It is a job to know where to start to comment on all the posts and put some perspective on it
It is rather understandable the squirrelling away of the cash considering the inherent risks and vulnerabilities of whoring oneself
In response to my post this is true, however, the fact that I was stupid enough to leave the cash accessible made it easy for an opportunist to take advantage of the situation. I refrain from using opportunist thief but that it would be considered as that. As said lesson learnt and I advise nobody else to try and do the same thing.
Yes, but if you can't trust them to some extent, why would you want to suck their cock?
It is not about trust but making sure you are not made vulnerable
With regards to trust, I think there are different levels in any relationship that you form.
A well put response and yes different levels of trust but as Lady P puts it, desperation can make people do funny things. Also, it was a chance for him to kick his habit, at least with me. It was more the loss of a regular than the money. I only left the clients money in the room and moved it after
Or you could say, I'd never trust a prossie with my landline or real name.
I have said before, I do not understand why married men take the risk of having an in call, but they do and they will. If you are single you have little to lose.
A lot of the paranoid older women are like that
I am an older woman and no I am not paranoid but yes I still do ask details, depending on how far I have to travel. This actually does not stop the time wasters from having a wank pre arrival so not opening the door. But it does confirm, mostly, that the client is in the house that you are visiting - this was the way all out calls worked Pre internet. It was not a safety issue, I always had a pimp to look after me, just a way of cutting down on time wasters.
However, when I turn down an out call that is being requested, I simply move on with my day. It is usually the client who then keeps calling back to try and arrange something, not me trying to get to him.
I spent 2+ years working out calls doing 12+ hour shifts in the late 80's with a mobile phone that cost £1,500 and the joke is that the prices have not gone up to what I charged then. So what a bargain you guys are getting, compared to 20 years ago, yet you still moan about the cost
I have done out calls to clients without a verification, but it is rare and usually not far from me, so no great loss if it is a no go.
So from an "Old Prozzie" that's my Farthing worth....