Reasons for punting

[ipreferbutts]

Normally before starting to be a WG I did not know what it was like to have an orgasm.
Now sex is just a job of giving pleasure: they pay me, I do my service, then goodbye ...

But in my work I have had 3 clients who have given me the best sex of my life with fantastic orgasm  And really those few times have been unforgettable ....And really those few times have been unforgettable 

So I tell you that it happens, few times have good sex. But I think everything depends on the sexual chemistry between two people.

Wow, that sounds really hot. It is my aim to give a WG really good sex like that. Which is why I was so disappointed with my first punt (see my 1 review for further details).

Can I ask, what were those guys like in terms of looks and personality? Were they confident, good looking hunks with big muscles from working out in the gym? Or were they a different kind of guy?

I'm disabled and very short, so i have no chance in the dating world this is why punt.

But haven't you heard it's all about confidence and beauty is in the eye of the beholder?

[ipreferbutts]

Normally before starting to be a WG I did not know what it was like to have an orgasm.
Now sex is just a job of giving pleasure: they pay me, I do my service, then goodbye ...

But in my work I have had 3 clients who have given me the best sex of my life with fantastic orgasm  And really those few times have been unforgettable ....And really those few times have been unforgettable 

So I tell you that it happens, few times have good sex. But I think everything depends on the sexual chemistry between two people.

Also if you're allowed to say, what did these 3 guys do to make it the best sex of your life? (private message me if you don't want to say here)

[BRB22]

Also if you're allowed to say, what did these 3 guys do to make it the best sex of your life? (private message me if you don't want to say here)

Women only care about looks and wealth. Which I have neither.

[Marmalade]

New WG pops up to tout herself. Quelle surprise. 

[tantraman]

... What are your reasons for punting ? Enjoyment, excitement or out of necessity ? Do you enjoy this habit and is your conscience clear ? ...

Thanks for asking, OP ... it's healthy to revisit these thoughts from time to time, as this hobby of ours can be addictive.

I recall a similar question being asked last year, and I answered ...

This is a good question, OP 

I too am married (as I presume most of us are) ... and very happily married ... and I totally still fancy my FAF-to-my-eyes wife-of-15-years ... and we make love regularly ... and as a vanilla kinda guy, my real life is thus great!

But since I hit my 40s a few years ago, that typical midlife crisis thing hit me, and I realised that I hadn't travelled enough, hadn't played enough, hadn't lived enough ... and indeed hadn't fucked enough! So, I'm now working less and living more. And having realised that I'd only ever experienced the same woman for over two decades, I then realised that I wanted to experience every type of other woman ... younger and older, thinner and fatter, whiter and blacker, more natural and more plastic, more submissive and more dominant, more GFE and more PSE, etc and etc.

So, I can't see myself stopping punting, as it's now wholly irrespective of my wife ... in the same way I am travelling the world (with my wife), I am also travelling women (without my wife) ... for me, punting has simply become part of trying to live my remaining life to the fullest.

 

... and my reasons remain the same. Enjoyment, excitement or out of necessity? I punt because of the enjoyment and excitement ... life's too short an' all that. It's defo more fun than having a wank ... and now I can afford for others to effectively "wank" me off. Do you enjoy this habit and is your conscience clear? As much as I enjoy this habit, I do worry about addiction ... it's not just time/energy spent punting, but also time/energy spent on UKP, AW, etc. But my conscience is weirdly clear ... cognitive dissonance, no doubt.

[Steely Dan]

What is SA? I'm not familiar with some of these acronyms.

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[ipreferbutts]

Women only care about looks and wealth. Which I have neither.

You quoted the wrong post.

So basically, when women say they like a "confident man" or a "funny man" and they care about a man's "personality", it's just total BS?

And phrases like "confidence is everything" and "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" are just useless platitudes designed to make ugly looking people feel better about themselves?

[ipreferbutts]

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Thanks

[LocalHero]

I started this hobby around 15 years ago when I was single and I think it was curiosity.
I'd been to some lap-dance bars with my mates and found them frustrating.
On a trip to San Francisco with a friend we'd visited a lap-dance club (a very good one) and later I noticed a red light above a Thai massage parlour. My friend went for a drink in a nearby bar while I took my first punt.
I left feeling that there was better to be had so soon after during a visit to ireland I tried another WG, this time found through a google search for Indy escorts. This one was much better and is still the punt I measure all others by.
I thought I might give up when I got married but still kept punting even before the sex-life with the wife became stale.
So now it's chasing the buzz - Addicted but don't want to give up.

[salamander8321]

I've been reading a few of the replies and there are a few I can relate to.

The reason why I want to try it again is because I no longer get the buzz I used to get from internet porn and I suspect the reason for that is due to the decreasing variety of the free stuff due to the way the sector is going. I also don't get the same buzz as I do from the booze. In fact I feel and look a lot better now I drink in moderation. However, sobriety sucks and I need a buzz which isn't harmful to my health or financially draining like gambling. Hopefully escorts will fill that buzz.   

[ipreferbutts]

I've been reading a few of the replies and there are a few I can relate to.

The reason why I want to try it again is because I no longer get the buzz I used to get from internet porn and I suspect the reason for that is due to the decreasing variety of the free stuff due to the way the sector is going. I also don't get the same buzz as I do from the booze. In fact I feel and look a lot better now I drink in moderation. However, sobriety sucks and I need a buzz which isn't harmful to my health or financially draining like gambling. Hopefully escorts will fill that buzz.

Escorts are also financially draining, don't forget that.

[Ihateaero]

No sex at all in my marriage. I don’t want an affair coz I’m quite happy apart from the physical side of things. I enjoy the sordid side of my punting. It feels illicit and wrong but that keeps me wanting more. I like meeting whores as their seedy way of life excites me. And fucking someone half my age is a real turn on.

[Digby232]

I’ve just joined this site. My reason for wanting to try escorts is the same as most. Sex with the wife about once a fortnight and then very vanilla. Missionary only and never puts anything into it. In 27 years never once given a blow job! So that’s it time to fuck a prossie! Condom on and should get away with it. No sti and she will never know .

[ianchar14]

I have no luck with women, so i visit escorts once in a while

[blackburnian]

I’ve just joined this site. My reason for wanting to try escorts is the same as most. Sex with the wife about once a fortnight and then very vanilla. Missionary only and never puts anything into it. In 27 years never once given a blow job! So that’s it time to fuck a prossie! Condom on and should get away with it. No sti and she will never know .

Fucking hell mate,compared to many on here she's positively putting out for you 

There's a bit more to getting away with this game than that - read the wiki .

Bb

[salamander8321]

Escorts are also financially draining, don't forget that.

I'm on a modest income, disciplined with my money and looking upon this as a treat. TBH, the prices for escorts are no more than a decent night out these days. In fact, sometimes cheaper. I do take your point although I can't see myself going overboard. While I like the thought of the buzz, I'm not really as horny as much as I was. I guess age is catching up with me LOL.

[Shortandsensible]

I’m not very confident with girls, a night out to try and find a girl really doesn’t appeal. But I like the way I can pick any girl and do some things (particularly anal & facials) which none of my previous girlfriends would do. It’s a shame I can’t afford to do it as much as I want to.

[GreyDave]

Indeed. I costed the last "date" I went on as £60 for a hug and peck on the cheek. That was in 2016 and haven't bothered again TBH. Punting offers much better use of my time and IMO better VFM too

  That is the cost of 3 walk girls ex tips 

I punt for seeing the worlds diffrent girls ... But for some reason the Fuck the world globe seems to be full of Mostly Hungarian and Romainian girls at the momment

[Lord Gwyn]

I’ve just joined this site. My reason for wanting to try escorts is the same as most. Sex with the wife about once a fortnight and then very vanilla. Missionary only and never puts anything into it. In 27 years never once given a blow job! So that’s it time to fuck a prossie! Condom on and should get away with it. No sti and she will never know .

That last bit is a worry. Getting away with it and no sti is a misconception. You may get away with it but regular testing is the mature thing to do. How often you get tested depends on how often you punt.

[MrMatrix]

Wife not interested or thinks she's the one who can choose when we can have sex(never).
So after years of wanking to porn I started punting.
And I will continue to do so for as long as I can. 

Ditto - 

[randyrobert]

Many of the posts on here reflect motivations given in surveys of men who pay for sex-and my own motivations.

But the radical feminists and their collaborators claim that surveys and forums only reveal the answers that are acceptable and that true motivations may be a desire to exert control and dominance over women-a desire few will admit to.

For evidence of these hidden motivations  abolitionists will trawl reviews written about WGs on punter review forums and pick examples that bolster their case. So for instance  in the academic paper  here External Link/Members Onlywhich claims that “that sex buyers actively construct and normalize narratives of sexual violation and violence against women”.

So you may think you are in it because the tap is turned off at home, or you like variety-or that you get the horn for someone out of your league but the real desires are hidden-so fess up you guys.

[django0700]

I like fucking different girls.
I love variety.
I enjoy fucking girls who do not are not fluent in languages I speak and of different nationalities.

For me it is possible to do this only as a  Punter. YOLO, so might as well make the most of it. 

[BRB22]

You quoted the wrong post.

So basically, when women say they like a "confident man" or a "funny man" and they care about a man's "personality", it's just total BS?

And phrases like "confidence is everything" and "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" are just useless platitudes designed to make ugly looking people feel better about themselves?

Like Han solo said in the force awakens all of it's real.

[BRB22]

Sorry for quoting the wrong post.

[BRB22]

Women don't care about Men they see you has a wallet and nothing more.

[antsz]

Women don't care about Men they see you has a wallet and nothing more.

thanks for the input 

[Punterenas]

You quoted the wrong post.

So basically, when women say they like a "confident man" or a "funny man" and they care about a man's "personality", it's just total BS?

And phrases like "confidence is everything" and "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" are just useless platitudes designed to make ugly looking people feel better about themselves?

Actually its more complicated than that. Women say they like personality and sense of humour because they fear being judged as shallow by other women however, they are still attracted to the more attractive male but justify this to themselves by giving him characteristics he actually doesn't have. This is called the halo effect.

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[Punterenas]

I can pretty much relate to all the reasons on this thread.
I've not had sex with my wife for 15 years, as soon as she found out she was pregnant with our youngest the tap was turned firmly off!
I tried to talk, followed the advice of every feminised, pussy whipped advice column I could find (why don't you reward your wife for her unreasonable behaviour?) and hoped she would come around but after a decade of internet porn and excuses I decided I wasn't going to live like a monk because someone else had decided that fate for me.

BTW surely using sex for control in a relationship only works if there is a realistic chance of getting some?

So I told my wife, if she isn't interested I will go out and pay for it (still can't quite believe I said that), she didn't say anything (she didn't talk to me for a while but she didn't ask for a divorce either) so off I went.

Since then I have met about 40 different women over about 50 meets, had a dozen massages and been like a kid in a sweetshop.
I'm sure she knows what I get up to (I went "swimming" a couple of weekends ago, came back with a dry kit and smelling of perfume!) but as long as I don't humiliate her (or pester her for sex) I think she's happy for someone else to take care of things.

I love the research, the notification emails from AW, the first sight of the girl behind the door, punting with women who wouldn't look at me twice in civvie land and blanking the fat, saggy divorcees I work with who seem to think they are Cindy Crawford because I've had better on a bad day!
I've done so many things I previously couldn't even dream of, CIM, DT, anal, sloppy blowjobs, threesomes.
I realised the other day, I finally have the marriage I want! Don't want a divorce, to lose my house or go back to the snake pit that is the dating scene.

[MrMatrix]

I can pretty much relate to all the reasons on this thread.
I've not had sex with my wife for 15 years, as soon as she found out she was pregnant with our youngest the tap was turned firmly off!
I tried to talk, followed the advice of every feminised, pussy whipped advice column I could find (why don't you reward your wife for her unreasonable behaviour?) and hoped she would come around but after a decade of internet porn and excuses I decided I wasn't going to live like a monk because someone else had decided that fate for me.

BTW surely using sex for control in a relationship only works if there is a realistic chance of getting some?

So I told my wife, if she isn't interested I will go out and pay for it (still can't quite believe I said that), she didn't say anything (she didn't talk to me for a while but she didn't ask for a divorce either) so off I went.

Since then I have met about 40 different women over about 50 meets, had a dozen massages and been like a kid in a sweetshop.
I'm sure she knows what I get up to (I went "swimming" a couple of weekends ago, came back with a dry kit and smelling of perfume!) but as long as I don't humiliate her (or pester her for sex) I think she's happy for someone else to take care of things.

I love the research, the notification emails from AW, the first sight of the girl behind the door, punting with women who wouldn't look at me twice in civvie land and blanking the fat, saggy divorcees I work with who seem to think they are Cindy Crawford because I've had better on a bad day!
I've done so many things I previously couldn't even dream of, CIM, DT, anal, sloppy blowjobs, threesomes.
I realised the other day, I finally have the marriage I want! Don't want a divorce, to lose my house or go back to the snake pit that is the dating scene.

RESULT.....

I take it you don't bother with holidays either?

[WARSZAWA16]

Simple for me - it's the anticipation and the certainty of it all. Have dated girls who were reluctant to "put out" and were generally too much hard work to get into bed.With punting and the internet, you see who you want, book, and you are good to go. Once with the girl there's none of the pretence or formalities - it's just bra and knickers off and game on. No messing!

[Punterenas]

RESULT.....

I take it you don't bother with holidays either?

Yes, we go away at least once a year, but once the kids have left home, who knows?

[iluvpussy67]

For me there are 2 reasons for punting.

Before punting the only sex I'd had was with my OH, basically I had an ever increasing curiosity to experience sex with another woman. It developed into an itch that needed scratching. After a lot of consideration seeing an escort seemed like the best option as I could simply book, pay, fuck and leave without risking the sort of baggage that an affair would bring.

Secondly my OH has health issues. Recently she fell over and cracked her fibula, a bone density scan revealed osteoporosis. Previously she had a hernia which needed surgery to fix. Not even tried to initiate sex at home for fear of causing further damage or injury, she hasn't either so it's been a long time since I've had sex with the OH. The last time we tried she asked me to stop when we were having sex due to pain so I withdrew, this was before the hernia surgery.

[BRB22]

thanks for the input 

Okay it’s fine

[BRB22]

I’m disabled and I hav autism.

[DANNYSEX]

Anybody got the latest information on Shannon Summers as I was hoping to meet her this Saturday afternoon in Norwich but her profile seems to have disappeared, thanks

[unclepokey]

Because I can and I luv it despite the very few disappointments I have experienced.
Uncle Pokey

[JamesKW]

Mine is purely about very little sex or services provided by the O/H and even then it took 20 years to get to that stage, so I saved plenty of cash in the mean time.A WG is no substitute for a civvie relationship,children etc. and probably not a cost saver,women earn nowdays and most extremely wealthy men I know are in longterm relationships.My view is that WGs should just be a fill in when no sex is available.

[antsz]

I’m disabled and I hav autism.

Hope you are enjoying yourself and your disability doesn't get in the way

[Chuckman]

I do it because it's a practical solution to my needs.

It negates the hassle and expense of seeing a girl, paying for drinks at a club, going out for a meal & movie and then have her saying no afterwards. I can spend the same money on something that is guaranteed (usually!) and matches my sexual interests.

[Helloyou75001]

Because I'm seriously unattractive and girls I like are never interested by me.

After 20 years trying to get date with girls with 99% failure (just had few short gf and only 1 who wanted to have sex with me), I decided on my birthday to fly to Berlin and go see whores and forget the shame.

It was the best decision of my life. Ever. I wasted too much time chasing girls 

[bigbird]

I had a near life ending medical issue and decided i was going to fuck every different type of girl in every different way...
Threesomes, fucked em up the arse, shoot my load in their faces, sniff their knickers while they deep throat me, i turned into an animal 
I have done, Chinese, Thai, British, Polish, Romanian, Hungarian, Russian, African, i have also fucked girls off Tinder, POF, neighbour, girls from gym any hole is a goal .... LOL

Now i am fine and fixed i only punt if i don't have a GF at the time, i currently have an asian girlfriend whom is FAF and extremely naughty, loves cock so all is good, but i keep up to date with goings on in the World of punting on here...

Its fair to say punting helped me through the worst period in my life... Don't knock it until you have tried it is my view...

[fallentrees1321]

Found myself single in my late 20's . Started dating , but quickly realised that most women around late 20's and early 30's are only interested in riding your wallet , having kids soon and getting married . I have no interest in having my wallet ridden . Dont want kids ever and getting married seems pretty pointless to me . I also quickly realised that apart from getting to know when I would get to hide the sausage I had no interest in being in a relationship with any of the girls I dated . I quickly grew bored of the whole dating thing . Not being a drinker and not wanting to contract mad levels of std's I decided against banging sloots from clubs . This left only one other source to satisfy those urges a man has .

Besides which I had always been rather curious about what paying for it was like but always stupid enough to  keep faithful to girlfriends . I always felt that it would make you feel worthless , but actually I find it quite the opposite . Its empowering being able to walk into the room and demand precisely the kind of sex you want .

I've also saved so much time and cash that I would have otherwise spent dating with no guarantee of getting to play hide the sausage .

[Dave1984738]

Im new to this forum and the punting scene this thread seemed like the most logical to say hello in!

Ive been married for 8 years and havent had sex with the oh for well over a year now, before that it was maybe once every 3 months.
Never had a blow job, i basiclly have to beg for weeks for a sympathy hj which just makes me feel like shit.
Im seriously considering seeing a wg as the lack of physical affection is making me utterly miserable.
Ive been down the counciling route and sex therapy route which made fuck all difference and has lead me to the conclusion that my wife basiclly settled for me. She wanted a safe bloke who could keep her comfortable and give her the kids which in many ways I do understand. Im not a good looking chap and have zero confidence, me and the wife have a great relationnship aside from the lack of physical attention.
I dont want to divorce as it would just fuck up the kids and would ruin me finacially, I went though all that shit when i was younger and is half the reason my early adult life was a drug filled mess!

Anyone else inn the same boat? Any advice for a newbie?

[Grinder69]

I love to opportunity punt with girls well out of my league and less then half my age without the complications and headache of a relationship, hell ok I know it not a deep and meaningful meeting but to me it a bit like going to a good movie where you can fill your boots and escape from reality for a while and live out your fantasy. The only factor to consider is don't book with a romanian where you will often quickly be bought back down to earth. My only regret is that I dont have more disposable income to punt as often as i would like.

[Herts_Outcaller]

Im new to this forum and the punting scene this thread seemed like the most logical to say hello in!

Ive been married for 8 years and havent had sex with the oh for well over a year now, before that it was maybe once every 3 months.
Never had a blow job, i basiclly have to beg for weeks for a sympathy hj which just makes me feel like shit.
Im seriously considering seeing a wg as the lack of physical affection is making me utterly miserable.
Ive been down the counciling route and sex therapy route which made fuck all difference and has lead me to the conclusion that my wife basiclly settled for me. She wanted a safe bloke who could keep her comfortable and give her the kids which in many ways I do understand. Im not a good looking chap and have zero confidence, me and the wife have a great relationnship aside from the lack of physical attention.
I dont want to divorce as it would just fuck up the kids and would ruin me finacially, I went though all that shit when i was younger and is half the reason my early adult life was a drug filled mess!

Anyone else inn the same boat? Any advice for a newbie?

Hello Dave, I'll try and keep this brief

1. Yes, as you can tell from this post, a lot of people are in the same boat.
2.  Go to the punting wiki for the best advice on starting
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3.  People on this forum don't pull their punches, so don't be surprised if you get called a cunt. You cunt.
4. Review your first few girls or you'll not be accepted here.

[JamesDim]

I'm pretty much MGTOW (men going their own way) these days and no longer have an interest in any sort of relationship with women - whether it be casual, long term or marriage. Punting is the perfect way to shag a variety of women, of all different ages, races and types, without having to do anything before, or afterwards. In other words, I can have my cake and eat it - for the right price of course. AW is like a catalogue of goods, where you can find pretty much anything you want, in terms of service, specific looks and fetishes.

I think a lot of men are truly missing a trick with their outdated views of 'prostitution' - they have no idea sites like Adultwork exist and think it's all 'crack heads on street corners' being paid £20 for a bareback car meet. I think they'd be surprised at what the modern games become.

[Dave1984738]

Hello Dave, I'll try and keep this brief

1. Yes, as you can tell from this post, a lot of people are in the same boat.
2.  Go to the punting wiki for the best advice on starting
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3.  People on this forum don't pull their punches, so don't be surprised if you get called a cunt. You cunt.
4. Review your first few girls or you'll not be accepted here.

Message received, it will take me some time to make preparations and get set up, I fully intend to write reports of all the wgs I go and see.

Thanks for the advice 

[Bogof60]

I had always been pretty vanilla sex wise with all previous partners.
Kissing feeling tits a bit of oral both ways and a shag.
The first time a WG sucked me off and I CIM it was mind blowing.
Since then I have done anal meh
Cum on tits
Cum on body.
And various other things that float my boat.
Sex with the OH has become routine.
Kiss
Oral on her
Wank me for a bit and sex with her on top.
I craved for more.
Young fit bodies.
Proper OWO
Licking a new fit pussy.
Hair or hairless
A woman less than half my age
Or a passionate woman my own age.
So why do I punt.
You can pick up the phone and get all the above for the price of a good night out
Why would you not punt is a better question.
Also
A wise man said on his death bed
"regrets? I wish I had had more Sex"
I just love the taste feel look of pussy.

[OakTree]

I punt because I like fucking lots of different women. It’s got nothing to do wether I get it off the other half or not.(I don’t actually. We’ve no interest physically in each other). I could be shacked up and having regular sex with an absolute stunner and I’d still punt.

It’s the way I am. 

[lewisjones23]

I punt because I like fucking lots of different women. It’s got nothing to do wether I get it off the other half or not.(I don’t actually. We’ve no interest physically in each other). I could be shacked up and having regular sex with an absolute stunner and I’d still punt.

It’s the way I am. 

be a lot easier to resist temptation though wouldnt it ....