Have you ever met a WG that has blown other WGs away and you now only do her?

[raja]

Hi

Have you ever met a WG that has blown other WGs away and you now only do her?

Thanks

R

[Roland D Hay]

I've met a few that have blown me away so I do all of them, why settle for one if you're paying.

[bigmc]

Hi, new here, but not to punting.

I started to see this lady regularly for a while..
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She is very good at what she does.
I have not seen her for a while as the excitement will wear off if I get too much of a good thing.

[Rochdull lad]

Hi

Have you ever met a WG that has blown other WGs away and you now only do her?

Thanks

R

Have a look at this thread https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=16474.0, raja.

Been there, did that; and resolved never to do it again - it can be dangerous to your emotional health.

[GrumpyoldGit]

Yes I have.
In fact I am still seeing her even though I have tried not to.
The reasons are plain when you read the link that RL has provided.
I have tried seeing a couple of other girls since, but have always left feeling deflated and wishing I had not been to them.

None have compared to my regular.

[CoolTiger]

Been there and done that.

If I do, I tend to visit her quite a few times (at this stage, why chance on a a new punt, where outcome unknown).

As quite a few have said, sooner or later, novelty may wear off, Wg may take you for granted, etc, etc. so you may decide to move on (still see her, but not as often).

Also, lately, having been here for a while and openly discussing AW girls, I now have a to do list as long as arm, such that it will be difficult to make to through the whole list, as the ones being added have been highly recommended by well known punters on here or whom I regularly exchange emails with.

Have not been attached emotionally to any of them..... yet.

[raja]

Anyone met anything so addictive in West London????

[vorian]

Hi

Have you ever met a WG that has blown other WGs away and you now only do her?,

Thanks

R

Short answer yes, however it is not something I would say is a good thing for everyone. Emotional attachment syndrome is a real danger for some punters. It is important to always understand the reality of punting, at best it is a successful business transaction. Some punters can get confused, I am lucky as I am able to compartmentalise what I do and still benefit from an improved service, which is tailored to my individual needs. Still I always expect the punt to be my last one as the WG may and often does disappear also there is often a deterioration in the level of service a punter receives from a regular. A lot of it comes down to the individual and how you manage the working relationship, if you begin to treat her like a paid girlfriend then she may start to subconsciously act like a girlfriend with all the contempt and lack of focus that brings. If you continue to treat her as a service supplier hopefully excellent customer service will continue. If not well you find another, as long as you remember that, it can work.

Some punters of course will have a totally different opinion and never wish to see the same girl twice or have a rota of regulars that is a very valid choice of course. Personally I like to find a "Good" one and spend the time and money training her to fit my individual needs.   

[smiths]

Hi

Have you ever met a WG that has blown other WGs away and you now only do her?

Thanks

R

No, but i have punted with many good WGs that were excellent and became regulars who i punted with a lot until i got bored. I require variety which is a main reason i punt so one WG however good wouldnt be sufficient for me.

[hendrix]

Well, sort of. Anybody that knows me here knows that I nearly always punt with KDD because I think she's that good, and delivers exactly what I want every time in every pervy situation I can come up with. Personally, I'm long past the stage of straightforward 1-2-1 MOST of the time, so having a regular that's up for all sorts of shenanigans really helps.  However, the key word there is "nearly". I have a few other regulars I still see if I'm in the mood for what they bring. Emotional attachment can happen, and isn't really healthy for anyone. Like vorian, I find I am able to separate my two lives, "real" and "punting" quite effectively from an emotional point of view, regardless of how "fond" I might be of my regular girls. It's business.

[Corus Boy]

Yes, to having met someone especially good and have returned many times but never exclusively as I always think there might be someone better.

[Daffodil]

Nope 

[carlisle78]

In the year I've been punting I've established a few regulars who I have seen many times - and I would be upset to see them retire. But that's inevitable and so I think it's important to always be looking for new girls as well.

[raja]

Well, sort of. Anybody that knows me here knows that I nearly always punt with KDD because I think she's that good, and delivers exactly what I want every time in every pervy situation I can come up with. Personally, I'm long past the stage of straightforward 1-2-1 MOST of the time, so having a regular that's up for all sorts of shenanigans really helps.  However, the key word there is "nearly". I have a few other regulars I still see if I'm in the mood for what they bring. Emotional attachment can happen, and isn't really healthy for anyone. Like vorian, I find I am able to separate my two lives, "real" and "punting" quite effectively from an emotional point of view, regardless of how "fond" I might be of my regular girls. It's business.

KDD???

[hendrix]

KDD???

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[akauya]

Nope 

Me neither. I like variety 

[SirPhilipXX]

Me neither. I like variety 

Isn't that one of the main reasons why punting is addictive - the variety?

 Not much fun going to the sweet shop every week if you only ever buy a Snickers bar 

[Jay-Jay]

Nope...it's not what I'm looking for to be honest though strangely many punters are. I punt because I've done all the relationship stuff,seen the film,got the t-shirt etc. Now I can have the variety!
I do admit to having favourites who are great for the guaranteed good clear-out of the pipes.

Jay

[vorian]

Isn't that one of the main reasons why punting is addictive - the variety?

 Not much fun going to the sweet shop every week if you only ever buy a Snickers bar 

For some and perhaps most I would agree. To use your example I prefer to find a sweet shop who in exchange for my regular custom are prepared to contact Mars and get them to change the recipe and contents of the Snickers Bar to meet my tastes. That way I know my treat will always satisfy my appetite even if it is not to everyone's particular taste. I might become bored yes maybe but that is when I ask for the special edition Snickers.

[Jvosta]

Emotional attachment syndrome is a real danger for some punters.

I'm fighting this at the moment, unfortunately.
so much so that I don't even want to read her reviews/field reports...
Of course I want her to do well and have a successful business.....I just don't want to know the details.

*In before anyone calls me a cunt* 

[vorian]

I'm fighting this at the moment, unfortunately.
so much so that I don't even want to read her reviews/field reports...
Of course I want her to do well and have a successful business.....I just don't want to know the details.

*In before anyone calls me a cunt*

You are not a cunt it does happen, the most important thing is you recognise the problem and can do something about it. The fear of reading about the WG's reviews etc, does seem to be an indicator as the punter can be in denial about what she does as a job and he is not "special" to her.

[hendrix]

I'm fighting this at the moment, unfortunately.
so much so that I don't even want to read her reviews/field reports...
Of course I want her to do well and have a successful business.....I just don't want to know the details.

*In before anyone calls me a cunt* 

Not a cunt..just a human being. It happens, but you know it's not a good idea and that's the main thing. Find some others!

For some and perhaps most I would agree. To use your example I prefer to find a sweet shop who in exchange for my regular custom are prepared to contact Mars and get them to change the recipe and contents of the Snickers Bar to meet my tastes. That way I know my treat will always satisfy my appetite even if it is not to everyone's particular taste. I might become bored yes maybe but that is when I ask for the special edition Snickers.

Yep 

[Jvosta]

Not a cunt..just a human being. It happens, but you know it's not a good idea and that's the main thing. Find some others!

I think you are right Vorian about being 'special' to a WG. I suppose its an issue stemming deeper than punting. A need for reassurance against insecurities..    not me though, obviously

but anyway, Cheers Vorian and Hendrix, I know.. 

Just in case anyone else is in a similar situation

- have fun, don't complicate and don't overthink things.......and maybe don't read her field reports...particularly from Hendrix and his BBC friends

[Roland D Hay]

Nope...it's not what I'm looking for to be honest though strangely many punters are. I punt because I've done all the relationship stuff,seen the film,got the t-shirt etc. Now I can have the variety!
I do admit to having favourites who are great for the guaranteed good clear-out of the pipes.

Jay

An excellent synopsis that reflects my own thoughts

[vorian]

I think you are right Vorian about being 'special' to a WG. I suppose its an issue stemming deeper than punting. I need for reassurance against insecurities..    not me though, obviously

but anyway, Cheers Vorian and Hendrix, I know.. 

Just in case anyone else is in a similar situation

- have fun, don't complicate and don't overthink things.......and maybe don't read her field reports...particularly from Hendrix and his BBC friends

Your all good mate, your aware of it and that's the main thing, however I would say always read the reviews it helps keep things in perspective and after all you might get some good ideas from them for your next playtime.

[Jvosta]

Your all good mate, your aware of it and that's the main thing, however I would say always read the reviews it helps keep things in perspective and after all you might get some good ideas from them for your next playtime.

Vorian Mate, you misquoted me, 'A' not 'I'...its totally made me look like a right cunt

[vorian]

Vorian Mate, you misquoted me, 'A' not 'I'...its totally made me look like a right cunt

My apologies, totally unintended, I would never try to make anyone out to be a cunt for any reason. I stand corrected.

[Silver Birch]

I have met a couple of WG that completely blew me away on the first visit and I left thinking "she will be my first regular" but usually after the 2nd visit I am back scrolling through my hotlist for someone new. 

[akauya]

Isn't that one of the main reasons why punting is addictive - the variety?

 Not much fun going to the sweet shop every week if you only ever buy a Snickers bar 

Exactly, it's also a great antidote to any Emotional Attachment Syndrome. Yes I will see a few good girls more than once but not so much that I will start burring the lines.

Variety is good, it's also not knowing what you're going to get. I's that first meet feeling that I like. For example, has anyone been to the AbFab swingers club near Heathrow? In the dungeon area they have a dark room. You get yourself in there feel your way about and if you're lucky to find a willing woman you fuck her. The thing is you only have your hands to guide you, you see nothing. I find that a huge turn on and by the looks of it a lot of women do too. Getting fucked by a total stranger, not knowing what they look like or who they are. It's as raw sex as it gets.

So seeing new prossies gives me that je ne sais quoi, that uncertainty and the unknown. Also like someone said before me. I have done relationships to my heart's content. Been marred for donkeys years, had more lovers than I can care to count, so variety is just perfect for me at the moment.

[vorian]

Exactly, it's also a great antidote to any Emotional Attachment Syndrome. Yes I will see a few good girls more than once but not so much that I will start burring the lines.

Variety is good, it's also not knowing what you're going to get. I's that first meet feeling that I like. For example, has anyone been to the AbFab swingers club near Heathrow? In the dungeon area they have a dark room. You get yourself in there feel your way about and if you're lucky to find a willing woman you fuck her. The thing is you only have your hands to guide you, you see nothing. I find that a huge turn on and by the looks of it a lot of women do too. Getting fucked by a total stranger, not knowing what they look like or who they are. It's as raw sex as it gets.

So seeing new prossies gives me that je ne sais quoi, that uncertainty and the unknown. Also like someone said before me. I have done relationships to my heart's content. Been marred for donkeys years, had more lovers than I can care to count, so variety is just perfect for me at the moment.

Great example well put like many subjects on here don't think we will ever find a consensus.  It is all a matter of personal taste as to how and why we punt.  I have a feeling that more people will be agreeing with you as opposed to me but I suppose as long as we are all happy at the end of the day doesn't really matter how you get there.

[raja]

Exactly, it's also a great antidote to any Emotional Attachment Syndrome. Yes I will see a few good girls more than once but not so much that I will start burring the lines.

Variety is good, it's also not knowing what you're going to get. I's that first meet feeling that I like. For example, has anyone been to the AbFab swingers club near Heathrow? In the dungeon area they have a dark room. You get yourself in there feel your way about and if you're lucky to find a willing woman you fuck her. The thing is you only have your hands to guide you, you see nothing. I find that a huge turn on and by the looks of it a lot of women do too. Getting fucked by a total stranger, not knowing what they look like or who they are. It's as raw sex as it gets.

So seeing new prossies gives me that je ne sais quoi, that uncertainty and the unknown. Also like someone said before me. I have done relationships to my heart's content. Been marred for donkeys years, had more lovers than I can care to count, so variety is just perfect for me at the moment.

What if its a guy that puts on a girls voice and you do him up the ass?

I take it there are other guys in the same room?

How do they make sure that the girls and guys do not see each other outside the dark room?

[vorian]

What if its a guy that puts on a girls voice and you do him up the ass?

I take it there are other guys in the same room?

How do they make sure that the girls and guys do not see each other outside the dark room?

Oh my I knew I was going wrong somewhere, back to the mobile glory hole for me then.

[akauya]

What if its a guy that puts on a girls voice and you do him up the ass?

I take it there are other guys in the same room?

How do they make sure that the girls and guys do not see each other outside the dark room?

I was going to give you a sarky answer but since you're a newbie and obviously not been there I will enlighten you. Guys wanting it up the arse don't usually go to straight swingers parties. You would have to be immensely stupid to confuse a man for a woman even in the dark. Also shoving your fingers up women's fannies is a dead giveaway. Another giveaway is when you swap from her pussy to her arse and back again. Then women have lovely tits and they are usually out for you to play with them... again you would have to be even more than stupid to confuse moobs with women's tits.

Yes, there are other guys in the room. That's what women want when they go for gangbang parties. The majority of the men behave respectfully and wait their turn. Yes there are a few Neanderthals but they are usually dealt with by the women or the women's partners or other swingers.

Who says you can't see each other after fucking in the dark room? The fun bit is getting out and seeing who you just fucked. Most often than not it's great then again there are times when you go  did I just fuck that! If it's been great sometimes you can continue the party by going to  private room, etc. It's all very fluid.

[smiths]

Exactly, it's also a great antidote to any Emotional Attachment Syndrome. Yes I will see a few good girls more than once but not so much that I will start burring the lines.

Variety is good, it's also not knowing what you're going to get. I's that first meet feeling that I like. For example, has anyone been to the AbFab swingers club near Heathrow? In the dungeon area they have a dark room. You get yourself in there feel your way about and if you're lucky to find a willing woman you fuck her. The thing is you only have your hands to guide you, you see nothing. I find that a huge turn on and by the looks of it a lot of women do too. Getting fucked by a total stranger, not knowing what they look like or who they are. It's as raw sex as it gets.

So seeing new prossies gives me that je ne sais quoi, that uncertainty and the unknown. Also like someone said before me. I have done relationships to my heart's content. Been marred for donkeys years, had more lovers than I can care to count, so variety is just perfect for me at the moment.

Whereas i find it a huge turn-off not to be able to very clearly see the woman i am looking to have sexual contact with. Like with Glory Holes, does nothing for me. As ever each to their own of course.

In punting in my view its wise to know the boundaries and stick to them, i appreciate though some WGs are so good i can understand why some punters might think there is more going on than just the WG offering a good service. Happened to me in the past, that way lays problems more likely than not though.

I would also say its clear from reading posts from punters for years that some view punting as dating, if you have that mindset its no surprise problems occur in my opinion.

[akauya]

Whereas i find it a huge turn-off not to be able to very clearly see the woman i am looking to have sexual contact with. Like with Glory Holes, does nothing for me. As ever each to their own of course.

In punting in my view its wise to know the boundaries and stick to them, i appreciate though some WGs are so good i can understand why some punters might think there is more going on than just the WG offering a good service. Happened to me in the past, that way lays problems more likely than not though.

I would also say its clear from reading posts from punters for years that some view punting as dating, if you have that mindset its no surprise problems occur in my opinion.

I noticed that as well. Seeing prossies is not substitute for dating at all. I respect punters and prossies who fall into a relationship after meeting during a punt (and good luck to them) but it's a good idea to differentiate punting and dating. They are not the same and never will be.

[hendrix]

I love the dark room at Abfabs! Had some really good night's there. The cinema in there is good fun for groups too..

[pierrot]

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200 pounds an hour, she must have a gold plated cunt.

[vorian]

I was going to give you a sarky answer but since you're a newbie and obviously not been there I will enlighten you. Guys wanting it up the arse don't usually go to straight swingers parties. You would have to be immensely stupid to confuse a man for a woman even in the dark. Also shoving your fingers up women's fannies is a dead giveaway. Another giveaway is when you swap from her pussy to her arse and back again. Then women have lovely tits and they are usually out for you to play with them... again you would have to be even more than stupid to confuse moobs with women's tits.

Yes, there are other guys in the room. That's what women want when they go for gangbang parties. The majority of the men behave respectfully and wait their turn. Yes there are a few Neanderthals but they are usually dealt with by the women or the women's partners or other swingers.

Who says you can't see each other after fucking in the dark room? The fun bit is getting out and seeing who you just fucked. Most often than not it's great then again there are times when you go  did I just fuck that! If it's been great sometimes you can continue the party by going to  private room, etc. It's all very fluid.

Agreed 100% I'm not massively experienced with parties but from what I have seen, they have no underlying homosexual vibe. If fact I found once you are focused on the girl or girls you don't even notice the cocks waving around. I also found the punters to be very courteous and respectful of other punters, guess all being naked, fat, thin, young or old puts you all in the same boat.

[hendrix]

200 pounds an hour, she must have a gold plated cunt.

Not that I've noticed, but she doesn't charge extras so she could probably arrange that if you wanted.

[smiths]

I noticed that as well. Seeing prossies is not substitute for dating at all. I respect punters and prossies who fall into a relationship after meeting during a punt (and good luck to them) but it's a good idea to differentiate punting and dating. They are not the same and never will be.

Indeed, relationships can and have developed between punters and WGs, its a case of not expecting them to though for me. If they happen they happen and thats up to them to deal with. I had a lovely WG say she wanted things to develop into a relationship between us, i told her to find a guy who wouldnt lie and cheat on her and could offer her more than me, she had previously mentioned in chatting to wanting kids, i have my son and dont want more. Sadly that ended things whereas i would of liked for it not to have happened in the first place and just carried on punting with her until i got bored. Emotions, sometimes unless your a robot they can carry you away.

[vorian]

Whereas i find it a huge turn-off not to be able to very clearly see the woman i am looking to have sexual contact with. Like with Glory Holes, does nothing for me. As ever each to their own of course.

In punting in my view its wise to know the boundaries and stick to them, i appreciate though some WGs are so good i can understand why some punters might think there is more going on than just the WG offering a good service. Happened to me in the past, that way lays problems more likely than not though.

I would also say its clear from reading posts from punters for years that some view punting as dating, if you have that mindset its no surprise problems occur in my opinion.

Here is a thought, of course no way to know for sure, but do married/in a relationship punters have more of a tendency to go for different  prossies every time or rotate them more frequently. Also do single punters have more of a tendency to go for regular long term prossies. If they do are they more likely to confuse the boundaries and think they are dating which can cause more problems.

[smiths]

Here is a thought, of course no way to know for sure, but do married/in a relationship punters have more of a tendency to go for different  prossies every time or rotate them more frequently. Also do single punters have more of a tendency to go for regular long term prossies. If they do are they more likely to confuse the boundaries and think they are dating which can cause more problems.

Not noticed a set pattern from reading forums and talking to punters on that, you could do a poll and/or thread about it to get an idea on here though of course.

[Jvosta]

do single punters have more of a tendency to go for regular long term prossies. If they do are they more likely to confuse the boundaries and think they are dating which can cause more problems.

My mate whos single, never sees the same WG twice. I on the other hand am currently sticking to 2/3 WGs in rotation. one of which I think about more than I should! Should probably start to see other WGs...starting with Dee perhaps

[munterhunter]

I have a couple of WG's that I see on a fairly regular basis because I get on well with them but I've NEVER seen one exclusively any more than I'd expect a WG to see only me.

[AnthG]

Hi

Have you ever met a WG that has blown other WGs away and you now only do her?

Thanks

R

Yes for a brief period this girl; Vicky as she was known at Diamonds or Eve as she was known at VIP.

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=7833.0

And the only thing that stopped it was she retired. If she never I can very safely say I would have been booking her and only her until at least I annoyed the hell out of her and she would tell me to stop booking (which unfortunately is a fact of life for me).

This girl was exactly what I hoped for when I started booking WGs those years back. She knocked me for six. I would practically give my left testicle if she came out of retirement but its been over a year I don't think she is coming back.

[rubric]

It's happened on occasion - not for emotional reasons, but mainly due to meeting a WG who had a pleasant personality and who I enjoyed having sex with a lot - not sure why you'd annoy someone by repeat booking though, unless you have an irritating personality.

[Stiltskin]

I met a girl in London a few years ago that no other girl has come close to since. It would have been very easy to get attached to her and for that reason I only see her once or twice a year now. It's quite hard though, when in London, punting some unknown girl knowing that a guaranteed great punt is just minutes away

[Bond]

I've seen a girl for more than 40 times, with quite a few others in double figures.

Despite sometimes having two or three regulars at the same time, I never stop seeing new girls.

[vorian]

I've seen a girl for more than 40 times, with quite a few others in double figures.

Despite sometimes having two or three regulars at the same time, I never stop seeing new girls.

Welcome to UKP seems like you have a good balanced approach.

[joshwinkers]

Yes for a brief period this girl; Vicky as she was known at Diamonds or Eve as she was known at VIP.

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=7833.0

And the only thing that stopped it was she retired. If she never I can very safely say I would have been booking her and only her until at least I annoyed the hell out of her and she would tell me to stop booking (which unfortunately is a fact of life for me).

This girl was exactly what I hoped for when I started booking WGs those years back. She knocked me for six. I would practically give my left testicle if she came out of retirement but its been over a year I don't think she is coming back.

I had a situation kind of like this back in the early 2000s. I met Emma of the Soho Cottage, and she was just my perfect woman in every way, the only 10/10 I've ever punted with. The first 20 minutes I was almost speechless, and despite offering a vanilla service (no DFK, owo) she was incredibly friendly and made me cum hard twice in 45 minutes. Everything she did was so intensely sexual, and it's the second best sex I've ever ever had.

The annoying thing is that I then got a girlfriend who I dated for six months. Literally the minute we split up I went online, only to find out that Emma had retired. I was genuinely gutted and it took me longer to get over that than it did my ex!