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Offline Matium

Nearly all WGs like to spend the first 10 minutes talking so that they can get to know the punter and feel relaxed.

For goodness sakes, use that 10 minutes to go through with her all the services you require and note her responses. If she replies enthusiastically and affirmatively and her body language is good, you know you'll get what you asked for. If she "umms" and "errs" or looks her away to avoid eye contact or her body language is stiff then you know it'll be a bad 'un.

If it is the latter case, do not give her any of your hard earned cash, say "no" and leave or if you can't say "no" to a woman, say "I've left my wallet in the car" and leave. Every, and I mean this, every WG in the country knows that if she hears the "Wallet in the car" excuse, it means that the punter is not coming back so never, ever feel guilty about leaving a girl in that way.

Of course, if you give the girl the money straightaway or before you've satisfied yourself that you'll get the services you've asked for then the only word apt enough to describe you is: "Plonker!".

If you think with your dick then you have no one to blame except yourself.

I honestly have no sympathy for such men.
« Last Edit: April 19, 2011, 11:53:16 PM by Matium »

Offline kiwi69

Nearly all WGs like to spend the first 10 minutes talking so that they can get to know the punter and feel relaxed.

For goodness sakes, every WG .............................. to describe you is: "Plonker!".

If you think with your dick then you have no one to blame except yourself.

I honestly have no sympathy for such men.

Nice one  ! If there were a " 10 Golden Rules of Mongering  " that should rate the 1 spot ............  ;) ;)

Offline RedAlertTourist

Nearly all WGs like to spend the first 10 minutes talking so that they can get to know the punter and feel relaxed.

For goodness sakes, use that 10 minutes to go through with her all the services you require and note her responses. If she replies enthusiastically and affirmatively and her body language is good, you know you'll get what you asked for. If she "umms" and "errs" or looks her away to avoid eye contact or her body language is stiff then you know it'll be a bad 'un.

If it is the latter case, do not give her any of your hard earned cash, say "no" and leave or if you can't say "no" to a woman, say "I've left my wallet in the car" and leave. Every, and I mean this, every WG in the country knows that if she hears the "Wallet in the car" excuse, it means that the punter is not coming back so never, ever feel guilty about leaving a girl in that way.

Of course, if you give the girl the money straightaway or before you've satisfied yourself that you'll get the services you've asked for then the only word apt enough to describe you is: "Plonker!".

If you think with your dick then you have no one to blame except yourself.

I honestly have no sympathy for such men.

What Matium is referring to is Adultwork Escorts taking your money first and then NOT providing services they have listed on their likes list.

One question for you Matium.

What if, using your "fool proof" system, would you suggest if a girl states that yes she does CIM, O.W.O before you do the "paperwork" at the meeting. She returns to the bedroom but then says I only do "CIM at discretion" when you ask for it when you're stark naked?

Are you going to go into the closed bedroom by the front door whereby the "PIMP/boyfriend/Manager" hides and beat him up and demand your £100-£200 fee back?  :sarcastic:

Hmmm didn't think so either  :rolleyes:

Offline Matium

Actually, I never, ever get to that stage.

:)

Slightly more sophisticated punters know you must always ask for a costume or perfume or both, if she's not wearing what you've asked for, you don't even enter her place. You turn around and walk away.

I have left girls on the doorstep.

:)

Offline Fannytastico

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I don't have any costumes, I imagine that's the same for at least some other girls! Also I'm allergic to perfume.  However we would have discussed this prior to meeting, so no doubt would have come up with an alternative solution.  :blush:

Offline Lady Poppy

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I learn so much from this place.  I have never waited 10 mins to start an appointment, unless it is longer of 2 hours plus and those gents do generally want to take the pace a little slower and have a glass of wine or a cuppa first.  My usual method is to go straight for the ice breaker hug and a kiss, after I have offered a drink or a shower.  Having said that, until recently I used to go straight up to the bedroom, so as to avoid taking people into the areas of my home where my son lives.  I guess I just felt that the less of the (real me and him) that I showed the better.  Whereas now I have an apartment, once I have the curtains up in the lounge, I can use that too.

Would you advise me to start using this 10 minute rule, or should I just continue the way I am?

Offline Matium

That depends on you, Poppy.

Most girls can size up a client in the first minute, if he looks like a "Wham, Bang, Thank you, Ma'am" kind of man then take him straight to bed. However, if he looks sophisticated, a man who would first enjoy talking, having a laugh and a glass of wine then do that first.

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Offline Lady Poppy

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That depends on you, Poppy.

Most girls can size up a client in the first minute, if he looks like a "Wham, Bang, Thank you, Ma'am" kind of man then take him straight to bed. However, if he looks sophisticated, a man who would first enjoy talking, having a laugh and a glass of wine then do that first.

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Matium, my clientele are usually the more sophisticated type.  Most make reference to my qualifications and blogs, but I still start with a hug and a kiss.  We usually talk intermittently during the booking.  The chap that I saw yesterday had asked me to massage him with olive oil (he also massaged me, which was a delight!), he said he had read my blogs and also commented that a sense of humour was also very important.  He came to me beautifully dressed and had a very sexy upper class voice.  Apparently he was new to using Escorts and had narrowed it down to 3 ladies and chose me because I had the most information, showing my personality.

I very rarely (if at all) entertain wham bang types.  Even this month when I have offered half hour meets as an option at my apartment, I have only had one so far, with the second being this morning.  So I don't think you can presume, that not 'chatting' first means you can't talk during the rest of the time.  Obviously there are moments of intensity where talking would be inappropriate, but you can't go at it constantly for an hour and those little windows of opportunity present themselves rather naturally.

Offline Lurtz

Matium's 10 minute rule is good practice, but I've still been caught out twice where the girl nodded her head in answer to my enquiries, took the cash, left the room, and when she returned she denied the services (this was not due to my hygiene). The only saving grace was they both disappeared within a fortnight. Sometimes I wish I had the balls to climb off the bed and start getting dressed to see if she panics. However, since I'm there, I usually just make the most of it and when I leave I inform her boss of her sharp practice. Sometimes the girls are reformed and go on to be good lasses, I'm told.

Offline ladyofthemansion

Some girls will deduct that ten min from the service so if thats offered you should clarify that your time will start on the bed.

I think the time should start in the bedroom, though I remember a guy who just overdid it for me. He insisted on talking for about half an hour. Then put a stopwatch on his bedside table lol. He was so worried about not getting his full hour. He then tried to insist I wait for a cab that had a 45 minute wait even although I said I was happy to walk to the station.

Offline smiths

Matium's 10 minute rule is good practice, but I've still been caught out twice where the girl nodded her head in answer to my enquiries, took the cash, left the room, and when she returned she denied the services (this was not due to my hygiene). The only saving grace was they both disappeared within a fortnight. Sometimes I wish I had the balls to climb off the bed and start getting dressed to see if she panics. However, since I'm there, I usually just make the most of it and when I leave I inform her boss of her sharp practice. Sometimes the girls are reformed and go on to be good lasses, I'm told.

This change from offering the services before i handed my money over to she cant actually offer them after i have handed my money over i has happened to me a number of times. Gum problems is the most popular excuse which she didnt have a few minutes earlier. I just leave if this shit happens, i dont want to punt with such an individual. I am not convinced a bad WG like this can change, its all about attitude and the bad ones have a bad attitute, ripping punters off is their way, they wouldnt be able to offer good service if they tried as they havent got what it takes.

Offline smiths

What Matium is referring to is Adultwork Escorts taking your money first and then NOT providing services they have listed on their likes list.

One question for you Matium.

What if, using your "fool proof" system, would you suggest if a girl states that yes she does CIM, O.W.O before you do the "paperwork" at the meeting. She returns to the bedroom but then says I only do "CIM at discretion" when you ask for it when you're stark naked?

Are you going to go into the closed bedroom by the front door whereby the "PIMP/boyfriend/Manager" hides and beat him up and demand your £100-£200 fee back?  :sarcastic:

Hmmm didn't think so either  :rolleyes:

In punting the nearest to foolproof is punting with a regular, punting with any newbie to you involves the risk of what you describe. When it happens i walk as i am not prepared to get into a physical tussle with a woman to get my cash back, i ask though and its usually i can offer xyz to you still, the point is my vibe has gone by this time and i have no wish to stay let alone punt with her.

Offline Wife4rent

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In punting the nearest to foolproof is punting with a regular

Where's the fun in that? You may as well get married.

I have a similar dilemma, when I go to my favourite restaurant do I choose my favourite dish or something else? Lasagne is always a difficult choice, if served correctly it is heaven but so many places just seem to nuke it in a microwave, it comes out bubbling, too hot to eat and goes cold quickly


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Offline James999

Matium, my clientele are usually the more sophisticated type.  Most make reference to my qualifications and blogs, .

If you were half as clever as you think you are (or keep telling everyone) you wouldn't need to constantly tout the fact. You talk the talk but the reality is you are probably the most insecure girl on here trying to mask your insecurity with your constant self pontification.

No wonder they pissed you off auto-censored.

Offline smiths

Where's the fun in that? You may as well get married.

I have a similar dilemma, when I go to my favourite restaurant do I choose my favourite dish or something else? Lasagne is always a difficult choice, if served correctly it is heaven but so many places just seem to nuke it in a microwave, it comes out bubbling, too hot to eat and goes cold quickly

The fun can be that the WG gets to know exactly what you like sexually and how you like it so enhancing the punt for you. Personally the ideal situation for me is a mix of a regular or two and the variety of newbies to me.


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Offline Simple

Even if I've already confirmed details such as offered services, booking duration and etc, on the phone before leaving I always re-confirm in person within the first few moments and definately before handing over hard earned cash incase in the time it took to reach a convenient mishap has occured in the prossie's favour. Although obviously it isn't foolproof as the prossie can simply return and change the terms of the punt safely in the knowledge she has already stashed the cash away leaving you with little to no recourse...

Offline Lady Poppy

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If you were half as clever as you think you are (or keep telling everyone) you wouldn't need to constantly tout the fact. You talk the talk but the reality is you are probably the most insecure girl on here trying to mask your insecurity with your constant self pontification.

No wonder they pissed you off auto-censored.

*blows a raspberry*  I don't come on here to tout, just rub you up the wrong way! 

Why would I be insecure?  Oh no, I've only had 2 FRs written about me this week, the world must be crashing down on me!

Seriously, it's nothing to do with touting, or insecurity.  I don't think I'm particularly clever either.  I've had to work hard in education, as in everything else that I have ever done.  Most of the time I'm just trying to prove a point, which is that not all wgs are what you profess them to be.

Offline Wife4rent

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Due to certain personal reason to do with the client, I have, but rarely, refused to provide a service and not offered a refund. this is usually to do with the client putting spray or cream of some sort on his cock and expecting oral without.

If they do not wish to see me again, I have no problem with that. I do not think I have any reviews on the web about me, apart from my own site which are biased as I would not allow a bad one.

Offline softlad

this is usually to do with the client putting spray or cream of some sort on his cock and expecting oral without.


So fly spray's a no no ?  :P

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Offline smiths

Even if I've already confirmed details such as offered services, booking duration and etc, on the phone before leaving I always re-confirm in person within the first few moments and definately before handing over hard earned cash incase in the time it took to reach a convenient mishap has occured in the prossie's favour. Although obviously it isn't foolproof as the prossie can simply return and change the terms of the punt safely in the knowledge she has already stashed the cash away leaving you with little to no recourse...

I do exactly the same. The point is we have then done all we can do in my opinion to ensure its crystal clear what we require, if she then comes back from stashing the cash with excuses, its sadly our bad luck to have met such a liar.

Offline James999

stashed the cash away

Stashing the cash away is a parlour mentality, I would say that a high percentage girls  put the money on the side or table and it is visible when I leave.

Some girls do scurry off with the cash though, probably to pay the pimp / dealer


Offline ladyofthemansion

lf l was the bloke and the girl had stashed the cash then came back and said she wasn't offering the services promised l would be insisting on my money back and would shout if necessary. lf l go in McDonalds and ask for 9 nuggets and only get 6 l aint leaving till l've got what l paid for.

Offline Simple

Stashing the cash away is a parlour mentality, I would say that a high percentage girls  put the money on the side or table and it is visible when I leave.

Some girls do scurry off with the cash though, probably to pay the pimp / dealer


Every single Indie prossie I've seen so far has scurried away to stash the cash in some nook or cranny, but in the defense of all the prossies I've seen I am a dodgy looking customer and not to be trusted....

Offline smiths

Stashing the cash away is a parlour mentality, I would say that a high percentage girls  put the money on the side or table and it is visible when I leave.

Some girls do scurry off with the cash though, probably to pay the pimp / dealer

I would say about 40% stash it, mainly EEs in my experience.


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