Reasons for punting

[marion70]

 I have been seeing escorts for the last 2 years or so. My reasons for it is the lack of sex from the other half or the stagnant sex that takes place occasionally. I am a porn lover as well and this does not help. But the first time I had a blowjob from an escort was mind-blowing and I still get a hard on thinking about it. Unfortunately my sex life at home is still the same and I have been forced to look elsewhere. Although I do enjoy the temporal feeling of ecstasy from seeing a new escort,  I also feel twangs of guilt and sin afterwards.

 Anyway enough of me, I would like to know and compare my experience to other people in this forum. What are your reasons for pun ting ? Enjoyment, excitement or out of necessity ? Do you enjoy this habit and is your conscience clear ?

I would love to hear what people have to say...

[wristjob]

It varies. Sometimes it's the sex and sometimes it's the fact I can have girls I never could in real life, or just feel like I was young again.

One girl I saw recently reminded me so much of a girl I really fancied loads when I was younger and never got anywhere with. It's almost like I get to screw the young her from 25 years ago and not worry that if I ever bumped into her today she'd be around 55, wrinkly and saggy.

[DANNYSEX]

My very first experience with a escort I was about 22 and no clue, I fucked two hookers one rode me in my car was a Citreon Xantia lol so plenty of room the other in a bedroom you know the kind place , oh yeah and got my prodigy wallet nicked, but moving on to now I propley started screwing escorts in a big way in  2014 now 34 years old after split from wife, I was still going on normal dates but banging whores aswell, had by far some of the best sex ever knees trembling at the pure sight of a sexy piece of ass and kwowing your going to fuck her brains out, the one that tops the lot was a beautiful young black girl with a ass to die for Alexia my first proper porn style anal still even the thought of it gets me hard now, lucky for me I voise record all my punts for later I also try to steal a pair of dirty knickers for later to, but by this time I'm in another relationship but can't seem stop even tho my girlfriend is a bit of a Nimph, So the reason why I punt is because I have had a couple of shit un interested meets but the good by far out weigh the bad , and I'm panning my next naughty encounter now far a Saturday afternoon.

[Plan R]

[DANNYSEX - look up puntuation and paragraphs  ]

As for me - what can I say ?
I fucking LOVE a face full of 24 year old Euro fanny...

Every fuckin LTR I have ever had, has ended up sexless after 3-4 years.
And these days, every dried up 45yr old off Plenty-Of-Fish, makes it clear she wants to ride my wallet round Europe (fuck right off btw)

So that leaves Punting-gorgeous mid 20's Euro fanny till-I-die   

[CigarSmoke]

I don't have a girlfriend. So why not pay for sex in the meantime. Hell I never got laid without paying. I'd be a virgin if it wasn't for escort women and prostitutes in Amsterdam.

[heyarnold]

for anal CIM and DT 

[Marvelous]

Variety is the main reason, also the ease off it you don't have to run around acting like a love sick puppy just to get in some girls pants. Also all pussy gets old no matter how good it is, with punting you can move onto the next anytime you want minus any emotiond

Also lets be honest half off these cunts wouldn't say thank you if you held the door open for them in real life, give them £80 and they will do whatever you want most off the time.

[ipreferbutts]

My reason is perhaps different to other people.

I know many people on here are seeing escorts for their own pleasure. And apparently the escorts only care about your money. But for me, the pleasure of having sex with someone comes from pleasuring them and seeing them have a good time. Which is why, going forward, I am planning on using escorts to give them amazing sex. This could prove difficult, seeing as many of them have had sex with so many men and it's just a job for them so they're probably bored of the sex. I would need to at least equal her best sexual experience, which could prove tough to do. I'm hitting the gym and lifting weights, because it improves my sexual performance, so my body will eventually be like one of the hunks they fantasise about in TV/movies/books. I just want to give them the best sex I possibly can and hopefully hear the moans of pleasure and compliments from them afterwards (maybe that won't happen, but I'd like to think it would with at least one or two of them).

I'd be interested to hear the views of any escorts who read this thread, what they think of my reason for seeing escorts.

[bearcat69]

I get a thrill out of the taboo. I enjoy the variety of it. It's easier and more discreet that having a civvie affair.

[bearcat69]

Oh, and my conscience is clear. It's just casual sex to me. A business deal. Not much more than an interactive wank. I dont see it as worth feeling guilty about that.

[m4rmite]

Wife not interested or thinks she's the one who can choose when we can have sex(never).
So after years of wanking to porn I started punting.
And I will continue to do so for as long as I can. 

[marion70]

 Interesting answers... Apart from the wifey there are quite a few other reasons..the excitement of shagging someone desirable, the thrills u get from a BJ etc, and obviously the temporal pleasure you get which abates as soon as you finish the deed unless you have had an excellent service from someone who actually looks like she does enjoy what she is doing... But then the chances of this happening is very minimal.

 Good luck to all the other punters on their journey, as for myself only time will tell where my journey will go... :

[punther]

reasons change

when i started it was for convenience and ease of sex with many women without exerting effort - eg no need to date, punting was more time efficient way to achieve the outcome

that has since evolved into appeasing my need for certain fetishes - dt, big asses etc.

i find myself punting less these days

[shagmore]

Because I can is the main one.
But there are several reasons
I can afford to
Variety
Was not getting it at home when married
Like being able to choose what I want to fuck without having to go through all the dating shite
Do things straight off without knowing if the other person is into that - anal, water sports etc.
The thrill of it
Enhancing your technique for the GF

The list could go on, but they are some of the reasons

[Kinky Foxx]

Hmmmmm!  That's a tough question.   The only real alternative to punting is a girlfriend..  So, let's break out the old PROS V CONS legal pad.


                       PUNTING.                                                                                                                    GIRLFRIEND.


Monday:     FUCK A HOT BLONDE WITH BIG TITS.                                          ON THE SOFA WATCHING THE KARDASHIANS.

Tuesday:      FUCKING AN OILED UP CHINESE CHICK.                                    DEALING WITH HER PSM, (PISSY MOOD SYNDROME).

Wednesday:     FUCKING A SULTRY ROMANIAN GYPSY.                                  GO OUT WITH & BEING 'NICE' TO HER FRIENDS.

Thursday:      FUCK A GREASED UP SLIM EBONY BABE.                                  WATCHING "THE HOUSEWIVES" INSTEAD OF THE FOOTBALL.

Friday:         FUCK A HORNY PAKISTANI GIRL.                                               SPENDING MY HARD EARNED ON MORE FUCKING SHOES.

Saturday:      A MASSAGE AND FUCK WITH A HOT THAI.                                 ARGUEMENTS FROM SPENDING MY HARD EARNED ON SHOES.

Sunday:        A DAY OF REST, RECUPERATION AND FOOTBALL.                        DINNER WITH AND BE "NICE" TO HER PARENTS AND SIBLINGS.


                                   Reasons for punting?   You can't go wrong when you make a list.     You're welcome.   

[Steely Dan]

My reason is perhaps different to other people.

I know many people on here are seeing escorts for their own pleasure. And apparently the escorts only care about your money. But for me, the pleasure of having sex with someone comes from pleasuring them and seeing them have a good time. Which is why, going forward, I am planning on using escorts to give them amazing sex. This could prove difficult, seeing as many of them have had sex with so many men and it's just a job for them so they're probably bored of the sex. I would need to at least equal her best sexual experience, which could prove tough to do. I'm hitting the gym and lifting weights, because it improves my sexual performance, so my body will eventually be like one of the hunks they fantasise about in TV/movies/books. I just want to give them the best sex I possibly can and hopefully hear the moans of pleasure and compliments from them afterwards (maybe that won't happen, but I'd like to think it would with at least one or two of them).

I'd be interested to hear the views of any escorts who read this thread, what they think of my reason for seeing escorts.

UKE to find out views of escorts.
My view is that you need SA or something similar to find girls that are up for the pleasure. Not saying that there are not the occasional part timers on AW who enjoy being fucked, but pretty rare.

[Grenadier36]

I grew tired of porn and paying subscription sites a few hundred quid a month so thought I'd do it for real. I probably had a porn addiction which isn't a good thing. Used to get contact mags as back then there wasn't much online - a few girls had their own sites etc. I don't punt in relationships so when I became single again in 2016 it was like walking into the world's biggest sweetshop 

[greg101]

It's just force of habit for me now, I don't particularly enjoy it more than having a wank or fucking the wife.  It's just a routine.  It's comfortable much like an old leather sofa and I can't remember feeling any other way.  Like the old smoker that lights up one after the other, the enjoyment gone many many years ago, it's just natural to him to buy fags and for me to punt.  I'm not denying I have 'some' fun but I'm rarely surprised now by the working girls.  A pussy is a pussy is a pussy, tight loose, smelly, old; I've fucked them all.


I don't do drugs, don't drink or smoke, this is my only vice.

[Loki]

I punt because I prefer life on my own... can't be bothered with girlfriend/wife and all the BS that goes along with them.

simples really... 

[beanfarmer05]

Having been in and out of 3 long term relationships in past ten years, but never married, I've found that now, being single and even spending money on escorts and massages with happy endings, my disposable income is huge compared to when I was with a gf.

Plus the time and effort and money to get in the knickers of a civvy bird of tinder, for a potentially shit shag, with a woman who let's face it will be an entitled uber feminist SJW like the rest of western women.. Fuck that

[PleadInsanity]

I think it's because I like the buzz of fucking women i've never met before and the whole premeditated thing. Plus it's an opportunity to do things you might not do so often with a civvy.

[Grenadier36]

I punt because I prefer life on my own... can't be bothered with girlfriend/wife and all the BS that goes along with them.

simples really... 

I'm in a very similar boat. The joy of punting for me is in walking away after with no needy texts/calls and BS 

[Loki]

I'm in a very similar boat. The joy of punting for me is in walking away after with no needy texts/calls and BS 

....and listening to your mates on their 4th, £100 plus "date" with their chosen princess, still trying to get into her pants because she 'has standards and isn't a slut'

[Grenadier36]

....and listening to your mates on their 4th, £100 plus "date" with their chosen princess, still trying to get into her pants because she 'has standards and isn't a slut'

Indeed. I costed the last "date" I went on as £60 for a hug and peck on the cheek. That was in 2016 and haven't bothered again TBH. Punting offers much better use of my time and IMO better VFM too

[bobbybecker2016]

Hi guys, new to the forum and this is my first post!

Bit of a strange one really as I have been with my partner for over 12 years and our sex life is pretty fantastic and couldn't wish for anymore, from a blow job while watching tv to dressing up and actually pretending to be a WG, there are no issues.

I believe it's the thrill of meeting someone new, your choice from 1000's of girls, the non commitment meet.

[Lord Gwyn]

I started punting in my twenties, to get sex as I didn't have a partner and felt I was missing out. Later on it became more of a bucket list ticking off one experience after another. I have been married for 30 years and I still love her but sexually we are like chalk and cheese and it has been sporadic until we stopped 13 years ago. Since then punting has fulfilled a need. I am punting less and less now though. I have no regrets and have had some amazing sex through punting.

[flatcap]

I'm mid 40s and single by choice and I'm loving the freedom. I started to punt because I couldn't be bothered with dating and punting offered a quick and easy fix with no drama from either side.  Increasingly I'm enjoying the thrill of doing something that 99% of the population thinks is immoral. The joy of a sending a couple of texts to a complete stranger, then shagging them an hour after, then walking away and never seeing or hearing from them again is awesome. Just wish I'd started earlier.

[Waldorf salad]

Other half puts out rarely,lies there making no effort. Refuses any oral, hates any kind of mess afterwards, made me get a vesctomy promising more sex, but if anything, i get less.
Started punting  when i was 40, and got my first bj and cim. Have not looked back since

[smartieshouse]

Just seemed a natural progression from Porn. Porn is all about fantasy as are WGs so it just followed logically for me.

[Formicahunt]

I love my wife and we have a healthy sexual relationship it's just that I like variety -thin, fat, young,old, foreign. I did a lot of shagging in my 20s but circumstances make that difficult so punting is the answer.

[Chorley]

Why do I po punt?

Convenience
Choice
No baggage
No bullshit - usually 
Indulgence of fetishes that most civvies wouldn't tolerate
Access to hot women that normally  wouldn't piss on me if I was on fire 

[JonasG]

Just need the variety tbh and no hassle attached. Not interested in another LTR atm.

Plus it's fcukin easy, and I'm lazy and don't like to put effort in in most things in life lol.

[antsz]

I have a very good looking wife and everyone would think we have the perfect marriage BUT since having a miscarriage my wife won't let us get intimate anymore, so i just punt purely for some skin on skin action, im only 40 and couldn't go with out, my Mrs obviously feels guilty about it but not as guilty as me when I banging some WG, that's why I'm here

[Sibiu]

I've been punting for 38 years but not regularly. Been married for 40.  I visit escorts perhaps 6 times a year when the opportunity arises. Why did I start? My wife, a very intelligent woman, worked long hours and has never been interested in sex much from very early in our long relationship. To suggest trying something less than vanilla e.g. anal would be equivalent to committing mass murder or some other heinous act. Intelligence, thank goodness, lasts a lot longer than body shape and good looks! She also earned a shedload and has a massive pension!

[computergeek]

Because I'm an ugly middle aged fat fucker, and no woman will even look at me unless she's paid to.

[Chorley]

Because I'm an ugly middle aged fat fucker, and no woman will even look at me unless she's paid to.

Brutally honest. 

[Marvelous]

Because I'm an ugly middle aged fat fucker, and no woman will even look at me unless she's paid to.

  Aint laughed so hard in ages thanks mate

[Marmalade]

Sometimes there are reasons not to have sex. I hardly think you need a reason to do it.

[BRB22]

I'm disabled and very short, so i have no chance in the dating world this is why punt.

[Marmalade]

I'm disabled and very short, so i have no chance in the dating world this is why punt.

Och aye. You’ve been here two and a half years but I guess your two fingers are too short to reach the keyboard when writing s review.  . no offence.   

[ROSA ROJA]

My reason is perhaps different to other people.

I know many people on here are seeing escorts for their own pleasure. And apparently the escorts only care about your money. But for me, the pleasure of having sex with someone comes from pleasuring them and seeing them have a good time. Which is why, going forward, I am planning on using escorts to give them amazing sex. This could prove difficult, seeing as many of them have had sex with so many men and it's just a job for them so they're probably bored of the sex. I would need to at least equal her best sexual experience, which could prove tough to do. I'm hitting the gym and lifting weights, because it improves my sexual performance, so my body will eventually be like one of the hunks they fantasise about in TV/movies/books. I just want to give them the best sex I possibly can and hopefully hear the moans of pleasure and compliments from them afterwards (maybe that won't happen, but I'd like to think it would with at least one or two of them).

I'd be interested to hear the views of any escorts who read this thread, what they think of my reason for seeing escorts.

Normally before starting to be a WG I did not know what it was like to have an orgasm.
Now sex is just a job of giving pleasure: they pay me, I do my service, then goodbye ...

But in my work I have had 3 clients who have given me the best sex of my life with fantastic orgasm  And really those few times have been unforgettable ....And really those few times have been unforgettable 

So I tell you that it happens, few times have good sex. But I think everything depends on the sexual chemistry between two people.

[Herts_Outcaller]

It was probably a combination of 1. getting onto the housing ladder , so no longer needing to save for a deposit  2. doubling my salary by changing job  3. the main reason, alas, other half completely shutting off the taps

Genuinely love the Other Half, but can't deal with no sex. Toyed with the idea of splitting up, then decided to outsource the sex in our relationship instead in order to have the best of both worlds. Tried punting 3 or 4 times when much younger, and had some very bad punts, so it was also the case of having a couple of good punts and this leading to me trying more rather than going "not doing that again for a while" . I think my head was turned when my birthday party ended up in a strip club, and I ended up having the dirtiest of private dances where I had everything except sex with the girl. Then a stag party to Amsterdam ended up in the red light district, and that was the punt that started it all again

Now I'm hooked. Even if the other half starts having sex again, I ain't stopping punting. Pandora's box has opened

[BRB22]

Och aye. You’ve been here two and a half years but I guess your two fingers are too short to reach the keyboard when writing s review.  . no offence.   

I don't really post on here that much,I don't have much to say. i have seizures every couple months.

[Herts_Outcaller]

Anyways, the above is a bit of a sob story, but also, what the other guys said about access to a standard of girls and services I could previously only dream of 

The sex I've had in the last couple of years since I started punting have been WONDERFUL. I LOVE punting. It brings joy to my life. I've had threesomes, anal, sex with porn stars, sex with girls of different races. It's been like being a kid in a candy store

[marion70]

 A lot of emotional,honest and truthful answers which I am sure a lot of punters can relate to. I do agree that once you start and had that first encounter with a hot prossie, you will be left wanting for more. Also no doubt that the free internet porn and sites like AW have encouraged more punting.

I do hope that I will be able to put an end to my escapades unless I find a gem of an escort lol 

[mrdiamond77]

Its mainly to have sex with women i would have no chance with usually. I also have mild mental illness and have difficulty talking with women. Punting helps with that.

[uncle jessie]

Why do I po punt?

Convenience
Choice
No baggage
No bullshit - usually 
Indulgence of fetishes that most civvies wouldn't tolerate
Access to hot women that normally  wouldn't piss on me if I was on fire 

  +1 that pretty much sums it up for me too,although choice in my neck of the woods is these days abysmal    .

[Hotdogboy88]

Because I love to fuck different girls all the time. I could never be faithful to anyone and from past experience I can’t be fucked with the hassle of splitting up because they think I should be loyal to them. Just so much easier no strings and generally don’t have to worry about them being needy apart from the few that had EAS for me.

[Home Alone]

I was born with a physical disability which made me desperate "to be normal" - whatever that means. Never thought I'd get married & once I had, quickly realised what a mistake I'd made.

I've not seen, or heard from, the Missus for the best part of 20 years. I made my first tentative steps into one of the Manchester Parlours about 15 years ago & eventually 'graduated' to seeing Escorts from AW a couple of years later. I'm in my 70s now and can't imagine I'd find a 'civvy' woman who'd 'put out'.

And if I did, it'd probably cost me as much in the long run as I set aside for punting. 

[ipreferbutts]

UKE to find out views of escorts.
My view is that you need SA or something similar to find girls that are up for the pleasure. Not saying that there are not the occasional part timers on AW who enjoy being fucked, but pretty rare.

What is SA? I'm not familiar with some of these acronyms.