If ever you were in doubt about the morals and gear of Seeking good old "herb" from secret benefits pops along and tells us the score
You may not be aware of this, but when you become a sugar daddy, you are carrying the banner for a long line of sugar daddies who came before you. It is a long-standing custom, which goes back generations, and it is a responsibility to be taken seriously. Historically, the benefits of entering into a mutually beneficial agreement with a young object of desire have been, well... self-evident, but it was an option that was only open to men of considerable means and social stature.
Now, of course... times have changed. The internet has leveled the playing field and brought people from both ends of the equation (both sugar babies and sugar daddies) into the sugar bowl who previously would not have found themselves there. It is now easier to discreetly search, communicate, and set up relationships with like-minded people than ever before.
Because of this new accessibility, you may have wondered to yourself whether you have what it takes to be a sugar daddy. The door is there, where it wasn't before... but you want to know whether or not you have any business actually opening it, and walking through.
If you have paused to have this thought... first of all, congratulate yourself on being smart and self-aware enough to avoid acting upon assumption, and respecting the custom enough to not simply go poking around where you don't belong. Bravo! Now, since you are clearly interested in becoming a sugar daddy, simply peruse the below list of what I feel are the necessary qualities that a sugar daddy must have, so that you can act accordingly when (and if) you decide to take your first steps into the sugar bowl.
A sugar daddy always has his sugar baby's needs in mind. Most guys think only in terms of what their relationship can do for them. Such one-sided thinking won't win you any points in the sugar bowl. When you take your sugar baby's needs as a priority, she will respond in kind and make sure you are taken care of.
A sugar daddy is a gentleman, and treats his ladies with respect. Sugar babies don't just prefer sugar daddies because they are wealthy. They come to the sugar bowl for the 4-star treatment they receive. This extends beyond how well he incentivizes her, and includes good manners and a sense of chivalry. Act accordingly, remember?
A sugar daddy is generous. Again, this goes beyond merely providing his sugar babies with an incentive to date him. He takes care of the check, he greases the wheels with unexpected surprises and gifts, and above all has a generous spirit. Treat every expenditure like it's no big deal, instead of treating her like she owes you something in return, and you'll come off looking like the perfect man.
Until next time, Cheers!
Herb Rose
