, 01:21:31 pm

Thanks for the info mate, I will give it a go, I did tell them it was along those lines but they would not except it, But I will try...

I have set up a new profile names etc pics too, just going to get a new card to pay

The things we all do

I can understand. I was also blocked once but they activated for me

. What I have learnt from my experience is that SA is not the right place to find escort or to talk to anyone who acts or talk like an escort (will be more expensive...adultwork is better in that way). If we use it as a normal dating site and try to find girls who need genuine long term arrangement...then it can work really well.

Now I dont ask very specific question about money or reply back to someone whose conversation starts as stop at "how much can you provide". And after couple of messages try to talk on whatsapp or kik (if you dont want to share number). Also, once you save the number....its easy to find many of them on Instagram (its helpful to have a a discreet Instagram account with some normal pictures ...on your punting phone ), snapchat and Telegram. Even if you dont add anyone...it helps to see what kind of profiles they have on other platforms. Specially the professional girls will have profile public...because they need as many followers as possible.

That has helped me a lot and i could find that many of them as professional SB(visiting all over the world meeting SDs), professional glam model( link to onlyfans and AdmireMe websites on Instagram profile)...and few with normal job and life. Whom you want to meet and pics is your call then.

CAUTION: If I dont find any public profile...I will be very careful to go ahead and arrange a meeting witch such members. Few of them are fake and you will get notification on insta (and other apps) that some random guy is on your contact list...would you like to add them

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Jacobkim · « **Reply #736 on:** April 23, 2020, 09:09:20 pm »

Thanks for such a useful information. I hv few questions
Shall I sign up after the lockdown is finished?
Do I hv to upload picture showing my full face? I work around the city and duo to my work I meet different people/clients around my county. That’s y I am a bit Nervous to show my face.
If I ask her to meet me for coffee do I hv to pay her and how much?
How much shall I pay her for the first time if I ask her to get naked?
Thanks in advance

Cunning Punt · « **Reply #737 on:** April 23, 2020, 10:10:34 pm »

Quote from: Jacobkim on April 23, 2020, 09:09:20 pm

Do I hv to upload picture showing my full face? I work around the city and duo to my work I meet different people/clients around my county. That’s y I am a bit Nervous to show my face.

Putting a full face photo may increase you chances of getting attention but of course you don't have to. Just put a cropped picture as you public picture and full face shots in private photos that you only share with girls you're interested in.

Quote from: Jacobkim on April 23, 2020, 09:09:20 pm

If I ask her to meet me for coffee do I hv to pay her and how much?

NOOO! Most certainly do not do this - both for your benefit and SDs generally.

Hardly any guys do this and most girls who claim they do receive a fee for just for turning up for a drinks date are bullshitting. Maybe cover some modest travel costs but if any girl wants cash to turn up for a coffee date then they are obviously too money orientated and the experience will almost certainly be crap if ever you make it to the next stage if indeed you do. If girls are getting paid just for social dates, then they are less likely to do intimacy.

I can work out these girls from their profiles, but bin any who insist when I chat to them.

Quote from: Jacobkim on April 23, 2020, 09:09:20 pm

How much shall I pay her for the first time if I ask her to get naked?

How long is a piece of string? Personally, I offer 150 if I'm getting a hotel and may stretch to 200 in London if I like the girl. I would say any guy paying an allowance of 300 (on top of hotel, refreshments) is offering too much and is pushing up expectations of these girls and mates they speak to, which makes it more difficult for SDs generally.

But everyone's budget and situations are different. There are a multitude of factors such as what you can afford, how much you like the girl, what her expectations are, your geographic region and what your other costs are ie hotel, refreshments and your/her travel (costs which are easily forgotten at the start but can mount up).

The economic fallout from the pandemic will probably increase a SD's options.

Quote from: Jacobkim on April 23, 2020, 09:09:20 pm

Shall I sign up after the lockdown is finished?

Well girls will obviously be more willing and able to meet, as will you, but regarding whether you sign up or not, only you can make that decision, fella.

Jacobkim · « **Reply #738 on:** April 24, 2020, 07:13:22 am »

Thanks!

Really appreciate your advice.
I will give it a go once this pendamic is over and will share my experience with you guys.
Just want to experience It
Thanks for such a useful information.

Spencer Fobby · « **Reply #739 on:** April 24, 2020, 10:00:41 am »

Seeking Arrangement is not as simple as AW or booking a SP. If you go into it with the mindset that you are talking to sex workers, you will fail.

There are sex workers on there, but they are not going to give you cheaper rates on seeking than they would on AW. Plus you may have hotel costs to factor in.

You'll encounter scammers, fakes, men posing as women, blackmailers, time wasters and fantasists. It will soak up HOURS of your time to find the right girl.

There are quite a few of us on this site who still prefer seeking to aw but we have learned to spot these and filter them out in search of the rare gem that can be found.

In terms of rates, there are no hard and fast rules but bear in mind that the site sells itself as a website for sugar daddies. i.e. men who have higher than average levels of disposable wealth. If you do not have a higher than average disposable income, your options will be very limited.

You asked this question: "How much shall I pay her for the first time if I ask her to get naked?" Now imagine yourself as a student dipping her toe into the world of sugar daddies and what her reaction would be if she read that. Pay her to get naked? In her mind she is not an escort or a stripper or a sex worker. It doesn't matter that the objective reality is different, you are probably communicating with a female who does not think of herself as a sex worker. Treat it like a dating site and offer an allowance or gift or some help with her bills etc.

In order to find a genuine, attractive, sugar baby who isn't a professional sex worker (and that is the reason to be on seeking - still to aw etc for professional sex workers) you will have to send a hundred messages, have dozens of conversations and put hours of effort in before meeting someone. And sex is NOT guaranteed.

Oh and you may find yourself banned from the site after paying your £85 if you message someone and are obviously soliciting sex.

James · « **Reply #740 on:** April 25, 2020, 08:16:10 pm »

there might be an influx after, lots of girls/woman need extra money. may be able to get a cheaper rate. they may accept any offer and not be fussy on looks.

But issue is hotels, if hotels are closed and girl cant accomodate, then hard to book if you have no place of your own or its unstable for this.

Students are finished for the year. so September is when they return to this

Cunning Punt · « **Reply #741 on:** April 26, 2020, 07:00:11 pm »

Quote from: James on April 25, 2020, 08:16:10 pm

there might be an influx after, lots of girls/woman need extra money. may be able to get a cheaper rate. they may accept any offer and not be fussy on looks.

But issue is hotels, if hotels are closed and girl cant accomodate, then hard to book if you have no place of your own or its unstable for this.

Students are finished for the year. so September is when they return to this

Indeed, there will be some girls needing extra money and not asking the sort of ridiculous sums that a lot of SBs on SA, particularly in London, had been prior to the lockdown.

You do usually get a dip in SBs during the summer but there could well be higher numbers this year. They'll still for looking for extra cash wherever they're based during the holiday, as it's going to be harder to get a summer job than usual and they can't go abroad for a holiday yet, even if they have the money.

While there are probably more student girls in London during termtime than in holiday perids, there are likely to be plenty around the London area.

HighHeelLover · « **Reply #742 on:** April 29, 2020, 12:19:28 pm »

Quote from: Spencer Fobby on April 24, 2020, 10:00:41 am

Seeking Arrangement is not as simple as AW or booking a SP. If you go into it with the mindset that you are talking to sex workers, you will fail.

There are sex workers on there, but they are not going to give you cheaper rates on seeking than they would on AW. Plus you may have hotel costs to factor in.

You'll encounter scammers, fakes, men posing as women, blackmailers, time wasters and fantasists. It will soak up HOURS of your time to find the right girl.

There are quite a few of us on this site who still prefer seeking to aw but we have learned to spot these and filter them out in search of the rare gem that can be found.

In terms of rates, there are no hard and fast rules but bear in mind that the site sells itself as a website for sugar daddies. i.e. men who have higher than average levels of disposable wealth. If you do not have a higher than average disposable income, your options will be very limited.

You asked this question: "How much shall I pay her for the first time if I ask her to get naked?" Now imagine yourself as a student dipping her toe into the world of sugar daddies and what her reaction would be if she read that. Pay her to get naked? In her mind she is not an escort or a stripper or a sex worker. It doesn't matter that the objective reality is different, you are probably communicating with a female who does not think of herself as a sex worker. Treat it like a dating site and offer an allowance or gift or some help with her bills etc.

In order to find a genuine, attractive, sugar baby who isn't a professional sex worker (and that is the reason to be on seeking - still to aw etc for professional sex workers) you will have to send a hundred messages, have dozens of conversations and put hours of effort in before meeting someone. And sex is NOT guaranteed.

Oh and you may find yourself banned from the site after paying your £85 if you message someone and are obviously soliciting sex.

+1 on this

I joined seeking this week and I can say it takes work and patience. The amount of girls on there at this period just asking for money for pics is insane. And there no guarantee that they will neeed even though they say they will. It take a lot of work to filter out the scammers atm

Trenlover · « **Reply #743 on:** April 30, 2020, 07:42:14 am »

Quote from: Spencer Fobby on April 24, 2020, 10:00:41 am

and offer an allowance

im curious how you follow through on that if your suggestion is genuine to her. Im guessing you spin it into PPM further down the line as no-one in their right mind would front-load a monthly lump sum to these girls.

Spencer Fobby · « **Reply #744 on:** April 30, 2020, 08:16:34 am »

Quote from: Trenlover on April 30, 2020, 07:42:14 am

im curious how you follow through on that if your suggestion is genuine to her. Im guessing you spin it into PPM further down the line as no-one in their right mind would front-load a monthly lump sum to these girls.

correct. I have had a few regulars, where I have seen them weekly for a while. I have never given a month's allowance in advance or in arrears. Always per meet.
It's been said a hundred times that you have to go with their cognitive dissonance and give any suggestion that you are paying her for sex a wide birth.

There'll be loads of people ready to pounce on this last point, but if you can't get your head round the fuzzy logic of seeking, then stick to AW. It's safer, clearer. more straightforward and the girls are well reviewed here.

DeanoDeano · « **Reply #745 on:** April 30, 2020, 10:36:34 pm »

An allowance doesn’t have to be monthly. It can be weekly, fortnightly, whatever the hell you want. Just be clear what you’re offering from the outset and don’t spin anyone along. I made the mistake of touting the idea of offering a monthly allowance when I didn’t really mean it, and in hindsight it’s a shit move and not nice.

Steve2 · « **Reply #746 on:** May 01, 2020, 02:39:45 am »

I normally just ask if they would be happy getting their allowance at the end of the month or would they prefer it after each session.

Surprisingly none wanted it at the end of the month

James · « **Reply #747 on:** May 01, 2020, 12:56:52 pm »

Might be easier to go straight to sex now. With bars and restaurants closed. Any meets can be hotel ones once they reopen.
I can imagine they are all webcamming and pic sales. Easy money and der are idiots hu pay for pics.
I will be rejoining when hotels r open and lockdown relaxed a bit. Easy to lie say u visiting family

Trenlover · « **Reply #748 on:** May 01, 2020, 02:28:10 pm »

Quote from: James on May 01, 2020, 12:56:52 pm

Might be easier to go straight to sex now. With bars and restaurants closed. Any meets can be hotel ones once they reopen.
I can imagine they are all webcamming and pic sales. Easy money and der are idiots hu pay for pics.
I will be rejoining when hotels r open and lockdown relaxed a bit. Easy to lie say u visiting family

Theres no girls looking for sex right now and I doubt there will be in future. I remember before the lockdown every girl wanted £500 ppm now they have all vanished and its just the online arrangement brigade left.

Steve2 · « **Reply #749 on:** May 01, 2020, 05:48:56 pm »

Quote from: Trenlover on May 01, 2020, 02:28:10 pm

Theres no girls looking for sex right now and I doubt there will be in future. I remember before the lockdown every girl wanted £500 ppm now they have all vanished and its just the online arrangement brigade left.

Not in my experience

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