Is it rude to not give a regular a discount?

[Trenlover]

When I was new (a while back), I had the displeasure of going through a similar scenario, a few times in fact. It's not a nice situation to be in. I believe it was my fault to some extent, because I was always extremely friendly towards every punter, often allowing the meets to run over the booked time, sharing things about myself and my personal life, offering discounted sessions, the list goes on... So I guess one could say that the boundaries became blurred, the guys thought they were my "friends", and "special".

While the vast majority simply appreciated my friendliness for what it was (some even warned me about giving away too much personal info to strangers), there happened to be a few who simply couldn't get their heads round the fact that I was just trying to do my job i.e. give them the GFE they had asked for. And yes, sometimes they even managed to make me orgasm, but isn't that just one one of the perks of this job? I was well and truly mortified when one day a regular client told me he loved me, I was so shocked I didn't actually say anything, but knew that I wouldn't and couldn't see him ever again. He became obsessed, wouldn't stop calling (often from different numbers) despite me telling him that I didn't want to be contacted by him any more, turned up in the middle of the night buzzing my flat number, texting things like "I am so devastated, I thought we had a connection" each and every time I got new feedback and so on. It went on for about a month, until I decided enough was enough, told one of my close friends (male) about my escorting. I asked him to call the guy, to perhaps try and talk some sense into him. Thank god it worked!

Since then, it's happened a handful of times, but never so extreme. There really isn't a nice way to tell another person that you're not into them at all, but it has to be done. I learned the hard way that one must never overstep the boundaries in this game.

So OP, the bottom line is, if an escort ever felt that you were special, or she loved you, or even thought you deserved a discount, she'd let you know, I'm sure. If she doesn't... well, enjoy it for what it is: great sex without the drama that comes with a relationship. In the future, before you tell a WG you love her, you might want to consider that if the feeling isn't mutual, you're putting her in a very uncomfortable position. I can only speak for myself, but I think it's always safe to assume that the persona she adapts during your 1h or 2h meet does not resemble her real (normal if you like) self. Make the most of it but don't get attached!

I have to say I can easily see how you can turn into a stalker once romance feelings develop. Thats not my style however. Other than checking her profile several times a day. I have the self respect not to let it go further than that.

[Cornish sub]

Prossies are indispensible just as you are as a client

I think, in the context of what you're trying to say to the OP, you meant dispensible, not indispensible.

[Jimmyredcab]

I think, in the context of what you're trying to say to the OP, you meant dispensible, not indispensible.

Yes, I noticed that but didn't want to appear pedantic.   

[Riot Doll]

I have to say I can easily see how you can turn into a stalker once romance feelings develop. Thats not my style however. Other than checking her profile several times a day. I have the self respect not to let it go further than that.

In this case, I stand corrected, hope you manage to get over it soon 

[Curious6705]

Yes, I noticed that but didn't want to appear pedantic.   

I you wanted to be pedantic you would have said he meant dispensable not dispensible ...

[Trenlover]

Over the last 30 years I have "had feelings" for a number of pro$$ies ---------------- but no way could it be described as "falling in love".

Then believe me, you dont know how lucky you are.

Either way, things are going to end badly for me im sure. heartbreak or heartbreak + bankrupt. lol

[Curious6705]

Then believe me, you dont know how lucky you are.

Either way, things are going to end badly for me im sure. heartbreak or heartbreak + bankrupt. lol

Well - tough advice here - ban yourself from looking at her profile or having anything else to do with her. Wallow in the "heartbreak" - you'll be over it in a few weeks. 

[jimbobwood]

I see a few people here are surprised you can fall in love with a WG. It shouldnt be surprising, see psychiatric therapy for example.

It is well known most patients fall in love with their therapists, a phenomenon known as transference.

So I dont see why it would be so shocking to fall in love with someone your having sex with, when it has been documented to happen so often with people your just talking with ( therapist ).

when you spend alot of intimate 1 on 1 time with someone, feelings can develop. as I said before, ive seen alot of very attractive WG's. But only once have I fallen for one.

You'll need psychiatric therapy after you've finished with this prossie!

I still think it's lust. You like her personality but you don't know the real her. She could be a nasty bitch outside of work. I don't know, you're in really in deep with this prossie. Keep seeing her until she rejects. There's no easy way out, you'll feel like shit for a week. You'll feel angry you've fallen for her and you've spent so much money on her, probably £2000-3000. You know now the feelings are not mutual, you are just waiting for her to give you a shit service and gets fed up with you. Not a good situation to be in.

You want a civvie girlfriend you can connect with and can fuck, similar situation to me. It's hard to find, but keep trying.

There are other good prossies offering a great service, check the review sections. Most prossies who are worthwhile have been mentioned.

[Jayjay]

Heart broken already, you will be bankrupt soon, she is in no way game or stringing you along, you have already recognised the problem... Now sort yourself out.

[Cornish sub]

Yes, I noticed that but didn't want to appear pedantic.   

Oh I've got no qualms with being pedantic if it's done with the intention of clearing up potential confusion.

[Jayjay]

And post her details on here... Will help kick start the recovery process!

[smiths]

Well - tough advice here - ban yourself from looking at her profile or having anything else to do with her. Wallow in the "heartbreak" - you'll be over it in a few weeks. 

I agree, and its worked for me, a couple of weeks later i had forgotten about the WG i feel in lust with.

[AnthG]

And post her details on here... Will help kick start the recovery process!

If you post her details up here, one of the sisterhood will within minutes pass on a link to the thread to her, and you will know in seconds where you stand when phoning her up for your next booking.

[Jimmyredcab]

There are other good prossies offering a great service, check the review sections. Most prossies who are worthwhile have been mentioned.

There is a  load of shit in the reviews section ------------------ not Michelle Independant obviously.   

[Jimmyredcab]

If you post her details up here, one of the sisterhood will within minutes pass on a link to the thread to her, and you will know in seconds where you stand when phoning her up for your next booking.

Yes, absolutely correct.
We have a mole on here who passes on information, maybe not a regular poster, more likely a lurker ------------ beware.   

[Cornish sub]

I you wanted to be pedantic you would have said he meant dispensable not dispensible ...

And presumably you meant, "If you wanted to be pedantic...." not, "I you wanted to be pedantic...." ? But I take your point, ref. indispensible/able. My mistake.

[Trenlover]

Keep seeing her until she rejects. There's no easy way out, you'll feel like shit for a week.  you are just waiting for her to give you a shit service and gets fed up with you. Not a good situation to be in.

I expect this is how it will play out. Hopefully at some point she will cut me off. Maybe I just need to be more mushy with her during our sessions to get that ball rolling.

[Jimmyredcab]

I expect this is how it will play out. Hopefully at some point she will cut me off. Maybe I just need to be more mushy with her during our sessions to get that ball rolling.

Unlikely, you are a cash cow.
Can't understand why you left it so long before suggesting a discount. 

[Riot Doll]

I expect this is how it will play out. Hopefully at some point she will cut me off. Maybe I just need to be more mushy with her during our sessions to get that ball rolling.

I forgot to add in my earlier post, I am perplexed as to why she still takes your bookings? Maybe she thought you weren't being serious and just trying to wind her up? Or perhaps fellow WG's are just a bit more tolerant than I am/ care less than I do 

[Jimmyredcab]

I forgot to add in my earlier post, I am perplexed as to why she still takes your bookings?

££££££££££££££$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$

[AnthG]

I expect this is how it will play out. Hopefully at some point she will cut me off. Maybe I just need to be more mushy with her during our sessions to get that ball rolling.

I am sorry but the constant contradictions in your posts in this thread make little sense. So now you want her to kick you out and block you. If so what does any of this matter?

I know you say you want her to block you for your own benefit. But my point is, if you are wanting that for your own sanity anyway, what does it matter what you do in subsequent bookings to see if she likes you back. You could effectively build a tent on her front lawn if all you want is to be blocked from future bookings.

Go into the next booking and say, I have met a great girl, she is offering £20 less than you per hour. However I really like you and want to see you more.

[Riot Doll]

££££££££££££££$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$

Shit, didn't think of that! 

[Trenlover]

Unlikely, you are a cash cow.
Can't understand why you left it so long before suggesting a discount. 

want to know how sick? since my last paycheck at the end of october ive already spent £700 on her this month.

now everyone please tell me what a mug i am.

[AnthG]

want to know how sick? since my last paycheck at the end of october ive already spent £700 on her this month.

now everyone please tell me what a mug i am.

Go into the next booking and say, I have met a great girl, she is offering £20 less than you per hour. However I really like you and want to see you more.

^ !!! ^ !!! ^

[Roland D Hay]

FFS, I'm confused. You're in love so think you should get a discount. She's not interested in anything but your money. She also should have put you straight as soon as you mentioned the love word. Reasonable girls put the punter straight immediately or refuse to see them anymore when they get personal. In your view would a discount indicate that somehow the love was reciprocal?

[Trenlover]

Go into the next booking and say, I have met a great girl, she is offering £20 less than you per hour. However I really like you and want to see you more.

I think the contradictions are a reflection of how deeply involved and fucked up I am by the whole situation. BTW good advice.

[Jimmyredcab]

Go into the next booking and say, I have met a great girl, she is offering £20 less than you per hour. However I really like you and want to see you more.

Not sure if that will work, I remember a girl putting up her rates and telling her that she is now outside of my price range, she quickly pointed out that the increase was for new clients -------------- yeah right.   

[wristjob]

Go into the next booking and say, I have met a great girl, she is offering £20 less than you per hour. However I really like you and want to see you more.

NO! Miss the next booking then go to the one after and when she asks why you missed the booking say as above and you will probably be seeing less of her.

[Riot Doll]

NO! Miss the next booking then go to the one after and when she asks why you missed the booking say as above and you will probably be seeing less of her.

Or better still, make a booking as per usual and don't show up. That should sort it!

[Trenlover]

FFS, I'm confused. You're in love so think you should get a discount. She's not interested in anything but your money. She also should have put you straight as soon as you mentioned the love word. Reasonable girls put the punter straight immediately or refuse to see them anymore when they get personal. In your view would a discount indicate that somehow the love was reciprocal?

yes you are confused. I told her at a separate time point that I love her because I wanted her to know and to see her reaction.

I asked her for a discount recently because im giving her alot of business. I promised to keep seeing her in the future aswell. Usually you get a discount when you buy in bulk.

[Curious6705]

I think the contradictions are a reflection of how deeply involved and fucked up I am by the whole situation. BTW good advice.

I'm beginning to wonder if you're enjoying the attention as much as anything. If this is a wind up you certainly got a response ...

[Roland D Hay]

Well since you appear to have your answer why would you want to keep seeing her?

[Jimmyredcab]

Well since you appear to have your answer why would you want to keep seeing her?

He's in luv innit.     

[AnthG]

Well since you appear to have your answer why would you want to keep seeing her?

He has already answered that one.

Another problem  I have though is If I stopped seeing her I know I would end up going back to random punting, and the average service you get these days is so bad. Atleast with this WG I like I know im guaranteed a good service.

This topic is going around 30 different circles.

[Roland D Hay]

He has already answered that one.

Maybe, I was too bored to read beyond the first post and truth be told I speed read that

[wristjob]

I asked her for a discount recently because im giving her alot of business. I promised to keep seeing her in the future aswell. Usually you get a discount when you buy in bulk.

You aren't buying in bulk. 4 hour sessions would be buying in bulk.

You are a frequent customer. The only way she would give you a discount was if you were to take all that custom elsewhere - not the occasional punt but stop seeing her totally. Up to her then if she wants to keep your business. Saying you love her basically says nobody can replace her - worst thing to say to get a discount.

[Steve2]

I you wanted to be pedantic you would have said he meant dispensable not dispensible ...

Or to be really pedantic

You could of added an F

IF you wanted to be pedantic you would have said he meant dispensable not dispensible

[Steve2]

There is a  load of shit in the reviews section ------------------ not Michelle Independant obviously.   

You've got me on this whole pedantic thing now

It's independent

[zatoichi]

From this phrase I get the feeling you don't really fancy her. Its just not the type of sentence someone would say if they fancied a girl.

You have three options.

1. Keep booking her and that's it
2. Take her on social escorting, no sex, and see how you feel it and she does. And try and see the vibe there.
3. Find out something she is really into and try and make her an offer she can't refuse - e.g she is into a particular musci group, buy two tickets to see them thus making it an offer she wont refuse. - and thus if she does refuse, then you know its definitely a not in a million years thing with you.

My advice from the tone of your post I quoted, do number 1.

All three of those are terrible options.From his posts it seems this is no longer a business transaction for the op.The only thing that can come from continuing to see her is a massive head fuck for him.The more he see's her the worse its going to get.
As for the social escorting or take her on a date to a concert as thats something she wont refuse? Did you see his post,this part in particular
 However when I asked her if I was a *special* customer to her . she recoiled with a look of utter disgust on her face.  I then said that I thought I was special to her and thats why I should get a discount. She then laughed in a condescending way and said "No" in a tone which basically amounted to "no you dont get a discount dont be foolish".
Her response to a "special" customer to her.Recoiled with a look of disgust.That pretty much answers the question of possible romance or relationship.So he takes her to see a band and she's suddenly going to fall head over heels.He keeps pursuing this and all thats going to happen is he's going to get messed up and hurt so why encourage that.

[Persie]

want to know how sick? since my last paycheck at the end of october ive already spent £700 on her this month.

now everyone please tell me what a mug i am.

I can't call you a mug unless you earn less than £700

If you want to ease your way out, stick her details up and let some of the other lads see her.


That way she can dispense with you as you are no longer a cash cow

[Strawberry]

If a WG is good its takes more than 3 punts for the novelty to wear off either in my case.

Novelty value?Letting some bloke you know nothing about into your place, you don't even know if he's going to turn up, what he's going to be like. Sure there's some excitement but I'd not call it novelty value. A new client isn't some sort of new toy. I'm also not aware of the service decline, the mainstay of my business is regulars and you never know who's going to become a regular, so I treat new clients and old clients alike - madness to not put the same if not more effort in if someone is continuing to visit. 50% of new clients don't turn up and this drop out rate declines with subsequent bookings (provided they've gotten to you once!).

Re the OP, I'm interested in your nickname, can you explain the tren bit is it a reference to the woman you speak of?

[Trenlover]

My name is not to do with the wg , I should point out I was offered a big discount on an overnight with her the problem started when I asked for a discount on a 3hr booking for £50

[Trenlover]

If a woman likes a client who is regular then it is up to her if she wants to give a discount.  Just because you feel you give her orgasms and you think you get on well it doesn't mean it is true. It just means she is good at her job.

I and my prossie friends HATE being asked by a client if we think they are special.  It puts us in a position where we have no choice but to offend your feelings by saying I am sorry but no.  You are just a client.

IF she had thought you were a 'special' client (a lot of us have them) then she would have already offered you a discount.  A guy who told me he loved me during a booking would certainly never receive a discount though as it would be leading him on plus make it very difficult for me and put me in an awkward situation

Basically you are in lust with her.  It is not love as you don't even know if anything she has said about her life is true and you only see the pretend person. The actress. You don't know her as people in civvie life know her.  You cannot be in love with someone you don't really know.  What you are in love with is the fantasy she has made for you.

I am actually surprised that she still carried on seeing you after you declared your love as a decent prossie would stop seeing you as it is unfair. For her you are just a guaranteed amount of money every week.  Although not an easy client to see and she should have nipped in the bud as soon as you started getting too close.   Her reaction when you asked if you were special shows you exactly how she feels about you and should have already answered any questions you have about the two of you and the chance of you being anything other than just another paying client. 
Its harsh but her reaction said it all.  Find another girl to see but don't ask questions like 'Am I special' and don't declare your love for them as it makes it so much harder to continue with the booking. Just enjoy it for what it is.  It is a paid for fantasy and nothing more

I'm curious , have you had any 1 client see you in excess of 20 times? Over several months? Do you really envisage yourself being so stern with them if they tell you they are romantically interested.

[finn5555]

So ive been seeing one particular WG since February, ( im in love with her which is its own story ). Ive literally seen her almost every week since the first time we met. We seem to get on really well. We know each other quite well. Ive told her that I love her. She lets me do video's of her ( face included ) I even go down on her and give her orgasm's. I also have her personal number. ( although I never contact her on it, I dont want to come across as stalky )

 However when I asked her if I was a *special* customer to her . she recoiled with a look of utter disgust on her face.  I then said that I thought I was special to her and thats why I should get a discount. She then laughed in a condescending way and said "No" in a tone which basically amounted to "no you dont get a discount dont be foolish".

Im 31, and she is 23, so its not like I would be completely unacceptable to her.

I really want to just end it tbh because I think about her all the time and cant get her out of my head. Whats worse is im EXTREMELY jealous that shes seeing other guys and when other guys give her feedback its extremely painful.

She is only interested in your money grow a pair and move on before you end up skint 

[Jimmyredcab]

She is only interested in your money grow a pair and move on before you end up skint 

+100     

[Tailpipe]

She is only interested in your money grow a pair and move on before you end up skint 

Finn is 100% correct bin it move on punt others to forget her. Once you have binned it ,you will reflect on how silly you have been sooner you do this the better.

[potato]

Time for a reality check I think!    Its time to move on and fast...   You have an infatuation with her and you must break the habit immediately.  She has made it quite clear that you are not special in any way.  I think she is being rather irresponsible in not ceasing from seeing you as soon as you declared your love for her - that shows that she is the worse sort of pro$$ie - one that puts money at the top of her list and stuff everything else.  Is easy to get drawn into this sort of scenario - you see her once a week, you have a good time, you think you have clicked with her on some level - but a good pro$$ie wants you to feel like that to keep you coming back for more. Only, a good pro$$ie, would recognise the signs and lay it on the line before it got too deep.  They don't want stalkers or jealous punters - they don't want anything that disrupts their way of life. So get out fast mate.

As for the discount thing. I have always found that most are willing to reduce prices or extend time after a few visits, no problem. If you are a reasonable client to them and a "safe bet" then it is in their interest to keep you.  I know a few girls that have established a good regular client base, nicely spaced over the week and they no longer even appear on AW - unless they have a "space to fill". These tend to be part timers working around their normal day jobs..

[Mystique46m]

My name is not to do with the wg , I should point out I was offered a big discount on an overnight with her the problem started when I asked for a discount on a 3hr booking for £50

That's already....ahem......QUITE a good rate, isn't it........???!!!

[Jimmyredcab]

That's already....ahem......QUITE a good rate, isn't it........???!!!

I think he meant a £50 discount on a three hour booking.   

[Strawberry]

My name is not to do with the wg , I should point out I was offered a big discount on an overnight with her the problem started when I asked for a discount on a 3hr booking for £50

I suspected not, interesting.

I've had clients see me for very frequently for short appointments, not long ones. The other thing to consider is that she might be turning away other regulars who pay her the full rate, and who aren't becoming emotionally involved. Not everyone wants to pay less.

Do you have any contact between bookings?Or is it as simple as agreeing a time, date and duration?