Is it rude to not give a regular a discount?

[Jimmyredcab]

 The other thing to consider is that she might be turning away other regulars who pay her the full rate, and who aren't becoming emotionally involved. Not everyone wants to pay less.

I would think that is highly unlikely --------------- very few pro$$ies are that busy.     

[Trenlover]

I think he meant a £50 discount on a three hour booking.   

Yes this of course  .  she definitely will not budge on rates under 3hr bookings

[Dani]

I'm curious , have you had any 1 client see you in excess of 20 times? Over several months? Do you really envisage yourself being so stern with them if they tell you they are romantically interested.

I have plenty and a couple of which I have become good friends with.  However they know the boundaries and know full well if they declared love for me I would stop seeing them.  It would be rather unfair on me to keep seeing someone who had strong feelings for me if I do not feel the same.  It is far easier to nip it in the bud straight away so the client doesn't end up getting too hurt,

Its nto being stern or cruel in fact it is being fair to them.  There is no chance of anything more than a paid for visit so why on earth would I allow them to think there is.  To keep seeing him just for his money knowing he is developing feelings for me now that would be the cruel thing to do

[Mystique46m]

I think he meant a £50 discount on a three hour booking.   

Thanks, I thought it was a bit too much of a bargain!!!

[Strawberry]

I would think that is highly unlikely --------------- very few pro$$ies are that busy.     

It's not necessarily a function of being busy. Sometimes clients want the same times, cannot be flexible. Someone else asks for that same time.

[Cornish sub]

Or to be really pedantic

You could of added an F

Have or could've.

[Trenlover]

I suspected not, interesting.

I've had clients see me for very frequently for short appointments, not long ones. The other thing to consider is that she might be turning away other regulars who pay her the full rate, and who aren't becoming emotionally involved. Not everyone wants to pay less.

Do you have any contact between bookings?Or is it as simple as agreeing a time, date and duration?

We've had a bit of contact outside of bookings ,onetime  she asked me to go subway with her onetime after a session to which I foolishly declined ( wasn't hungry )  other than that some random "how are you" texts.   

I might just stop seeing her for a few weeks and see if she bothers to contact me.  Well yes I know how pathetic this all sounds

Honestly I wouldn't give a shit if I didn't like her so much

[CoolTiger]

We've had a bit of contact outside of bookings ,onetime  she asked me to go subway with her onetime after a session to which I foolishly declined ( wasn't hungry )  other than that some random "how are you" texts.   

I might just stop seeing her for a few weeks and see if she bothers to contact me.  Well yes I know how pathetic this all sounds

Honestly I wouldn't give a shit if I didn't like her so much

They might appear to be random to you, but most members here will agree that it is seen as touting herself, for you to go and see her.

If you stop seeing her like you suggest, see how her reaction is. Is she missing you or is she missing your wallet/ATM/Cash Bank etc.

[Strawberry]

They might appear to be random to you, but most members here will agree that it is seen as touting herself, for you to go and see her.

If you stop seeing her like you suggest, see how her reaction is. Is she missing you or is she missing your wallet/ATM/Cash Bank etc.

I'm not sure whether he means the texts were from her, or from him and whether or not they'd said it was ok to contact each other unsolicited.

[Strawberry]

Thanks that helps alot. some great advice here im happy I brought this up.

Another problem  I have though is If I stopped seeing her I know I would end up going back to random punting, and the average service you get these days is so bad. Atleast with this WG I like I know im guaranteed a good service.

Well why not just back off, sort your head out, stop hoping for things that aren't there, see her less frequently and enjoy the booking time?

[squeezebox]

If it's true, the OP is in-between a rock and a hard place.

The WG concerned made her feelings clear when the OP asked for a discount and didn't confirm he was special enough to get one. Your "love" has not reciprocated, so you should treat the news the same way you would with a real girlfriend/civvie.

Decide if she is hot and shag her anyway and accept there is no future, or dump her   

Always remember though, some WG's are looking for an exit strategy, so the answer may not always be no. 

[finn5555]

Do we know who the pro$$ie is in question 

[Jimmyredcab]

Do we know who the pro$$ie is in question 

He hasn't identified her, best not to anyway, the sisterhood will let her know.   

[JB1969]

I went back to see a lady twice now and on the second visit she did not have any change so handed me £20 back and did not want to hear about taking the £20 as it was my fault for not having the correct amount. From what I have learnt so far other girls would have kept the £20

[theotherside]

I'm curious , have you had any 1 client see you in excess of 20 times? Over several months? Do you really envisage yourself being so stern with them if they tell you they are romantically interested.

Yes. I have made it very clear with one of my regulars as he was getting very romantic that if that carries on that I will have to stop seeing him I then didnt see him for a month to calm down. He seems to have got the message but only time will tell and bookings have resumed as normal.
 

[finn5555]

Anyone who falls in love with a pro$$ie are heading for a big fall 

[Roland D Hay]

We've had a bit of contact outside of bookings ,onetime  she asked me to go subway with her onetime after a session to which I foolishly declined

Not so foolish, she only wanted you to pay for her sandwich and crisps 

[Sailormack]

Unlikely, you are a cash cow.
Can't understand why you left it so long before suggesting a discount. 

I generally ask during the first booking, just as I am cumming over her face.

Very difficult to refuse 

[kingkong]

I generally ask during the first booking, just as I am cumming over her face.

Very difficult to refuse 

mine don't charge me VAT because I pay cash in hand

[badsin]

Its easy to develop feelings for a WG, however from the ladies reaction it is quite obvious that those feelings are not shared. A shame, however it happens in all walks of life.
I recently got knocked back by a good female friend, whom I have known for almost 30 years (since junior school). We are still good friends, and admittedly I have'nt been shagging her for the past 10 months.
Knock backs are part of life, pick yourself up, dust yourself off and get going again. Ideally with a different WG. *I think most punters have had feelings for their WG's at some point - so you arent alone!*

Discounts: I have never asked. However my 'regular' at the moment offered a MASSIVELY discounted rate on our first meet - and has honoured that price since. Which means I have not bankrupted myself

Advice: Find a new WG (or civilian if you fancy!), the best way to get over one - is to get on top of another

[jimbobwood]

He hasn't identified her, best not to anyway, the sisterhood will let her know.   

I can't see what the problem is! This is good free publicity for her, many prossies would give their right arm for this free exposure. And who cares about the sisterhood, all prossies talk to each other about punters in these brothels. They probably take the right piss out of us. This will not be news to her, in fact he might get a discount off her for this exposure. The OP wants out of the situation before he goes insane.

It depends on how much the prossie knows about the OP. I think over 20 sessions, she probably knows quite a bit about him. He is not doing any harm to the prossie by posting this topic.

[NIK]

I have seen Amy in Paddington maybe 50 times and she has never offered a discount. Then again I have never asked for one!
I did inadvertently under pay her once, but made it up the next time.
She also once said she'd always charged £200 and wouldn't work for any less. She takes the attitude that if people want to pay it they will and if they don't want to pay it they won't see her. She doesn't seem very busy though!    Then again she doesn't have to rely on prossying for her sole income.

[Jimmyredcab]

And who cares about the sisterhood.

The sisterhood hate this forum with a passion, they tip girls off if they are being discussed on here. 

[AnthG]

I can't see what the problem is! This is good free publicity for her, many prossies would give their right arm for this free exposure.

You would think, but you are forgetting prostitutes are not the best businesswomen in the world. Or are sensible, or are able to see any part of a bigger picture, or are sane for the most part.

And before people take offence. I am not saying who this is, but I have raved about one girl I have seen and saying she is one of the best bookings I have ever had over and over again. As a result, she still got offended as it seems I never raved about her to what she felt she deserved and as a result gave me the worst repeat booking I have ever had. But she only let me know she felt this way after she took my money for the subsequent booking.

[finn5555]

You would think, but you are forgetting prostitutes are not the best businesswomen in the world. Or are sensible, or are able to see any part of a bigger picture, or are sane for the most part.

And before people take offence. I am not saying who this is, but I have raved about one girl I have seen and saying she is one of the best bookings I have ever had over and over again as a result, and she still got offended as it seems I never raved about her to what she felt she deserved and as a result gave me the worst repeat booking I have ever had. But she only let me know she felt this way after she took my money for the subsequent booking.

Name and shame Anth 

[finn5555]

The sisterhood hate this forum with a passion, they tip girls off if they are being discussed on here. 

Who gives a fuck about the sisterhood? Surely some of them must have retired by now 

[Trenlover]

Yes. I have made it very clear with one of my regulars as he was getting very romantic that if that carries on that I will have to stop seeing him I then didnt see him for a month to calm down. He seems to have got the message but only time will tell and bookings have resumed as normal.

Ironically if the WG did that to me I would be so offended I would instantly end it. The first time I told her I love her she just went bright red and buried her face in the pillow ( didnt say anything ). The second time she said "really, then you need to stop". Third time I said it by text she just replied "i know x"

Kind of leading me on a bit I suppose. TBH at 23 I dont think she has the maturity to deal with me and its a situation im sure shes never been in. ( neither have I really ).

Anyway, probably best to let this thread die, ( or stay on topic, I asked if its rude to not offer regulars good deals )   

ive had alot of good advice, sorry to everyone itching to know who the WG is but im not going to reveal, the thought of her seeing other guys is extremely painful not to mention when she gets feedback. Im not about to commit emotional suicide.

[Persie]

You would think, but you are forgetting prostitutes are not the best businesswomen in the world. Or are sensible, or are able to see any part of a bigger picture, or are sane for the most part.

And before people take offence. I am not saying who this is, but I have raved about one girl I have seen and saying she is one of the best bookings I have ever had over and over again. As a result, she still got offended as it seems I never raved about her to what she felt she deserved and as a result gave me the worst repeat booking I have ever had. But she only let me know she felt this way after she took my money for the subsequent booking.

This cracked me up

[willbred]

Anyway, probably best to let this thread die, ( or stay on topic, I asked if its rude to not offer regulars good deals )   

My answer to OPs question... No!
My observation on OP's situation is he's obsessed with the girl; has gone over the edge; it will end in tears for one (or both) and whatever any of us say; advise or counsel, the OP will follow his chosen course of self - destruction. Like Smiths and no doubt others, I have been " in lust" with a WG once. I came out the other side (so to speak) but only after a period of cold turkey.

[smiths]

Anyway, probably best to let this thread die, ( or stay on topic, I asked if its rude to not offer regulars good deals )   

My answer to OPs question... No!
My observation on OP's situation is he's obsessed with the girl; has gone over the edge; it will end in tears for one (or both) and whatever any of us say; advise or counsel, the OP will follow his chosen course of self - destruction. Like Smiths and no doubt others, I have been " in lust" with a WG once. I came out the other side (so to speak) but only after a period of cold turkey.

My cold turkey consisted of punting as much as i could manage with other WGs.

[Strawberry]

Ironically if the WG did that to me I would be so offended I would instantly end it. The first time I told her I love her she just went bright red and buried her face in the pillow ( didnt say anything ). The second time she said "really, then you need to stop". Third time I said it by text she just replied "i know x"

Kind of leading me on a bit I suppose. TBH at 23 I dont think she has the maturity to deal with me and its a situation im sure shes never been in. ( neither have I really ).

Anyway, probably best to let this thread die, ( or stay on topic, I asked if its rude to not offer regulars good deals )   

ive had alot of good advice, sorry to everyone itching to know who the WG is but im not going to reveal, the thought of her seeing other guys is extremely painful not to mention when she gets feedback. Im not about to commit emotional suicide.

It can be really difficult for anyone to turn around and say "Get lost matey boy", you've quoted her as saying if you are in love then you need to stop, but you've carried on. Sounds like she's being polite and it's a fine line to tread - some guys become obsessive or cause trouble when told not to book again.

Only you can let yourself be lead on and I'm not convinced you aren't leading yourself on.

[rbh]

lol as someone who likes to pick things up and put them down, tren can only means one thing to me.

Maybe that's part of the problem OP - that stuff can have a negative effect on your mental health.

Novelty value?Letting some bloke you know nothing about into your place, you don't even know if he's going to turn up, what he's going to be like. Sure there's some excitement but I'd not call it novelty value. A new client isn't some sort of new toy. I'm also not aware of the service decline, the mainstay of my business is regulars and you never know who's going to become a regular, so I treat new clients and old clients alike - madness to not put the same if not more effort in if someone is continuing to visit. 50% of new clients don't turn up and this drop out rate declines with subsequent bookings (provided they've gotten to you once!).

Re the OP, I'm interested in your nickname, can you explain the tren bit is it a reference to the woman you speak of?

[Trenlover]

It can be really difficult for anyone to turn around and say "Get lost matey boy", you've quoted her as saying if you are in love then you need to stop, but you've carried on. Sounds like she's being polite and it's a fine line to tread - some guys become obsessive or cause trouble when told not to book again.

Only you can let yourself be lead on and I'm not convinced you aren't leading yourself on.

If she tells me not to book again, I will reveal her on here. One thing I wont do however is become some obsessive stalker. I know it would never work anyway, and I certainly dont want a pro$$ie for a GF. She would have to quite escorting, but I dont have the income to fully support her. So its going nowhere.

Hopefully the coolidge effect will kick in at some point, its been 10 months already.

[Trenlover]

lol as someone who likes to pick things up and put them down, tren can only means one thing to me.

Maybe that's part of the problem OP - that stuff can have a negative effect on your mental health.

ooooooohhhh.... we have a winner. However it didnt affect my mental health just gave me the worst insomnia ive ever had. Still love it though.

[rbh]

ooooooohhhh.... we have a winner. However it didnt affect my mental health just gave me the worst insomnia ive ever had. Still love it though.

Out of curiosity how does it effect performance (in the punting sense). Are you currently riding?

[Mystique46m]

Tren is a steroid, right?!

[mystery7]

Think I know who it is

[Persie]

Think I know who it is

Spill the beans

[Trenlover]

Out of curiosity how does it effect performance (in the punting sense). Are you currently riding?

im off for now, however it caused severe anorgasmia , no doubt due to prolactin, Caber was only of mild help.

[Trenlover]

Think I know who it is

I doubt it, UNLESS she has been talking about me with other guys which I highly doubt, and in that case I am already betrayed.

[mystery7]

Just read through his other threads and put the pieces together Don't want to completely out him though as I went through a similar thing early in my punting days. There's only so many 20 something girls in the london area that have tons of punters and allow filming (although she must like you as face filming is normally a no no) I could be wrong though......It wouldn't be the first time.
And Trenlover, she's not going to stop you going around if your spunking £700 on her a month. Don't worry 

[JB1969]

Who gives a fuck about the sisterhood? Surely some of them must have retired by now 

Whose the sisterhood?

[Trenlover]

And Trenlover, she's not going to stop you going around if your spunking £700 on her a month. Don't worry 

aye, I need to stop that though 700 is really overbudget, 400 is my normal budget. Thank you for humiliating me in such a gentle way.

[mystery7]

If I had that kind of money id do exactly the same mate

[theotherside]

Ironically if the WG did that to me I would be so offended I would instantly end it. The first time I told her I love her she just went bright red and buried her face in the pillow ( didnt say anything ). The second time she said "really, then you need to stop". Third time I said it by text she just replied "i know x"

Kind of leading me on a bit I suppose. TBH at 23 I dont think she has the maturity to deal with me and its a situation im sure shes never been in. ( neither have I really ).

Anyway, probably best to let this thread die, ( or stay on topic, I asked if its rude to not offer regulars good deals )   

ive had alot of good advice, sorry to everyone itching to know who the WG is but im not going to reveal, the thought of her seeing other guys is extremely painful not to mention when she gets feedback. Im not about to commit emotional suicide.

I think being offended and ending it would've been a better outcome for you then what you are currently going through. I hope you do get a positive outcome whatever happens it's not nice when you go through something like this.

Original question its not rude not to offer regulars discounts.

[Cornish sub]

but I dont have the income to fully support her.

Unless I've missed something (well, it is a very long thread), that's exactly what you HAVE been doing, supporting her to the tune of thousands of pounds.

[CatBBW]

Ironically if the WG did that to me I would be so offended I would instantly end it. 1) The first time I told her I love her she just went bright red and buried her face in the pillow ( didnt say anything ). 2) The second time she said "really, then you need to stop". 3)Third time I said it by text she just replied "i know x"

Kind of leading me on a bit I suppose. TBH at 23 I dont think she has the maturity to deal with me and its a situation im sure shes never been in. ( neither have I really ).

HOW is she leading you on?!? She has made it perfectly clear that 1) you have embarrassed and angered her, 2) you've made her feel very uncomfortable to the point where she is TELLING you to stop, and 3) you are boring her about it.

At 31, I feel YOU are the one who doesn't have the emotional maturity to know when to back the fuck off from a woman who's made it clear she doesn't want you to talk about your feelings to her.

[CatBBW]

ooooooohhhh.... we have a winner. However it didnt affect my mental health ... {snips}

Not much....

[Cornish sub]

HOW is she leading you on?!? She has made it perfectly clear that 1) you have embarrassed and angered her, 2) you've made her feel very uncomfortable to the point where she is TELLING you to stop, and 3) you are boring her about it.

At 31, I feel YOU are the one who doesn't have the emotional maturity to know when to back the fuck off from a woman who's made it clear she doesn't want you to talk about your feelings to her.

Spot on.

[zatoichi]

Anyway, probably best to let this thread die, ( or stay on topic, I asked if its rude to not offer regulars good deals )   

My answer to OPs question... No!
My observation on OP's situation is he's obsessed with the girl; has gone over the edge; it will end in tears for one (or both) and whatever any of us say; advise or counsel, the OP will follow his chosen course of self - destruction. Like Smiths and no doubt others, I have been " in lust" with a WG once. I came out the other side (so to speak) but only after a period of cold turkey.

Exactly this which is why i'm supprised that some people are telling him to keep seeing her as theres no way this can end well