Some of these "tantra" providers make me laugh - happy to take money for a HE/sensual massage then try all this swearing to secrecy, thinking that is will never "get out" - as I said above, why offer these services if you are are worried it may come out and would be a major problem - you can't trust your punters totally, just as punters don't trust providers with everything be it names, personal details etc. If you want to run a legit, no "extras" business then masseuses should do that, but then don't moan about lack of clients and their cash from "extras"