Interesting.
The question here is: do you think she gave you a good service in the fear that if they didn't then a negative review could follow?
And If that is the case then that's a good thing, right?
I'm sure he'll correct me if I'm wrong but I'm pretty sure that wasn't the case because she had no idea he was a reviewer. She may have been encouraging him to sign up and post one but she obviously can't be sure he actually will. If she has the approach of treating of
everyone well for fear of getting a bad review (or preferably a desire to get a good review) then that's no bad thing. I do think it's bad if you force it though (i.e. tell her you're a reviewer). The main disadvantages are:
- She may refuse to see you (that certainly happens to those with the same username on here and AW).
- It comes across as coercive/threatening/unduly pressurising. You can try to minimise it all you want but at the end of the day, it WILL come across like that/be perceived in that way. Many may also assume that you're angling for an unlisted service or a discount (even if you offer assurances to the contrary which of course can't be substantiated until it's too late). I just don't think it's a good way to operate and certainly I wouldn't like any girl I'm with to be doing something out of fear or heavy pressure. They may even perform worse than they normally do because of the pressure.
- It reduces the quality, usefulness and reliability of your review. If she's putting on a "show" for you then that's not a realistic depiction of what most punters are likely to get.