Just stick to pay as you go
Hassle free...
No bullshit/straight to the point.
All this tinder/ seeking Arrangements prostitution in disguises.
that's part of the appeal though, a bit of delusion both ways.
She gets to think 'well I've shagged worse IRL, why not do this as he's an alright bloke and I get a few quid - i can walk away so im not an escort'
He gets to think 'she's not just after my money, she's far more choice in this'
The money is far more of a factor than both parties care to admit, but the meets being longer and less mechanical leads to, IMO, better more fulfilling sex.
If you have the time to hammer text tennis there are women on there who aren't all about money - though you'll put in man hours and still buy meals, hotel, taxis that rack up to more than a well reviewed hour with an AW girl. And no guarantees either - I've had no shows with hotels booked, no shows when I've travelled for hours, girls who've talked the talk and then been one round of meh sex and we're together for 18 hours. Also had girls who I've got a hotel room with and they didn't put out. Its very much a gamble.
If looking for a straight up shag - I have a pof profile set up 10 years past my real age, to get over pofs age restrictions for messages, and target milfs. My profile is blunt and makes it clear what im looking for and I'll be chivalrous (buying the rounds/hotel rather than buying them stuff), its a case of chuck enough shit at a wall and some sticks. Its a better hit rate than with girls 35 and under