ParisB on Mumsnet helping wives catch their husbands

[mh]

An interesting first post for sure, how to win friends and influence people must be high on your reading list.

Clearly not someone trying to make friends, but the statement they quoted was a ridiculous post even before we had Jackanory from ParisB.

[mh]

Are you trying to pick a fight?


Blimey... I think we are going to have to top up on the popcorn lads... MH get an extra order from China mate, you're gonna make a killing at this rate

I have two containers arriving Monday - I'm not sure we can hold on that long!

[Bet Lynch]

Are you trying to pick a fight?

A fight?

No LOTM.

Just my two pences worth.

 I am sure you do speak sense usually I just think your initial comments yesterday showed lack of clear thinking.
 

[vorian]

They could post that but they would be jumped on by a few of us very quickly and they would probably be banned, well I would hope so anyway but on there we don't get informed if someone is banned so we never know if someone is banned or just left. 
However some people like Joey from the US or whatever he is calling himself write some awful shite about his clients and is still a member so I really don't know what their banning policy is.
However last year I did report someone who made a false dangerous client post as it was her ex and she was trying to make him look bad by putting all his personal details everywhere she could, saying he was a rapist and she was not banned. I guess one would have to ask the admin there

Thanks for your reply Dani, just find it very depressing as I do think SAAFE serves a purpose with regards to security info etc for newbies but it seems the Admin do have a view of punters which is quite twisted and I agree that Joey bloke seems more than happy to out his clients to wives etc and seems quite proud of that fact.

I wonder how long I would last on UKP if I went around saying how I enjoy outing prossies to their families and friends, I am betting not as long as Joey has. 

[CoolTiger]

Perfect timing for teatime.... Can I please have a hot dog with full trimmings, an extra-large salted popcorn, extra-large sweet popcorn, super-duper jumbo tango/fanta/merinda or cheap orange syrupy drink. large pack of minstrels and M&Ms and large tub of ice cream.

I'm not missing the premier tonight.

[smiths]

This thread is now the fourth top topic by replies on the stats list, i hope many have also read it as well as those of us who have posted on it.

[akauya]

Perfect timing for teatime.... Can I please have a hot dog with full trimmings, an extra-large salted popcorn, extra-large sweet popcorn, super-duper jumbo tango/fanta/merinda or cheap orange syrupy drink. large pack of minstrels and M&Ms and large tub of ice cream.

I'm not missing the premier tonight.

Jeesus CT watch the calories mate. I'm sticking to popcorn and a bottle of water (yeah I know) don't want to increase the size of my moobs do I?

Anyway... carry on lads and ladettes

[Bet Lynch]

Clearly not someone trying to make friends, but the statement they quoted was a ridiculous post even before we had Jackanory from ParisB.

Hi, I quoted LOTM who instead of analyzing would be eveidence, chose the opposite route.
Matty speaks a lot of sense so just chose a comment he had made to reply to him in general that he speaks sense, on this thread and on others.


I personally find it concerning that someone would want to out married men considering their occupation,and then blame it on a drug addled sister which is LOW imo.

A humble woman would have admitted her wrong doing.

Is there anything I have said which is incorrect?

If so please tell me.

[CoolTiger]

This thread is now the fourth top topic by replies on the stats list, i hope many have also read it as well as those of us who have posted on it.

Indeed,. I posted yesterday that it is having an adverse effect on the regional threads. although keeping a lot of us updated. I have opened up 2 tabs for UKP, one dedicated entirely to this thread.

[ladyofthemansion]

A fight?

No LOTM.

Just my two pences worth.

 I am sure you do speak sense usually I just think your initial comments yesterday showed lack of clear thinking.
 

No love! Had you read the thread you would have seen my post was written prior to Paris coming on.

[vorian]

Indeed,. I posted yesterday that it is having an adverse effect on the regional threads. although keeping a lot of us updated. I have opened up 2 tabs for UKP, one dedicated entirely to this thread.

Quite right CT

As to save those punters who have just joined having to hunt,here is ParisB AW profile link.

External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only

Oh and here is the other creature who seems to like outing punters as well.

External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only

[Dani]

Well I have just paid a whole 50p to ensure my blog about it is across the top scroller on the front page.  I have stated if they want to know who did this then pop along to Ukpunting and have a look.

I know the blogs on the scroller get read by a lot of clients so hopefully many more will pop along and read it

I shall just post it  daily for the next week hoping as many punters as possible see it

[cornbeefinspector]

Well I have just paid a whole 50p to ensure my blog about it is across the top scroller on the front page.  I have stated if they want to know who did this then pop along to Ukpunting and have a look.

I know the blogs on the scroller get read by a lot of clients so hopefully many more will pop along and read it

I shall just post it  daily for the next week hoping as many punters as possible see it

 you can get the 50p back by charging for bra removal . 5 punts should cover it 

[vorian]

Well I have just paid a whole 50p to ensure my blog about it is across the top scroller on the front page.  I have stated if they want to know who did this then pop along to Ukpunting and have a look.

I know the blogs on the scroller get read by a lot of clients so hopefully many more will pop along and read it

I shall just post it  daily for the next week hoping as many punters as possible see it

Good move Dani 

[finn5555]

Well I have just paid a whole 50p to ensure my blog about it is across the top scroller on the front page.  I have stated if they want to know who did this then pop along to Ukpunting and have a look.

I know the blogs on the scroller get read by a lot of clients so hopefully many more will pop along and read it

I shall just post it  daily for the next week hoping as many punters as possible see it

Link please Dani and we know your not touting 

[vorian]

Link please Dani and we know your not touting 

I don't think Dani will post a link, she knows the game too well, but if you could please PM your link Dani i would like to have a look.

[cornbeefinspector]

I don't think Dani will post a link, she knows the game too well, but if you could please PM your link Dani i would like to have a look.

me as well please dani

[SirFrank]

So has anyone heard from parisb via AW or the like? The fact that this thread is still going strongindicates the level of outrage on this matter. I'm still pmsl at TYT who apparently won't fuck a married man! The worst kind of hypocrit - I don't agree with fucking married men but I'll happily take their money and fuck them just don't tell me your married. What a fucking idiot

[CoolTiger]

Link please Dani and we know your not touting 

External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only

In the Blogs Tab.

[Rock123]

What a bitch that ParisB is.

[vorian]

So has anyone heard from parisb via AW or the like? The fact that this thread is still going strongindicates the level of outrage on this matter. I'm still pmsl at TYT who apparently won't fuck a married man! The worst kind of hypocrit - I don't agree with fucking married men but I'll happily take their money and fuck them just don't tell me your married. What a fucking idiot

I am closely monitoring ParisB's AW profile for any changes just the AW FR hidden for now and also her SAAFE account nothing so far. Of course nothing on PN or SAAFE about this. The Mumsnet post from last night has been deleted but still viewable on this thread.

I am sure ParisB is hoping that keeping her head down and her mouth shut will result is people getting bored and forgetting this.

[vorian]

Well I have just paid a whole 50p to ensure my blog about it is across the top scroller on the front page.  I have stated if they want to know who did this then pop along to Ukpunting and have a look.

I know the blogs on the scroller get read by a lot of clients so hopefully many more will pop along and read it

I shall just post it  daily for the next week hoping as many punters as possible see it

Just read your blog Dani  well done for putting your money where your mouth is (No pun intended). Shame more WG's don't follow your lead in this matter. As you said it reflects very badly on all prossies and affects everyone's earning potential. 

[Hellraiser]

Well I have just paid a whole 50p to ensure my blog about it is across the top scroller on the front page.  I have stated if they want to know who did this then pop along to Ukpunting and have a look.

I know the blogs on the scroller get read by a lot of clients so hopefully many more will pop along and read it

I shall just post it  daily for the next week hoping as many punters as possible see it

You did a very good thing Dani. My opinion of you has completely changed. Well done.

[Kram]

Way to step up to the plate dani

[James999]

It seems a fair comment to me, why be so agressive to a new member ?

Are you trying to pick a fight?

LOTM,you really utter some shite at times, here and elsewhere

[Hellraiser]

It seems a fair comment to me, why be so agressive to a new member ?

Because the truth hurts LotM 

[Dani]

It didn't really need a link to my profle page because as soon as AW update it will be on the home page scroller

I cant put it on Saafe and %%% wont be putting it up but I will as she made a fool of me as well as everyone else.  We were emailing yesterday and she was telling me it really wasn't her so it must have been her sister and I sort of believed her. I think I wanted to believe her as I didn't want to believe that someone I respected and looked up to for the way she worked would do something like this.  Yes I am a trusting TWAT!!.

At least this way an awful lot of punters will pop on here to find out who it is and will be warned to be very careful of her

[Roland D Hay]

I do like the idea of a dangerous prossie thread but I think you would have to give the word 'dangerous' some definition. I can think of two I'd class as dangerous because their behaviour has been extremely threatening and abusive.

This cunt... https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=20426.0

And another prossie who I made the mistake of seeing for 4 weeks before realising she was a fucking loon. She was going to 'sue me for breach of contract' cos in her fantasy world we were getting married despite the fact that I'd seen her around 10 times.  The upshot of all this was that she emailed damaging material to my work and my home and had to be arrested before she stopped harassing me. Now perhaps we can exempt this one because I made the fucking stupid mistake of overstepping boundaries, something I will never do again but I tend to agree with Matty, most of them are seriously fucked up in the head and I never divulge any personal information whatsoever because my default position now is always that I'm dealing with an individual who is potentially very dangerous

[Dani]

my default position now is always that I'm dealing with an individual who is potentially very dangerous

Now this is the right way to think of it when it comes to disclosing details.  Some escorts are sane and not vindictive, some are very sane and  very vindictive and some are just plain loopy and don't think anything of causing trouble for someone else.

I have trusted a coupe of clients with all my details as well as my bank details as they prefer to pay that way but I also know everything about them as have been seeing them from week one.  However only two of them know anything about me and I try to not know anything about anyone else.  Its the idle chat that causes problems so I try to never have idle chat.  If you want to talk between rounds talk about politics, economy, religion, books or movies just not idle banter

[vorian]

I do like the idea of a dangerous prossie thread but I think you would have to give the word 'dangerous' some definition. I can think of two I'd class as dangerous because their behaviour has been extremely threatening and abusive.

This cunt... https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=20426.0

And another prossie who I made the mistake of seeing for 4 weeks before realising she was a fucking loon. She was going to 'sue me for breach of contract' cos in her fantasy world we were getting married despite the fact that I'd seen her around 10 times.  The upshot of all this was that she emailed damaging material to my work and my home and had to be arrested before she stopped harassing me. Now perhaps we can exempt this one because I made the fucking stupid mistake of overstepping boundaries, something I will never do again but I tend to agree with Matty, most of them are seriously fucked up in the head and I never divulge any personal information whatsoever because my default position now is always that I'm dealing with an individual who is potentially very dangerous

Agreed which is why the earlier suggestion to have Nik or Adam decide seems to be a popular choice but just means more work for them of course. It does seem the whole outing by a prossie appears to be the number one sin. On both sides of the fence, so if someone was trying to out you by sending emails to your work then yes I personally would class that as dangerous. A prossy not giving a service or messing a punter around could be dealt with with the normal warnings on reviews and regional sections.

[vorian]

Now this is the right way to think of it when it comes to disclosing details.  Some escorts are sane and not vindictive, some are very sane and  very vindictive and some are just plain loopy and don't think anything of causing trouble for someone else.

I have trusted a coupe of clients with all my details as well as my bank details as they prefer to pay that way but I also know everything about them as have been seeing them from week one.  However only two of them know anything about me and I try to not know anything about anyone else.  Its the idle chat that causes problems so I try to never have idle chat.  If you want to talk between rounds talk about politics, economy, religion, books or movies just not idle banter

"Loose Talk Can Cost Lives" an important point to remember for both punters and prossies.

[ladyofthemansion]

Because the truth hurts LotM 

No. I don't mind being insulted by most of you on here. But a new girl on her first post! No way! She needs to learn her place!

[cornbeefinspector]

No. I don't mind being insulted by most of you on here. But a new girl on her first post! No way! She needs to learn her place!

handbags 

[Roland D Hay]

But a new girl on her first post! No way! She needs to learn her place!

'Learn her place'? It's an internet chat forum, perhaps you need to get some perspective.

[Daffodil]

Are you trying to pick a fight?

You were talking shit and she's called you on it. As have others, including myself.

It was obvious right from the start what had happened, before Paris responded, but you couldn't help but post shit. I said at the time you'd be made to look a fool.

I notice you haven't subsequently apologised or castigated ParisB 

[Daffodil]

You did a very good thing Dani. My opinion of you has completely changed. Well done.

I agree. Well done Dani! 

[Daffodil]

No. I don't mind being insulted by most of you on here. But a new girl on her first post! No way! She needs to learn her place!

I suggest it's you who needs to learn your place 

Jumping straight to the defence of a prossie who actively try's to out punters? 

[bristolbcfc]

My first post.

I've been lurking on here for nearly 6 months and finally to the plunge about 2 months ago, i've seen a few escorts in the Bristol area since then and one of them is the lady in question.

Has anyone actually been confronted by wife/gf yet? Any advice would be welcome. I'm happily married with a family.

To say i'm $hitting myself is a massive understatement.

[vorian]

My first post.

I've been lurking on here for nearly 6 months and finally to the plunge about 2 months ago, i've seen a few escorts in the Bristol area since then and one of them is the lady in question.

Has anyone actually been confronted by wife/gf yet? Any advice would be welcome. I'm happily married with a family.

To say i'm $hitting myself is a massive understatement.

I would not worry too much the whole point is not ParisB was outing her own clients but she was offering help to Mumsnet to use her knowledge of AW to help them expose their own husbands. There is no direct suggestion that ParisB was doing this to her own clients. There are lots of threads on this site regarding how to protect yourself from being found out by family etc. Most are just basic common sense but have a look around and ask questions if you feel you need to.

[James999]

To say i'm $hitting myself is a massive understatement.

Snap your Sim card and throw it away and delete your AW profile (if you have one) 

[af1231]

This is probably the most interesting topic I have ever read on a punting forum. I find it stupid that this woman would ruin her reputation by outing the very same people who pay her

[ladyofthemansion]

I suggest it's you who needs to learn your place 

Jumping straight to the defence of a prossie who actively try's to out punters? 

Even murderers get a defence. Was just trying to figure out what else could have caused it as I could not believe Paris would do that.

[Daffodil]

Even murderers get a defence. Was just trying to figure out what else could have caused it as I could not believe Paris would do that.

You came up with totally stupid excuses that made you look foolish and still haven't condemned what Paris did.

You've been talking shit and have been called on it 

[James999]

Even murderers get a defence.

But they are normally allowed to make a statement before other murderers start to say how and why they are innocent, despite them having no idea  what happened

[Hellraiser]

It didn't really need a link to my profle page because as soon as AW update it will be on the home page scroller

I cant put it on Saafe and %%% wont be putting it up but I will as she made a fool of me as well as everyone else.  We were emailing yesterday and she was telling me it really wasn't her so it must have been her sister and I sort of believed her. I think I wanted to believe her as I didn't want to believe that someone I respected and looked up to for the way she worked would do something like this.  Yes I am a trusting TWAT!!.

At least this way an awful lot of punters will pop on here to find out who it is and will be warned to be very careful of her

No need to be so hard on yourself Dani. You were obviously close and got got caught up in her web of lies and deceit. Everyone makes mistakes.

I think that you may have felt because she is also a prostitute, that she may be more honest with you, have a little bit more integrity as you do the same thing. Obviously not, as you have seen. For all you know, she may be sweetness and light with you, but talking behind your back and bitching about you to the punters that she sees so that they never book you.

A prostitute who lies and destroys clients lives will happily destroy a fellow prostitutes life too.

[Dani]

Even murderers get a defence. Was just trying to figure out what else could have caused it as I could not believe Paris would do that.

You and me both and after re reading the posts on MN I feel really foolish, I had not seen those posts before but had seen her other posts about her dogs etc as I used to be a member until I got banned. I saw her other posts about dogs, as a bull breed owner I often read those threads.  As soon as it was made public with the other posts placed on here I realised that the dogs and family posts were indeed Paris as I knew what the other posts about dogs contained even though she has deleted them.  the replies are still there and make it quite clear who it is.  A quick search on MN gave her real name, all about her extended family (no mention of a sister at all)her dogs breedswhich she talks about on saafe a lot , the same car she has mentioned on saafe  as well as boob implants and lipo and the locations she was going to were the same she had worked and the spelling mistakes were the same as Paris.  as I said in my blog, siblings can be very alike but not so alike they write the same way with exactly the same spelling mistakes

[Daffodil]

Even murderers get a defence. Was just trying to figure out what else could have caused it as I could not believe Paris would do that.

Your 'defence' for ParisB was that somebody had studied her posts and then created a fake mumsnet account and posted similar information to ParisB. This person then waited patiently for almost two years for the thread and post to be spotted, presumably checking UKP daily. As soon it was spotted the imposter then had all the posts deleted (so that ParisB would look more guilty  ) and hoped somebody would link the two.

And then you take offence because people say you're posting shit? 

[Dani]

Well someone has complained and had my blog deleted. I guess I shall have to just write it again

[Daffodil]

Well someone has complained and had my blog deleted. I guess I shall have to just write it again

On what grounds could they complain?

[ladyofthemansion]

Your 'defence' for ParisB was that somebody had studied her posts and then created a fake mumsnet account and posted similar information to ParisB. This person then waited patiently for almost two years for the thread and post to be spotted, presumably checking UKP daily. As soon it was spotted the imposter then had all the posts deleted (so that ParisB would look more guilty  ) and hoped somebody would link the two.

And then you take offence because people say you're posting shit? 

I never said I was offended. I take on board what a lot of you have said but certainly not taking it from an anonymous prossie's first post.