Chatting with the girls

[Yorksrabbit]

I have a small group of regular girls with whom I exchange mails occasionally on Adultwork or Whatsapp.
From time to time one of them will complain that they have been 'negged' by a punter - sometimes deservedly, sometimes not.
Yesterday I made the mistake of reporting that one of my girls was furious after one accusation which the punter subsequently admitted was probably incorrect.
For this, I have been accused of consorting with the enemy and of being untrustworthy!
Sorry but I hadn't realised this was a war. I thought the idea was for us to have a good time and for the girls to make a good living. That is in all our interests.
Part of the enjoyment for me is chatting with these girls and I am not doing fellow punters any harm since I don't know who they are. My reviews are always honest but I don't turn nasty if I am let down occasionally. There are always going to be a lot of WGs with chaotic lifestyles who struggle to organise themselves and I don't feel any need to give them a kicking on UKP when they cause me some fairly minor inconvenience.
Am I wrong? Should I become Mr Nasty and never speak to my girls again?

[vw]

Am I wrong? Should I become Mr Nasty and never speak to my girls again?

What do you mean my girls you sound like a pimp, as for the rest of this needy crybaby crap WTF

Pathetic

Do what you want just don't expect anyone to trust your friend reviews.

Are you related to CTID ?

Maybe read his thread  https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=150144.0

[Hertsgent]

Doesn't seem a great idea to me....why don't you pick if you want to be a punter or a pimp/tout, and then decide on where an appropriate forum is for you?

[James999]

I have a small group of regular girls with whom I exchange mails occasionally on Adultwork or Whatsapp.
From time to time one of them will complain that they have been 'negged' by a punter - sometimes deservedly, sometimes not.
Yesterday I made the mistake of reporting that one of my girls was furious after one accusation which the punter subsequently admitted was probably incorrect.
For this, I have been accused of consorting with the enemy and of being untrustworthy!
Sorry but I hadn't realised this was a war. I thought the idea was for us to have a good time and for the girls to make a good living. That is in all our interests.
Part of the enjoyment for me is chatting with these girls and I am not doing fellow punters any harm since I don't know who they are. My reviews are always honest but I don't turn nasty if I am let down occasionally. There are always going to be a lot of WGs with chaotic lifestyles who struggle to organise themselves and I don't feel any need to give them a kicking on UKP when they cause me some fairly minor inconvenience.
Am I wrong? Should I become Mr Nasty and never speak to my girls again?

Stop trying to suck up to pro$$ies, they only talk to you because they want your cash / bookings, ask one to spend time with you off the clock and you will quickly see what they think of you, "your girls" 

[Zeusthedoc]

echoing VW's comments...

why 'my girls' - you realise that they're not actually friends, right?!

[SeekingtheTruth]

Should I become Mr Nasty and never speak to my girls again?

This made me chuckle.

"my girls" indeed.

Fool.

[Boinky]

My reviews are always honest but I don't turn nasty if I am let down occasionally.

So do you report this in your reviews or do you just let it slide so we can all get messed about with?

There are always going to be a lot of WGs with chaotic lifestyles who struggle to organise themselves

There's one good reason not get involved with them beyond what the majority of members on here do. Sex for cash, it's a business transaction. You're not paying to hear their problems or get involved with their lives. There's no reason not to be polite, friendly, flirty etc with them when you're there but once you've left the building it's goodbye until next time. 

and I don't feel any need to give them a kicking on UKP when they cause me some fairly minor inconvenience.

What you consider a minor inconvenience I consider to be a waste of my time. If they can't organise something as simple as a few appointments a day then they can fuck off and I'll take my cash elsewhere.
So again comes the point of are you honest and truthful in your reviews or do you just let it slide and forget about it?

Am I wrong? Should I become Mr Nasty and never speak to my girls again?

That's pretty sad.... and desperate sounding. 

[Lincs.man1]

 

[cueball]

my girls

Any punter that considers any prossie as 'my girl' is more deluded and more of a menace to all involved than any of us grumpy buggers.

You're discussing ukp and other punters with prossies.

This thread started your wet moaning.....
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=157382.0;all

I stand by what I posted on it.... you're not to be trusted

You have zero credibility on here imo. And after this load of soppy wet shite, there will be no change.

I predict a dickhead white knight meltdown as soon as one of 'your' girls picks up a negative review.

You've done yourself no favours starting this thread neither.

[threechilliman]

Links to 'your girls' then the team can road test them for you. And report back honestly.

What a load of old bollocks.

[lewisjones23]

faggot

[mrfishyfoo]

.....and for the girls to make a good living.

Name me one other job where a lass can easily earn £800+ per day for 8 hours "work" when all she is actually doing is lying on her back and basically doing fuck all. The reality is that the pro$$ies we all share between us are on a FANTASTIC wage that your average punter can only dream of. A pro$$ie can easily earn £72K per year just doing 3 hours a day 5 days a week 48 weeks per year and all she needs to charge is £100ph. FFS do the maths and you will see I am right.

The reality whether you like it or not is that they are buttering your ego for return business. FFS they are all whores and we are nothing but cash machines to them.

To believe anything else is delusional and stinks of EAS IMHO.

It's been said time after time.....ask for a freebie and see what reaction you get.

[Melfort212]

Why the fuck are you in a group between WGs? FFS.

Leave now.

[Plan R]

OP maybe you could clear something up for me.
If one of em licks my arse then drinks my spunk... will she still be  'your girl' ?
Many thanks
 

[Bangers and Gash]

Can anyone else hear a slight ticking noise...?   

[Weyoun]

And OP has now gone crying to Admin. Mate if you were that bothered why make it worse by attention seeking with this thread.

Let me spell it out for you. These girls are not your friends, if you didn't pay to fuck them they probably wouldn't spit on you if you were on fire. Sounds like you've wrapped yourself up in a fantasy.

I would enjoy your stay while it lasts. I hear the same ticking that Bangers does.

[Rochelle]

Not sure why he's getting such a kicking. Nothing wrong with being pals as well. I'm going out for a drink with a client sometime soon, just as pals, but he knows that for anything other than that he's gotta book me. It's no big deal. It can all be innocent, it does happen.

[vw]

Not sure why he's getting such a kicking. Nothing wrong with being pals as well. I'm going out for a drink with a client sometime soon, just as pals, but he knows that for anything other than that he's gotta book me. It's no big deal. It can all be innocent, it does happen.

Because you don't understand the ethos of the site, more touting by you?

Has your friend reviewed you?

[Zeusthedoc]

Not sure why he's getting such a kicking. Nothing wrong with being pals as well. I'm going out for a drink with a client sometime soon, just as pals, but he knows that for anything other than that he's gotta book me. It's no big deal. It can all be innocent, it does happen.

it's more to do with the way he refers to 'his girls'.
sounds like a right twat!

[Rochelle]

Because you don't understand the ethos of the site, more touting by you?

Every post I make you accuse me of touting when I clearly am not.
If I was touting I wouldn't still be here.
I doubt my client/pal knows about the site. We've never spoken about it. Also, you can see exactly who's reviewed me so nice try.

[fredpunter]

Not sure why he's getting such a kicking. Nothing wrong with being pals as well. I'm going out for a drink with a client sometime soon, just as pals, but he knows that for anything other than that he's gotta book me. It's no big deal. It can all be innocent, it does happen.

+1 ... can't claim to have many wg friends myself and everyone is entitled to disagree with the op but why so many react like angry toddlers to his post is beyond me.

Not sure he was wise to request the delete of a post in the "reported posts" thread though.

[Melfort212]

Not sure why he's getting such a kicking. Nothing wrong with being pals as well. I'm going out for a drink with a client sometime soon, just as pals, but he knows that for anything other than that he's gotta book me. It's no big deal. It can all be innocent, it does happen.

Well that is one thing, you are making a personal effort to go out with him. Clearly you want to spend time with this guy and that is great. But being in a convo group, that's just weird.

[Rochelle]

+1 ... can't claim to have many wg friends myself and everyone is entitled to disagree with the op but why so many react like angry toddlers to his post is beyond me.

Not sure he was wise to request the delete of a post in the "reported posts" thread though.

Agreed, the post report and the comment it was related to were totally unnecessary.

[Bangers and Gash]

''Comment: Tia is not happy that her views were reported by me and would like this post removed. I know you don't normally do this but the degree of venom being aimed at both of us is unacceptable IMO''

 

[vw]

Every post I make you accuse me of touting when I clearly am not.
If I was touting I wouldn't still be here.
I doubt my client/pal knows about the site. We've never spoken about it. Also, you can see exactly who's reviewed me so nice try.

/
Your interest here is lowlevel touting that's clear as day, expect your presence here has also put off some people posting negatives.

[Rochelle]

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Your interest here is lowlevel touting that's clear as day, expect your presence here has also put off some people posting negatives.

Again, if I was touting I'd be banned by now. I'm allowed to be a member, get over it.
If anyone wanted to post a negative I'm sure they'd happily do so. I don't really care if anyone posts a true negative but I know I'll never get an honest negative review. It seems I don't see many forum members.

[vw]

Again, if I was touting I'd be banned by now. I'm allowed to be a member, get over it.
If anyone wanted to post a negative I'm sure they'd happily do so. I don't really care if anyone posts a true negative but I know I'll never get an honest negative review. It seems I don't see many forum members.

As i said low level touting.

It seems with your frequent tour cancellations and incall cancellations it is bizarre that nine have gave you a negative, again my belief they are aware of your prowling and growling and puts them off.

[Rochelle]

As i said low level touting.

It seems with your frequent tour cancellations and incall cancellations it is bizarre that nine have gave you a negative, again my belief they are aware of your prowling and growling and puts them off.

Not sure why I'd get a negative for cancelling a tour when I usually stipulate it depends on the number of bookings.
Anyway, if you think I'm touting, report me. I know I'm not.

[mikexxlong]

what a fucking throbber

OP you sound like a right fluffy creep,no wonder punters don't trust you

[cueball]

Not sure why he's getting such a kicking.
It can all be innocent,

He's getting a mauling because often in this game there's often an agenda at the back of so called friendships, rarely they're genuine but often there's another agenda.

That agenda can be eas, delusion or something more serious.

Where sex and money is concerned, everybody should be kept at arms length.

Pay, podge, leave.... That's the careful mantra that has worked for me for over 20 years.

I never trust these that say they are in the lives of prossies.

Yes, it could all be innocent..... until it becomes not innocent

I really can see no value to having a group of 'my' girls that are subsequently playing him like a violin on here, getting him to do their dirty work of attempting to get posts removed etc.

[Rochelle]

He's getting a mauling because often in this game there's often an agenda at the back of so called friendships, rarely they're genuine but often there's another agenda.

That agenda can be eas, delusion or something more serious.

Where sex and money is concerned, everybody should be kept at arms length.

Pay, podge, leave.... That's the careful mantra that has worked for me for over 20 years.

I never trust these that say they are in the lives of prossies.

Yes, it could all be innocent..... until it becomes not innocent

I really can see no value to having a group of 'my' girls that are subsequently playing him like a violin on here, getting him to do their dirty work of attempting to get posts removed etc.

That's where he went wrong. Why's he coming online telling people one of his girls are furious and asking for posts to be removed? Bad move.

[vw]

Not sure why I'd get a negative for cancelling a tour when I usually stipulate it depends on the number of bookings.
Anyway, if you think I'm touting, report me. I know I'm not.

any confirmed booking can lead to a negative.

Anyway your i classify your attempted touting as anti touting anyway,  unless you can convince me otherwise.

We live in an age of any publicity is good, and any product placement is good for business , hence your presence.  Up to admin anyway as always.

see anyway you have turned this thread into about you.  Well done .

[Rochelle]

any confirmed booking can lead to a negative.

Anyway your i classify your attempted touting as anti touting anyway,  unless you can convince me otherwise.

We live in an age of any publicity is good, and any product placement is good for business , hence your presence.  Up to admin anyway as always.

see anyway you have turned this thread into about you.  Well done .

Turned it into a thread about me? That's funny when you're the one that jumped in accusing me when my comment was about the actual OP. You're the one that made it about me. Well done.
 

[mikexxlong]

He's getting a mauling because often in this game there's often an agenda at the back of so called friendships, rarely they're genuine but often there's another agenda.

That agenda can be eas, delusion or something more serious.

Where sex and money is concerned, everybody should be kept at arms length.

Pay, podge, leave.... That's the careful mantra that has worked for me for over 20 years.

I never trust these that say they are in the lives of prossies.

Yes, it could all be innocent..... until it becomes not innocent

I really can see no value to having a group of 'my' girls that are subsequently playing him like a violin on here, getting him to do their dirty work of attempting to get posts removed etc.

exactly

[vw]

Turned it into a thread about me? That's funny when you're the one that jumped in accusing me when my comment was about the actual OP. Well done.
 

i see after getting the attention you have backed down and agreed the op deserves a hammering.  Your whiteknighting a deluded fluffy was successful as i said.

[Rochelle]

i see after getting the attention you have backed down and agreed the op deserves a hammering.  Your whiteknighting a deluded fluffy was successful as i said.

Always with the attempted baiting.
Ta-ra for now. Last word granted, I know you need it.
 

[vw]

Always with the attempted baiting.
Ta-ra for now. Last word granted, I know you need it.
 

Well your touting has done. good luck prowling and growling to keep the fluffs in line. 

[vw]

for all those doubters  Banning reason ; Undesirable white-knight 

[cueball]

why so many react like angry toddlers to his post is beyond me.

It would seem the owner of the site rightfully doesn't share your view of the op getting challenged as reacting like angry toddlers.

Wabbit now banned 

[bearcat69]

I suppose punters and WGs can be genuine friends on occasions. I personally don't necessarily see anything wrong with that...

But for me personally I only contact a WG when I'm looking to arrange a booking. She's selling a service and that's why I contact her. That doesn't mean I don't get along with the girl, or that I think she is only nice to me because that's her job, but simply put how exactly would I know that is not the case if I was to start behaving all friend like towards a prossie?

It just doesn't matter though... My interest is getting sex from her, and paying for the pleasure. Wonderful, actually, that I don't have to be her friend to get that from her, and that she doesn't have to like me as a friend to give me that.

For all I know every single prossie I've met could secretly think I'm an ugly bastard with the personality of a dead fish. But as long as they don't think I'm a timewaster, a twat, or unhygienic and are willing to continue taking bookings from me, which I'm happy to pay for, then that's all I care about.

I do wonder if punters who preach this we are all friends mentally realise how many prossies complain about timewasters bothering them with idle chit chat. How annoying and exasperating that can be for them. I bet they just think they are the special ones - she doesn't mind me doing it.

Bet you still have to pay just the same as every other punter, even if you do get the occasional little discount.

Prossies that encourage it, well good for you You're friends with all your clients outside of bookings are you? Can I expect if I meet you I'm buying not just sex but a friend too? I really don't think it's a clever thing to encourage a punter to think about you. If you are actually friends with some of your punters, good for you, but you know what, in my opinion best to keep it private, as I don't need to know. Or are you only going to give me good service if you like me as a friend?

It's not that I think of it as a 'war' or that I post things about a WG to give her a 'kicking' because I'm a nasty person. I say things about a prossie simply because this is a review site for punters to share information to help each other to make informed buying decisions. It's as simple as that.

[Happyjose]

......I have a small group of regular girls.     

...  one of my girls was furious after one accusation

..... Part of the enjoyment for me is chatting with these girls

.....Should I become Mr Nasty and never speak to my girls again?

What a sad deluded twat

[Home Alone]

Pay, podge, leave.... That's the careful mantra that has worked for me for over 20 years.

Mine used to be, "I go punting for a shag; not a relationship." Then I contracted E A S.

Now I'm over that, I'm back to the original mantra. I'll be civil with the girl but no more than that.

[vw]

I suppose punters and WGs can be genuine friends on occasions. I personally don't necessarily see anything wrong with that...

Do you mean friends or friendly with?   

[cueball]

Good post from bearcat above.

Basically there's a difference between friends and friendly.

I don't want to be in their lives but I'm friendly, happy and looking for a good time.

After I leave then that's that for me until I'm on the sniff again.

[bearcat69]

Do you mean friends or friendly with?   

Huh? I meant what I wrote.

[vw]

Huh? I meant what I wrote.

Who is your prossie friend ?  i know it isn't Isla.

[bearcat69]

Who is your prossie friend ?  i know it isn't Isla.

 

Ironically I actually got along with her well enough during the booking in some ways...

In fact I think back on that booking sometimes I think that is a big part of why the booking didn't go so well.

Interesting that her more recent reviews seem to show her being more professional and less chatty/flirty. Particularly in the coms stage...

Anyway... Don't make me go on about Isla_Brooks more than I already have!

[Itsnotshy]

Good post from bearcat above.

Basically there's a difference between friends and friendly.

I don't want to be in their lives but I'm friendly, happy and looking for a good time.

After I leave then that's that for me until I'm on the sniff again.

Well said.
I always think,you're an acquaintance in the reception area,a lover in the bedroom,a stranger in the outside world.A friend never.
PS but I do like my cup of tea and a chat now and then................bad habit.
 

[lewisjones23]

Not sure why he's getting such a kicking. Nothing wrong with being pals as well. I'm going out for a drink with a client sometime soon, just as pals, but he knows that for anything other than that he's gotta book me. It's no big deal. It can all be innocent, it does happen.

fuck off you daft bint

[YidArmy]

fuck off you daft bint

 

I echo your sentiments..perhaps not as quite as succintly but the general premise is spot-on

If you want a friend, get a dog.