Okay guys - I'm going to give you a little piece of information which connects the modern world with the world you used to know.
I am a regular traveller to ASEAN and the resorts are a place that I pass through now and again along with the big city traps.
If you're looking for the girls that you used to know and meet, try thinking of a new way to find them.
This is one example of how I met regular local girls, who on occasion accepted money, but often just were so curious about meeting a western guy that they would simply meet and then usually end up back at my hotel room where they had their western guy that girls away from the resorts, bars, parlours etc see on a daily basis.
Travel somewhere off the beaten path, my example is when I was in Davao last year. A reasonably large city, (Duterte's home city) and somewhat an advantage, but not compulsory was that it was a university city and I landed my hotel bang in the vicinity of the uni and let WeChat do the work.
I literally couldn't keep up with the messages, video calls and offers to meet local girls, untouched by the constant procession of tourists seeking to bang them, these were girls that were genuinely excited to see and have sex with a western guy, having blue eyes and blonde hair completely elevates this curiousness amongst the girls and it showed. My hotel room for 4 days in Davao almost became a revolving door and it became a little bit 'awks' walking through reception as the cute girl I'd flirted with on arrival became somewhat dumbstruck as to the calls to confirm that such a body is okay to come to my room!!
My advice on the back of this example and there are more from cities I have been to where I adopted the same mantra and results is to move away from Patts etc and use your head a little. Okay, it may mean a little work, like downloading and creating a profile on WeChat, which incidentally isn't used hardly at all in Europe as I have searched nearby where I live and the only 'locals' are Chinese students at the nearby city university.
You have to remember that in the famous sex tourist resorts and hubs that you're literally on a conveyor belt and unless you can give them something (not financial) but actually blow THEIR minds sexually, you're going to leave unfulfilled. I have actually enjoyed blowing a girls mind in the resorts and leaving them almost shell shocked about what they just experienced other than having to 'tug another guy off,' despite paying for THEIR pleasure. There is no denying that look of 'what the fuck did you just do to me' is a never ending pleasure.