I have a high sex drive for a woman, I can get really bloody shitty when I do not get enough. However, I do find that if I have stuff to do that I can forget to make time/my head is only focused on what I am doing. I therefore can prioritise the washing up over my partners need for attention at times, I think it is a part of being female in a way?
So the day I got proposed to I kind of gave my man a 'gift', that he could have sex whenever he wanted, end of. End of. Naturally he respects when I am ill etc. Fact is, sometimes guys want to shoot and run or I do not want an hour of foreplay when woken as my need for caffeine is stronger(sad but it is a fact). I have found that by doing this I am far more inclined to initiate as I am twice as randy, as having a quicky on the way back from ASDA makes me feel very desired.
My point? I think if a woman feels DESIRED they will not go off of it. I may be wrong, but that is certainly how my head works.