hookup apps, sites

[midlandz_boy88]

Hi
fed up of punting now, and its expensive. looking for a hookup so i can have sex more often without paying and a bit of a connection.

does anyone know of decent apps/sites. tried tinder and it seems you have to be a model or be perfect looks wise to succeed on there.  also most of the girls just want insta followers.

is there any others, tried pof, and also seeking arrangment, no luck.

[datwabbit]

Looks like you're not having any luck on the popular ones.

Why not try getting off with a girl in a bar?
Why not try swinging online?
Why not try swinging in a club?

If you're still getting no response, at least you'll remember why you started punting in the first place.

[viceboy]

Looks like you're not having any luck on the popular ones.

Why not try getting off with a girl in a bar?
Why not try swinging online?
Why not try swinging in a club?

If you're still getting no response, at least you'll remember why you started punting in the first place.

Haha...all roads lead back to punting   

[midlandz_boy88]

Looks like you're not having any luck on the popular ones.

Why not try getting off with a girl in a bar?
Why not try swinging online?
Why not try swinging in a club?

If you're still getting no response, at least you'll remember why you started punting in the first place.

Yes one of the main reasons for punting. No luck nywhere. Glad i found this hobby as it garantees sex. I may try swinging sites

[TailSeeker]

Maybe try OKC, but honestly, unless you've got good photos, you will struggle as a guy on apps/sites. Men vastly outnumber women, so women can be picky. That is the reality of online dating. Patience is key.

[Waterhouse]

Hi
fed up of punting now, and its expensive. looking for a hookup so i can have sex more often without paying and a bit of a connection.

does anyone know of decent apps/sites. tried tinder and it seems you have to be a model or be perfect looks wise to succeed on there.  also most of the girls just want insta followers.

is there any others, tried pof, and also seeking arrangment, no luck.

I don't know much about it, or if you're into vanilla or kink/alt stuff, but if the latter you could investigate fetlife? 

[stampjones]

Hi
fed up of punting now, and its expensive. looking for a hookup so i can have sex more often without paying and a bit of a connection.

does anyone know of decent apps/sites. tried tinder and it seems you have to be a model or be perfect looks wise to succeed on there.  also most of the girls just want insta followers.

is there any others, tried pof, and also seeking arrangment, no luck.

For sll its recent protestations, seeking is closer to AW than it is to PoF so if you were expecting a relationship you were in the wrong place. You need to offer money (usually)

[king tarzan]

My friends on there..
Amount of munters on there  is just incredible..
But he gets LAID

[Fabaceous]

My friends on there..
Amount of munters on there  is just incredible..
But he gets LAID

Which one Tarzan?

[king tarzan]

Which one Tarzan?

Tinder

[Waterhouse]

Which one Tarzan?

Cheeta   



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[king tarzan]

Cheeta   



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Which 1 am I ? 

[old fart]

I tried shagcity a few years ago big claims. In truth experience crap, got dumped by text after booking a hotel  . Most of the older ladies only wanted cyber fun and would not meet even for a coffee, at around a £1 per text it get very expensive and you can rack up hundreds of pounds quickly. I had one claiming she lived in Shropshire, then Nottingham and finally admitted she was in Ipswich. Good luck to anybody who had success but it was an expensive waste of time as far as I am concerned. Not tried any others after that 

Old fart

[Waterhouse]

Which 1 am I ? 

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[MrArmagh]

a single friend of mine who's in his mid 40's says tinder is a gold mine, just be clear on what you want really and you will find girls for the most part want the same thing.

he also says POF Plenty of fish is a gold mine but I'm not sure as after seeing one time the amount of men messaging a lady friend of mine is crazy.

she made a profile up with a fake pic, nothing to naughty or suggestive in her profile and with in an hour she must have got 50/60 men messaging her all trying to either start a conversation or just plainly saying ' wanna fuck' or something on them lines.

so what ever app you use remember if there's woman on there there probably will be at least twice as many men.

[winkywanky]

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Kouros

 

[datwabbit]

Yes one of the main reasons for punting. No luck nywhere. Glad i found this hobby as it garantees sex. I may try swinging sites

Swinging can be depressing too. Free sex is even harder.

I'd go to swingers clubs. More expensive than online swinging because of membership and no guarantee of success, but better to mingle with real people then get frustrated at a web site.

[Turtle1]

Looks like you're not having any luck on the popular ones.

Why not try getting off with a girl in a bar?
Why not try swinging online?
Why not try swinging in a club?

If you're still getting no response, at least you'll remember why you started punting in the first place.

 

[Waterhouse]

Kouros

 

 

[Fabaceous]

The problem with Tinder is I have younger relatives that use it too! I am married so can just imaging my niece finding me!!

[datwabbit]

a single friend of mine who's in his mid 40's says tinder is a gold mine, just be clear on what you want really and you will find girls for the most part want the same thing.

he also says POF Plenty of fish is a gold mine but I'm not sure as after seeing one time the amount of men messaging a lady friend of mine is crazy.

she made a profile up with a fake pic, nothing to naughty or suggestive in her profile and with in an hour she must have got 50/60 men messaging her all trying to either start a conversation or just plainly saying ' wanna fuck' or something on them lines.

so what ever app you use remember if there's woman on there there probably will be at least twice as many men.

Pof limits who you can interact based on your age. You can also get banned if you try to say you're younger.

Tinder has some kind of algorithm around who it shows you. I'm sure 100% swipe rights will stop it showing you people.

It's a science I'm sure.

[datwabbit]

I don't know much about it, or if you're into vanilla or kink/alt stuff, but if the latter you could investigate fetlife? 

Fetlife is a good one. Plenty of socials to meet women. Just learn your knots always make sure you're sitting next to submissive men, as it improves your self confidence with women.

[king tarzan]

Kouros

 

I bought some yesterday 

[Waterhouse]

Fetlife is a good one. Plenty of socials to meet women. Just learn your knots always make sure you're sitting next to submissive men, as it improves your self confidence with women.

Same philosophy as hanging out with folks who are fatter than you if you want to look slimmer.   

[Chaos]

Anyone tried What’s your price? Think it may be linked in some way to SA

[hungrypunt]

Anyone tried What’s your price? Think it may be linked in some way to SA

Yes, its a halfway house between prossie and SA, but Ive had a few women on there. Same old story tho pay to message, By far th best success ive had is SA. But I wont go on about it, it just works fo rme.

Tinder and pof you can set your profile to say your looking for a sugar babe, and youll be surprised at the repsone rate. They are all seeing gash, they just dont want to
A, admit it
B, be professional and go full time

Some of em arent selling it for cold hard cash, may be gifts, holidays, nights out , rent whatever but its a sellers market if youve got a fanny.

[stampjones]

Anyone tried What’s your price? Think it may be linked in some way to SA

Seems to be trying to be competition to SA but had zero success there

[midlandz_boy88]

Thanks all will try pof and tinder. I guess will still punt while i find

[king tarzan]

Just stick to pay as you go
Hassle free...
No bullshit/straight to the point.

All this tinder/ seeking Arrangements prostitution in disguises.

[Bigsteve69]

Try fab swingers

But be warned if punting is your hobby this is very different. As someone else has said women vastly outnumber blokes so even sweaty fat slags can be picky. Had some success but fuck me its hard work lol. After youve went to the effort for sometimes weeks using your best wit and banter you finally get a meet and realise you are there only to please this woman who bears no resemblance at all to the photos you've been wanking over leading up to the meet.

Stick to punting!!!

[TPreston]

Just stick to pay as you go
Hassle free...
No bullshit/straight to the point.

All this tinder/ seeking Arrangements prostitution in disguises.

that's part of the appeal though, a bit of delusion both ways.

She gets to think 'well I've shagged worse IRL, why not do this as he's an alright bloke and I get a few quid - i can walk away so im not an escort'

He gets to think 'she's not just after my money, she's far more choice in this'

The money is far more of a factor than both parties care to admit, but the meets being longer and less mechanical leads to, IMO, better more fulfilling sex.

If you have the time to hammer text tennis there are women on there who aren't all about money - though you'll put in man hours and still buy meals, hotel, taxis that rack up to more than a well reviewed hour with an AW girl. And no guarantees either - I've had no shows with hotels booked, no shows when I've travelled for hours, girls who've talked the talk and then been one round of meh sex and we're together for 18 hours. Also had girls who I've got a hotel room with and they didn't put out. Its very much a gamble. 


If looking for a straight up shag - I have a pof profile set up 10 years past my real age, to get over pofs age restrictions for messages, and target milfs. My profile is blunt and makes it clear what im looking for and I'll be chivalrous (buying the rounds/hotel rather than buying them stuff), its a case of chuck enough shit at a wall and some sticks. Its a better hit rate than with girls 35 and under

[cunningman]

Seems to be trying to be competition to SA but had zero success there

It was a new one to me: it looks to me like they've 'borrowed' some/most profiles from a LTR site.

[Marcusnash187]

Try POF ive got quite abit of fanny on there.

[lebon121]

Just stick to pay as you go
Hassle free...
No bullshit/straight to the point.

All this tinder/ seeking Arrangements prostitution in disguises.

You are definitely right .
The best site to hook up without any protocols is adultwork (Straight to the aim).
SA or tinder are all bullshit. Wasting of time and money by subscribing and chatting.

[BingoHJ]

Tinder, bumble, SA and even Instagram - I am on all these platforms and you can see the same girls on all of them!

Difficult to get a response on Instagram - either bots or scammers.

AW is straightforward.

Yet to get a proper match on Tinder or bumble.

[SN5]

Tinder, bumble, SA and even Instagram - I am on all these platforms and you can see the same girls on all of them!

Difficult to get a response on Instagram - either bots or scammers.

AW is straightforward.

Yet to get a proper match on Tinder or bumble.

Take a leaf out of the female book and airbrush some photos of yourself from 5-10 yrs ago. Or catfish clever.

Works for me, I'm no oil painting and I've got two like-minded girls on the go, both better than what I've got at home

[wheeliebinwanking]

I tried POF but agree very hard work

Tinder same.

POF though I had some success with, I would say my strike rate was like 1% lol

I'd say however for those with OH's Tinder / POF is a harder sell. I was honest in my profile and got a lot of abuse back

SA FTW!

WBW

[SN5]

Using "dating" sites is a numbers game. For every 100 matches, 20 will get into conversation, 10 will last more than a couple of days, 5 will happily chat on WhatsApp etc, and 1 will be up for hookups.

It does take a lot of time and effort keeping it all going, but worth it in the long run if the quality at the end is good.

[DubCee]

Fetlife is a good one. Plenty of socials to meet women. Just learn your knots always make sure you're sitting next to submissive men, as it improves your self confidence with women.

Couldnt agree more. Joined on there and in less than two weeks banged a fit American girl while her submissive boyfriend watched-hotel expenses and dinner all paid for! Im on to the next one!

[winkywanky]

Couldnt agree more. Joined on there and in less than two weeks banged a fit American girl while her submissive boyfriend watched-hotel expenses and dinner all paid for! Im on to the next one!

...you got to shag a hot American bird, all expenses paid?

I hope you plastered her face with your spunk at the end (all for the benefit of her hubby of course  ).

[Autopunter]

Looks like you're not having any luck on the popular ones.

Why not try getting off with a girl in a bar?
Why not try swinging online?
Why not try swinging in a club?

If you're still getting no response, at least you'll remember why you started punting in the first place.

 

[DubCee]

...you got to shag a hot American bird, all expenses paid?

I hope you plastered her face with your spunk at the end (all for the benefit of her hubby of course  ).

Honestly speaking, i was as nervous as fuck initially as the whole experience was surreal-it was my first ever cuckolding exeprience. After i calmed down and got into the swing of things, i enjoyed myself. Im trying to see if they would be up for it again when they are next in London.

[winkywanky]

Honestly speaking, i was as nervous as fuck initially as the whole experience was surreal-it was my first ever cuckolding exeprience. After i calmed down and got into the swing of things, i enjoyed myself. Im trying to see if they would be up for it again when they are next in London.

Ask them if they want a gangbang scenario, and be sure to PM me 

[jamieb28]

I tried shagcity a few years ago big claims. In truth experience crap, got dumped by text after booking a hotel  . Most of the older ladies only wanted cyber fun and would not meet even for a coffee, at around a £1 per text it get very expensive and you can rack up hundreds of pounds quickly. I had one claiming she lived in Shropshire, then Nottingham and finally admitted she was in Ipswich. Good luck to anybody who had success but it was an expensive waste of time as far as I am concerned. Not tried any others after that 

Old fart

omg ffs lol you know that site is fake, they employ people to answer the messages, you will have been speaking to operatives ( male & female ) being paid 10p a reply working from home. how do i know? my ex did it lol

[portaluser1991]

Yes, its a halfway house between prossie and SA, but Ive had a few women on there. Same old story tho pay to message, By far th best success ive had is SA. But I wont go on about it, it just works fo rme.

Tinder and pof you can set your profile to say your looking for a sugar babe, and youll be surprised at the repsone rate. They are all seeing gash, they just dont want to
A, admit it
B, be professional and go full time

Some of em arent selling it for cold hard cash, may be gifts, holidays, nights out , rent whatever but its a sellers market if youve got a fanny.

What is SA like? It just looks like lots of fake ads and nothing genuine on there.

POF is ok but they have cleaned it all up. The problem is that you can't meet anyone less than something like 10 years younger than you.
I go out and to in the evening to places where I am around women in their 20's and some of them have been attracted to me. So I don't see why I should be blocked from dating them online.
It's a bit of strange filtering decision on that site.

[wheeliebinwanking]

What is SA like? It just looks like lots of fake ads and nothing genuine on there.

POF is ok but they have cleaned it all up. The problem is that you can't meet anyone less than something like 10 years younger than you.
I go out and to in the evening to places where I am around women in their 20's and some of them have been attracted to me. So I don't see why I should be blocked from dating them online.
It's a bit of strange filtering decision on that site.

POF is Indeed strange and I did wonder about age filters....

SA is absolutely not full of fake ads... it's my preferred avenue

WBW

[portaluser1991]

POF is Indeed strange and I did wonder about age filters....

SA is absolutely not full of fake ads... it's my preferred avenue

WBW

SA just seem a bit too much to join to chase posters that saying that they only want gifts, meals and no sex.

There are some pros and I don't mean as in Escorts, that are doing that on dating sites just to get things out of men.

Years ago I met this woman and she wanted all the shebang, meal and fancy night out. Then got home and she said thanks but we didn't click.

She probably went out again the following week and done it someone else and I was £100 down.

[sparkus]

Tinder, saw a close relative and deleted profile immediately.

POF years ago had me some fun but knocked it on the head when I opened up the site after a duration away to find a message from someone I knew asking if me and OH had split up!

Seriously not worth the risk for me.

[SN5]

Tinder, saw a close relative and deleted profile immediately.

POF years ago had me some fun but knocked it on the head when I opened up the site after a duration away to find a message from someone I knew asking if me and OH had split up!

Seriously not worth the risk for me.

This is why you should use a photo of someone who looks very like you, but not your own photo. Then unmatched that person when you move to WhatsApp, so they can't cross-check the photos. Has been a very successful method for me.

[sparkus]

This is why you should use a photo of someone who looks very like you, but not your own photo. Then unmatched that person when you move to WhatsApp, so they can't cross-check the photos. Has been a very successful method for me.

I'm not aware of anyone who looks like me. No Brad Pitt jokes, please (Brad Pitta Bread, maybe)