Hi all,
I’ve been a member of this site for many years and have always been interested in the idea of punting. I came to the forum asking for advice a few years ago and received great advice and support regarding whether to use a WG despite not really needing to (link:
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=105760.msg1271984#msg1271984)
I received great advice from you guys and even had personal messages from purple
Who had gone/were going through the same thing
As an update to that post I can now confirm that I finally went ahead with it and just wanted to make a post giving some advice to non-seasoned punters/guys who are curious but unsure as I was previously by mentioning the two biggest things that played on my mind
Guilt - this was my biggest issue; I was really concerned with not being able to I live with the guilt etc after doing the deed; I think if you’re interested in punting but you are unsure of how you may feel after then don’t bother setting up a meet or risking getting caught with a burner phone etc. It will be a waste of money and hard to explain - considering you would have done nothing other than look through aw profiles. I managed to lose this feeling before my first meet as the “I’ll only live once” mindset took over as I got older and I knew I’d have regret not trying this and being with somebody other than my wife at least once in my life
Planning the “perfect crime” - there are some great posts and advice here so no need to really discuss how to plan getting away with this: but one consideration I did not make was how to plan for after the encounter. I ended up chickening out of the full experience and ended up just getting a OWO w/ CIM. However what I failed to consider was that if by some horrible luck I have caught something from this I will end up passing this to my wife and it will be clear I have cheated despite never being caught. So if you are planning to do this think of the post testing etc time frame too not just the time frame to get your punt in
Advice Needed from this great community: I have since gone for a STI test at the GUM clinic but was advised that because I came to them 48 hours after my encounter that the tests wouldn’t really show anything as I needed to wait for 2 weeks before taking the tests for anything to show
How the fuck can I hold off having sex with my wife for 2 weeks + the week it takes for results to come back... plus the follow up week of taking meds if I’ve caught something. Have any of your been in this situation before?
The nurse told me there is a reduced risk of catching an STI from OWO however I’m more
Than weare that there is still a risk and can’t take chances passing this on to my wife
This experience was a great in that in got rid of the curiosity I’ve always had and made me appreciate what I have; I have huge respect for you guys who have then balls of steel and continuously go through this without panicking