Roxy Taylor Camborne. Ran away with my money.

[ladyofthemansion]

Couldn't he write "She stole my money" and include a link to this thread?

Not sure AW would let him and not sure he would know how to do it.

[mh]

It's what panel999 is planning to do with MichaelaRyder (https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=15458.msg242032#msg242032). May or may not be accepted on AW.

[ladyofthemansion]

Cornish Sub! You are a nice guy! But at this moment you are doing my head in. She is not going to respond to your calls or emails and you need to accept that and leave feedback to stop her conning someone else.

[BristolP]

It is understandable that he does not want to get into a slagging match with her, although I wish he would.

He could warn a few punters by putting a response to her previous feedback she let him saying that she robbed him. I have checked and there does not seem to be a time limit for fb responses.

[k]

All Cornish Sub needs to do is create a Field Report with this link in it:-

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=14150.50

[Lz-129]

I hope sub does the right thing, future potential punters need to be warned

[ladyofthemansion]

I hope sub does the right thing, future potential punters need to be warned

Have tried telling him that umpteen times!

[k]

Have tried telling him that umpteen times!

I don't think you have been STRICT enough with him.

[Baz Vegas Bob]

Have tried telling him that umpteen times!

Some people can just not be helped.

[Cornish sub]

Ladyofthemansion, I appreciate all your help and advice, I really do, and I'm so sorry for all the frustration I'm causing you over this. But it's the fact that I can't leave a full account of what happened cos of the minimal amount of wordage allowed with Feedback, plus the fact that whatever I do say, she will just refute it in her response, knowing there's no more opportunity for me to respond, that's stopping me leaving that feedback. Basically, she can have the last word, and blokes being blokes (brain in pants), they're gonna believe her more than me. All I want is for her to just txt me, tell me why she did it and to apologise, but I know now that'll never happen cos she's not opened the email or replied to the txts I've sent since her profile reappeared.   

[ladyofthemansion]

She's probably blocked you. That's why. Even if she does dispute it guys will still probably believe you as you are a member with lots of good feedback.

Also if you respond to what she left you she can't reply to that.

[Daffodil]

Ladyofthemansion, I appreciate all your help and advice, I really do, and I'm so sorry for all the frustration I'm causing you over this. But it's the fact that I can't leave a full account of what happened cos of the minimal amount of wordage allowed with Feedback, plus the fact that whatever I do say, she will just refute it in her response, knowing there's no more opportunity for me to respond, that's stopping me leaving that feedback. Basically, she can have the last word, and blokes being blokes (brain in pants), they're gonna believe her more than me. All I want is for her to just txt me, tell me why she did it and to apologise, but I know now that'll never happen cos she's not opened the email or replied to the txts I've sent since her profile reappeared.

Change your sim and set up a new meeting. Hey presto! 

[Cornish sub]

if you respond to what she left you she can't reply to that.

What she left me? Has she left something about me on her profile or something? I can't bring myself to look at it.

[Cornish sub]

She's probably blocked you.

Hadn't even thought of that. Gutted now to think she might have done.

[Lz-129]

Hadn't even thought of that. Gutted now to think she might have done.

Gutted! That thieving bitch has blocked you and your gutted?

Bloody ell sub sort yourself out

[ladyofthemansion]

What she left me? Has she left something about me on her profile or something? I can't bring myself to look at it.

I'm talking about the feedback she left you when things were nice but I realised that wouldn't help the guys see it unless they clicked on to yours.

[ladyofthemansion]

Change your sim and set up a new meeting. Hey presto! 

Easy now she's displaying her number! Can you disguise your voice or get a mate to ring her?

[mh]

What she left me? Has she left something about me on her profile or something? I can't bring myself to look at it.

If it weren't for another long time poster vouching for you, I'd be seriously doubting that this happened since your response has been so weird.

But it's the fact that I can't leave a full account of what happened cos of the minimal amount of wordage allowed with Feedback,

You can add a link to this topic which gives a very full account. You could even use a link shortener, here you go: External Link/Members Only

Change your sim and set up a new meeting. Hey presto! 

Precisely!

[Cornish sub]

Easy now she's displaying her number! Can you disguise your voice or get a mate to ring her?

It's the same number I already have in my phone for her anyway. I'd love to think I could pull off calling her from a new sim and disguising my voice, but don't think I'd be able to keep up the pretence convincingly. As for getting a mate to ring her; there's no way I'd tell anyone outside of this forum that I visit escorts.

[Cornish sub]

If it weren't for another long time poster vouching for you, I'd be seriously doubting that this happened since your response has been so weird.

My response to what happened may be weird, but all my posts have been full, in depth replies and accounts of the facts, nothing whatsoever's been made up. Or perhaps you mean weird as in not the type of response you'd expect from any rational person who'd had happen to them what Roxy did to me. If so, that's a totally valid point. I'm probably not thinking rationally, though, as my head's all over the place because of it.

[mh]

It's the same number I already have in my phone for her anyway. I'd love to think I could pull off calling her from a new sim and disguising my voice, but don't think I'd be able to keep up the pretence convincingly. As for getting a mate to ring her; there's no way I'd tell anyone outside of this forum that I visit escorts.

Yes, you could. Try it. Stop making excuses.

[sarahjayneleeds]

It's the same number I already have in my phone for her anyway. I'd love to think I could pull off calling her from a new sim and disguising my voice, but don't think I'd be able to keep up the pretence convincingly. As for getting a mate to ring her; there's no way I'd tell anyone outside of this forum that I visit escorts.

Well could you not a least try   

Worst scenario she recognises your voice so what?  she robbed you shes is the one in the wrong. I doubt I would recognise some of my regulars by voice alone and no clue as to who they were.

Best scenario she doesn't, you make a booking through AW and leave the feedback and link to this thread  you want to so others can be warned, unless your blocked of course. Either way at least you have tried your best to warn others rather than just pussy footing about and making excuses.

And for God sake if you do manage to get a booking don't bloody turn up thinking she will give you an explanation as to why she did it. 

[ladyofthemansion]

An tempted to go to an Internet cafe and book her myself then leave a feedback only with a link to this thread!!!!!

[BristolP]

I'm talking about the feedback she left you when things were nice but I realised that wouldn't help the guys see it unless they clicked on to yours.

I always check the guys feedback when choosing at WG to determine how reliable their fb of the WG is.

[ladyofthemansion]

I always check the guys feedback when choosing at WG to determine how reliable their fb of the WG is.

Precisely. Cornish Sub has feedback so if he left something to state she stole, he has a good chance of being believed.

[Cornish sub]

Somebody texted me just now to say someone had left a comment here about Roxy, that he wasn't impressed with her. Maybe he changed his mind and removed the post. If you were that poster and you're reading this, can you please re-post. Thank you.

[ladyofthemansion]

It has gone.....

[Lz-129]

It has gone.....

What did it say?  Why has it gone?

[zootie]

I am sorry for you but think you need to put it down to experience and move on rather than brooding on it for weeks.

1+

Been reading this thread with interest and think you need to learn from your mistake and move on.

We've all lost money in this hobby, one way or another but it's not the end of the world.

That's not to say its ok, she did a shit thing by taking advantage of your trust but one day she'll fuck with the wrong punter and get what's coming to her.

You've done the right thing by posting a warning but I'd leave it now and stop banging on about a few quid.

[ladyofthemansion]

I wouldn't be able to let it lie if I was the robbed punter and I saw her profile back up I would go after her even if she had stolen a fiver and it cost me 100 to get it back. If profile stayed down I could move on.

[zootie]

I wouldn't be able to let it lie if I was the robbed punter and I saw her profile back up. I would go after her. If profile stayed down I could move on.

You're not the punter, though are you?

Stirring up shit probably gives you something to do inbetween dusting your phone 

He's not going to see that money again. Period.

What do you mean by 'go after' her? That sounds like silly advice.

He should write to Adultwork and see if they will shut down the profile but that's unlikely. She'll just keep posting new ones up.

Better to do what Adam did with that prossie who tried to reveal details of a punter following a poor review. Paste up her photo and phone numbers.

Then it's there forever for all to see. 

[BaddaBanger]

Everybody is different in how they handle something like this. Cornish sub is obviously very sensitive so is taking it badly. Everybody on here has tried to offer him good advice. However I agree he needs to move on.

As for the thieving roxy, well what goes around, eventually comes around.

[Cornish sub]

 
 
she'll fuck with the wrong punter and get what's coming to her.

stop banging on about a few quid.

Well if she does, I really hope that punter comes on here and tells us about it so I know she got what she deserves rather than just imagining her going through life getting away with what she does. As for me banging on about a few quid; 1)£500 may be a few quid to you, but it's a fucking lot to me, and 2) despite that, this has never been about the money. I'd have felt the same if I was a millionaire and all she took was a quid. It's all about how callous she was and the fact she's reappeared as if it never happened. And much as I want to put negative feedback on her AW profile, the way it works is totally in the escort's favour, ie., she never confirmed the booking, took her profile down for a month then put it back up with no evidence I'd ever booked her so I'm not able to leave feedback, not even Feedback Only. Frustrating as fuck!

[Cornish sub]

I wouldn't be able to let it lie if I was the robbed punter and I saw her profile back up I would go after her even if she had stolen a fiver and it cost me 100 to get it back. If profile stayed down I could move on.

Spot on LOTM, that's exactly how it is..

[zootie]

Well if she does, I really hope that punter comes on here and tells us about it so I know she got what she deserves rather than just imagining her going through life getting away with what she does. As for me banging on about a few quid; 1)£500 may be a few quid to you, but it's a fucking lot to me, and 2) despite that, this has never been about the money. I'd have felt the same if I was a millionaire and all she took was a quid. It's all about how callous she was and the fact she's reappeared as if it never happened. And much as I want to put negative feedback on her AW profile, the way it works is totally in the escort's favour, ie., she never confirmed the booking, took her profile down for a month then put it back up with no evidence I'd ever booked her so I'm not able to leave feedback, not even Feedback Only. Frustrating as fuck!

As are your posts. 

Not bothered about the money but determined to carry on banging your head against a brick wall?

Carry on as you are. 

[zootie]

Had a thought - why don't you have her put in the scam section on %%%? That will make it harder for her to carry on. 

[Cornish sub]

You're not the punter, though are you?

Stirring up shit probably gives you something to do inbetween dusting your phone 

He's not going to see that money again. Period.

What do you mean by 'go after' her? That sounds like silly advice.

He should write to Adultwork and see if they will shut down the profile but that's unlikely. She'll just keep posting new ones up.

Better to do what Adam did with that prossie who tried to reveal details of a punter following a poor review. Paste up her photo and phone numbers.

Then it's there forever for all to see. 

She wasn't stirring the shit, just saying how she'd feel and what she'd do if it happened to her, that's all. No need to come out with your immature 'dusty phone' jibe. And believe me, if I knew how to copy and paste, I'd plaster her photos and details on here (not that she has any face photos though), but I'm fucking useless with internet and can only do basic stuff.

[ladyofthemansion]

She wasn't stirring the shit, just saying how she'd feel and what she'd do if it happened to her, that's all. No need to come out with your immature 'dusty phone' jibe.

Thank you for that but I am capable if standing up for myself when I find the need to bother. You have been given good advice on here and I suggest you take it. Xxx

[Cornish sub]

As are your posts. 

Not bothered about the money but determined to carry on banging your head against a brick wall?

Carry on as you are. 

Who said I'm not bothered about the money? Certainly not me. I said it's not about the money, not that I'd not bothered about it. It's because I've accepted I've got fuck all chance of getting it back that I've said that's not what it's about, not that I'm not bothered about it. And if my posts frustrate you that much, stop reading them, it's not compulsory.

[ladyofthemansion]

Who said I'm not bothered about the money? Certainly not me. I said it's not about the money, not that I'd not bothered about it. It's because I've accepted I've got fuck all chance of getting it back that I've said that's not what it's about, not that I'm not bothered about it. And if my posts frustrate you that much, stop reading them, it's not compulsory.

The guys are frustrated because you won't leave feedback on her profile and so am I. I am wondering if you should seek counselling and I mean that in a really nice way.x

[Cornish sub]

Had a thought - why don't you have her put in the scam section on %%%? That will make it harder for her to carry on. 

Thanks, I'll try that, though I've only looked at %%% once and the layout's nowhere near as user friendly as this site.

[zootie]

The guys are frustrated because you won't leave feedback on her profile and so am I. I am wondering if you should seek counselling and I mean that in a really nice way.x

100+

Something not quite right with you CS - I bow out of this thread and leave you alone with your madness 

[Cornish sub]

The guys are frustrated because you won't leave feedback on her profile and so am I. I am wondering if you should seek counselling and I mean that in a really nice way.x

[Cornish sub]

100+

Something not quite right with you CS - I bow out of this thread and leave you alone with your madness 

C ya

[Cornish sub]

The guys are frustrated because you won't leave feedback on her profile and so am I. I am wondering if you should seek counselling and I mean that in a really nice way.x

It's not that I WON'T leave feedback, it's that I CAN'T. I've tried loads of times and it just won't let me cos she's not confirmed any meeting took place. It won't even let me leave a Feedback Only. As for the counselling - I don't need any, thanks. Contrary to opinion, I'm not insane, just a dog with a bone that I'm finding difficult to let go.

[ladyofthemansion]

You are not insane and you can leave feedback only. I was tempted to do for you but that wouldn't be right. Simply make another booking and change username. If necessary then let the guys decide who to believe!

[BaddaBanger]

Cornish sub, you're in the right in this. The best thing for to do if behave with dignity and move on. The bitch will probably be reading this and so will be on her guard. So even if you, or anyone else from here, sends her a booking she'll probably not confirm it. The best thing for you to do is to just move on from it. As hard as it is, that is what I suggest you do. Karma will get her in the end.

ladyofthemansion, you've helped Cs from the beginning with this, probably best if you support/help him via the private PM's as it's not good in the long term for this to be continually out in the public forum for everyone to read.

That's my advice anyway.

[Lz-129]

But the whole idea of a public forum is to debate and warn others, closing it to pms only then no one benefits

[Cornish sub]

Thanks Baddabanger, you're probably right in everything you say, and this will probably come back to bite me on the arse, but I AM going to set up a new profile in the next couple days cos at least then I can leave the feedback she deserves and link it to this site and thread so people who don't know about UKP can get a full account of what happened.

[BaddaBanger]

But the whole idea of a public forum is to debate and warn others, closing it to pms only then no one benefits

True, but there's nothing more to learn or to say about this matter than has already been said. It's now best for Cs to deal with it in his own way as he's been given enough advice.