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Author Topic: Punting When “You Have No Reason To”  (Read 2799 times)

Offline MrLo

I’ve been on this website lurking for a while now, reading reviews and taking the advice of many experienced UKP members on how to punt safely. However I was hoping to get some advice on something I could not see clearly answered in other forum posts (apologies if I have missed it).

The idea of seeing a WG has interested me for a few years now, and so I’ve looked into it on this site and on AW. I have everything ready from a disposable £5 PAYG phone, to alibis for being spotted in areas and a HL to tick off.

My only issue is this “feeling” I get telling me not to do it which is really off-putting. I’ve read on threads in the site that people do it because their partner doesn’t put out, they are in an unhappy relationship, they are single etc, however I do not fit into any of those “justifiable” categories.

I’m currently with a girl who is more than willing to have sex at any time, which I am attracted to. I’m happy being in the relationship, which is steady and I can see it lasting for the foreseeable future.

The thing is I’ve only ever had sex with this one girl and i'm now in my very early 30's. I get a feeling that I may have missed out on other experiences with other women and the idea of punting really begins to appeal to me because:

- I can pick and choose the women I want (many of which I would never have the guts to speak to in real life or even have a chance with)
- In theory if all goes well there are no lose ends and nobody bar WG would ever know (therefore I wouldn’t have to worry about rumours etc)
- Although physically cheating, emotionally etc I would not be (therefore it would not get messy like an affair where another person’s feelings are also involved)

My issue is that I have a feeling that I would feel some sort of massive guilt if I start to punt, which could destroy the relationship I currently have and my general mood.

Does anybody have experiences or advice they can share where they have started punting and how it affected them? Did nothing change in you/your relationship? Did it maybe make things better? Did it riddle you with guilt and ruin things?

I am new to punting and posting on here. I've been through all the emotions you describe at the end of your post and have to say that having taken the leap I havent felt any crushing guilt or any other negative feelings. I have been with my wife for 30 years but just knew that I wanted more of a sex life but didnt want divorce and all that palaver. The trick for me is telling myself that sex is just a pleasureable function (like going for a pint) and is nothing to do with love or marriage. Having said that, I am certain my wife would disagree so its worth the time and effort to be very careful about doing it.

Reading some of the posts/reviews on here it seems for some its a bit of a sport (and for some a mission!) but everyones entitled to get what they want from it.

Someone much cleverer than me once said its better to regret the things you have done, than to regret those you havent.

Offline Diehard

Chaps, it's dead simple. If she doesn't find out then you have nothing to feel guilty about.

In any event she won't feel guilty cheating on you and draining your income to be kept in a lifestyle she considered appropriate.

Get yourself a non smartphone pay as you go, keep the phone at work and happy punting.

Avoid Eastern Europeans.

Offline Gspotter

It would be very odd if you ate the same food or wore the same clothes everyday. Similarly, for me the main reason I have sex with different people is the diversity of the experience.
However, because of the traditional evolution of humans from primates we are meant to be monogamous and provide for our partner who concentrates on child rearing. This is no longer an absolute in contemporary society but there is still a hang up about having sex with someone other than your partner. How you handle it and how much you share with your partner is up to you to decide. If you feel you are going to be wracked by guilt you should think carefully before seeing a WG. 
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Online RedKettle

If you have no reason to then don't.

If you want to shag a variety of women then do.  That is a reason.

You are over thinking it.

I’ve been on this website lurking for a while now, reading reviews and taking the advice of many experienced UKP members on how to punt safely. However I was hoping to get some advice on something I could not see clearly answered in other forum posts (apologies if I have missed it).

The idea of seeing a WG has interested me for a few years now, and so I’ve looked into it on this site and on AW. I have everything ready from a disposable £5 PAYG phone, to alibis for being spotted in areas and a HL to tick off.

My only issue is this “feeling” I get telling me not to do it which is really off-putting. I’ve read on threads in the site that people do it because their partner doesn’t put out, they are in an unhappy relationship, they are single etc, however I do not fit into any of those “justifiable” categories.

I’m currently with a girl who is more than willing to have sex at any time , which I am attracted to. I’m happy being in the relationship, which is steady and I can see it lasting for the foreseeable future.

The thing is I’ve only ever had sex with this one girl and i'm now in my very early 30's. I get a feeling that I may have missed out on other experiences with other women and the idea of punting really begins to appeal to me because:

- I can pick and choose the women I want (many of which I would never have the guts to speak to in real life or even have a chance with)
- In theory if all goes well there are no lose ends and nobody bar WG would ever know (therefore I wouldn’t have to worry about rumours etc)
- Although physically cheating, emotionally etc I would not be (therefore it would not get messy like an affair where another person’s feelings are also involved)

My issue is that I have a feeling that I would feel some sort of massive guilt if I start to punt, which could destroy the relationship I currently have and my general mood.

Does anybody have experiences or advice they can share where they have started punting and how it affected them? Did nothing change in you/your relationship? Did it maybe make things better? Did it riddle you with guilt and ruin things?

This is a difficult one and I see you have been toying with the idea for a few years. So it seems as if it is something you wish to do. However, you are experiencing a Jekyll and Hyde phenomenon which has delayed you seeing a WG.

I am not sure what to say, you come across like someone who will experience 'guilt'. Personally, I think it is hard not to experience guilt when in a relationship but eventually the feelings wear off and you justify to yourself your behaviour (otherwise you suffer cognitive dissonance ie behaving contrary to one's own attitude).

As for missing out, I am not so sure but I understand why you may have the perception as such. Perhaps reading posts here has created this impression.

So this is where you are at?

All the best mate
« Last Edit: July 29, 2016, 01:15:15 PM by peter purves »

Offline bushman

If you have any doubt don't do it.
Me, well I am obsess with the taste of fanny, and i like numbers.

Offline ickydicky

If you have no reason to then don't.

If you want to shag a variety of women then do.  That is a reason.

You are over thinking it.

thats it in a nutshell. if you dont want to fuck young fit women then dont punt. if, on the other hand, you are normal then get in there my son :yahoo: :drinks:
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Offline carefree

I’ve been on this website lurking for a while now, reading reviews and taking the advice of many experienced UKP members on how to punt safely. However I was hoping to get some advice on something I could not see clearly answered in other forum posts (apologies if I have missed it).

The idea of seeing a WG has interested me for a few years now, and so I’ve looked into it on this site and on AW. I have everything ready from a disposable £5 PAYG phone, to alibis for being spotted in areas and a HL to tick off.

My only issue is this “feeling” I get telling me not to do it which is really off-putting. I’ve read on threads in the site that people do it because their partner doesn’t put out, they are in an unhappy relationship, they are single etc, however I do not fit into any of those “justifiable” categories.

I’m currently with a girl who is more than willing to have sex at any time, which I am attracted to. I’m happy being in the relationship, which is steady and I can see it lasting for the foreseeable future.

The thing is I’ve only ever had sex with this one girl and i'm now in my very early 30's. I get a feeling that I may have missed out on other experiences with other women and the idea of punting really begins to appeal to me because:

- I can pick and choose the women I want (many of which I would never have the guts to speak to in real life or even have a chance with)
- In theory if all goes well there are no lose ends and nobody bar WG would ever know (therefore I wouldn’t have to worry about rumours etc)
- Although physically cheating, emotionally etc I would not be (therefore it would not get messy like an affair where another person’s feelings are also involved)

My issue is that I have a feeling that I would feel some sort of massive guilt if I start to punt, which could destroy the relationship I currently have and my general mood.

Does anybody have experiences or advice they can share where they have started punting and how it affected them? Did nothing change in you/your relationship? Did it maybe make things better? Did it riddle you with guilt and ruin things?

Want my advice?

Just man up :hi:
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Online Happyjose

Want my advice?

Just man up :hi:

This.

Many of us do it for the same reason a dog licks its balls

Offline JimmRed

2 cents I am in a similar boat cept my OH isn't interested ATM, after my first punt in Feb I told all, we went through a massive bust up and it took a week to pull it all back together. Essentially I'd recommend talking to your OH about what you want from your sex life, perhaps naughty nurses or whatever it is, see if she can do it before you launch yourself off.

Then if you find it's still not being scratched as it were (as in my case) then stay in love but find some WG who can scratch that itch (hopefully not literally).

MrLo - I was in EXACTLY the same position when I was my early 30s, so I know precisely how you feel.

I wanted at least the experience of being with 'other' women. Thankfully, my partner at the time was extremely open-minded and wasn't bothered if it was a one-off.

And you know what? It turned out that a one-off was all that I needed. After that, I never again had the desire to 'stray from the path'. Once that relationship ended (many years later) I felt no guilt returning to punting, which I've been doing on an occasional basis ever since.

I would say - do it. It may turn out that doing it once is all you need.

Online OakTree

If you have no reason to then don't.

If you want to shag a variety of women then do.  That is a reason.

You are over thinking it.
 

I think that sums it up perfectly.  :hi:

Offline ickydicky

can we get this right. you told your oh about your first punt. :dash:
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Someone much cleverer than me once said its better to regret the things you have done, than to regret those you havent.

I went through a similar thought process for a few years. Kept thinking to myself "I have only slept with 4 women in my life and am now in my mid 40's. Is this it ??" Looked at escort sights and always meant to book one but never did.
Then one day I woke up, manned up, and said to myself "Oh FFS try it! Book a girl! If I don't like it I will never do it again. But stop all this shall I, shan't I bollocks" So I booked an English lady of a similar age to myself, with good reviews, explained it was my first punt and loved every minute of it !!

I now tend to punt about once a month and look upon it as a hobby. Some people bet on horses, some people follow a football team all round the country, some people collect stamps, others tend a garden or breed whippets. I like to slip into a bit of strange / new pussy every once in a while.


can we get this right. you told your oh about your first punt. :dash:

She knew, yeah, and in fact it was partly her own idea - that was a pretty special relationship, very open-minded, and she was a bit of a one-off herself. I obviously wouldn't recommend this to anyone else.

IF you want to do it then you need to do it when all doubts have cleared - else the guilt will hit you when you are in the middle of a punt.

Make a choice,  you do it or don't do it.  If you don't then fine,  nothing ventured,  but you've got the clear conscience.

If you do go ahead with it,  then do it fully and properly with no doubts or guilt,  then you will have a great time (if you choose the right WG that is).

Any doubt then i think you will end up having a poor time.

I see where your coming from though.

Just do whatever you want.
The funny thing for me is that I have a short list of regulars spread across the country but when you look at AW its often like a kid in a candy shop.

Should I go for the safe option or try something new

Offline punther

Punting is emotionless sex

To me..its on par with wanking...just that its more expensive

When I've been in relationships in the past I've never felt guilt about having a wank

Maybe if you see it like this it will help put things in perspective

Offline smiths

If you have no reason to then don't.

If you want to shag a variety of women then do.  That is a reason.

You are over thinking it.

Spot on. :thumbsup: And I totally disagree with avoiding all EE WGs as someone posted above, avoid BAD EE WGs and indeed WGs of all nationalities. Use UKP to locate good WGs, there are many good EE WGs about as reviews show.

Offline tdh

At the risk of getting shot down, if ur OH is willing to sleep with you and offers the full range of 'services'  why pay for what you get get free.  We will always miss even with WG. Some may be too expensive....

What may look sweet can in fact be sour!

I'll get my coat now.


Offline ickydicky

At the risk of getting shot down, if ur OH is willing to sleep with you and offers the full range of 'services'  why pay for what you get get free.  We will always miss even with WG. Some may be too expensive....

What may look sweet can in fact be sour!

I'll get my coat now.

are you on the right site :(
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Offline ickydicky

Spot on. :thumbsup: And I totally disagree with avoiding all EE WGs as someone posted above, avoid BAD EE WGs and indeed WGs of all nationalities. Use UKP to locate good WGs, there are many good EE WGs about as reviews show.


no dont avoid all ee hoors. ive had great punts from czechs and poles. but avoid all gypos from romania.
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At the risk of getting shot down, if ur OH is willing to sleep with you and offers the full range of 'services'  why pay for what you get get free.  We will always miss even with WG. Some may be too expensive....

What may look sweet can in fact be sour!

I'll get my coat now.

I see you have been shot down already...but interestingly I agree with what you say here

IF you want to do it then you need to do it when all doubts have cleared - else the guilt will hit you when you are in the middle of a punt.



...or worse continuing days after ( I call it the three day effects :( ). However, who is to say it may not last longer and also affect how you view your partner.

It sounds like the OP is going to do it anyway but seeking posts to confirm that 'everything will be ok'. However, on a site like this he is not going to receive an 'objective' analysis.
« Last Edit: July 29, 2016, 04:27:43 PM by peter purves »


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