I apologise if my last post sounds like a bit of a rant, I've actually been following this thread for the past couple of days and the more I think about it, the more it winds me up.
I wouldn't consider your previous a rant?! We shall see if admin do anything about her on SAAFE or auto-censored.
To my mind, she is a very dangerous person. We debate sometimes but it's only a forum. We all have our real lives. Well at least some of us! If a person, man or woman, acts in a detrimental way, effecting a anothers real life, that is disgraceful. Why an attached man chooses to punt is none of our business. Why a woman decides to become a prostitute is none of our business.
I'll provide you a real life example and personal dilemma. I have a friend who has a wife, family and lovely home. I knew for a fact that his wife had been unfaithful to him, with a friend of mine. Did I tell him? Part of me said I should, but I was aware it was a fling, so decided that it was best to leave it. It wasn't my business and why ruin his whole life, as it surely would've done. His children are then brought up without a father and he may have struggled to get access to the children he loves.